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Topic: Venus/Mars in frienship.
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Aries23Degrees
Knowflake Posts: 826
From: South Africa
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted July 31, 2014 05:56 AM
  
People that I immediately "click" with, even those online whose interaction is often, have their Venus aspecting my Mars or Mars aspecting my Venus.I like the trine/sextile better. the conjunction/opposition and square can feel very "tense". I know one guy who has his Mars in exact conjunct with my Venus. We got sexual and our relationship came to an end. It got confusing and we decided to part. But I still think of him. Do you and a very close friend share Venus/Mars aspects? IP: Logged |
Libracorn
Knowflake Posts: 146
From: Born in Saturn, grew up in Venus
Registered: Sep 2013
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posted July 31, 2014 09:09 AM
I have Venus conj. Mars with one of my friends, and it's exact. Problem is, we're both boys. So it's nothing sexual. His Mars conjunct's my Venus in Virgo.Often, we argue, and sometimes I think some of the things I do may irritate him in a way. I'm not exactly sure how he feels about me in specific, lol he has a Moon in Aquarius and they act weird and it's hard to determine their true feelings. One day, he's upbeat and cool, next day he's completely blunt (His Sag Mercury) and a'hole-ish. I'm not exactly sure what Mars conjunct Venus means for the same sex in synastry.
I have Mars opp Venus with my bestfriend, I'm Mars in this case.
And we're competitive against each other especially with video games & wrestling (that might be our Sun opp Mars - not sure). We don't argue much, but if we do, the problem is solved within 1-2 days or so and we're back to being best friends. If it's something small, we'd get over it in a few hours. ------------------
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I'm so cappy
Knowflake Posts: 8118
From: Saturn (summer house on Chiron)
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted July 31, 2014 09:31 AM
With the people I was quite close with at some point:
my Mars trine her Venus
my Mars square his Venus, his Mars trine my VenusWith my online friends:
my Mars quincunx her Venus, her Mars sextile my Venus
my Venus trine her Mars
my Venus sextile her Mars ------------------
I'm sooo happy! I mean, cappy. IP: Logged |
Aries23Degrees
Knowflake Posts: 826
From: South Africa
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted July 31, 2014 09:47 AM
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Originally posted by Libracorn:
I have Venus conj. Mars with one of my friends, and it's exact. Problem is, we're both boys. So it's nothing sexual. His Mars conjunct's my Venus in Virgo.Often, we argue, and sometimes I think some of the things I do may irritate him in a way. I'm not exactly sure how he feels about me in specific, lol he has a Moon in Aquarius and they act weird and it's hard to determine their true feelings. One day, he's upbeat and cool, next day he's completely blunt (His Sag Mercury) and a'hole-ish. I'm not exactly sure what Mars conjunct Venus means for the same sex in synastry.
I have Mars opp Venus with my bestfriend, I'm Mars in this case.
And we're competitive against each other especially with video games & wrestling (that might be our Sun opp Mars - not sure). We don't argue much, but if we do, the problem is solved within 1-2 days or so and we're back to being best friends. If it's something small, we'd get over it in a few hours.
I don't believe that Venus-Mars conjunct will "automatically" have two people with those aspects be attracted to each other. But, I have noticed, that the people may behave like they are a couple i.e irritate each other, challenge each other and be in each others' faces etc. It wouldn't make sense to assume that since you may have Venus conjunct your sisters Mars, that you two may get naughty!!  It just means that your fights may be more frequent and you may irritate each other that much more. My brother has his Venus conjunct my Mars- I find him every bit annoying and am not indifferent to what he does. When we were younger, we used to fight a whole lot too. His Mars conjuncts my Sun, my Mars also conjuncts his Sun. We were always in each others' faces. Sexual attraction may be denoted by other factors. IP: Logged |
sweet-scorpion
Moderator Posts: 1887
From: CO, USA
Registered: Apr 2012
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posted July 31, 2014 10:06 AM
It's so funny, but I must agree - being a longstanding couple without the romance is how I've experienced the Venus-Mars conjunction in synastry! One of my good friends and I have this and we're SO much like this. We can irritate each other just a little sometimes [me more so than her, lol] and there can be a lot of teasing. We have a good banter and just feel comfortable with each other, and close without having to be constantly together.  The conjunction falls in Cancer. We're also very nurturing toward each other. IP: Logged |
Libracorn
Knowflake Posts: 146
From: Born in Saturn, grew up in Venus
Registered: Sep 2013
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posted July 31, 2014 11:39 AM
Just period with the Mars conjunct Venus, I never really understood, which of them are sexually attracted to the other?Is it the Mars person or Venus, or it's mutual? IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
Moderator Posts: 8849
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Registered: Dec 2010
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posted July 31, 2014 11:42 AM
Depends. Sometimes it's Mars, sometimes it's Venus. Sometimes it's both, and sometimes it's neither.I bet you loved that response. IP: Logged |
Libracorn
Knowflake Posts: 146
From: Born in Saturn, grew up in Venus
Registered: Sep 2013
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posted July 31, 2014 12:06 PM
Sure did :-) I was like ayeeeee, that rhymes! IP: Logged | |
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