posted July 31, 2014 04:17 PM            

My fear is that he suddenly decides to travel for a much longer time span, maybe a year or even more. But each time he travels he also says that he gets homesick at some point, and last time he traveled he really missed me a lot (but that didn't make him come home any sooner than he planned though)
What do you see in his chart? Does he have a huge wanderlust, cause I don't really see it?
He has a prominent Uranus, so is he too difficult to be together with on the long run for me?
Our synastry is very good, with a lot of saturn and personal planet touching etc. but what about his natal?

EDIT: I am not 100% sure whether he is gemini ascendant or cancer, but he behaves like a cancer ascendant mostly though.

posted July 31, 2014 04:25 PM            

I know from personal experience that if someone tries to rein me in I will lash out and WILL see it as being controlled and I can guarantee I won't be the one suffering consequences.

I am also ruled by Uranus (and Mercury a few % after).

posted July 31, 2014 04:34 PM            

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Originally posted by charlie:
Why do you worry? I am like him and as I have gotten older my trips become longer and longer. I need to roam! However, I hate traveling with others, with a passion! He's got that Moon going so just leave him be. He'll come back

I know from personal experience that if someone tries to rein me in I will lash out and WILL see it as being controlled and I can guarantee I won't be the one suffering consequences.

I am also ruled by Uranus (and Mercury a few % after).

If you know it will tear on you, you have to be honest and tell him because he is probably liking the fact that he can come home from his adventures and you are there.

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I worry because I miss him so much, and wants to be with him… I think he both loves to travel with others and with himself, he is a person who needs personal space and alone time like me, but on the other hand his libra sun and venus, makes him enjoy the company of others the most

posted July 31, 2014 04:39 PM            

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Originally posted by next to neptune:
I worry because I miss him so much, and wants to be with him… I think he both loves to travel with others and with himself, he is a person who needs personal space and alone time like me, but on the other hand his libra sun and venus, makes him enjoy the company of others the most

Ofc I will be there, but if he is away for like 5 months or longer, I don't know if I would be, cause you change a lot on 5 months and meet many new people, so it would be too difficult for me to remain the contact

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I understand the whole point about being apart becasue it actually does change quite a few things when someone is out of sight. Hmmm....not really sure what advice to give you other than that I fear this will be an issue solely for you and there will be a time when you will have to ask yourself if this is what you NEED, not want. Have you tried giving him clear boundaries for what you are willing to accept? Perhaps tell him that it won't be OK with him being gone 3+ months but you can compromise 2?

posted July 31, 2014 05:12 PM            

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Originally posted by charlie:
I understand the whole point about being apart becasue it actually does change quite a few things when someone is out of sight. Hmmm....not really sure what advice to give you other than that I fear this will be an issue solely for you and there will be a time when you will have to ask yourself if this is what you NEED, not want. Have you tried giving him clear boundaries for what you are willing to accept? Perhaps tell him that it won't be OK with him being gone 3+ months but you can compromise 2?

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posted July 31, 2014 06:00 PM            

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Originally posted by next to neptune:
No, I am not the type of person who gives boundaries, at least not to him, I don't want to hold him back But on the other hand, I cannot promise him to stay, cause I am not the type of person who sits still and wait for people either:P

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posted July 31, 2014 06:19 PM            

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Originally posted by athenegoddess:
He has north node in the ninth house with trine of the sun and mars. He has Jupiter conjunct South node meaning this is how he pulls away from the past and its very good for his soul growth. trying to change him would end badly because its his destiny.

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posted July 31, 2014 06:21 PM            

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Originally posted by charlie:
So then I don't quite understand your dilemma

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posted July 31, 2014 07:31 PM            

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Originally posted by I'm so cappy:
My condolences. I'd be upset too.
As far as I remember the 12th house is related to long-distance journeys, at least in Vedic. His Mars is there. I'd also look at the 4th house and its ruler. Here the house is empty and the ruler is...square Uranus :/

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posted August 02, 2014 03:56 AM            

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Originally posted by ash20:
My ex bf was born the exact same day as your guy and he was always on the go. Hated being home too much

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