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Wild Horses
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posted July 31, 2014 04:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Wild Horses     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

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posted July 31, 2014 05:07 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for next to neptune     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Me hahaha!

I have an ok strong virgo mars in 4th, opposite moon, conjunction sun, square uranus, and scorpio venus + a cap stellium.

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posted July 31, 2014 07:37 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ScorpAqua     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I think a Libra Sun woman with her Venus in Scorpio would be a good candidate!

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posted July 31, 2014 07:42 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
oh come on we always talk about women dominating the man and femme fatales on here. I wanted to reverse it a little

interesting thread tho

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posted July 31, 2014 08:07 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Wild Horses     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

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posted July 31, 2014 08:09 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for PixieJane     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Typically, a woman wants to dominate a man through his obsessive desire for her rather than through physical force (if amortentia existed I believe it would be used by women on men at least as often as date rape drugs get used by men on women). Even when they're just as physical they're prefer it two-way. Speaking of which, many think this scene from Buffy is hot:
http://youtu.be/nW6Scd1DsfU?t=3m25s

As for a woman taking a man in reverse, your "animus to his anima" as you about put it, I was in a relationship with a guy in which we about completely switched gender roles in every way and sometimes during sex we'd even pretend to be the other gender. Fascinated by the experience I got his chart and did a synastry which itself was interesting, but I believe the most overt factor (though not enough by itself) was that we both had Sag Uranus which can inspire all sorts of gender bending (literal and metaphoric), though I recall thinking our sharing a Pluto in Libra on the Scorpio cusp another factor as I believe our both having a Sag Eros (very much into sex games and in this case conjunct with Uranus). There were other minor reasons I believe were involved but those details escape me.

I loved the experience, but I haven't sought to repeat it.

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posted July 31, 2014 08:24 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for starrynight     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by PixieJane:
many think this scene from Buffy is hot:


Ah, Buffy and Spike, I was obsessed with them in my teens as an idea of a perfectly hot relationship. xD

I'll agree on two-way both ways. I mean, a one-way roll seems boring to me no matter which one of us ends on top. It's like a game of chess or tennis, it's only exciting if you are evenly matched.

Scorpio Sun conj Eros conj Pluto conj BML here.
Pluto in v.late Libra though
Mars in Fire in 5th opposite Moon
Uranus in Scorpio opposite Moon

Mr and Mrs Smith also had a hot scene.

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Originally posted by ScorpAqua:
I think a Libra Sun woman with her Venus in Scorpio would be a good candidate!

Hehehehe ding ding ding.
I don't kiss and tell though. *zips lips*

I'll add it here like I did the other thread. I don't think it's your natal chart that does this. It's the synastry and composite charts, how you're raised and what you're exposed to.

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posted July 31, 2014 08:45 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Gabby     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Are you talking about dominance type games or just being sexually aggressive with a man?

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The kingly, royal and regal Lion gets CONQUERED when no one's looking.

Oh sorry... I couldn't help it. I'm a natural goof.

Back to business.

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posted July 31, 2014 08:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for PixieJane     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Gabby:
Are you talking about dominance type games or just being sexually aggressive with a man?

I don't think either. From what I get she seeks to embrace her entire being and him embrace his (every woman has at least a little man in her and vice versa). But that isn't "conquering" (unless he's resisting in which case it goes to the typical a woman wants to overpower a man with desire so that he's unable to stay away from her) so I'm confused.

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posted July 31, 2014 09:21 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for starrynight     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Okay, and games like "I'll tie you to a chair and we pretend you are my prisoner so I can do whatever I want and you can't stop me" -- what is that? Overpowering games or dominance games?

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posted July 31, 2014 09:26 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for PixieJane     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Dominance game, unless you had to work to get him into that chair (be it physical or threatening his video games if he doesn't submit).

'Course it's important to note that it's a game as opposed to the actual domination/submission that many people sadly find appealing and want to happen literally as opposed to a live action role playing or "let's pretend" game.

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posted July 31, 2014 09:55 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for BellaFenice     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hmmm...some ideas discounting synastry:

BML -Venus and Pluto
Pluto opp Mars
Pluto opp Eros
Mars square Nymphe
Mars square Sun
Venus square Mars
Cap stellium

Obviously speaking about a friend though

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sweet-scorpion
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posted August 01, 2014 01:06 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for sweet-scorpion     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by ScorpAqua:
I think a Libra Sun woman with her Venus in Scorpio would be a good candidate!

Yes, this is true about me, LOL. I'm a very dominant female. I am gay, though when I had sexual experiences with men during my experimental phase, I was always incredibly dominant... as WildHorses said, I wanted my 'inner male' to take his 'inner female'. Probably because, in my case, I just wanted to be with a female. Hahaha.

But still - I can see this being true for straight women with these placements. Libra is masculine sign and Libra women are elegant but have masculine energies. Venus in Scorpio is more likely than any other sign to take the dominant role in the bedroom, whether male or female.

Summary:

-Venus in Scorpio, Venus in the 8th, Venus-Pluto
-Mars-Sun? These women are powerful in general, if Mars and/or the Sun touched on Venus, even more powerful in the bedroom. Just an idea.

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posted August 01, 2014 07:13 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for KarmicMoon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
You mean you want him to open up completely and let himself be vulnerable and sonetimes lead? I think it is very sexy when a guy can do that, especially a very masculine guy (which is the type I like)!

I'm very feminine too but can be a little aggressive in the bedroom when I want to. I think it maybe BML conjunct my Venus in Leo, 12th house.

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posted August 01, 2014 07:29 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for MagnumJoe     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
What's with conquering these days ?

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posted August 01, 2014 07:30 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for milyi     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Lilith prominent in a chart.

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posted August 01, 2014 08:26 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LionFish     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by MagnumJoe:
What's with conquering these days ?

Mars in scorpio

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Originally posted by LionFish:
Mars in scorpio

Hahahaha I think so I feel it like crazy!!!

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posted August 02, 2014 04:53 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Belba     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
This thread is so sexy, I can't help but comment
It's so sexy because »men conquering women« is so conventional, it's what they're raised to do, it's mainly expected of them and because our bodies are built to suit male dominance in bed.

I was thinking something like:
Saturn in connection to Mars/Venus
Capricorn
Aries Mars/Venus
dominant Fire
Pluto, Uranus, Mars

But I also think it would need some synastry helpers, especially woman's Mars being activated by man's Moon or Venus – exactly as PixieJane wrote – her Animus to his Anima.

I am often like that, or rather would like to be, in my sex fantasies I always get turned on by looking from men's perspective. But I wouldn't want it to be a regularity, diversity is a must. I have no idea, what would be causing this conquering tendencies in my chart. I have no before mentioned factors… Maybe Sun/Mars, both masculine? and Mars on IC. And perhaps Venus/Saturn – prefering being in control than being controlled.

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