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Topic: What placements would make a woman want to "conquer" a man during sex?
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Wild Horses Knowflake Posts: 533 From: Registered: Jul 2012
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posted July 31, 2014 04:27 PM
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posted July 31, 2014 04:54 PM
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next to neptune Knowflake Posts: 3097 From: The Moon Registered: Aug 2013
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posted July 31, 2014 05:07 PM
Me hahaha!I have an ok strong virgo mars in 4th, opposite moon, conjunction sun, square uranus, and scorpio venus + a cap stellium. IP: Logged |
ScorpAqua Knowflake Posts: 81 From: Australia Registered: Nov 2012
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posted July 31, 2014 07:37 PM
I think a Libra Sun woman with her Venus in Scorpio would be a good candidate! IP: Logged |
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posted July 31, 2014 07:42 PM
oh come on we always talk about women dominating the man and femme fatales on here. I wanted to reverse it a little  interesting thread tho IP: Logged |
Wild Horses Knowflake Posts: 533 From: Registered: Jul 2012
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posted July 31, 2014 08:07 PM
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PixieJane Knowflake Posts: 9326 From: CA Registered: Oct 2010
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posted July 31, 2014 08:09 PM
Typically, a woman wants to dominate a man through his obsessive desire for her rather than through physical force (if amortentia existed I believe it would be used by women on men at least as often as date rape drugs get used by men on women). Even when they're just as physical they're prefer it two-way. Speaking of which, many think this scene from Buffy is hot: http://youtu.be/nW6Scd1DsfU?t=3m25s As for a woman taking a man in reverse, your "animus to his anima" as you about put it, I was in a relationship with a guy in which we about completely switched gender roles in every way and sometimes during sex we'd even pretend to be the other gender. Fascinated by the experience I got his chart and did a synastry which itself was interesting, but I believe the most overt factor (though not enough by itself) was that we both had Sag Uranus which can inspire all sorts of gender bending (literal and metaphoric), though I recall thinking our sharing a Pluto in Libra on the Scorpio cusp another factor as I believe our both having a Sag Eros (very much into sex games and in this case conjunct with Uranus). There were other minor reasons I believe were involved but those details escape me. I loved the experience, but I haven't sought to repeat it. IP: Logged |
Wild Horses Knowflake Posts: 533 From: Registered: Jul 2012
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posted July 31, 2014 08:12 PM
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starrynight Knowflake Posts: 322 From: Registered: Feb 2014
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posted July 31, 2014 08:24 PM
quote: Originally posted by PixieJane: many think this scene from Buffy is hot:
Ah, Buffy and Spike, I was obsessed with them in my teens as an idea of a perfectly hot relationship. xDI'll agree on two-way both ways. I mean, a one-way roll seems boring to me no matter which one of us ends on top. It's like a game of chess or tennis, it's only exciting if you are evenly matched. Scorpio Sun conj Eros conj Pluto conj BML here. Pluto in v.late Libra though Mars in Fire in 5th opposite Moon Uranus in Scorpio opposite Moon Mr and Mrs Smith also had a hot scene.  IP: Logged |
Wild Horses Knowflake Posts: 533 From: Registered: Jul 2012
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posted July 31, 2014 08:33 PM
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posted July 31, 2014 08:39 PM
quote: Originally posted by ScorpAqua: I think a Libra Sun woman with her Venus in Scorpio would be a good candidate!
Hehehehe ding ding ding. I don't kiss and tell though. *zips lips* I'll add it here like I did the other thread. I don't think it's your natal chart that does this. It's the synastry and composite charts, how you're raised and what you're exposed to. IP: Logged |
Gabby Moderator Posts: 8906 From: Registered: Sep 2012
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posted July 31, 2014 08:45 PM
Are you talking about dominance type games or just being sexually aggressive with a man?IP: Logged |
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posted July 31, 2014 08:53 PM
The kingly, royal and regal Lion gets CONQUERED when no one's looking. Oh sorry... I couldn't help it. I'm a natural goof. Back to business. IP: Logged |
PixieJane Knowflake Posts: 9326 From: CA Registered: Oct 2010
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posted July 31, 2014 08:58 PM
quote: Originally posted by Gabby: Are you talking about dominance type games or just being sexually aggressive with a man?
I don't think either. From what I get she seeks to embrace her entire being and him embrace his (every woman has at least a little man in her and vice versa). But that isn't "conquering" (unless he's resisting in which case it goes to the typical a woman wants to overpower a man with desire so that he's unable to stay away from her) so I'm confused. IP: Logged |
starrynight Knowflake Posts: 322 From: Registered: Feb 2014
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posted July 31, 2014 09:21 PM
Okay, and games like "I'll tie you to a chair and we pretend you are my prisoner so I can do whatever I want and you can't stop me" -- what is that? Overpowering games or dominance games?IP: Logged |
PixieJane Knowflake Posts: 9326 From: CA Registered: Oct 2010
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posted July 31, 2014 09:26 PM
Dominance game, unless you had to work to get him into that chair (be it physical or threatening his video games if he doesn't submit).'Course it's important to note that it's a game as opposed to the actual domination/submission that many people sadly find appealing and want to happen literally as opposed to a live action role playing or "let's pretend" game. IP: Logged |
Wild Horses Knowflake Posts: 533 From: Registered: Jul 2012
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posted July 31, 2014 09:52 PM
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BellaFenice Knowflake Posts: 3419 From: Neptune with PisceanDream, Faith, and Meissieri Registered: Sep 2013
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posted July 31, 2014 09:55 PM
Hmmm...some ideas discounting synastry:BML -Venus and Pluto Pluto opp Mars Pluto opp Eros Mars square Nymphe Mars square Sun Venus square Mars Cap stellium Obviously speaking about a friend though
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sweet-scorpion Moderator Posts: 2427 From: PA, USA Registered: Apr 2012
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posted August 01, 2014 01:06 AM
quote: Originally posted by ScorpAqua: I think a Libra Sun woman with her Venus in Scorpio would be a good candidate!
Yes, this is true about me, LOL. I'm a very dominant female. I am gay, though when I had sexual experiences with men during my experimental phase, I was always incredibly dominant... as WildHorses said, I wanted my 'inner male' to take his 'inner female'. Probably because, in my case, I just wanted to be with a female. Hahaha. But still - I can see this being true for straight women with these placements. Libra is masculine sign and Libra women are elegant but have masculine energies. Venus in Scorpio is more likely than any other sign to take the dominant role in the bedroom, whether male or female. Summary: -Venus in Scorpio, Venus in the 8th, Venus-Pluto -Mars-Sun? These women are powerful in general, if Mars and/or the Sun touched on Venus, even more powerful in the bedroom. Just an idea. IP: Logged |
KarmicMoon Knowflake Posts: 611 From: Moon, Milky Way Registered: Feb 2014
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posted August 01, 2014 07:13 AM
You mean you want him to open up completely and let himself be vulnerable and sonetimes lead? I think it is very sexy when a guy can do that, especially a very masculine guy (which is the type I like)! I'm very feminine too but can be a little aggressive in the bedroom when I want to. I think it maybe BML conjunct my Venus in Leo, 12th house.
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MagnumJoe Knowflake Posts: 446 From: Cairo, Egypt Registered: Apr 2011
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posted August 01, 2014 07:29 AM
What's with conquering these days ?IP: Logged |
milyi Knowflake Posts: 177 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 01, 2014 07:30 AM
Lilith prominent in a chart.IP: Logged |
LionFish Knowflake Posts: 1849 From: Registered: Aug 2012
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posted August 01, 2014 08:26 AM
quote: Originally posted by MagnumJoe: What's with conquering these days ?
Mars in scorpio  IP: Logged |
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posted August 01, 2014 12:34 PM
quote: Originally posted by LionFish: Mars in scorpio 
Hahahaha I think so I feel it like crazy!!! IP: Logged |
Belba Knowflake Posts: 559 From: Registered: Aug 2011
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posted August 02, 2014 04:53 AM
This thread is so sexy, I can't help but comment It's so sexy because »men conquering women« is so conventional, it's what they're raised to do, it's mainly expected of them and because our bodies are built to suit male dominance in bed. I was thinking something like: Saturn in connection to Mars/Venus Capricorn Aries Mars/Venus dominant Fire Pluto, Uranus, Mars But I also think it would need some synastry helpers, especially woman's Mars being activated by man's Moon or Venus – exactly as PixieJane wrote – her Animus to his Anima. I am often like that, or rather would like to be, in my sex fantasies I always get turned on by looking from men's perspective. But I wouldn't want it to be a regularity, diversity is a must. I have no idea, what would be causing this conquering tendencies in my chart. I have no before mentioned factors… Maybe Sun/Mars, both masculine? and Mars on IC. And perhaps Venus/Saturn – prefering being in control than being controlled.
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