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Topic: People that go unnoticed or slip through the cracks
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bansheequeen
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From: Beachville, USA
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted August 03, 2014 05:34 PM
  
Inspired by the thread "when people notice your presence" what about people that easily slip under the radar? Like when you pass by someone you know in public and they don't even notice you. You're trying to get someone's attention and you startle them because they had no idea you were there. When you're with other people they almost always notice the other person before they acknowledge you. When you get stared at it's usually more like a heat seeking missile honing in on you once in a while rather than glances from a bunch of people. You are home all day but people think nobody's home. You come home and people don't know you came home. You can pretty much cause a huge scene in public and nobody bats an eye. You can get away with a lot of things in plain sight because people just don't notice you. Add your own examples!I am one of these people. I have Virgo rising and Venus, moon, Pluto, Jupiter, Neptune soft aspects to my asc. All trines or sextiles. Zero hard aspects to the asc. Most of my planets are under the horizon. No planets in the first house. I have Lilith there but I think that just adds to my fading into the dark nature. I'm a fire void. IP: Logged |
PisceanDream
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From: Alexandria, VA, USA
Registered: Jun 2014
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posted August 03, 2014 05:57 PM
This is also me. I'm not sure if I simply am unnoticed or whether I try to make sure people don't notice me. But either way, at least, when I desire to be noticed. I'm not. I'm also a loner so...1st house stellium, still unnoticed. 
Then again it's in Pisces. And I think any Piscean, Neptunian vibe is hard to tune into because it's so subtle and ethereal. Mercury retrograde in Pisces, if I'm not talking to you one by one, I am either interrupted, ignore, or not interesting enough to listen to. Serious communication problems. I am, however, noticed by the predatory type and that, I don't know why. IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted August 03, 2014 06:01 PM
How's your Mars aspected, PD? IP: Logged |
PisceanDream
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From: Alexandria, VA, USA
Registered: Jun 2014
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posted August 03, 2014 06:02 PM
It's in Aqua in the 1st house, trine my Moon, square Jupiter. IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted August 03, 2014 06:08 PM
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Originally posted by PisceanDream:
It's in Aqua in the 1st house, trine my Moon, square Jupiter.
I can see predatory types with that. It's opposing your DSC by default, plus it's in a fixed sign which makes me think of very focused energy. I go by the rule if you're not mirroring it, you're attracting it IP: Logged |
PisceanDream
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From: Alexandria, VA, USA
Registered: Jun 2014
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posted August 03, 2014 06:13 PM
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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
I can see predatory types with that. It's opposing your DSC by default, plus it's in a fixed sign which makes me think of very focused energy. I go by the rule if you're not mirroring it, you're attracting it
What's opposing my DSC? Jupiter is in Scorpio. My Mars also squares MC, totally forgot about that. Yeah I attract very intense energy. Stalkers, creeps, people with a watchful gaze on me etc. But, otherwise, I don't feel I'm noticed. IP: Logged |
geminigal2805
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posted August 03, 2014 06:14 PM
Aww Piscean dream But you are so pretty!
I have noticed this,My Leo brother loves and craves attention. He needs it. His body language makes him get noticed more. Same with me. When i walk in,I love the attention. And credit goes to my body language, hair style,making an entrance,etc... My Virgo brothers get noticed too. But they dont crave that. And they think they dont get noticed,even when they get noticed!! They are not attention seekers. I find their energy subtle and endearing : )IP: Logged |
PisceanDream
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From: Alexandria, VA, USA
Registered: Jun 2014
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posted August 03, 2014 06:20 PM
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Originally posted by geminigal2805:
Aww Piscean dream But you are so pretty!
I have noticed this,My Leo brother loves and craves attention. He needs it. His body language makes him get noticed more. Same with me. When i walk in,I love the attention. And credit goes to my body language, hair style,making an entrance,etc... My Virgo brothers get noticed too. But they dont crave that. And they think they dont get noticed,even when they get noticed!! They are not attention seekers. I find their energy subtle and endearing : )
Thank you but I think there might be something about my energy that isn't compelling enough to stir a reaction. Definitely Leonine energy will attract attention and give attention (quite generous like that). I think folks that have Pluto aspecting their ASC are also quite magnetic and have an aura about them that is very hard to ignore.
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hannaramaa
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posted August 03, 2014 06:24 PM
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Originally posted by PisceanDream:
What's opposing my DSC? Jupiter is in Scorpio. My Mars also squares MC, totally forgot about that.
Mars does. Maybe not your DSC exactly, but your 7th house. Aquarius would explain why you attract the weirdos (even though Aquarius isn't in your 7th like astrology reminds us.) IP: Logged |
PisceanDream
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From: Alexandria, VA, USA
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posted August 03, 2014 06:25 PM
I'm also a fire void! I think no planets in the 1st, 10th, and 11th also might suggest someone who goes unnoticed. Or Saturn in the 11th, it usually indicates someone who doesn't have many friends (less than a hand's count) and often avoids groups. So this energy might perpetuate itself and reflect on how people respond to it.IP: Logged |
PisceanDream
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From: Alexandria, VA, USA
Registered: Jun 2014
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posted August 03, 2014 06:31 PM
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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
Mars does. Maybe not your DSC exactly, but your 7th house. Aquarius would explain why you attract the weirdos (even though Aquarius isn't in your 7th like astrology reminds us.)
Hmmm... Interesting. There's a very profound vulnerability to my energy, as well, which is why I try to overcompensate by walking around with a stern and tough look on my face, especially when I feel watched by predatory men. I avoid making eye contact because it's very apparent in my eyes and I myself feel it when I lock eyes with people like that. IP: Logged |
bansheequeen
Knowflake Posts: 443
From: Beachville, USA
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted August 03, 2014 06:42 PM
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Originally posted by PisceanDream:
This is also me. I'm not sure if I simply am unnoticed or whether I try to make sure people don't notice me. But either way, at least, when I desire to be noticed. I'm not. I'm also a loner so...1st house stellium, still unnoticed.
Then again it's in Pisces. And I think any Piscean, Neptunian vibe is hard to tune into because it's so subtle and ethereal. Mercury retrograde in Pisces, if I'm not talking to you one by one, I am either interrupted, ignore, or not interesting enough to listen to. Serious communication problems. I am, however, noticed by the predatory type and that, I don't know why.
This is how I am too, even when I'm trying to get someone's attention I'm ignored. In conversations where there are a lot of people I'm the one that people all talk over. I get targeted by creepy predatory types. I don't often get approached by sweet men, if someone ever approaches me they are almost always creepy. I don't just mean that wbacaus I think it's creepy that they approach me, they just have like a wolf stalking a rabbit energy to them. You're like my boyfriend. He's a Pisces with a few planets in the first house, including mars, but he goes unnoticed too. His vibe is super subtle, when I first met him he magnetized me to him without ever saying a word. When I visit him at work he literally just walks out the door to talk to me and nobody even notices he did that or tells him to go back to work haha. IP: Logged |
viiv28
Knowflake Posts: 64
From: kaspichan
Registered: Jun 2014
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posted August 03, 2014 07:28 PM
I have imposing energy but my deepest loves are towards very "inconspicuous" at first sight men. one was a virgo with cancer rising, one was sag with cap rising. In both cases -- lots of planets in the 12th house. I love and adore introverted men. IP: Logged |
viiv28
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From: kaspichan
Registered: Jun 2014
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posted August 03, 2014 07:38 PM
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Originally posted by bansheequeen:
This is how I am too, even when I'm trying to get someone's attention I'm ignored. In conversations where there are a lot of people I'm the one that people all talk over. I get targeted by creepy predatory types. I don't often get approached by sweet men, if someone ever approaches me they are almost always creepy. I don't just mean that wbacaus I think it's creepy that they approach me, they just have like a wolf stalking a rabbit energy to them.You're like my boyfriend. He's a Pisces with a few planets in the first house, including mars, but he goes unnoticed too. His vibe is super subtle, when I first met him he magnetized me to him without ever saying a word. When I visit him at work he literally just walks out the door to talk to me and nobody even notices he did that or tells him to go back to work haha.
Sweet guys rarely approach in general. Alas.
I wish I had a sweet vulnerable vibe. For me this is true female beauty. I personally adore introverted people and admire them very much. IP: Logged |
socialgraffiti
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From: uranus
Registered: Jul 2013
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posted August 03, 2014 09:06 PM
This is me.I have Cancer rising and no planets in the first house, though I have multiple in the 5th. Saturn squares my Asc. though, but it makes me more inclined to be secretive. Also have Pisces MC with Neptune aspecting... so my public reputation is mutable as well. + I've got a stellium w/ my chart ruler in the 8th... But I like flying under the radar- it's easier to see things. IP: Logged |
SunsetsAndRainyDays
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Registered: Nov 2013
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posted August 03, 2014 10:57 PM
Me too.
I also have Virgo rising, and nothing in fire. I don't have anything in the 10th, and nothing but Venus above the horizon, for that matter, though it's only just above the DC, and therefore opp. the AC. My AC and MC ruler, Mercury, is retrograde. Neptune is trine my AC.People never approach me to talk to me, not online, or IRL. Not even 'friends,' these days. It's almost like folks don't realize or forget I'm here. Walking around in public, a lot of times folks won't even move a little to avoid possibly bumping into me. Oftentimes, when I was in HS, and also at home, people would not notice I'm next to or right behind them until I make my presence known. IP: Logged |
yellowelevator
Knowflake Posts: 179
From: Michigan, Neptune, and sometimes Pluto
Registered: Nov 2013
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posted August 03, 2014 11:12 PM
I can relate to this. I often feel ignored, looked over, unimportant, and that my interests/hobbies are ignored and nobody ever asks me about them, or seems to take a big enough interest. Sometimes I will get talked over and my words will get ignored too. And people wonder why I can be a wallflower lol. Sometimes I just want to throw my hands up in the air and be like, "Sorry can't help that I'm into metaphysics and not football or cooking!" I'll change my interests and pretend I want to become a dentist or a firefighter like you'd rather me to lol.I'm a Cancer ASC and a Pisces MC. Neptune in 7th, very loosely opposite ASC. No planets in 1st, 10th, or 11th house. Moon and Mars in 12th. MAYBE my Mars in 12th has SOMETHING to do with it, but then it would be on my part because I can't bring my assertive energies to light often, thus being ignored. But I would just rather blame others   IP: Logged |
Libra5643
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posted August 04, 2014 03:01 AM
I have neptune in first and read that it makes someone blend into the crowd. I also have uranus in first, moon, mercury, and jupiter in 10th aspecting my asc but and i get talked over a lot and no one notices me when i speak haha its good though because i dont want to have the attention yet at the same time it makes me feel unimportant. IP: Logged |
next to neptune
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From: The Moon
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted August 04, 2014 03:30 AM
Yup, thats me, and I am totally sure that I could have made a BRILLIANT undercover agent, ninja or someone who's job was to "blend in", cause I do that soooo good I blend in everywhere I go, people think I'm a native if I walk around in another country and stuff like that… I am not totally unnoticed, I just apparently look like someone who belong no matter where I am lol!I am a virgo sun + mars, cancer rising with only soft aspect to the ascendant, and pisces moon, libra mercury, scorpio venus and pluto, capricorn neptune, uranus and saturn. But I am also the kind of person who can sneak in on everyone if I just act natural, and when I start talking people are like "OMG you gave me a shock, didn't even know you where there already!" Or if I am gone for 2 seconds and people have to make a group, when I come back I'm like "So which group do I belong in?"
the others: "OH sorry we forgot about you!" And the classic one: "Do you remember yesterday? It was SOOO funny when X did that HAHAHA, don't you remember or what?"
"Hey, I wasn't even there?"
"Oh thats right, sorry, I forgot you weren't there" IP: Logged |
Aries23Degrees
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From: South Africa
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posted August 04, 2014 03:36 AM
12th house connection.
Asc in Pisces I guess Virgo Asc/6th house connections would also be included herein. These people can be very incognito.
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Doux Rêve
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posted August 04, 2014 07:02 AM
Count me in.I got no planets in angular houses (except Mars conj. DSC from the 6H), no fire and a big 6H stellium. Plus Saturn in 11H (fwiw). I'd say I go unnoticed most of the time when I'm out. But if I engage in conversation then it's not so bad (Gem asc) cause I tend to appear pretty engaged/expressive (if I so choose). What I like doing is basically observe people. It's quite fun to me. When I'm in public transport or even in the street I often look at people and it never gets me into trouble. IP: Logged |
LionFish
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posted August 04, 2014 08:00 AM
This is my fiance. He's very social, but can slip through a crowd unnoticed. He used to tell me people never remembered him, his name, that he was always "that one guy."He's an 8h aqua sun, cancer asc , with a 3h virgo moon. No planets in angular houses, and although his aqua placements are above the horizon in his natal, they are all 8h. When we first met I thought he was the most fascinating, intriguing, and utterly wonderful person I'd met in a long time. I could never understand that people didnt see him as a shining star the way I do until I saw it happen repeatedly before my own eyes. But thats just fine with me! It means all of his awesomeness is all mine IP: Logged |
Leorpio
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From: Cypress
Registered: Mar 2014
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posted August 04, 2014 07:35 PM
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Originally posted by PisceanDream:
This is also me. I'm not sure if I simply am unnoticed or whether I try to make sure people don't notice me. But either way, at least, when I desire to be noticed. I'm not. I'm also a loner so...1st house stellium, still unnoticed.
Then again it's in Pisces. And I think any Piscean, Neptunian vibe is hard to tune into because it's so subtle and ethereal. Mercury retrograde in Pisces, if I'm not talking to you one by one, I am either interrupted, ignore, or not interesting enough to listen to. Serious communication problems. I am, however, noticed by the predatory type and that, I don't know why.
Can confirm, have Neptune in 1st and can go undetected just as easily as be noticed. IP: Logged |
Randall
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posted August 05, 2014 09:58 PM
I make that happen sometimes. I just will it. I guess I can be a ninja. IP: Logged | |
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