posted August 09, 2014 03:24 AM            

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Originally posted by babybull82:
Damn..uhh I hate to bring negativity to this thread but I know a Scorp sun/pisces moon male (old friend from waaaay back) he's an alcoholic, emotional cheater (has physically cheated once..well there might be more but he only mentioned one). He loves the idea of being in love & all that but once he's in a relationship he treats the girl like trash. But the sad part is the girls usually stick around because he was so sweet & gentlemanly in the beginning. He has venus in scorpio, mars in sag & a sag asc...so maybe that attributes to his wanting to break free after immediately getting into a relationship. I think he'd benefit greatly from the freedom that being in an open relationship can provide..but in the end he'd probably get jealous that his gf was seeing someone else despite him happily doing the same.

I love this guy, but he ****** me off the way he is towards his girlfriends..but you know none of my business & he's always been good to me so I just leave it alone.

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posted August 09, 2014 03:28 AM            

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Originally posted by Gabby:
I dated a saggy Sun/AC/Merc with pisces Moon and scorp Venus aqua Mars that was exactly as you describe! I got out of that very quick!
We stayed friends after we broke up and he eventually admitted that he treats women very different in the beginning and is well aware he can't keep it up very long so he marries them quick, before it wears off, because he doesn't like being single.
After he gets "attached" he turns cold n annoyed that he's expected to be there for someone else, once he gets them he doesn't want the responsibility of being there.

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Goodness, that sounds dreadful but good on you for Usain Bolting it outta there !

posted August 09, 2014 03:53 AM            

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Originally posted by HappyLoewe:
Are there any Virgo Suns/Mars out there that have this placement? I am curious about how all the Earth affects the Water in this combo. It's just that I've found when there is heavy Earth going on with this placement, it makes the men more unlikely to move on from relationships even though its extremely toxic.

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posted August 09, 2014 04:01 AM            

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Originally posted by Brobian:
I have Mercury, Venus, and Mars in Taurus, which is fixed Earth. Unfortunately, if I fall in love, I'll be following her around like a love stricken puppy dog for the rest of her life.
I'm very stupid in relationships too. I'll go through years of being manipulated and completely taken advantage of, before I'll finally realize I'm a moron. If I give her my heart, then it is my heart to which she has. It won't be for any others, not at all. I'll refrain from even speaking to other women for fear of hurting her. She would be my queen and I'd give her my entire empire, what little it is anyways.

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posted August 09, 2014 04:13 AM            

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Originally posted by HappyLoewe:
Thanks Brobian. Yes, I've noticed this sorta life-long attachment thing going on (with respect to other placements, of course). Have you experience of how the Mutable Earth sign might react to love being over? The Mutables are much more changeable and restless, have a bit more difficulty in settling down kinda thing.

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A mutable earth, in my opinion, would probably be able to move on more quickly or be unfaithful, especially if the Sun sign is mutable as well.
In my aspect, Gemini and Pisces are both mutable, however, Taurus is fixed. Inside me is a fixed way of how I perceive love. It's so fixed that I will readily try and change everything about myself to keep it in place. I'll change so much that I tend to try and change way more then is even realistically possible. I am a complete giver and I expect little in return.

posted August 09, 2014 04:25 AM            

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Originally posted by HappyLoewe:
Goodness, that sounds dreadful but good on you for Usain Bolting it outta there !

The two fishes swimming in the opposite directions

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posted August 09, 2014 04:39 AM            

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Originally posted by Brobian:
A mutable earth, in my opinion, would probably be able to move on more quickly or be unfaithful, especially if the Sun sign is mutable as well.
In my aspect, Gemini and Pisces are both mutable, however, Taurus is fixed. Inside me is a fixed way of how I perceive love. It's so fixed that I will readily try and change everything about myself to keep it in place. I'll change so much that I tend to try and change way more then is even realistically possible. I am a complete giver and I expect little in return.

When I sit and think about it, it makes me look foolish. Heck, I even know it's foolish. However, it's definitely who I am so I think that's why it's healthier to just keep my independence.

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posted August 09, 2014 04:57 AM            

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Originally posted by HappyLoewe:
Thanks. You sound a bit like an emotional contortionist at times We can't choose our family and we can't choose our placements ! However, I do think champagne cocktails make it all the more bearable.

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posted August 09, 2014 05:07 AM            

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Originally posted by Brobian:
Lol, honestly, I'm very happy with myself and my family. I'm also very happy with who I am, I might speak negatively of myself, however, this is just my own way of keeping me humble. Trust me, I can have an extremely high confidence level at times. I'm a Solar Gemini after all. Oh, and trust me. I most definitely have my fair share of cocktails. Thought I would rather few bud lights or a bottle or two of the sweetest red wine I can find.

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I know, I can tell you're settled in your skin and like it. I have this little ditty, it always makes me smile:

Ode to Alcohol

Starkle, starkle, little twink,
Who the hell you are I think,
I'm not under what they call
The alcofluence of incohol.
I'm not drunk as thinkle peep,
I'm just a little slort of sheep.
Tee martoonis make a guy
Fool so feelish, don't know why
Rally don't know who's me yet
The drunker I stay the longer I get
So just one more to full my cup,
I've all day sober to Sunday up.

posted August 09, 2014 05:38 AM            

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Originally posted by HappyLoewe:
I know, I can tell you're settled in your skin and like it. I have this little ditty, it always makes me smile:

Ode to Alcohol

Starkle, starkle, little twink,
Who the hell you are I think,
I'm not under what they call
The alcofluence of incohol.
I'm not drunk as thinkle peep,
I'm just a little slort of sheep.
Tee martoonis make a guy
Fool so feelish, don't know why
Rally don't know who's me yet
The drunker I stay the longer I get
So just one more to full my cup,
I've all day sober to Sunday up.

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I give an impressive "TWO THUMBS UP AND A TOOTHY GRIN" for the poem!

I've got one that goes well with it, however, sharing it here probably would not be wise.

posted August 09, 2014 05:41 AM            

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Originally posted by HappyLoewe:

Edited cos they're really boring ;(

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posted August 09, 2014 06:29 AM            

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Originally posted by Brobian:
I give an impressive "TWO THUMBS UP AND A TOOTHY GRIN" for the poem!

I've got one that goes well with it, however, sharing it here probably would not be wise.

You can read more of my writings at schaferphilip.wordpress.com

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posted August 09, 2014 06:47 AM            

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Originally posted by HappyLoewe:
Thanks, will check it out.

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So, what are your aspects anyways?

posted August 09, 2014 10:59 AM            

I am very attuned to the emotions of others and I relentlessly try and not hurt anyone, which is next to impossible in some situations. I don't like to knowingly or unknowingly throw the wrong signs out there. When you can feel the emotional energy of others, it makes hurting their feelings extremely difficult because I end up feeling it too.

posted August 10, 2014 01:56 PM            

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Originally posted by Taineberry:
A male friend of mine has Moon in Pisces (with a Leo Sun) and he is not in any way "soft" or "dreamy" - in fact he takes great pains to hide his sensitive side and is super masculine. However, he does project classic Pisces moon traits onto women as he is attracted to those who are gentle, kind and spiritual. He loves music, art and literature, but is is of the "hard-edged" industrial, disturbing kind. He will do anything for injured animals, the environment and for the underdog - but he comes across as "hard" has no compassion or mercy for perpetrators. He is not romantic or sentimental, but he has imagination and does care. He has strong feelings and spiritual depth, but he hides them behind a carefully constructed wall of indifference. To me ... all this adds up to one word. Elusiveness. It's hard to pin down this Pisces Moon man as he is a master of contradiction which he uses deliberately to make it difficult for others to pin him down emotionally - he does not want to let people into his true feelings and likes to keep his options open. He outgoing and energetic, but then without warning will suddenly crave solitude and withdraw from people for long period. Pisces! Very slippery.

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Within him a war wages and it probably has for some time. His Leo mind is strong, masculine, and confident. However, his Pisces heart is soft, feminine, and very loving. His mind doesn't like that the heart feels the way it does. It deems it weak, embarrassing, and unneeded. In an effort to control the heart, his mind has beefed up his masculinity, however, this is also beefed up to show himself that he isn't one with how his weak heart is. None will know him emotionally because he doesn't even know himself emotionally and when he disappears and withdraws from the world, it is because he has drained himself of his energy, from all the energy used to conceal who he is, and he needs to recharge. The heart will also get so emotionally backed up that release is a must and he will do that in the solitude of his own house because he doesn't want anyone to see how weak his heart really is, if they do, they will judge him and judgment hurts.

posted August 10, 2014 04:30 PM            

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Originally posted by Taineberry:
Yes, you are right ... I think he does fear being judged or hurt and that is why he acts the way he does, but I don't think the Pisces Moon heart is necessarily weak, it is just vulnerable.

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Oh, it is far from weak. However, within his own mind's eye it is weak. In his early childhood, he was probably made fun of for something involving his feelings. He probably cried a lot and was called a baby or cry baby. Though, as a child he was extremely impressionable, as he is now. Most of the tears he cried as a child were not even his own tears. He cried them for his family and the other people in his life because he was so sensitive, he absorbed their emotions in.

I know this because I lived the same life.

posted August 11, 2014 05:44 AM            

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Originally posted by HappyLoewe:
How do men relate to the world, romance, love, sex, people, relationships, work with this moon placement?

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I am not idealistic, and I am simply unable to see things in black and white, but the suffering of others and the nature of humanity still sadden me. I am also very sensitive to melancholy and learning about or seeing a sad story makes me feel the suffering of it (I mean actually serious sad things, such as a military museum giving tribute to the fallen for instance).

I don't give out my feelings to anyone, but I shower with love those I feel truly close to. I am idealistic in love even when I try not to be, and it is simply impossible for me to enjoy sex without romantic feelings, or to get over emotional pain completely. As for my dream woman, she would need to be sweet, intelligent, spiritual, open and conservative, and no less romantic than I am.

I have a major lack of imagination. My mind will go all over the place if I get some basis, but I can't just make up a story without any material for instance.

I am very serious most of the time, as well as very introverted and unwilling to interact with other people, which sometimes makes me come off as being rude, or cold, or just weird. I also seemingly act and communicate like a "robot".

What else... I feel distant from my family, and don't have the best of relationships with them, even if they're actually supporting of me (Aqua Moon mother, Virgo Moon father, Scorpio Moon sister, Capricorn Moon brother). If anything, the two individuals I love the most are my fiancee (Cancer Sun, Taurus Moon) and my cat (Leo Sun, Gemini Moon). Ironically, they are both female (my chart is rather feminine, itself).

That's about everything that might concern my moon, I think. I have Cancer Sun, Pisces Moon (in the 5th house and conjunct the 6th), Cancer Mercury, Gemini Mars, Gemini Venus, Libra Ascendant.
As for my lunar aspects:
Moon Trine Sun
Moon Square Mars
Moon Square Venus
Moon Trine Midheaven
Moon Trine Mercury
Moon Sextile Jupiter