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Topic: Are you a Narcissistic Person Quiz
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aquaguy91 Moderator Posts: 9793 From: tennessee Registered: Jan 2012
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posted August 09, 2014 02:06 AM
quote: Originally posted by Barbiegirl19: No they don't care what others think. That's the whole point and purpose of narcissism It could be viewed as stubborn.
Yes they do care what others think. Clearly you don't understand narcissism. IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19 Knowflake Posts: 4554 From: Pluto with DeepFreeze Registered: Jul 2013
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posted August 09, 2014 02:06 AM
quote: Originally posted by sweet-scorpion: Cool thread! I scored 18. Narcissistic Trait Authority: 6.00 Self-Sufficiency: 2.00 Superiority: 3.00 Exhibitionism: 3.00 Exploitativeness: 2.00 Vanity: 1.00 Entitlement: 1.00 I knew I would score highest on authority/power...hey, I'm Plutonian. What can I say. I think that the disproportionately high score also comes from my Sun being in the 10th. This quiz was fun but I don't take it too seriously. I want to be a prominent figure in society, but I would never use other people or lack empathy in the process.
I figured you would too hahaha. Again you read my mind! I could never use anyone, it's wrong. IP: Logged |
BellaFenice Knowflake Posts: 1002 From: Pseudo-Leo with a 1st House Stellium Registered: Sep 2013
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posted August 09, 2014 02:07 AM
^ Enough of this debate on narcissism, your attention should be on me. I'm totally not being stubborn here or anything. I think I am right and that I don't care what you all think because I am right, you are all wrong now shush and go!
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StarlightSmileSupreme Knowflake Posts: 8951 From: neptune Registered: Nov 2012
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posted August 09, 2014 02:08 AM
quote: Originally posted by aquaguy91: I don't think a narcissist would be stubborn in the public eye. They are too vain and worry about what others think of them.
They do appear stubborn and full of the "I"s as in "I think this and that and I don't care what you think because I am right, you are wrong now shush and go!" This seems stubborn because they are deaf to everyone but themselves. I can get into the narcissism a little. It's my fear of people and anxiety that keeps my score lower. IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19 Knowflake Posts: 4554 From: Pluto with DeepFreeze Registered: Jul 2013
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posted August 09, 2014 02:10 AM
quote: Originally posted by aquaguy91: Yes they do care what others think. Clearly you don't understand narcissism.
nar·cis·sism [nahr-suh-siz-em] —noun inordinate fascination with oneself; excessive self-love; vanity. Synonyms: self-centeredness, smugness, egocentrism. Psychoanalysis. erotic gratification derived from admiration of one's own physical or mental attributes, being a normal condition at the infantile level of personality development. Hahaha clearly you don't AG but whatever this thread isn't about what your definition of it is. It's based on the self. Insecure people worry about what others think, a narcissist does not. There's the definition just for you IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme Knowflake Posts: 8951 From: neptune Registered: Nov 2012
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posted August 09, 2014 02:16 AM
quote: Originally posted by BellaFenice: ^ Enough of this debate on narcissism, your attention should be on me. I'm totally not being stubborn here or anything. I think I am right and that I don't care what you all think because I am right, you are all wrong now shush and go!
Oh wow Bella you posted that so close to the time I posted mine. It was like mind reading O o I thought you quoted me for a minute then I saw yours posted first LOL
EERIE! That kinda freaked me out a little... IP: Logged |
BellaFenice Knowflake Posts: 1002 From: Pseudo-Leo with a 1st House Stellium Registered: Sep 2013
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posted August 09, 2014 02:17 AM
quote: Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme: [QUOTE]Originally posted by BellaFenice: [b]^ Enough of this debate on narcissism, your attention should be on me. I'm totally not being stubborn here or anything. I think I am right and that I don't care what you all think because I am right, you are all wrong now shush and go!
Oh wow Bella you posted that so close to the time I posted mine. It was like mind reading O o I thought you quoted me for a minute then I saw yours posted first LOL
EERIE![/b][/QUOTE] LOLOL. Actually, I just changed a few words from your quote to be funny. Trying to prove my narcissism here. IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme Knowflake Posts: 8951 From: neptune Registered: Nov 2012
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posted August 09, 2014 02:18 AM
quote: Originally posted by BellaFenice: LOLOL. Actually, I just changed a few words from your quote to be funny. Trying to prove my narcissism here.
Oh okay so you edited hehe. IP: Logged |
aquaguy91 Moderator Posts: 9793 From: tennessee Registered: Jan 2012
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posted August 09, 2014 02:20 AM
quote: Originally posted by Barbiegirl19: [b]nar·cis·sism [nahr-suh-siz-em]—noun inordinate fascination with oneself; excessive self-love; vanity. Synonyms: self-centeredness, smugness, egocentrism. Psychoanalysis. erotic gratification derived from admiration of one's own physical or mental attributes, being a normal condition at the infantile level of personality development. Hahaha clearly you don't AG but whatever this thread isn't about what your definition of it is. It's based on the self. Insecure people worry about what others think, a narcissist does not. There's the definition just for you [/B]
Facepalm*of course narcissists are wrapped up in themselves, but their egos demand the attention and admiration of everyone else around them, so they obviously care what other people think of them. They are chameleons and will modify their behavior depending on who they are around. They will do whatever it takes to win your approval and make you like them, they crave the spotlight and want people to think highly of them.
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Bluejay Knowflake Posts: 179 From: Registered: Jun 2013
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posted August 09, 2014 02:22 AM
quote: Originally posted by DeepFreeze: Yep I had 5 and 0 Authority and exhibitionism
Huh? How does a Leo get 0 for exhibitionism??? Impossible! I guess Pluto on the ASC likes to wield his power from behind the scenes, so no one can steal his throne. IP: Logged |
sweet-scorpion Moderator Posts: 2116 From: CO, USA Registered: Apr 2012
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posted August 09, 2014 02:25 AM
quote: Originally posted by Barbiegirl19: I figured you would too hahaha. Again you read my mind! I could never use anyone, it's wrong.
Ahh, we have a psychic link! Haha. Or it's even more likely that the Libra is strong in us, LOL...Libras are a little narcissistic sometimes, but we're too balanced and just to use anyone! IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme Knowflake Posts: 8951 From: neptune Registered: Nov 2012
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posted August 09, 2014 02:27 AM
quote: Originally posted by aquaguy91:
Facepalm*of course narcissists are wrapped up in themselves, but their egos demand the attention and admiration of everyone else around them, so they obviously care what other people think of them. They are chameleons and will modify their behavior depending on who they are around. They will do whatever it takes to win your approval and make you like them, they crave the spotlight and want people to think highly of them.
They assume others are going to like them whatever they say. They are NOT people pleasers by default. The occasional narcissist could be a people pleaser and use this as a means to gratify the ego (meaning they aren't doing it for you rather for what they can get out of you.) Many of them have the attitude they are right, everyone else is wrong. Some of them even resort to silly attention seeking tactics that will gain them the attention they crave, not necessarily good attention but could be...there are different kinds of narcissists. No two are identical. IP: Logged |
KarkaQueen Knowflake Posts: 5818 From: In my 1st house Uranus and Neptune Registered: May 2011
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posted August 09, 2014 02:32 AM
I love a good narcissist with excellent afflictions from Neptune and a highly stressed MarsIP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19 Knowflake Posts: 4554 From: Pluto with DeepFreeze Registered: Jul 2013
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posted August 09, 2014 02:37 AM
quote: Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme: They assume others are going to like them whatever they say. They are NOT people pleasers by default. The occasional narcissist could be a people pleaser and use this as a means to gratify the ego (meaning they aren't doing it for you rather for what they can get out of you.) Many of them have the attitude they are right, everyone else is wrong. Some of them even resort to silly attention seeking tactics that will gain them the attention they crave, not necessarily good attention but could be...there are different kinds of narcissists. No two are identical.
Thank you!
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Barbiegirl19 Knowflake Posts: 4554 From: Pluto with DeepFreeze Registered: Jul 2013
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posted August 09, 2014 02:41 AM
quote: Originally posted by sweet-scorpion: Ahh, we have a psychic link! Haha. Or it's even more likely that the Libra is strong in us, LOL...Libras are a little narcissistic sometimes, but we're too balanced and just to use anyone!
We do hehehe we are just a tad but like you said we're too balanced and seek that balance rather than people. We aren't people users. IP: Logged |
DeepFreeze Knowflake Posts: 2903 From: Pluto with Barbiegirl19 Registered: Nov 2013
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posted August 09, 2014 02:42 AM
quote: Originally posted by Bluejay: Huh? How does a Leo get 0 for exhibitionism??? Impossible! I guess Pluto on the ASC likes to wield his power from behind the scenes, so no one can steal his throne.
That's right! Creep into power subtly. Let the leaders fall and fail and I'll be standing there when the dust settles. Kind of a work situation right now honestly. lol I'm just lurking in the shadows. I have all that Virgo too but I honestly do think Pluto whips my butt on a daily basis.
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aquaguy91 Moderator Posts: 9793 From: tennessee Registered: Jan 2012
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posted August 09, 2014 02:51 AM
quote: Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme: They assume others are going to like them whatever they say. They are NOT people pleasers by default. The occasional narcissist could be a people pleaser and use this as a means to gratify the ego (meaning they aren't doing it for you rather for what they can get out of you.) Many of them have the attitude they are right, everyone else is wrong. Some of them even resort to silly attention seeking tactics that will gain them the attention they crave, not necessarily good attention but could be...there are different kinds of narcissists. No two are identical.
The thing some people don't seem to understand about narcissists is everything is about politics with them, they are obsessed with their public image and will do what ever it takes to look good. They thrive off of praise and attention and will do what it takes to get it, even if they have to be fake or lie to get it. That's why I was confused when you implied being stubborn is a narcissistic trait. Narcissists may indeed be stubborn but you are never going to see that side of them unless you are close to them. Narcissists are always going to try and look good in the public eye. I know this because I know somebody who is diagnosed with NPD. IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme Knowflake Posts: 8951 From: neptune Registered: Nov 2012
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posted August 09, 2014 02:57 AM
quote: Originally posted by aquaguy91:
The thing some people don't seem to understand about narcissists is everything is about politics with them, they are obsessed with their public image and will do what ever it takes to look good. They thrive off of praise and attention and will do what it takes to get it, even if they have to be fake or lie to get it. That's why I was confused when you implied being stubborn is a narcissistic trait. Narcissists may indeed be stubborn but you are never going to see that side of them unless you are close to them. Narcissists are always going to try and look good in the public eye. I know this because I know somebody who is diagnosed with NPD.
That goes for your particular narcissist but you need to keep in mind they can also be psycho or sociopaths which means they will eventually mess up even if they do attempt to look good. And another type could be the opposite of that as in they bully people and say horrible things about them without ever stopping not caring about the effect because they believe it is their right to act like that. So a narcissist with psychopathy could be very indifferent to how they appear to others. They might try to cover their tracks so they can get away with crimes but they get caught eventually.
All of them have one thing in common. They are self serving and obsessed with little empathy for anyone else.
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bansheequeen Knowflake Posts: 463 From: Beachville, USA Registered: Jan 2012
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posted August 09, 2014 03:03 AM
13. Vanity and superiority were the highest lol.IP: Logged |
Leorpio Knowflake Posts: 417 From: Cypress Registered: Mar 2014
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posted August 09, 2014 03:48 AM
I got a 16 lol xD Highest was Authority at 6 and lowest was exhibitionism at 0 hahaha. I'm not a narcissist though because I had tough self-esteem issues growing up and still sometimes do. I used to think I was dirt and worth nothing. But now I'm confident and happy with myself but I don't believe I'm better than anyone else. I knew authority would be the most because well, Leos like being leaders. :P IP: Logged |
LionFish Knowflake Posts: 1244 From: Registered: Aug 2012
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posted August 09, 2014 04:34 AM
Lmao..29.. Really? I guess my Leo is showing I dont feel that narcissitic, but I do love authority (scored 8) and yeah, im kind of an exhibitionist (scored 6)... Guess I should call a therapist lol 10h Taurus Moon (probably where my love of authority comes from 9h pisces merc IP: Logged |
Leorpio Knowflake Posts: 417 From: Cypress Registered: Mar 2014
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posted August 09, 2014 04:35 AM
quote: Originally posted by LionFish: Lmao..29.. Really? I guess my Leo is showing I dont feel that narcissitic, but I do love authority (scored 8) and yeah, im kind of an exhibitionist (scored 6)... Guess I should call a therapist lol 10h Taurus Moon (probably where my love of authority comes from 9h pisces merc
LOL 29? That's insane! You must be a god among men or something :P IP: Logged |
charlie Knowflake Posts: 2262 From: los angeles, ca, USA Registered: Jun 2012
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posted August 09, 2014 04:38 AM
27 and I wasn't lyingCap Moon in 5H op. Cancer Mercury in 11H IP: Logged |
LionFish Knowflake Posts: 1244 From: Registered: Aug 2012
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posted August 09, 2014 04:44 AM
quote: Originally posted by Leorpio: LOL 29? That's insane! You must be a god among men or something :P
Right!? Goddess* I dont think im awesome..i know it But seriously.. 29 I knew I would score high, but not THAT high. Oh well, nothing wrong with being sure of one's self and knowing what you want out of life and other people in it IP: Logged |
peachbeigeblue Knowflake Posts: 4011 From: Registered: Apr 2012
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posted August 09, 2014 07:58 AM
24!! I thought I answered modestly too. Authority got me. I have always leaned to narcissism, anyone who knows me will tell you but I'm not THAT bad. It's something I constantly work on. I'm sure people who lead for a living also scored higher on authority (8)Leo sun and mercury conjunct Leo MC and POF from the 9th IP: Logged |