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Topic: Scorpio Moons: Dealing with jealousy, and never letting go
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Anisa Knowflake Posts: 96 From: United States Registered: Jan 2014
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posted August 09, 2014 11:01 AM
How do you guys cope with jealousy and past hurts? On the outside I act like idc, or as if the situation didn't phase me one bit. But on the inside, I'm slowly stabbing a knife in your throat. And am I the only one who beats dead horses? I can never let go of anything, and I hate it. You'd think having a vivid crystal clear memory is a good thing, but to me it's a curse. What's one thing that makes you go batshit jealous, and what's something you'll never get over?
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Anisa Knowflake Posts: 96 From: United States Registered: Jan 2014
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posted August 09, 2014 11:08 AM
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charlie Knowflake Posts: 2262 From: los angeles, ca, USA Registered: Jun 2012
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posted August 09, 2014 11:27 AM
Every single Scorpio Moon I know beats dead horses to the rhythm of 1000 drums...The only one that came across as if he couldn't care any less had a Gemini Sun but I know he drenched his darkness in booze, to the beat of 1000 drums...IP: Logged |
Anisa Knowflake Posts: 96 From: United States Registered: Jan 2014
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posted August 09, 2014 11:39 AM
Lol yeah, it's a nasty habit a lot of us deal with :/ The more evolved, older Scorp. moons have a mature and calm way of handling it, if not at all because they've probably transformed themselves. quote: Originally posted by charlie: Every single Scorpio Moon I know beats dead horses to the rhythm of 1000 drums...The only one that came across as if he couldn't care any less had a Gemimi Sun but I know he drenched his darkness in booze, to the beat of 1000 drums...
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starmoon Knowflake Posts: 1309 From: Registered: Sep 2011
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posted August 09, 2014 11:57 AM
quote: Originally posted by charlie: Every single Scorpio Moon I know beats dead horses to the rhythm of 1000 drums...The only one that came across as if he couldn't care any less had a Gemini Sun but I know he drenched his darkness in booze, to the beat of 1000 drums...
we know the same guy! IP: Logged |
charlie Knowflake Posts: 2262 From: los angeles, ca, USA Registered: Jun 2012
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posted August 09, 2014 12:07 PM
Actually, now that I think about it, every single Scorpio Moon I know has been or is a heavy drinker. One did heavy drugs for a while too. I had a period in my life, a dark one, when I attracted them like flies to fresh sh*t and I also drank a lot during this time. It took me 4 solid years to pull through and now I can safely say them and I have zero in common. Scorpio Suns I just find boring and self-righteous. But to answer question: I think it's extra important for these moons to be surrounded by honest and upbeat people! IP: Logged |
margym0o Knowflake Posts: 113 From: Ontario, Canada Registered: Jul 2014
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posted August 09, 2014 12:18 PM
For me as a Gemini Sun, Scorpio Moon I find it a constant battle between head and heart. I can feel torn up on the inside but somehow try and find a "silver lining" or try to intellectualize or justify my feelings. This is more often only an internal dialogue as I try to soothe myself. To others I will appear very calm and collected (though I really feel like screaming), never really truly revealing the depth of my feelings, but I think that is part of it. Usually the red flag to others is when I get very quiet. I will resort to passive-aggressive behaviors as opposed to full on confrontation. I too have been known to "beat a dead horse" so to speak but I think it is my way of satisfying my need to explore the topic in full and resolve every part of it. The unresolved parts are what eat me up. Once I feel satisfied, I will let it go - on the surface. Internally I collect the memories of how a situation made me feel but I wouldn't bring it up again. This is a very tough Moon to handle, but in some ways I love it. I feel so alive. I would rather experience the raw depth of feeling, good or bad than be detached and robotic. Oh and to add, I've never been a heavy drinker or drug user, though I will agree that you need an outlet. I will find ways to distract myself (like study astrology :P) to keep myself from dwelling too much. IP: Logged |
happyaskings Knowflake Posts: 848 From: Registered: Dec 2012
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posted August 09, 2014 02:05 PM
quote: Originally posted by charlie: Every single Scorpio Moon I know beats dead horses to the rhythm of 1000 drums...The only one that came across as if he couldn't care any less had a Gemini Sun but I know he drenched his darkness in booze, to the beat of 1000 drums...
lol it's me but in girl form! It's also a pride thing (leo mars) like I'll be damed if I let anyone see me down! IP: Logged |
Leorpio Knowflake Posts: 415 From: Cypress Registered: Mar 2014
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posted August 09, 2014 04:43 PM
quote: Originally posted by margym0o: For me as a Gemini Sun, Scorpio Moon I find it a constant battle between head and heart. I can feel torn up on the inside but somehow try and find a "silver lining" or try to intellectualize or justify my feelings. This is more often only an internal dialogue as I try to soothe myself. To others I will appear very calm and collected (though I really feel like screaming), never really truly revealing the depth of my feelings, but I think that is part of it. Usually the red flag to others is when I get very quiet. I will resort to passive-aggressive behaviors as opposed to full on confrontation. I too have been known to "beat a dead horse" so to speak but I think it is my way of satisfying my need to explore the topic in full and resolve every part of it. The unresolved parts are what eat me up. Once I feel satisfied, I will let it go - on the surface. Internally I collect the memories of how a situation made me feel but I wouldn't bring it up again. This is a very tough Moon to handle, but in some ways I love it. I feel so alive. I would rather experience the raw depth of feeling, good or bad than be detached and robotic. Oh and to add, I've never been a heavy drinker or drug user, though I will agree that you need an outlet. I will find ways to distract myself (like study astrology :P) to keep myself from dwelling too much.
I wonder if this is what my brother feels. He's a Gemini sun scorp moon too and never talks about his feelings. In fact, he actively shuns them lol.
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usc277 Knowflake Posts: 307 From: Registered: Mar 2014
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posted August 09, 2014 05:02 PM
My x is a Scorpio moon Leo sunWe broke up in 2006, she wanted us to remain friends, but because I loved her so much I couldn't..so I blocked her on all socials media's. Etc.. In 2013(after 7 yrs on zero communication) I sent her an email on her birthday basically saying happy birthday.. She didn't reply..I unblocked her on Facebook and sent a "Hi"....and she blocked me..is that typical Scorpio moon behavior ? IP: Logged |
charlie Knowflake Posts: 2262 From: los angeles, ca, USA Registered: Jun 2012
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posted August 09, 2014 05:40 PM
quote: Originally posted by usc277: My x is a Scorpio moon Leo sunWe broke up in 2006, she wanted us to remain friends, but because I loved her so much I couldn't..so I blocked her on all socials media's. Etc.. In 2013(after 7 yrs on zero communication) I sent her an email on her birthday basically saying happy birthday.. She didn't reply..I unblocked her on Facebook and sent a "Hi"....and she blocked me..is that typical Scorpio moon behavior ?
She's gonna be real "fixed" with that sun + moon! Her pride fused with some bitterness? Don't see you standing one chance of getting on her best side. IP: Logged |
usc277 Knowflake Posts: 307 From: Registered: Mar 2014
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posted August 09, 2014 05:47 PM
quote: Originally posted by charlie: She's gonna be real "fixed" with that sun + moon! Her pride fused with some bitterness? Don't see you standing one chance of getting on her best side.
True. Really care less to be on her best side, I just want to give her what she wanted, despite it being 7 urs later :0) IP: Logged |
LoadedPistil Moderator Posts: 2289 From: NJ, USA Registered: Feb 2014
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posted August 09, 2014 09:01 PM
quote: Originally posted by charlie: Every single Scorpio Moon I know beats dead horses to the rhythm of 1000 drums...The only one that came across as if he couldn't care any less had a Gemini Sun but I know he drenched his darkness in booze, to the beat of 1000 drums...
The neighbors can hear me laughing  ------------------ Tarot Readings | Etsy Leo ♌️ Sun, (2nd House), Venus (3nd House) Scorpio ♏ Moon,Mars,Saturn (5th House) Cancer ♋ Rising Svātī Nakshatra IP: Logged |
LoadedPistil Moderator Posts: 2289 From: NJ, USA Registered: Feb 2014
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posted August 09, 2014 09:03 PM
quote: Originally posted by usc277: My x is a Scorpio moon Leo sunWe broke up in 2006, she wanted us to remain friends, but because I loved her so much I couldn't..so I blocked her on all socials media's. Etc.. In 2013(after 7 yrs on zero communication) I sent her an email on her birthday basically saying happy birthday.. She didn't reply..I unblocked her on Facebook and sent a "Hi"....and she blocked me..is that typical Scorpio moon behavior ?
That's basic GTFOMF after all this time *Disclaimer: See below ------------------ Tarot Readings | Etsy Leo ♌️ Sun, (2nd House), Venus (3nd House) Scorpio ♏ Moon,Mars,Saturn (5th House) Cancer ♋ Rising Svātī Nakshatra IP: Logged |
LoadedPistil Moderator Posts: 2289 From: NJ, USA Registered: Feb 2014
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posted August 09, 2014 09:04 PM
quote: Originally posted by usc277: True. Really care less to be on her best side, I just want to give her what she wanted, despite it being 7 urs later :0)
No. GTFOH Scorpio Moon isn't bitter. We don't want half-assed relationships. ------------------ Tarot Readings | Etsy Leo ♌️ Sun, (2nd House), Venus (3nd House) Scorpio ♏ Moon,Mars,Saturn (5th House) Cancer ♋ Rising Svātī Nakshatra IP: Logged |
usc277 Knowflake Posts: 307 From: Registered: Mar 2014
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posted August 10, 2014 02:14 AM
quote: Originally posted by LoadedPistil: No. GTFOH Scorpio Moon isn't bitter. We don't want half-assed relationships.
She is definitely acting bitter. Its been 7 yrs..she's in her thirties (mature).. She would get over it and act civil you think.. IP: Logged |
LeeLoo2014 Moderator Posts: 5084 From: Venus cornering Neptune Registered: Mar 2014
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posted August 10, 2014 05:55 AM
quote: Originally posted by usc277: She is definitely acting bitter. Its been 7 yrs..she's in her thirties (mature).. She would get over it and act civil you think..
Time doesn't make certain things better.The mistakes you make, are made forever. Bad things are bad things, they don't get better with time, they never become acceptable. ------------------
I seem to have loved you in numberless forms... IP: Logged |
usc277 Knowflake Posts: 307 From: Registered: Mar 2014
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posted August 10, 2014 06:49 AM
quote: Originally posted by LeeLoo2014: Time doesn't make certain things better.The mistakes you make, are made forever. Bad things are bad things, they don't get better with time, they never become acceptable.
so be it...i care less..it was my choice to ignore her existence all these years, i will go back to "she doesn't exist mode" T-minus 10,9,8..3,2,1 and liftoff to Space shuttle Discovery... beginning America's new journey to the moon, Mars and beyond... and the scorpio moon has cleared the tower
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LeeLoo2014 Moderator Posts: 5084 From: Venus cornering Neptune Registered: Mar 2014
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posted August 10, 2014 08:31 AM
I don't have a Scorpio Moon, I have a Leo Moon, but a lot of Scorpio energy in my chart and all I'm trying to say is that you only get one shot with Scorpios. ------------------
I seem to have loved you in numberless forms... IP: Logged |
usc277 Knowflake Posts: 307 From: Registered: Mar 2014
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posted August 10, 2014 09:39 AM
quote: Originally posted by LeeLoo2014: I don't have a Scorpio Moon, I have a Leo Moon, but a lot of Scorpio energy in my chart and all I'm trying to say is that you only get one shot with Scorpios.
I know..am not referring to you, am referring to my x  IP: Logged |
usc277 Knowflake Posts: 307 From: Registered: Mar 2014
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posted August 10, 2014 09:43 AM
I love Leo moons..the women are sexually active..the one I won't ever forget was a Scorpio sun/Leo moon. IP: Logged |
margym0o Knowflake Posts: 113 From: Ontario, Canada Registered: Jul 2014
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posted August 10, 2014 01:22 PM
quote: Originally posted by Leorpio: I wonder if this is what my brother feels. He's a Gemini sun scorp moon too and never talks about his feelings. In fact, he actively shuns them lol.
Sounds about right. Of course it depends on the rest of his chart and how his moon is aspected. The way my moon is aspected makes me more emotionally-charged I believe but there's a baseline depth of feeling there that he probably does try to hide as I would do. IP: Logged |
Taineberry Knowflake Posts: 823 From: Registered: Jun 2011
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posted August 10, 2014 01:34 PM
quote: Originally posted by margym0o: For me as a Gemini Sun, Scorpio Moon I find it a constant battle between head and heart. I can feel torn up on the inside but somehow try and find a "silver lining" or try to intellectualize or justify my feelings. This is more often only an internal dialogue as I try to soothe myself. To others I will appear very calm and collected (though I really feel like screaming), never really truly revealing the depth of my feelings, but I think that is part of it. Usually the red flag to others is when I get very quiet. I will resort to passive-aggressive behaviors as opposed to full on confrontation. I too have been known to "beat a dead horse" so to speak but I think it is my way of satisfying my need to explore the topic in full and resolve every part of it. The unresolved parts are what eat me up. Once I feel satisfied, I will let it go - on the surface. Internally I collect the memories of how a situation made me feel but I wouldn't bring it up again. This is a very tough Moon to handle, but in some ways I love it. I feel so alive. I would rather experience the raw depth of feeling, good or bad than be detached and robotic. Oh and to add, I've never been a heavy drinker or drug user, though I will agree that you need an outlet. I will find ways to distract myself (like study astrology :P) to keep myself from dwelling too much.
I'm also Gemini Sun, Scorpio Moon - and I'm exactly the same! Regarding Jealousy - I have improved with age - in fact I have maybe over-improved as I now don't allow myself to feel any jealousy at all which is a bit weird. Where is it hiding? Under a volcano somewhere? IP: Logged |
LoadedPistil Moderator Posts: 2289 From: NJ, USA Registered: Feb 2014
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posted August 10, 2014 01:59 PM
quote: Originally posted by usc277: She is definitely acting bitter. Its been 7 yrs..she's in her thirties (mature).. She would get over it and act civil you think..
Civil is letting you in her life? Were you civil when you blocked her? You're nobody to her and she's not interested in your friendship. Move on. ------------------ Tarot Readings | Etsy Leo ♌️ Sun, (2nd House), Venus (3nd House) Scorpio ♏ Moon,Mars,Saturn (5th House) Cancer ♋ Rising Svātī Nakshatra IP: Logged |
LoadedPistil Moderator Posts: 2289 From: NJ, USA Registered: Feb 2014
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posted August 10, 2014 02:01 PM
quote: Originally posted by LeeLoo2014: Time doesn't make certain things better.The mistakes you make, are made forever. Bad things are bad things, they don't get better with time, they never become acceptable.
quote: Originally posted by LeeLoo2014: I don't have a Scorpio Moon, I have a Leo Moon, but a lot of Scorpio energy in my chart and all I'm trying to say is that you only get one shot with Scorpios.
------------------ Tarot Readings | Etsy Leo ♌️ Sun, (2nd House), Venus (3nd House) Scorpio ♏ Moon,Mars,Saturn (5th House) Cancer ♋ Rising Svātī Nakshatra IP: Logged |