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Topic: Is it possible to figure a Venus in Pisces intentions out?
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coffeetime
Knowflake Posts: 25
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Registered: Jun 2014
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posted August 11, 2014 04:40 AM
  
Can a man just tell it straight and clear how he feels about a girl he likes?
Or you always have to read between the lines, create threads about what he might think about everything he doesn't tell, here in astrology site...?
When you are in a relationship, it's always clear, it's STATED, you both are in a certain status. You know each other enough to understand and solve problems without putting others opinion in it.
BUT, what should one do if you are in uncertain friendship, in that state where you both just are figuring each other, enjoying talking, kissing...and there comes those first arguing moments, little fights between you. And you are unable to figure it out, because your relationship is based on chatting online, cause the man lives in another country.
I know this is ****** situation and I'm just not sure whether I should even talk about this here. But I can't not think about him.
He says he likes me, we have those cute talks, those sweet nothings (a man makes sure you hooked up on him) and then he just cuts it out. Not replying. Like it never happened or even BETTER- he might forgot me.
Then (we both know that's just a friendship, because there's no guarantee that we will ever meet again) he talks about another girl he likes and asks me to help him with her.
I'm not jealous, of course I know he's meeting another girls. But why do I care?
I like him and I want to keep in touch with him, talk to him.
But then again..he doesn't reply to my messages.
So what should I think? If we were JUST friends like that, I would still write something to him, but now I don't think he even cares about me, so why should I lame myself.What should I think when he clearly shows that he likes me, but stills acts like he doesn't care and then disappears? He has Pisces in Venus. And Sun in Aries. With Libra Moon and Mars in Leo. His Mercury in Aries too. Don't know what to do or think. I really like him and want to clear myself out about him. Should I care? Should I do something? Completely messed. IP: Logged |
nordicsoul
Knowflake Posts: 630
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Registered: Oct 2010
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posted August 11, 2014 02:43 PM
anything that finish in PISCIS is not easy to figure out. same with venus aspecting neptune, piscis moon...IP: Logged |
CatMote
Knowflake Posts: 758
From: Fighting Neptune for his trident
Registered: Apr 2013
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posted August 11, 2014 04:27 PM
ask him.
reading this, i dont think he cares about you. im going to be completely blunt. (as apparently my "piscis" moon is incapable of doing LOL)
hes playing you. what hes doing is putting you on the back burner, he will make sure you like him, then he will go do his thing and when that fails you already like him so youre there to comfort him or whatever. its not right.
actions define people, words dont. even if im wrong, you need to talk to him. ------------------
"Perhaps there are new plateaus to reach, even greater heights to which I must ascend." IP: Logged |
theunknown
Knowflake Posts: 1165
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Registered: Dec 2010
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posted August 11, 2014 04:33 PM
with that mars in leo... the intention should be a lot clearer. If you are still in doubt, you should put him on the back burner as wellIP: Logged |
coffeetime
Knowflake Posts: 25
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Registered: Jun 2014
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posted August 12, 2014 02:27 PM
quote:
Originally posted by CatMote:
ask him.
reading this, i dont think he cares about you. im going to be completely blunt. (as apparently my "piscis" moon is incapable of doing LOL)
hes playing you. what hes doing is putting you on the back burner, he will make sure you like him, then he will go do his thing and when that fails you already like him so youre there to comfort him or whatever. its not right.
actions define people, words dont. even if im wrong, you need to talk to him.
Well, I think you're right. I burned my brains out, so I'm not capable to think easy like this anymore  IP: Logged |
charlie
Knowflake Posts: 2267
From: los angeles, ca, USA
Registered: Jun 2012
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posted August 12, 2014 02:30 PM
Whole lotta questions bout this placement lately  IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
Knowflake Posts: 7744
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Registered: Nov 2011
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posted August 12, 2014 02:36 PM
After a lot of pondering and analyzing... Venus in Pisces isn't hard to figure out. The trick to understanding what they feel is to listen to your heart (NOT your mind!) Pisces naturally connects to the heart even when you're not paying attention to your own vibrations. When you figure out what direction you're going in, and when you figure YOU out better then you'll be able to decipher Pisces.That's astrology and a little common sense combined into one. As for how I feel, no guy that sees you as number one would tell you about another girl. Next, please. IP: Logged |
HappyLoewe
Knowflake Posts: 179
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Registered: Jan 2014
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posted August 12, 2014 03:28 PM
Sorry to read this Coffeetime. However, as hard as it may be, I would cut your losses as this push/pull situ is confusing you more and more. As you state, he talks to you about other girls and, in my experience, when a man does this, he has put you in the friend zone. I think he likes talking to you as you probably resolve a lot of his issues - you are helping him but getting silence in return. This is a one-way street and I would skidaddle outta there hun IP: Logged |
SoujiroSeta
Knowflake Posts: 40
From: Nothingness
Registered: Oct 2013
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posted August 12, 2014 08:24 PM
It's simple.YOU'RE HIS "FALLBACK WHEN ALL ELSE FAILS" GIRL If things don't go well with the girl he's chasing now, he'll use you again to better his emotional state. You're his "feel good about himself" girl. When he's bored and needs attention cause no one else will give it to him: You're it.
When he wants to feel good and see someone go googgly eyed over him: He comes to you. You're his "when I need to feel good" toy. Either get used to it or cut your losses. IP: Logged |
deptic
Knowflake Posts: 147
From: Earth, Raised on Pluto
Registered: Jun 2014
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posted August 12, 2014 08:50 PM
I think that's what a Taurus sun / Pisces moon / Venus in Pisces girl did to me as well. I think I was the fall back guy. To make her feel good about her self. She didn't gaf about me I think. Idk. Just came to mind, maybe I'm wrong. Idk... but when she texts me, my heart would take a deep beat n it would warm. Then I had the gut feelings something was right. But I wasn't following it cuz I was sayin maybe it was just whatever u know? But sadly it wasn't so... IP: Logged |
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