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Topic: Having 0 faith in beauty/appearance
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NeptunianSag
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posted August 12, 2014 03:26 PM
  
Anyone else just think they are not attractive? It is probably true, I rarely even get approached and I think people just laugh at me.Saturn conjunct venus in 4th
Moon in virgo inconjunct saturn It does make me depressed on days. I do make alot of effort, but still feel like it isnt enough. IP: Logged |
Enneline
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posted August 12, 2014 03:28 PM
ME!  I have sun conj. asc though; I should be self-confident and sometimes I am. Maybe it's my venus in the 12 th and Neptune quincunx asc/venus IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
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posted August 12, 2014 05:02 PM
Yep.Virgo Moon conj. Chiron
opp. Saturn Chiron sq. ASC/Moon Venus trine Saturn (yeah "easy" aspect, *cough*) IP: Logged |
amelia28
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posted August 12, 2014 06:24 PM
oh Yeah I am super insecure.I will post some photos I looked over with my friend and coworker today later of before and after pics of actresses involving. I find this an interesting coincidence that she told me to search for this and then we spent like an hour looking at these pics and my face was just in shock. Some are naturally pretty but a lot of them look just like you and I and pretty average without make up or even not attractive. WE live in lie, its crazy. It was quite an eye opener. Here are some:
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NeptunianSag
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posted August 12, 2014 06:33 PM
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Originally posted by amelia28:
oh Yeah I am super insecure.I will post some photos I looked over with my friend and coworker today later of before and after pics of actresses involving. I find this an interesting coincidence that she told me to search for this and then we spent like an hour looking at these pics and my face was just in shock. Some are naturally pretty but a lot of them look just like you and I and pretty average without make up or even not attractive. WE live in lie, its crazy. It was quite an eye opener. Here are some:
I think anyone can look like a model given the right make up artists, stylists, photographers, lighting and photoshop effects. It just makes me laugh when people expect other people to look like this everyday.
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NeptunianSag
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posted August 12, 2014 06:37 PM
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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
Yep.Virgo Moon conj. Chiron
opp. Saturn Chiron sq. ASC/Moon Venus trine Saturn (yeah "easy" aspect, *cough*)
Ouch, that Chiron conjunction. I'm going through a moon Chiron Transit and it feels like my souls being stretched painfully. I wonder if it's a Virgo moon thing to be critical of our appearance? Because we look for flaws. Too bad I can't do anything about my flaws.
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Marandana
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posted August 12, 2014 06:39 PM
Don't forget that makeup is the real life photoshop. And everyone wears nowadays, so don't worry.IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
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posted August 12, 2014 06:42 PM
Women with a Virgo influence are prone to that, IME. I mean, many other women are similar, but Virgo takes it on a whole new level, lol.Yeah Chiron is such a ****!! Dude's like, "Who wants free pain? I'm throwing wounds here, want some? Get this! woosh, a splash of pain, insecurity and awkwardness! yay! smile!" ('-_-) And Chiron transits are no piece of cake, either. amelia,
thanks for posting those. I still don't feel better about myself thou. lol IP: Logged |
athenegoddess
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posted August 12, 2014 06:44 PM
I don't wear any makeup at all but some eye shadow sometimes...
I'm very much into being naturally beautiful. I don't like relying on things and that includes beauty products and stuff.
I think its important to love yourself no matter what. Your true self is perfect, connect to that and you will realize that human imperfection is a lie.
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NeptunianSag
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posted August 12, 2014 06:53 PM
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Originally posted by Marandana:
Don't forget that makeup is the real life photoshop. And everyone wears nowadays, so don't worry.
I do wear make up, but I'm still insecure, it more has to do with my facial features than my blemishes/skin, that's what I hate about my Virgo moon, I overanalyse everything and I think my face is too chubby, asymmetrical ect. But the analysing part makes it way more negative than it is. My body I'm quite happy with, I could gain a few more pounds because I hate being skinny, it's just my face I am totally not happy with, if face transplants existed I'd totally get one lol.
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Doux Rêve
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posted August 12, 2014 07:16 PM
^ omg me too.My body is sorta okay-ish but I too, am skinny (actually no, I'm not skinny, just slim) and lack curves (I don't really mind it though because I don't care about male (or female actually) attention). But my face, nah. The shape and all. I have an asymmetrical face (and body actually) and it makes me insecure. I have other things that add to it but I won't get too into detail! IP: Logged |
sweet-scorpion
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posted August 12, 2014 08:03 PM
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Originally posted by NeptunianSag:
I'm going through a moon Chiron Transit and it feels like my souls being stretched painfully. I wonder if it's a Virgo moon thing to be critical of our appearance? Because we look for flaws. Too bad I can't do anything about my flaws.
I have Moon-Chiron [conjunct] and will be going through a T.Chiron opp. Moon phase in the coming year...it's a challenging aspect certainly. Though it tends to allow you to empathize with others' suffering. Virgo is very critical, and in the Moon, it does seem to push toward criticism of health, the body, eating habits. I was always very body-conscious since a young age. I've always been a restricting type, never a binger [when I've had unhealthy eating habits]. And I doubt my own attractiveness all the time. It doesn't matter that I have Venus-Jupiter, and Jupiter is my ASC ruler. Nothing about how I look is ever good enough for me. IP: Logged |
sweet-scorpion
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posted August 12, 2014 08:04 PM
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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
^ omg me too.My body is sorta okay-ish but I too, am skinny (actually no, I'm not skinny, just slim) and lack curves (I don't really mind it though because I don't care about male (or female actually) attention). But my face, nah. The shape and all. I have an asymmetrical face (and body actually) and it makes me insecure. I have other things that add to it but I won't get too into detail!
I'm sorry you feel similarly to me. /hug/ I scrutinize my features and my body and hate any asymmetry I find. It makes me feel terrible about myself. I want to go to a shrink to learn better methods for self-acceptance. I try to do it on my own, but it isn't working out that well. I have a dream list for the plastic surgery I want. IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme
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posted August 12, 2014 08:15 PM
Not sure if you are really quiet or what but you do seem dissatisfied so I will give advice. Try to be more outgoing. I am also really quiet but it doesn't bother me because after they start talking to me I think now what? So I prefer shyness. If you are unhappy with it you must be the one who approaches them and go from there. IP: Logged |
amelia28
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posted August 12, 2014 08:46 PM
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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
Women with a Virgo influence are prone to that, IME. I mean, many other women are similar, but Virgo takes it on a whole new level, lol.Yeah Chiron is such a ****!! Dude's like, "Who wants free pain? I'm throwing wounds here, want some? Get this! woosh, a splash of pain, insecurity and awkwardness! yay! smile!" ('-_-) And Chiron transits are no piece of cake, either. amelia,
thanks for posting those. I still don't feel better about myself thou. lol
I completely feel how you feel about chiron! Fcuk chiron LOL. Loooove how you described it "Who wants free pain? I am throwing wounds here, want some??" So is virgo and chiron causing the insecurity it seems:
I do have sun in virgo and chiron squares my chart ruler conjunction bt jupiter and uranus and my AC so there you go. I also have transit saturn squaring venus right now which makes me realize saturn/venus is tough! Looking forward to this transit finishing. IP: Logged |
amelia28
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posted August 13, 2014 02:40 PM
*Correction I have chiron opposite my AC and chart ruler conjunction between Jupiter and Uranus in Sag.So is like I go back and forth a lot between insecurity and confidence. That is how it manifests I feel. Plus sun in virgo and chiron in gemini. IP: Logged |
Canadiangirl
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posted August 13, 2014 02:43 PM
I didn't think I was very pretty when I was younger and was never approached. I think several things were affecting my confidence. I had saturn conjunct venus and have several squares to my chiron.My friends at the time would also put down my looks and call me (at best) average so that didn't help. Strangely though, I've become prettier now that I'm older. It still throws me when people comment on my good looks. I usually just blink and say ok. IP: Logged |
ariestaurus
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posted August 13, 2014 02:54 PM
I thought I was hideously ugly when I was younger, but I now know I'm beautiful.I have Venus, Mars, Jupiter (chart ruler) and Neptune in Cap, so perhaps that explains why I'm a late bloomer in the looks department. I was really fat until I was 16, wore glasses, had no self-esteem. Once Pluto crossed my Ascendant, I transformed myself physically, and my confidence followed. I have lots of fire in my chart, so I always knew the potential was there. I actually hate my body, though. Chiron in the 6th. IP: Logged |
ariestaurus
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posted August 13, 2014 02:56 PM
Seems like a lot of you have Venus-Saturn aspects, so you may discover your beauty later on in life. I have the sextile, myself.The Venus-Saturn people I know in real life are really good-looking, but don't seem to 'know' it. It's baffling to me. My ex has Venus sq saturn and he's gorgeous, but didn't seem to acknowledge this. I always told him he was crazy! So hot, he was! IP: Logged |
Enneline
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posted August 13, 2014 03:01 PM
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Originally posted by amelia28:
oh Yeah I am super insecure.I will post some photos I looked over with my friend and coworker today later of before and after pics of actresses involving. I find this an interesting coincidence that she told me to search for this and then we spent like an hour looking at these pics and my face was just in shock. Some are naturally pretty but a lot of them look just like you and I and pretty average without make up or even not attractive. WE live in lie, its crazy. It was quite an eye opener. Here are some:
Yes, sometimes they photos can console you but THE MOST BEAUTIFUL GIRL in the world can be unattractive if she is tired and sick and if the pic's just unflattering IP: Logged |
amelia28
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posted August 13, 2014 03:11 PM
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Originally posted by ariestaurus:
Seems like a lot of you have Venus-Saturn aspects, so you may discover your beauty later on in life. I have the sextile, myself.The Venus-Saturn people I know in real life are really good-looking, but don't seem to 'know' it. It's baffling to me. My ex has Venus sq saturn and he's gorgeous, but didn't seem to acknowledge this. I always told him he was crazy! So hot, he was!
OMG that is soo true LOL My aqua friend is very goodlooking but he is totally insecure and does not realize this at all. He has VENUS CONJUNCT SATURN plus cap rising. Every now and then I text and remind him, throw in some compliments as he does get my heart pumping but he is totally unaware and does not see his attractiveness at all. And me with transit saturn squaring my venus I am dealing with a similar thing and my husband tells me is all in my head. The transit affects my self perception and sex drive which is very low lately. I suppose if you feel attractive and sexy you are prone to be in the mood for sex and vice versa. IP: Logged |
Aries23Degrees
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posted August 13, 2014 04:39 PM
I have Venus conjunct Saturn with Taurus Asc.
I actually appreciate my looks a lot- always have.And now, with the Saturn transit, it seems that there is more to love about the way I look. But I don't believe in the compliments I get from people. I appreciate comments that pertain to intellectual capacity than looks. My BF claims he was attracted to me from a strongly "wowza" point of view. He said I had the "look at me" factor and he couldn't stop himself looking. Well, I have my Sun/Neptune on his angle and so,it can do that. Venus in 12th
Venus conjunction Neptune
Venus conjunct Saturn
Venus in 10th and 7th all these placements can make one doubt just how attractive they really are. Venus on the angle usually makes one very attractive, but its when in the 1st house that the individual "claims" it. Anywhere else, the individual may not be so sure. Venus in 10th house is, for instance, the "beauty queen": She will only believe in her beauty once she has been awarded, is a model or gains notoriety because of it. Its never felt intrinsically at first. IP: Logged |
Canadiangirl
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posted August 13, 2014 04:48 PM
Aries23Degrees:My BF claims he was attracted to me from a strongly "wowza" point of view. I have my Sun/Neptune on his angle and so,it can do that. Venus in 12th
Venus conjunction Neptune
Venus conjunct Saturn
Venus in 10th and 7th all these placements can make one doubt just how attractive they really are. Venus on the angle usually makes one very attractive, but its when in the 1st house that the individual "claims" it. Anywhere else, the individual may not be so sure. --My boyfriend reacted the same way to me, he thinks I'm gorgeous which is nice. I have
venus trine neptune, conjunct saturn and sextile ascendant in 3rd. HA, too funny, my bf has venus trine ascendant and saturn. IP: Logged |
bella_taurus
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posted August 13, 2014 04:56 PM
I have a gap in my front teeth and I HATE IT. I feel like it prevents me from having the confidence to meet someone or to be confident in public because I feel like people are always staring at my mouth. I wish on everything I had the means to close it but I don't. I get so envious of people who have straight teeth. Sometimes, I feel like a monster or a low-life because of my teeth, I'm in good shape and take of myself, but my teeth always remind me of how unattractive I am.IP: Logged |
viiv28
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posted August 13, 2014 05:33 PM
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Originally posted by bella_taurus:
I have a gap in my front teeth and I HATE IT. I feel like it prevents me from having the confidence to meet someone or to be confident in public because I feel like people are always staring at my mouth. I wish on everything I had the means to close it but I don't. I get so envious of people who have straight teeth. Sometimes, I feel like a monster or a low-life because of my teeth, I'm in good shape and take of myself, but my teeth always remind me of how unattractive I am.
Please girl, get a grip. This is considered one of the most attractive features and people in some asian countries have operations to get these teeth. Some flaws in a person bring cuteness and appeal and increase the attractiveness. IP: Logged |
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