posted August 15, 2014 06:43 PM
I dated a Taurus man with this placement and he was very fickle and very inconsistent. When we were dating, he wouldn't contact me for 3 days at a time and he didn't have a cellphone. This is very odd considering the fact that he's in his early twenties.Although his chart is mostly earth and water, he was very fickle when it came to his emotions and promises. I never really knew where I stood with him because one day he was totally captivated by my presence and the next day he would act like I didn't even exist. He also didn't like the word "girlfriend" or "relationship". We went on dates, had sex regularly, and he even went as far as buying me the same necklace he bought his mother for Christmas, but he still didn't want to officially claim me in any way. We were together, but not together if that makes sense. Any time I would bring up commitment or us making it official, he would get defensive and say things like, "I'm not tied to anybody." or "I belong to no one". It was very heartbreaking and discouraging, but I stuck with it until he eventually cut me off without warning on my birthday. A week before that, he had finally told me he loved me back after a year of on and off dating. I guess I scared him away with all of my intensity despite him also being very Plutonian aside from his Venus-Uranus opposition as well as his Moon-Uranus trine. He also had Moon in Taurus opposite Pluto in Scorpio along with his Sun opposite Pluto. His Venus and Mars was in Cancer.
He was very sexy and mysterious, but that Venus-Uranus opposition made things sour between us very fast. It would have never worked out and that's the only reason, in my opinion. He just doesn't want commitment if a forever type of thing despite playing along.
I take him as the type of Taurus to remain in a stable love affair for a brief period (1-2 years tops) and then suddenly and sometimes without warning (in my case), when he loses interest or gets bored, he'll leave. The bad part is, I never seen it coming. I actually didn't know anything about Uranus and its erratic wnergy prior to getting involved with this guy so I'm guessing this was one of the lessons I was supposed to learn from it all. Me being a Scorpio myself with a stellium in Scorpio along with my mars, Pluto, and Sun conjuncting my descendant which is also in scorpio as well as mars conjunct Pluto, that Venus-Uranus opposition cut me deep. It still stings until this day because like I said, I never seen it coming. I just thought he would eventually come around because he was intense and I felt that. I misinterpreted his commitment phobia as just being scared to love. He just doesn't want the same love I want.
Lindaland
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posted August 15, 2014 03:56 PM
posted August 15, 2014 06:43 PM