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Topic: I'm scared of life and the world?
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MiaPluto Knowflake Posts: 385 From: Montreal, Quebec, Canada Registered: Aug 2014
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posted August 16, 2014 12:33 AM
Ever since what pluto did to me, I can't look at the world the same way.I now have social anxiety an depression Life shocked me in such ways that I find nothing shocking anymore, yet sometimes the simplest of things shock me. Nothing feels real anymore. Life feels like a nightmare now. I never new that feelings could be that negative, before now. (Which means since 3-4 years almost). I see people freely having fun, taking nothing really seriously, and that perplexes me now, because I don't understand them, or the person I used to be. I sometimes can't believe I'm the only one who's so cautious of life and the world. I always expect for something negative. Nothing positive happened with me since the last 3 years. My life went upside down, it crushed. It's so much for me to take it that it ends up making me what I have become now - Someone who's delusional, doesn't know the difference between reality and imagination anymore. I don't understand myself anymore. I have gone so far from my true self that now it's no where in my view, and it's hopeless to find. I try my best, to re-become who I was before all that tragedy. I cling to the past, the memories, the friends, the environments, the nicety of the people, my achievements, my self-value that was much better than now. But it has all gone and changed. It's like an irreversible chemical change. It can't be the same again. It's like when a beautiful book has been burned in the fire by accident, and now all that remains is the ashes. I try to look for the evidence in that book as much as I can, of my old self, before it ruined. I try to cling as much as I can to it. But it can never change what has already happened to me, my brain, my mind, me comfort and security, my reality. It has burned it to ashes and that's all I'm left with now. I wish I knew how to make something better out of it. Have you been through what pluto did to you? Have you experiences pluto? I'm 16 right now. It all started when I was 12, and the worst point was when I was late 13 to 14. Now I am recovering from the after effects, but nothing really got realistically much better. Only mentally, do I feel a bit more recovered, but it's a very slow process. I'm going to turn 17 this september. I can't even believe it. xx ------------------ Mia x IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19 Knowflake Posts: 4672 From: Pluto with DeepFreeze Registered: Jul 2013
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posted August 16, 2014 12:43 AM
Sorry I didn't really read your post. Just read the title and had to comment.You're only 17(almost). You still have a looooooooong way to go. Being anoxious and nervous all of the time is a horrible way to live and creates so many problems. Life is too short and when you think of it your life already has a path, a plan for you. Don't stress over things that aren't in your control, s hit happens with or without it anyway. Live your life one day at a time and whatever happens, happens. Why does everything have to revolve around Pluto? You do know that there are 11 other possible causes. Pluto didn't do anything to me, my 12th house did. Your problems sound more like Neptune/12th house related. Anyways I hope you're able to overcome this. Try to stay positive, it really changes things. IP: Logged |
athenegoddess Knowflake Posts: 2481 From: Registered: Aug 2011
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posted August 16, 2014 01:27 AM
I have Moon conjunct Neptune at 8 Capricorn. When Pluto went over this, I experienced a very dramatic change in my consciousness and reality. I discovered everything i thought was real, ISNT real at all but its a huge lie. The most important thing I learned is that the most beautiful souls have the hardest lives, because God knows they are capable of transcending those experiences, and receiving the gifts of being able to heal others from their wisdom. So don't give up. Keep strong and know the soul is all thats real and everything else is a creation by imperfect minds. IP: Logged |
GemBird82 Knowflake Posts: 212 From: Female bird from France Registered: Feb 2014
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posted August 16, 2014 01:46 AM
Same as Barbie. I didn't read anything but... well, taking in count some of your previous posts, I guess I have something to say.You seem to be very predisponed to astrology. I think you are the kind of girl that will develop great astrologic skills in less than 1 year, maybe. ( If you really want to be into it and it's not temporary, of course ). I also think that you have good chances of becoming way more skilled than many people here; of course, with me included. It's the destiny of many of those who have born after 1993. And it would be unwise to deny it. ~ I hope you feel better, I really hope so. =============== But what I've written above, certainly differs with your actual skills and I cannot lie. To be honest, you've been writing "cotidian non-sense" many times. Also, many of your BML descriptions totally sucked.
But since you are 16, it doesn't matter at all. ***************** ~ So, let's be patient until Time pours its blessings upon you.
~ Good Luck. ------------------ ~Il n'est rien de réel que le rêve et l'amour~ IP: Logged |
BellaFenice Knowflake Posts: 1070 From: Pseudo-Leo with a 1st House Stellium Registered: Sep 2013
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posted August 16, 2014 02:41 AM
What did Pluto do to you? Are you referring to a transit?Thats at least what it sounded like to me. You are so young- why so fearful? You have a lot of amazing years ahead of you. IP: Logged |
Plutonian_Gal8 Knowflake Posts: 422 From: Registered: Jan 2014
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posted August 16, 2014 04:37 AM
quote: Originally posted by athenegoddess: I have Moon conjunct Neptune at 8 Capricorn. When Pluto went over this, I experienced a very dramatic change in my consciousness and reality. I discovered everything i thought was real, ISNT real at all but its a huge lie. The most important thing I learned is that the most beautiful souls have the hardest lives, because God knows they are capable of transcending those experiences, and receiving the gifts of being able to heal others from their wisdom. So don't give up. Keep strong and know the soul is all thats real and everything else is a creation by imperfect minds.
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Mango Knowflake Posts: 221 From: Registered: Feb 2013
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posted August 16, 2014 07:59 AM
Pluto did the same thing to me for 3 years when transit Pluto went over my IC. I don't even remember anything during that period. Thank god it all went away and I'm better now. Transit Uranus trine my sun saved meIP: Logged |
libran_dream Knowflake Posts: 150 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted August 16, 2014 09:15 AM
Just really quick advice. If you really think it's your Pluto that's making you unbalanced - turn to its opposite to balance it. It's the only way, in a sense. Occupy yourself with pure Taurean things: learn to garden, work with plants, learn to cook, spend time with animals, introduce a workout system into your life(beginner weight-lifting would be best), learn to physically take care of yourself and others who need your help.IP: Logged |
MiaPluto Knowflake Posts: 385 From: Montreal, Quebec, Canada Registered: Aug 2014
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posted August 16, 2014 09:21 AM
quote: Originally posted by libran_dream: Just really quick advice. If you really think it's your Pluto that's making you unbalanced - turn to its opposite to balance it. It's the only way, in a sense. Occupy yourself with pure Taurean things: learn to garden, work with plants, learn to cook, spend time with animals, introduce a workout system into your life(beginner weight-lifting would be best), learn to physically take care of yourself and others who need your help.
That's a really good idea! I will try to do these things. By your username, I see you have libra in you that gives you the idea to balance things. Thank you so much! x ------------------ Mia x IP: Logged |
libran_dream Knowflake Posts: 150 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted August 16, 2014 09:46 AM
quote: Originally posted by MiaPluto: That's a really good idea! I will try to do these things.By your username, I see you have libra in you that gives you the idea to balance things. Thank you so much! x
:bighug: If you're interested in planting, check out some sites where they advise on what to plant when, and there are lots of resources on cooking on the web, complete with video instructions. (if you like Italian food, check out "Laura in the Kitchen" on youtube! wonderful lady, good instructions, delicious food, very popular channel)I'm sure your family will be very happy when you make a nice meal for you all! IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 56631 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted August 16, 2014 09:52 AM
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Comatoes Knowflake Posts: 239 From: Registered: Jan 2014
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posted August 16, 2014 05:22 PM
As humans we may be limited in how much we can change our lives, but we have the courage and resources to keep pushing forward, never give up, no matter how you feel, there is always positives no matter what happens to us. When I was young, I was very serious and felt misunderstood, of course our charts predispose us to behaving in certain ways, but we can always work on things in our own time. But anyways, I had a near death experience when I was 14, the doctors gave me too much anesthesia and I nearly died. But after this happened to me, I begin to see things in a whole new way. It still has taken me years and years to build my self-confidence and to get things rolling. But I've had a lot of life experiences since this time that have been useful. In your situation you seemed to feel this much more earlier than most. Transits or going through things changes you, and in some ways can make you better understand your life. You will get this chance to feel better, you just have to take it day by day, and know that things will look up eventually. It takes us awhile to get over devastating things, don't rush it, just let it flow over you, and do things in your own time.
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ash20 Knowflake Posts: 651 From: Registered: Mar 2013
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posted August 16, 2014 05:41 PM
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Aries23Degrees Knowflake Posts: 997 From: South Africa Registered: Dec 2012
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posted August 17, 2014 05:57 AM
quote: Originally posted by MiaPluto: Ever since what pluto did to me, I can't look at the world the same way.I now have social anxiety an depression Life shocked me in such ways that I find nothing shocking anymore, yet sometimes the simplest of things shock me. Nothing feels real anymore. Life feels like a nightmare now. I never new that feelings could be that negative, before now. (Which means since 3-4 years almost). I see people freely having fun, taking nothing really seriously, and that perplexes me now, because I don't understand them, or the person I used to be. I sometimes can't believe I'm the only one who's so cautious of life and the world. I always expect for something negative. Nothing positive happened with me since the last 3 years. My life went upside down, it crushed. It's so much for me to take it that it ends up making me what I have become now - Someone who's delusional, doesn't know the difference between reality and imagination anymore. I don't understand myself anymore. I have gone so far from my true self that now it's no where in my view, and it's hopeless to find. I try my best, to re-become who I was before all that tragedy. I cling to the past, the memories, the friends, the environments, the nicety of the people, my achievements, my self-value that was much better than now. But it has all gone and changed. It's like an irreversible chemical change. It can't be the same again. It's like when a beautiful book has been burned in the fire by accident, and now all that remains is the ashes. I try to look for the evidence in that book as much as I can, of my old self, before it ruined. I try to cling as much as I can to it. But it can never change what has already happened to me, my brain, my mind, me comfort and security, my reality. It has burned it to ashes and that's all I'm left with now. I wish I knew how to make something better out of it. Have you been through what pluto did to you? Have you experiences pluto? I'm 16 right now. It all started when I was 12, and the worst point was when I was late 13 to 14. Now I am recovering from the after effects, but nothing really got realistically much better. Only mentally, do I feel a bit more recovered, but it's a very slow process. I'm going to turn 17 this september. I can't even believe it. xx
Everything sound so absolute and final I am really concerned for you. But really,it does get better.I didn't know this at 18/17 either, but it really, really does. I think that this subject of "living" is on a serious tone for you right now. Have you tried going to where it feels comfortable? Looking for relief in doing things that bring about a sense of "ease"?
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