posted August 20, 2014 03:10 AM
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Originally posted by AlexDern:
It's in the late seventh early eighth in capricron depending on the house system.Please do tell, how has this played out for you?
The 8th house is much like the 2nd house. It speaks of resources too, but not those that "belong" to you but those that are shared.
What do I mean by this?Well,you don't have to be a millionaire to have the effects of this house play out.They play out everyday actually.
1. When out with friends,do you keep a tab on how much you spent vs your friends.? With Neptune in 8th, it is likely that you end up paying to cover others -even though you didn't order as much.
But when you go out with the same friends again and order more, they pay for you but also expect you to pay them back later.
2.When you move in with someone. How would you best handle the sharing of income? Who gets to buy what, when and how much? etc.
It is likely that with Neptune in 8th, you spend in "good faith" and do what you can. The problem with this is that you end up doing a lot more than your room-mate and don't know it.
Your roommate can even insist that you go 50/50.This despite you buying ad hoc things that run out throughout the month.And not asking to be "reimbursed" by the same person who enjoys them.
3.When being intimate with a partner, do you find that your own sexual needs are rarely satisfied? With Neptune in 8th you may find yourself doing more to be "submissive" to your partners needs and scratching their proverbial itch.Thinking that if you please them, you please yourself etc.
But they lack the same sensitivity in doing the same with you.They may even be very selfish and insist on using you for their own personal sexual gratification. As if you are there to meet their needs only etc.
4. At work, do you find yourself sharing your staple, your paper clips and other stationery.Yet you rarely keep account as to whom you lent, how much and when?
Neptune in 8th can have the effect of you assuming that you can take other people's stationery and they won't have a problem with you lending it.
Problem is, many do and will hold you accountable should their "stuff" get lost or be broken They remember the details that you don't.
When it comes to Neptune in 8th, in the area of shared resources, your views are "blurred" and you do not keep track.