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Topic: People with alot of squares and oppositions are they very complicated ?
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Dreaminess Knowflake Posts: 886 From: norway Registered: Aug 2014
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posted August 23, 2014 10:40 AM
how do you people with alot of good aspects "view" people with alot of hard aspects? Do you find them to be very complicated ? and people with hard aspects how do you view others with hard aspects?IP: Logged |
Yanmorg Knowflake Posts: 1243 From: Registered: Feb 2013
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posted August 23, 2014 11:03 AM
Yes ma'am, Yes I am.IP: Logged |
theunknown Knowflake Posts: 2745 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted August 23, 2014 11:10 AM
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Dreaminess Knowflake Posts: 886 From: norway Registered: Aug 2014
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posted August 23, 2014 11:11 AM
Yanmorg how do you view others with hard aspects?theunknown the same for you, how do you view others with hard aspects? IP: Logged |
m.blade Knowflake Posts: 968 From: Registered: Mar 2013
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posted August 23, 2014 11:32 AM
I have a grand cross and a t-square in my chart. I have a few positive aspects.For instance, my venus is trine jupiter and my moon and mercury trine pluto. These tend to calm me down and see things for how they really are. My brothers chart is full of positive aspects. He's really from a young age very oriented towards the future. He is hard working. He sees me as a bit melancholic. Probably a bit depressed xD IP: Logged |
Dreaminess Knowflake Posts: 886 From: norway Registered: Aug 2014
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posted August 23, 2014 11:36 AM
m.blade what is your moon sign?IP: Logged |
next to neptune Knowflake Posts: 2703 From: The Moon Registered: Aug 2013
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posted August 23, 2014 04:10 PM
I have mostly oppositions and squares, only a few good aspects to my venus and pluto, and a few conjunctions…What can I say… I don't feel that complicated, it's just my life that is complicated sometimes… I feel I am very unlucky and always run into problems everywhere, that I have to tackle one way or another… my life is never easy and something new always happens… but I can also smile and be happy, and I got great friends too and a nice boyfriend<3 It could be worse than this! IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 66191 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted August 23, 2014 04:13 PM
I have no oppositions and only a few generational squares. Doux says this makes me objective. I need to be with all the harassment I get ------------------ Want To Ask Any Question About Bible Prophecy? Go For it. It is Free, of course. http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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Gemini Blues Knowflake Posts: 976 From: The future... or the past. I get them confused... Registered: May 2014
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posted August 23, 2014 04:21 PM
Two tight T-squares and a Grand Water Trine, all tied together in one way or another. Add to that my Gemini 8th house sun and Scorp Asc...As a teen, before I knew much about astrology, I used to say of some people that they were "flat", as in two dimensional or (I suppose) shallow. Going the other direction, I think many people don't see all if me, that they go only on their first impression, or worse, their preconception of me and miss the rest. IP: Logged |
Geeky Knowflake Posts: 1679 From: the Sun, vacation house on Mercury Registered: Dec 2012
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posted August 24, 2014 05:01 AM
I have...Sun Square Neptune Sun Square Moon Uranus Square Ascendant Moon Square Saturn Moon Square Mercury Venus Square Jupiter Mars Square Jupiter Saturn Square Neptune Uranus Opposition Midheaven Yes, I am complicated, sometimes contradictory & often quite emotional. However, as someone else stated, I feel it's outside influence. My circumstances and the situations around me have been so crappy that it's practically unbelievable. I've often wondered, "who can be dealt a hand so crappy?" but then I feel guilty complaining when I don't have third world problems. ------------------ “Most people would rather be sheep than stand on their own with antlers on.” IP: Logged |
next to neptune Knowflake Posts: 2703 From: The Moon Registered: Aug 2013
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posted August 24, 2014 05:05 AM
quote: Originally posted by Geeky:
However, as someone else stated, I feel it's outside influence. My circumstances and the situations around me have been so crappy that it's practically unbelievable. I've often wondered, "who can be dealt a hand so crappy?" but then I feel guilty complaining when I don't have third world problems.
Yeah I feel the same way. If a person walks on the road and is inches from sliding in a banana, but would never notice that, I would be the person to notice the banana on the road, but STILL has to slide in it, even if I am careful not to. IP: Logged |
bansheequeen unregistered
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posted August 24, 2014 01:50 PM
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Geeky Knowflake Posts: 1679 From: the Sun, vacation house on Mercury Registered: Dec 2012
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posted August 24, 2014 03:07 PM
quote: Originally posted by bansheequeen: I knew someone that has pretty much all squares and oppositions in his chart. Like everything was red.he was incredibly pushy and abrasive. He rubbed me the wrong way. He was a really driven person but would thro a tantrum if things didn't go his way. He was very dynamic for sure, but to me he came across as trying too hard.
Sounds like a male version of me & I find that people are very polarized by me (love me or really hate me). ------------------ “Most people would rather be sheep than stand on their own with antlers on.” IP: Logged |
lalalinda Moderator Posts: 4703 From: nevada Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 24, 2014 03:13 PM
Hello Dreaminess! Welcome to LL ------------------
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Dreaminess Knowflake Posts: 886 From: norway Registered: Aug 2014
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posted August 24, 2014 03:44 PM
lalalinda, thank you IP: Logged |
Dreaminess Knowflake Posts: 886 From: norway Registered: Aug 2014
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posted August 24, 2014 04:06 PM
I have hard aspects to all my personal planets even my ascendant and i am literally a walking contradictionary, i dont understand myself.I have never seen a chart like mine with hard aspects to every single personal planet, i am used to seeing charts that might for example have hard aspects to their sun and maybe mars but the other planets receives good ones but with me its EVERY single personal planet..will we ever meet someone that will understand us,will WE ever understand ourselves?IP: Logged |
next to neptune Knowflake Posts: 2703 From: The Moon Registered: Aug 2013
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posted August 24, 2014 04:22 PM
quote: Originally posted by Dreaminess: I have hard aspects to all my personal planets even my ascendant and i am literally a walking contradictionary, i dont understand myself.I have never seen a chart like mine with hard aspects to every single personal planet, i am used to seeing charts that might for example have hard aspects to their sun and maybe mars but the other planets receives good ones but with me its EVERY single personal planet.Will we ever meet someone that will understand us,will WE ever understand ourselves?
You should see my chart. My house positions and sign placements are bad too. My chart is really, really, really bad. The only good thing about my chart is venus. Ok, and then my venus is in scorpio, so it's not even good anyways. My jupiter is in Cancer, so that is a nice sign placement after all. But then my jupiter is opposite saturn, square moon, mercury and placed in house 12. The problem is chiron is also here, so it kinda takes the effect from jupiter away. And that was the "good" parts of my chart. The rest is even worse! IP: Logged |
theunknown Knowflake Posts: 2745 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted August 24, 2014 05:51 PM
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Yanmorg Knowflake Posts: 1243 From: Registered: Feb 2013
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posted August 24, 2014 06:05 PM
quote: Originally posted by Dreaminess: Yanmorg how do you view others with hard aspects?theunknown the same for you, how do you view others with hard aspects?
Very hard to get to know. Cautious. Malicious.
It really just depends on what hard aspects we're referring to. A guy with a moon-uranus square, mercury-uranus opposition, and a Venus-Uranus trine (This is considered a negative aspect in my eyes) was very flighty, fickle, and inconsistent with his feelings, his time, and his relationships. A few guys I know who either have a Venus-Saturn square or a moon-Saturn hard aspect are very hard to penetrate emotionally because they're so guarded. I had fairly long-term relationships (my only two) with two guys who had an opposition between mars and neptune. From what I've seen, this aspect makes others question their character. Their actions are hard to Define and they often escape reality. Very deceitful. I personally love Pluto aspects, good and bad, but the one is just can't tolerate on any level is a hard aspect between the moon and Pluto. This aspect creates an impenetrable wall emotionally which makes it nearly impossible for those individuals to really let go, trust, and form intimate relationships. Even with my Scorpio stellium, Pluto as my 7th house ruler, Scorpio descendant, mars/Pluto conjunction, I still find this aspect very unpleasant. IP: Logged |
Yanmorg Knowflake Posts: 1243 From: Registered: Feb 2013
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posted August 24, 2014 06:12 PM
To answer your question in more detail, I have a Scorpio sellium in my 6th house with mostly squares, oppositions, and conjunctions between Saturn and Pluto.I am very cautious, intense, and serious. Although my moon-uranus square allows me to let loose sometimes, I'm still pretty cut n' dry when it comes to my habits, emotions, Etc. I embrace all of my hard aspects because it's helping me build my character and become a strong individual, both mentally and emotionally. There are times where I go into hiding and hate the world, but those times are rare and pass quickly anyway. Once you embrace your struggles and learn to see the positive side, the megative side doesn't seem so bad. Writing, reading, and my imagination has helped me get through a lot of hard times. It's all a matter of perspective. I am sometimes hard to deal with on a personal level because very stern and moody, but those who have stuck by me are the ones worth keeping. My life isn't any more difficult that say, someone with a lot of tribes and sextiles.. the only difference is, they probably don't live in their head! It's a constant internal struggle between my heart, mind, and instincts. I find myself worrying about the most minor issues. I just tend to overthink and overreact. IP: Logged |
BellaFenice Knowflake Posts: 3402 From: Neptune with PisceanDream, Faith, and Meissieri Registered: Sep 2013
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posted August 24, 2014 06:37 PM
I think so. I sometimes do not fully understand myself.IP: Logged |
infinite.nebula Knowflake Posts: 265 From: Registered: Nov 2013
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posted August 24, 2014 07:10 PM
I have enough opposition's and enough squares I would probably be considered complicatedIP: Logged |
Dreaminess Knowflake Posts: 886 From: norway Registered: Aug 2014
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posted August 24, 2014 07:38 PM
quote: Originally posted by next to neptune: You should see my chart. My house positions and sign placements are bad too. My chart is really, really, really bad. The only good thing about my chart is venus. Ok, and then my venus is in scorpio, so it's not even good anyways. My jupiter is in Cancer, so that is a nice sign placement after all. But then my jupiter is opposite saturn, square moon, mercury and placed in house 12. The problem is chiron is also here, so it kinda takes the effect from jupiter away. And that was the "good" parts of my chart. The rest is even worse!
Haha next to neptune i feel ya. But i heard jupiter in 12th is actually good, i read somewhere with jupiter in the 12th that you might have a invisible protector, like an guardian angel that protects you in life, do you feel this? IP: Logged |
Dreaminess Knowflake Posts: 886 From: norway Registered: Aug 2014
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posted August 24, 2014 07:41 PM
quote: Originally posted by Yanmorg: To answer your question in more detail, I have a Scorpio sellium in my 6th house with mostly squares, oppositions, and conjunctions between Saturn and Pluto.I am very cautious, intense, and serious. Although my moon-uranus square allows me to let loose sometimes, I'm still pretty cut n' dry when it comes to my habits, emotions, Etc. I embrace all of my hard aspects because it's helping me build my character and become a strong individual, both mentally and emotionally. There are times where I go into hiding and hate the world, but those times are rare and pass quickly anyway. Once you embrace your struggles and learn to see the positive side, the megative side doesn't seem so bad. Writing, reading, and my imagination has helped me get through a lot of hard times. It's all a matter of perspective. I am sometimes hard to deal with on a personal level because very stern and moody, but those who have stuck by me are the ones worth keeping. My life isn't any more difficult that say, someone with a lot of tribes and sextiles.. the only difference is, they probably don't live in their head! It's a constant internal struggle between my heart, mind, and instincts. I find myself worrying about the most minor issues. I just tend to overthink and overreact.
I understand what you mean with the internal struggle between heart,mind and instincts.I too worry about minor issues and i have problems with obsessions, i can easily form an obsession with something or someone so i am careful of what i start focusing on. Its like i cant focus on something/someone without getting obsessed.People have questioned my character and intensions when i really dont have any bad intensions but they tend to assume i have, i dont know what i do or say that makes people insecure with me but i think neptunians have the `ability` to confuse people, delude others without trying sometimes.People tend to put their most beautiful fantasies and their worst nightmares on us. I have sun and mars square neptune and moon opposite neptune and i can feel their insecurity with me, like they dont know where they "have" me and this is so annoying bc whether i talk or am quiet or whatever i am doing people will still question me.Even with people that dont know me quickly assume something about me, that something about me is off and i dont have to open my mouth even to make them belive that.
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Canadiangirl Knowflake Posts: 883 From: Canada Registered: Nov 2013
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posted August 25, 2014 01:54 PM
I have a lot of squares and oppositions in my chart and have struggled quite a bit in life as well. I do think that being a very private person and not asking for what I want and need hasn't helped me. Now that I'm older and am more confident I do ask people I know for help and my life has gone more smoothly. When people don't know your struggling they can't help you or at least give you advice to help you. Most people want to help out others and may give you great advice that you never would have thought of yourself.I have had people say I'm complicated and hard to read though but I think that's me being very private. This almost feels like a public service message. IP: Logged |