posted August 24, 2014 12:21 PM            

For instance im a scorpio sun mars in cancer and im a very nurturing protective sentimental person when it comes to love but than im also very probing,sexual and focus all my energy intensely on that one person sort of like mars in scorpio but for the most part i show more of my mars but the sun deff colors the expression

posted August 25, 2014 03:03 PM            

I have been thinking this for a while now.

I definitely use a mix of Sun in Sag and Mars in Lib when pursuing someone.

Sometimes Lib can be too "chilled" and Sag is like "come on already"!

Sometimes Sag can be too pushy and Lib is like "relax, it'll come to you." etc.

Have you noticed this "switch" in sex too? Because I have. I guess if they are contradictory energies, it can be quite a confusing signal one gives to their partner.Lol

There is also the "compatibility" issue. I have noticed that many people I have drawn to me have their Sun aspecting my Mars.

Or it could be the other way; that their Mars aspects my Sun.

Bravo!

posted August 25, 2014 04:21 PM            

I'm also a Sag sun / Mars Libra but my love style is much more about my Scorpio asc/Venus. I'm either all in or all out. No Libra Mars on the fence-ness.

But my x had his Mars conj my sun exact and the guy I'm seeing now has his sun square my Mars.

posted August 25, 2014 04:36 PM            

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Originally posted by LucieLemonade:
Don't know. Could this be a male vs female thing?

I'm also a Sag sun / Mars Libra but my love style is much more about my Scorpio asc/Venus. I'm either all in or all out. No Libra Mars on the fence-ness.

But my x had his Mars conj my sun exact and the guy I'm seeing now has his sun square my Mars.

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I think it could work both ways.

Society is changing and now women often pursue men if that man tends to be their love interest.

But for those on the "receiving end";

1.Do you often prefer a guy not to be too assertive when approaching you?

2.Is it more comfortable for you to move into friendship first than full blown romance?

3.Do you prefer sharing the bill or taking turns picking where you go out?

posted August 25, 2014 04:38 PM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
Dude!!! Get out of my head.

I have been thinking this for a while now.

I definitely use a mix of Sun in Sag and Mars in Lib when pursuing someone.

Sometimes Lib can be too "chilled" and Sag is like "come on already"!

Sometimes Sag can be too pushy and Lib is like "relax, it'll come to you." etc.

Have you noticed this "switch" in sex too? Because I have. I guess if they are contradictory energies, it can be quite a confusing signal one gives to their partner.Lol

There is also the "compatibility" issue. I have noticed that many people I have drawn to me have their Sun aspecting my Mars.

Or it could be the other way; that their Mars aspects my Sun.

Bravo!

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I notice that as well especially people who have sun square mars they pursue/show love in two different styles my ex was a libra sun/cancer mars and she could be very flirtatious and charming like a libra mars but than also very sensitive/passionate like a cancer mars

Also i agree on what you said about the people you draw to yourself i realize that whenever my mars aspects somebodys sun/moon they are more sexually attracted/drawn to me, i usually snap my neck seeing a girl who has scorp mars conjunct my sun and especially leo and aquarius mars when they square my sun, i did charts of a lot of crushes that i have had on girls and literally like 85% of the time there mars aspected my sun or moon but mostly its "always" leo mars squaring my sun i kno like 4 girls who have leo mars exactly squaring my sun and sexually they drive me crazy lmao

posted August 25, 2014 05:14 PM            

I attract TONS of Sun/Moon in Libra folks. And I'm not kidding..TONS. Coz my Mars is in Libra.I get that.

So what you are saying is that Mars is the "sexiness" here. It is the one that is attracting the Sun and Moon positions.

So since my Sun is in Sagittarius and Moon is in Cancer,I should be breaking my back trying to get the attention of those who have Mars in Sag/Cancer??

But what about Venus? Are we neglecting her role in all this? Is she part of the "courting"?

posted August 25, 2014 06:32 PM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:

But for those on the "receiving end";

1.Do you often prefer a guy not to be too assertive when approaching you?

2.Is it more comfortable for you to move into friendship first than full blown romance?

3.Do you prefer sharing the bill or taking turns picking where you go out?

4. Do you like it when a guy considers the "other" point of view i.e is empathetic to women's views, social injustice, racial inequality? etc.

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I love assertive men! Not aggressive, thirsty men...but I very much like a man who goes after what he wants. I think most women do.

I definitely enjoy taking things slowly and being friends first. I want my partner to be my best friend, my ultimate confidante! My lover, my teacher, etc. All of that!

That "taking turns" nonsense is for the birds. I'm traditional in that sense. Don't pursue me and then hand me the bill. WTF?? If a woman offers, that's one thing...but a man should never *expect* a woman to pay IMO.

I absolutely respect a man who sees the "other" point of view. I don't associate w/ people who are devoid of empathy, fairness or common sense. Nope!

posted August 25, 2014 06:47 PM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
Wait...Shut the door! Shut the freakin door!!

I attract TONS of Sun/Moon in Libra folks. And I'm not kidding..TONS. Coz my Mars is in Libra.I get that.

So what you are saying is that Mars is the "sexiness" here. It is the one that is attracting the Sun and Moon positions.

So since my Sun is in Sagittarius and Moon is in Cancer,I should be breaking my back trying to get the attention of those who have Mars in Sag/Cancer??

But what about Venus? Are we neglecting her role in all this? Is she part of the "courting"?

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Yup! Just like for me i always attract tons of cancer sun/moon signs
Since your a sag sun and cancer moon i bet you see Sag/virgo/pisces/gemini mars attractive since those signs either conjunct/square or oppose your sun of course you would find other fire mars attractive as well because of the chances of a trine my good friend is a virgo mars and he has sag suns drool over him lmao that square from his mars to there sun always attracts them

And same goes for your cancer moon other cancer /aries/libra and caps mars should be somewhat attractive to you

Venus plays a big role to but i notice people whos venus aspect my sun/moon it makes me have loving feelings toward them like i want to be with them and i care about them a little more than people whos venus does not aspect me im a scorpio sun and i always really "like" scorpio venus but its different its more like i like them as a person and i like there values and personality more but not sexual attraction, i notice that with sagittarius suns/moons since im a sag venus they usual "like" me as a person its not the same when there mars hits me it boils passion and sexual attraction in the synastry and venus creates more harmony and loving feelings that lead to an actual relationship

Im not saying these are facts just my observations im in college and meet ALOT of people so i do tons of birth charts especially couples birthcharts and people who "hook up" birthcharts as well and i really notice my biggest crushes and other peoples biggest crushes are for the most part mars aspecting sun/moon and "sometimes" mars/venus conjunctions

posted August 25, 2014 08:37 PM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
[B] I think it could work both ways.

Society is changing and now women often pursue men if that man tends to be their love interest.

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Actually. Now that I think about it more, with this guy I'm seeing it's all really quite chill and I love that. I just feel relaxed and que sera sera about the whole thing with him.

And, then other times, yes, my Sag sun just wants to be with him already! So, I've gone full circle! You are right. (Such a Mars Libra thing to do. ) But once we've decided we want to be together it's all in or all out and I won't open my heart until I feel the other person is there with me.

Having said that, with the Taurus guy from last year, it was all very Scorpio. Which I think is just my own way of sensing something is not right. When I get jealous and possessive and stalker-y, I just know I need to move on because there is a fundamental lack of trust.

1.Do you often prefer a guy not to be too assertive when approaching you?
I love direct and assertive. I hate having to guess if someone is interested. But I don't like excessive flowery flattery and compliments. It usually comes off fake.

2.Is it more comfortable for you to move into friendship first than full blown romance?
I have to be connected with him on an intellectual level before I can progress to Love. But there has to be a physical attraction right away or else he'll fall into the friend zone. No one comes out of the friend zone.

3.Do you prefer sharing the bill or taking turns picking where you go out?
The man always pays. I know that's horrible! But that's how I was raised. Even my brothers still pay for me all the time.

4. Do you like it when a guy considers the "other" point of view i.e is empathetic to women's views, social injustice, racial inequality? etc.
I like men who are open minded and very intelligent. Can talk about anything and everything. So, I personally think that comes with the territory. They don't have to be social crusaders though.

posted August 26, 2014 07:46 AM            

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Originally posted by LovelyAries86:
I love assertive men! Not aggressive, thirsty men...but I very much like a man who goes after what he wants. I think most women do.

I definitely enjoy taking things slowly and being friends first. I want my partner to be my best friend, my ultimate confidante! My lover, my teacher, etc. All of that!

That "taking turns" nonsense is for the birds. I'm traditional in that sense. Don't pursue me and then hand me the bill. WTF?? If a woman offers, that's one thing...but a man should never *expect* a woman to pay IMO.

I absolutely respect a man who sees the "other" point of view. I don't associate w/ people who are devoid of empathy, fairness or common sense. Nope!

I'm Aries Sun, Cap Mars.

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LOL I see you are still clinging to the traditional role than a Man must adhere to.

But this questionnaire was for someone who had Libra Mars not Capricorn.

posted August 26, 2014 08:14 AM            

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Originally posted by Supreme cT:
Yup! Just like for me i always attract tons of Cancer sun/Moon signs
Since your a Sag sun and cancer moon I bet you see Sag/Virgo/Pisces/Gemini Mars attractive; since those signs either conjunct/square or oppose your Sun.

Of course you would find other fire Mars attractive as well because of the chances of a trine.

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Yes this is true.I dated someone who had Virgo Venus/Mars conjunct nataly squaring my Sun.

My Mars also conjunct their Sun/Moon in Libra exact.

The relationship brought out the worst in us both. It was FIRE constantly; screaming matches, jealousy and a constant need to want to be together. We couldn't get enough of each other and NEVER wanted to share each other.

It was exciting but very turbulent and consuming.I had to move on-reluctantly so..

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Originally posted by Supreme cT:
My good friend is a Virgo mars and he has Sag suns drool over him lmao that square from his Mars to there sun always attracts them.

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An ex colleague had his Mars squaring my Sun.We fought a lot.I guess this energy can manifest in either anger or attraction.

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Originally posted by Supreme cT:
And same goes for your Cancer moon, other Cancer/Aries/Libra and Caps mars should be somewhat attractive to you

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Cancer Mars people come across as "fierce".I don't usually try something with them but admire-from a distance.

I avoid Aries Mars.But then again,this could be because I have Libra Mars nataly squaring my Moon in Cancer. They are just too brusque for me.

So since I have Libra Mars nataly squaring my Moon in Cancer. Does this mean that I arouse myself? I find myself attractive? Lol

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Originally posted by Supreme cT:
Venus plays a big role to but i notice people whose Venus aspect my sun/moon it makes me have loving feelings toward them like i want to be with them and i care about them a little more than people whose Venus does not aspect me.

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Oh yes.Lived with a Scorpio Sun/Venus in Sagittarius and it was swell.I really didn't see why there was such a big scare hype over Scorpio Sun people.

His Sun conjunct my Venus in Scorpio and my Sun conjunct his Venus in Sagittarius. It was really swell.Great roomy he was.

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Originally posted by Supreme cT:
I'm a Scorpio sun and i always really "like" Scorpio Venus but its different its more like i like them as a person and i like there values and personality more but not sexual attraction,i notice that with Sagittarius suns/moons since I'm a Sag Venus they usual "like" me as a person.

Its not the same when their Mars hits me,it boils passion and sexual attraction in the synastry and Venus creates more harmony and loving feelings that lead to an actual relationship.

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Oh okay.This would explain why I dated a Taurus whose Sun opposed my Venus.I thought we'd be together for a long time.I love these connections too.

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Originally posted by Supreme cT:
I'm not saying these are facts just my observations I'm in college and meet A LOT of people so i do tons of birth charts especially couples birth-charts and people who "hook up" birth-charts as well and i really notice my biggest crushes and other peoples biggest crushes are for the most part mars aspecting sun/moon and "sometimes" Mars/Venus conjunctions.

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I think you are right actually. You have the data to back up your theory. I never did the research with other people, just people around me etc. and it sure worked out too.

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Originally posted by Supreme cT:
Sometimes i will really be attracted to a girl and when i look at the synastry her Mars is hitting my personal planets and my Mars doesn't hit any of hers and she isn't as attracted as i am.That's why i believe Mars is very important in overall attraction

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Really? You think the attraction is only one way? Its not reciprocated by the Mars person if their Sun/Moon forms no aspect to your personal planets? Need to confirm this for myself though.

I hear the conjunctions,squares and oppositions in close aspect.But what about those without aspects?Say those who have their Venus in Sag but form no aspect to my Sun.

I have friends who have this position but I have never delved into it.I just explored the close aspects.

I like the sextiles and trines too.They go so easily towards the nice places-without the added tension.