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misslani
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posted August 27, 2014 01:35 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for misslani     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
About 2 years ago, a friend of mine was suffering from a major depression, one of the reasons was that he was single. It didn't really bother him that he was single as much as it bothered him that he was lonely. He met this chick and a few months later, she got pregnant, so they married within a month of finding out. Even 2 days before the wedding, I talked to him and he was still depressed, though he spoke as if he "made peace" with his fate or something. I asked him whether he would've married her (btw, she's really nice and all) if she weren't pregnant, he wasn't sure. He loves her, but he also craves excitement.

He's Taurus or Gemini Ascendant (not sure; he was born on cusp, doesn't know the precise time of birth and shows traits of both) Gemini Sun, Cancer Venus and Moon in Leo. His Uranus is in 7th house.

Which side of his nature do you think could prevail? His nurturing, family - orientated Venus or his unconventional, freedom - loving Uranus?

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Aries23Degrees
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posted August 27, 2014 01:51 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aries23Degrees     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
This is interesting as I can relate to your friend.

I also have Uranus in 7th.It was almost in the 8th house and I'm trying to figure out what the nature of depression stems from? As I also have severe bouts of depression and have had them all my life.

Are we depressed because of external manifestations not happening? i.e No job, no money, no love-life, no family, loss etc.

Or are we depressed in spite of having all of these things?

Coz your friend did draw a distinction between being single AND being lonely. He noted that they are not the same. BRAVO!!

But he put a bandage on a deeper wound by thinking that having someone would provide a shortcut to happiness.

He got married to her because she offered him "relief": Relief from thinking about how lonely he is.That is not the same as being in love.

With Uranus in 7th, one desires freedom above all else in relationships.There is also heightened restlessness and an aversion towards all that is conventional in partnerships.

I don't think this marriage will last as he wasn't optimistic going into it in the 1st place.

The problem with your friend is more internal.He,like me, wants momentum.

This marriage may offer a temporary distraction by having him be "busy" and not introspect so much. But when the dust settles and it becomes more predictable, he'll find that little(in him)has changed.

I suggest that he seek counsel.Or else he find a way to find another distraction that will last even longer.I am doing that myself because like him,my problem is more internal.

I am doing my best in the current relationship to be honest. But I can't guarantee that it'll last and wouldn't want it to if it starts to bore me.

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