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Topic: People with moon/neptune aspects.do you have boundary issues when it comes to emotion
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Dreaminess Knowflake Posts: 117 From: norway Registered: Aug 2014
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posted August 27, 2014 05:45 PM
Do you have a hard time knowing what your feelings are? Do you take in another`s feelings as fast as you breathe in air? Do you know how to "block" another`s feelings out?I esp want to hear from people with the hard aspects between these two planets. I have a cancer moon opposite neptune and my moon lies in the 12th house and my feelings are so overwhelming sometimes. Always changing, sometimes i even get alittle worried of what i will feel in the next hour or minute. My room is my sacred haven, and i feel i am the happiest there.Its very hard to "stay" in a good mood around people, i litterly get physically and emotionally exhausted around people.Its like my feelings is taken out of me and everyone elses gets inside, and its impossible for me to try to "find" my feelings again as long as i am around other peoples feelings. IP: Logged |
MiaPluto Knowflake Posts: 481 From: Montreal, Quebec, Canada Registered: Aug 2014
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posted August 27, 2014 06:48 PM
I would like to know that too. ------------------ Mia x IP: Logged |
violet7887 Knowflake Posts: 1508 From: Registered: Jul 2011
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posted August 27, 2014 06:50 PM
One aspect alone, would not determine all this Dreaminess. ------------------ Ashes to ashes, dust to dust. IP: Logged |
Dreaminess Knowflake Posts: 117 From: norway Registered: Aug 2014
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posted August 27, 2014 06:57 PM
quote: Originally posted by violet7887: One aspect alone, would not determine all this Dreaminess.
Why not? the moon and aspects to it has to do with feelings, dosent it? IP: Logged |
violet7887 Knowflake Posts: 1508 From: Registered: Jul 2011
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posted August 27, 2014 07:06 PM
Yes, sure it does. But with all that you have asked, I suggest you get a more in depth look. Get it personally looked into, it may help you understand yourself more. Plus, as a moon-neptune person I can barely relate to any of that. See what I mean? :] ------------------ Ashes to ashes, dust to dust. IP: Logged |
Dreaminess Knowflake Posts: 117 From: norway Registered: Aug 2014
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posted August 27, 2014 07:15 PM
quote: Originally posted by violet7887: Yes, sure it does. But with all that you have asked, I suggest you get a more in depth look. Get it personally looked into, it may help you understand yourself more. Plus, as a moon-neptune person I can barely relate to any of that. See what I mean? :]
Do you have a hard or a soft aspect and what sign is your moon in? I thought this site is for asking questions about astrology i didnt know we are just allowed to just ask one question pr day or maybe once a week, i dont know what do the people prefer? Seriously i came to this site to learn and by learning i will ask about different stuff. I like to take things step by step.
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violet7887 Knowflake Posts: 1508 From: Registered: Jul 2011
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posted August 27, 2014 07:23 PM
Dreaminess, I did not mean to offend you. I was just trying to give you a suggestion to get better answers for all you have asked.I also have cancer moon, moon opposite neptune. IP: Logged |
12muddy Knowflake Posts: 1938 From: Registered: Feb 2013
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posted August 27, 2014 07:28 PM
Hmm I have the square (3rd house aries moon square 12th house cap neptune). I don't think I have boundaries issues. Well when it comes to my loved ones then it's easy to be affected by their moods/feelings, but I guess that's normal (?). IP: Logged |
SDragon Moderator Posts: 333 From: Toronto, Ontario, Canada Registered: Sep 2012
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posted August 27, 2014 07:30 PM
Square. Yes, used to when I was younger. Still feel others closely, but it don't let it affect me as much anymore. Oh, moon in Pisces too which is ruled by Neptune so double whammy. IP: Logged |
Dreaminess Knowflake Posts: 117 From: norway Registered: Aug 2014
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posted August 27, 2014 07:31 PM
quote: Originally posted by violet7887: Dreaminess, I did not mean to offend you. I was just trying to give you a suggestion to get better answers for all you have asked.
Yeah but i am feeling i am getting attacked and people not trying to understand me just bc they find me annoying for asking questions. And three of those questions i have asked already didnt have to do with me even. IP: Logged |
Dreaminess Knowflake Posts: 117 From: norway Registered: Aug 2014
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posted August 27, 2014 07:33 PM
quote: Originally posted by SDragon: Square. Yes, used to when I was younger. Still feel others closely, but it don't let it affect me as much anymore. Oh, moon in Pisces too which is ruled by Neptune so double whammy.
How did you learn to not be affected anymore? IP: Logged |
Dreaminess Knowflake Posts: 117 From: norway Registered: Aug 2014
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posted August 27, 2014 07:34 PM
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violet7887 Knowflake Posts: 1508 From: Registered: Jul 2011
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posted August 27, 2014 07:49 PM
quote: Originally posted by Dreaminess: Yeah but i am feeling i am getting attacked and people not trying to understand me just bc they find me annoying for asking questions. And three of those questions i have asked already didnt have to do with me even.
Dreaminess, you are overreacting. But please, continue with your thread. IP: Logged |
Dreaminess Knowflake Posts: 117 From: norway Registered: Aug 2014
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posted August 27, 2014 08:07 PM
quote: Originally posted by violet7887: Dreaminess, you are overreacting.But please, continue with your thread.
I am sorry if i am overreacting but i find it a bit hurtful when i am asking questions and trying to learn stuff in my way and people just finding me annoying when i just want to learn.I can get a bit obsessive (venus square pluto and pluto in the 5th) about stuff i take interest in. Again, i am sorry that i overreacted.
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hannaramaa Knowflake Posts: 7959 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted August 27, 2014 08:13 PM
As a side note, most successful threads are ones that have multiple topics (by successful I mean ones that constantly get replied to). Since there's no PM system here many members just use the threads like a chat board. SO, if you had multiple questions it would be okay to bring them up in one thread just to declutter. IMHO of course.On topic: I have Moon trine Neptune. (Moon 11th and Neptune in the 7th) I have a really odd sense of empathy. I've made a thread on it somewhere here before and have no idea where it is, but I pick up vibes from people when they're not near me. I'll get mood swings and understand why later after I'm talking with someone. If I can't sleep chances are it's because one of my friends or someone I care about can't either. Just today I got a sudden urge for sweet tea on my way to work (never, ever do) and as I was waiting for my order I noticed my friend had texted me asking about the restaurants nearby because she was craving sweet tea. She's not even someone I see on a regular basis so I wouldn't know her habits or cravings, really. But when it comes to emotions I'm not very good at picking that up. I can tell if your happy, mad, sad, or confused - something simple - and that's about it. I always try to peer deeper and see what's going on but people either think I'm crazy, and if something is going on, they won't admit it so I forget about it. IP: Logged |
Dreaminess Knowflake Posts: 117 From: norway Registered: Aug 2014
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posted August 27, 2014 08:26 PM
quote: Originally posted by hannaramaa: As a side note, most successful threads are ones that have multiple topics (by successful I mean ones that constantly get replied to). Since there's no PM system here many members just use the threads like a chat board. SO, if you had multiple questions it would be okay to bring them up in one thread just to declutter. IMHO of course.On topic: I have Moon trine Neptune. (Moon 11th and Neptune in the 7th) I have a really odd sense of empathy. I've made a thread on it somewhere here before and have no idea where it is, but I pick up vibes from people when they're not near me. I'll get mood swings and understand why later after I'm talking with someone. If I can't sleep chances are it's because one of my friends or someone I care about can't either. Just today I got a sudden urge for sweet tea on my way to work (never, ever do) and as I was waiting for my order I noticed my friend had texted me asking about the restaurants nearby because she was craving sweet tea. She's not even someone I see on a regular basis so I wouldn't know her habits or cravings, really. But when it comes to emotions I'm not very good at picking that up. I can tell if your happy, mad, sad, or confused - something simple - and that's about it. I always try to peer deeper and see what's going on but people either think I'm crazy, and if something is going on, they won't admit it so I forget about it.
Hehe thanks for the suggestion, i am very new to this site so i am not quite used to it yet. I can see myself in some of what you said, esp this part "If I can't sleep chances are it's because one of my friends or someone I care about can't either." This has happened to me several times and sometimes i randomly start to think about something and the person i am with will suddenly say what i have just thought about out loud. IP: Logged |
florence Knowflake Posts: 371 From: Registered: Jun 2012
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posted August 27, 2014 09:27 PM
quote: Originally posted by Dreaminess: Do you have a hard time knowing what your feelings are? Do you take in another`s feelings as fast as you breathe in air? Do you know how to "block" another`s feelings out?I esp want to hear from people with the hard aspects between these two planets. I have a cancer moon opposite neptune and my moon lies in the 12th house and my feelings are so overwhelming sometimes. Always changing, sometimes i even get alittle worried of what i will feel in the next hour or minute. My room is my sacred haven, and i feel i am the happiest there.Its very hard to "stay" in a good mood around people, i litterly get physically and emotionally exhausted around people.Its like my feelings is taken out of me and everyone elses gets inside, and its impossible for me to try to "find" my feelings again as long as i am around other peoples feelings.
Yes I do feel those things ... Especially being confused about how I actually feel which I'd only ascribed till now to sun opp asc. I'm very sensitive to atmospheres (but it does mostly feel I'm responding to body language) and assume any negative thing is down to me. That sensation is very cloying to me, unbearable on a less outwardly level of experience so maybe it is am picking up on that as well as outward signs of it I therefore often spend the majority of my energy avoiding those atmospheres by trying to do what others want ... Often so that I don't really know what I want by the end of it. And when it doesn't work or it leaves me drained for trying to accommodate I'd prefer to be alone and be myself but still a kind of enmeshing has occurred. I get some feelings about how others who are physically distant are but not many examples of knowing how accurate they are IP: Logged |
SDragon Moderator Posts: 333 From: Toronto, Ontario, Canada Registered: Sep 2012
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posted August 27, 2014 09:41 PM
quote: Originally posted by Dreaminess: How did you learn to not be affected anymore?
My usual response is meditation and quiet time as most regulars know. Only when you become aware of your normal state can you detect when what your feeling is someone else's energy, emotion or issue. IP: Logged |
Peluches Knowflake Posts: 56 From: France Registered: Jul 2014
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posted August 28, 2014 12:23 AM
Hi Dreaminess ♥I'm a bit like you. I'm a Libra, Pisces also dominant, I have Moon conjunct Neptune in 5th house, Venus in 12th house, and Venus square Pluto. Also I know how 12th house Moon feels because my sister has that and we share everything together. I understand your username (I love it actually :D ♥). Moon conjunct (or at least, in a hard aspect) Neptune is very dreamy, hyper-sensitive to the environment and to people's feelings (though I might feel that also because of my 12th house Venus... not sure). It can be similar to Libra or Pisces. We care a lot about people's feelings. For example, if a friend is angry, frustrated, sad, we feel it and we get upset, wondering what in the world we have done or not done to them, whether we have hurt them in any way. The feelings get even stronger when it's someone we love very dearly. There is a very deep feeling of compassion towards anyone - even strangers. Just like Venus in 12th house, Moon/Neptune live in their dreams and have a very compassionate nature. Perhaps in your case, all that I wrote is very much emphasized and/or can be problematic because you have a square. About your 12th house Moon, you are a very kind person and very shy (that goes for previous aspects too). You keep to yourself and don't socialize much (though it can not be the case because of a dominant sign in your chart). The Venus/Pluto square, which I have too, is very intense and makes your emotions extremely passionate. When you are in love, it is burning inside you. You feel irresistibly drawn to that person, like a magnet. In some cases you are drawn to forbidden love. This is my interpretation. I have studied astrology for the past one year only, so I'm sure a professional will do better. (: Hope that helped. :3
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Dreaminess Knowflake Posts: 117 From: norway Registered: Aug 2014
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posted August 28, 2014 05:07 AM
quote: Originally posted by Peluches: Hi Dreaminess ♥I'm a bit like you. I'm a Libra, Pisces also dominant, I have Moon conjunct Neptune in 5th house, Venus in 12th house, and Venus square Pluto. Also I know how 12th house Moon feels because my sister has that and we share everything together. I understand your username (I love it actually ♥). Moon conjunct (or at least, in a hard aspect) Neptune is very dreamy, hyper-sensitive to the environment and to people's feelings (though I might feel that also because of my 12th house Venus... not sure). It can be similar to Libra or Pisces. We care a lot about people's feelings. For example, if a friend is angry, frustrated, sad, we feel it and we get upset, wondering what in the world we have done or not done to them, whether we have hurt them in any way. The feelings get even stronger when it's someone we love very dearly. There is a very deep feeling of compassion towards anyone - even strangers. Just like Venus in 12th house, Moon/Neptune live in their dreams and have a very compassionate nature. Perhaps in your case, all that I wrote is very much emphasized and/or can be problematic because you have a square. About your 12th house Moon, you are a very kind person and very shy (that goes for previous aspects too). You keep to yourself and don't socialize much (though it can not be the case because of a dominant sign in your chart). The Venus/Pluto square, which I have too, is very intense and makes your emotions extremely passionate. When you are in love, it is burning inside you. You feel irresistibly drawn to that person, like a magnet. In some cases you are drawn to forbidden love. This is my interpretation. I have studied astrology for the past one year only, so I'm sure a professional will do better. (: Hope that helped. :3
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Thank you for your insight. I do actually keep alot to myself and i dont socialize much.Do people find your sister to come off as "distanced" when they are with her?People that have been around me have commented that they find me to be "distanced" in way too. And yes,the feelings i get when i am in love burns and its hard for me to let go even when i should.
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Mango Knowflake Posts: 223 From: Registered: Feb 2013
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posted August 28, 2014 09:28 AM
I have moon in Gemini on my MC and Neptune on my IC. If I walk into a room with 50 people and 1 is depressed I can pick up and sense their emotions. I am extremely sensitive to energy and peoples moods. However I now take notice of it and try to control it. IP: Logged |
Geeky Knowflake Posts: 867 From: the Sun, vacation house on Mercury Registered: Dec 2012
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posted August 28, 2014 06:20 PM
I have Moon conjunct Neptune. The description from astro.com is very accurate for me:"The Moon conjunct Neptune shows that you are imaginative, emotional, sensitive, and sometimes given to daydreaming. Your psychic ability enables you to respond to outside stimuli that others are unaware of. You are inclined to offer assistance to anyone who seems to need help. Your professional life must have sufficient challenge to keep you alert and reasonably on the go. Your latent ability should find an outlet through public-oriented work, such as service and welfare, nursing, working with the mentally retarded, or rehabilitation of the handicapped. Your love nature is extremely romantic, and it is truly difficult for anyone to measure up to your expectations. Learn to accept people at their level of development and do not give them attributes they have not earned or deserved. You can express your imagination in artistic pursuits - designing, painting, music, or poetry. Interpretation by Robert Pelletier" ------------------ “Most people would rather be sheep than stand on their own with antlers on.” IP: Logged |
Peluches Knowflake Posts: 56 From: France Registered: Jul 2014
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posted August 28, 2014 09:45 PM
quote: Originally posted by Dreaminess : Thank you for your insight. I do actually keep alot to myself and i dont socialize much.Do people find your sister to come off as "distanced" when they are with her?People that have been around me have commented that they find me to be "distanced" in way too. And yes,the feelings i get when i am in love burns and its hard for me to let go even when i should.
My sister also keeps to herself (more than I do), but in her case, that's because she doesn't like people much. She's not shy like me, she just doesn't talk to anyone because she kind of despises them. But that part must be because of her strong Taurus and Leo. She's very proud and stubborn lol ------------------ « Car ensemble nous pourrons voir La beauté des âmes amoureuses Cachée comme diamants Dans l'horloge du monde... » ♥ IP: Logged |
Peluches Knowflake Posts: 56 From: France Registered: Jul 2014
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posted August 28, 2014 09:48 PM
quote: Originally posted by Geeky: I have Moon conjunct Neptune. The description from astro.com is very accurate for me:"The Moon conjunct Neptune shows that you are imaginative, emotional, sensitive, and sometimes given to daydreaming. Your psychic ability enables you to respond to outside stimuli that others are unaware of. You are inclined to offer assistance to anyone who seems to need help. Your professional life must have sufficient challenge to keep you alert and reasonably on the go. Your latent ability should find an outlet through public-oriented work, such as service and welfare, nursing, working with the mentally retarded, or rehabilitation of the handicapped. Your love nature is extremely romantic, and it is truly difficult for anyone to measure up to your expectations. Learn to accept people at their level of development and do not give them attributes they have not earned or deserved. You can express your imagination in artistic pursuits - designing, painting, music, or poetry. Interpretation by Robert Pelletier"
OMG So true !! That's me ! ;D ------------------ « Car ensemble nous pourrons voir La beauté des âmes amoureuses Cachée comme diamants Dans l'horloge du monde... » ♥ IP: Logged |
muddyt0es Knowflake Posts: 80 From: Atlanta, GA, USA Registered: Aug 2011
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posted August 30, 2014 12:10 AM
Pisces Moon (6H) sextile Neptune. I definitely daydream, and find it easy to sort of set the stage for a dream, like where I can decide what to dream before I fall asleep..and if I wake up but can fall back asleep, I have control in my dreams. I have several planets in the 12H (in Virgo) as well. The 12H is Pisces realm - too, who is ruled by Neptune.So having your Moon in the 12H opposite the general 12H ruler (different from your own chart's 12H ruler), is pretty impactful I am sure. IP: Logged |