Posts: 7898
From:
Registered: Nov 2011

posted August 27, 2014 11:12 PM            

---

MineAgain inspired me. I dump guys and they never pine over me and if they do I wouldn't know. What would indicate this in the natal chart?

IP: Logged

Posts: 4508
From:
Registered: May 2012

posted August 27, 2014 11:51 PM            

---

Maybe that's a result of you not getting extremely close to them in the first place. Aries energy can put up walls and push people away - if they're not in the right frame of mind to be in a relationship. They sometimes avoid emotional intimacy at all costs. Do you see yourself doing this?

Usually.. when someone pines over their ex.. it's because their ex had a very significant impact on their life - on an emotional or physical level or both. If you didn't get close enough to really leave a mark on their life.. that would make it easier for both of you to say -goodbye-.

IP: Logged

Posts: 7898
From:
Registered: Nov 2011

posted August 28, 2014 12:05 AM            

---

quote:

---

Originally posted by Odette:
Maybe that's a result of you not getting extremely close to them in the first place. Aries energy can put up walls and push people away - if they're not in the right frame of mind to be in a relationship. They sometimes avoid emotional intimacy at all costs. Do you see yourself doing this?

Usually.. when someone pines over their ex.. it's because their ex had a very significant impact on their life - on an emotional or physical level or both. If you didn't get close enough to really leave a mark on their life.. that would make it easier for both of you to say -goodbye-.

---

Yeah I have lots of walls but... I'm still charming and fun to be around and intelligent, and wise, so I don't understand. I share intimate details about myself I just don't let myself get connected to the sharing part, if that makes sense.

ETA: It's like a cosmic influence you were the first responder and said what you did because lately that's been the theme of my life. I'm a likable, good person underneath but lately I notice my circle of friends, and people that I trust, has grown very, very, very small. I'm alone and doing most everything on my own here and have very much been feeling the intensity of that lately.

IP: Logged

Posts: 1993
From: The Moon
Registered: Aug 2013

posted August 28, 2014 01:02 AM            

---

Maybe it's more a synastry thing? Have you ever had synastries with people where you had a lot of saturn, pluto, moon or venus aspect?

IP: Logged

Posts: 7898
From:
Registered: Nov 2011

posted August 28, 2014 01:13 AM            

---

Most often there's Moon opposite Pluto, the Capricorn I dated in January had a stellium of Sun, Mercury, Venus, and Mars. I have Venus square Saturn and Moon trine Saturn. I'm sure there was lots of Saturn and Pluto stuff going on with this Sag I was infatuated with for 2 years and kept going back to (friendship wise).

Wouldn't Saturn and Pluto bring heavy energy to the table though? Those are earth and fixed planets so I'd think it would promote long drawn out recoveries.

IP: Logged