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Topic: Extreme sensitivity to environment
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NeptunianSag Knowflake Posts: 1166 From: Your imagination Registered: Aug 2013
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posted August 28, 2014 10:22 AM
So, my everyday life is really draining, I 'absorb' other people very quickly, know what they are feeling, blame myself if they don't like me for some reason. How to stop being so damn sensitive and absorbing negativity? It's so tiring I have to spend hours alone to regenerate myself. Neptune in 3rd, Jupiter in 12th, moon trine Neptune, mercury square Neptune. IP: Logged |
SDragon Moderator Posts: 333 From: Toronto, Ontario, Canada Registered: Sep 2012
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posted August 28, 2014 11:12 AM
Moon sq Neptune Mercury qui. Neptune Moon in Pisces, Moon in 1stYou were made that way for a reason. Instead of rejecting aspects of yourself, try to embrace yourself fully. I've learned to see that I touch the lives of many people I encounter. Some people go through their whole day feeling isolated and I make them feel like they're really understood because yes, our crux is that we feel them empathically. We are an aspect of god on earth and we serve a purpose. It's not easy but nothing worthwhile ever is. The blaming part is a leftover trace when we felt the overwhelming need for approval and acceptance from our parents. Learn to give it to yourself and other people will no longer affect you as much. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 56709 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted August 28, 2014 11:15 AM
Kaali conj ASC maybe.------------------ Want To Ask Any Question About Bible Prophecy? Go For it. It is Free, of course. http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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tgem Knowflake Posts: 2002 From: Registered: Jan 2013
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posted August 28, 2014 11:35 AM
quote: Originally posted by SDragon: Moon sq Neptune Mercury qui. Neptune Moon in Pisces, Moon in 1stYou were made that way for a reason. Instead of rejecting aspects of yourself, try to embrace yourself fully. I've learned to see that I touch the lives of many people I encounter. Some people go through their whole day feeling isolated and I make them feel like they're really understood because yes, our crux is that we feel them empathically. We are an aspect of god on earth and we serve a purpose. It's not easy but nothing worthwhile ever is. The blaming part is a leftover trace when we felt the overwhelming need for approval and acceptance from our parents. Learn to give it to yourself and other people will no longer affect you as much.
Un-aspected moon in 12th Mercury trine neptune, Pallas, vesta stellium in 6th house of empathy Cancer ASC conjunct jupiter This description fits me to a "T." Try to embrace it rather than fight it...I require much alone time myself to re-energize...it's about working with the energies IP: Logged |
Vajra Knowflake Posts: 116 From: Registered: Dec 2012
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posted August 28, 2014 12:14 PM
quote: Originally posted by NeptunianSag: So, my everyday life is really draining, I 'absorb' other people very quickly, know what they are feeling, blame myself if they don't like me for some reason. How to stop being so damn sensitive and absorbing negativity? It's so tiring I have to spend hours alone to regenerate myself. Neptune in 3rd, Jupiter in 12th, moon trine Neptune, mercury square Neptune.
I can relate only too well - Neptune in 1st House retrograde tr. Moon, quincunx Sun, opp. Mercury, and sextile chart ruler. I find this openness to foreign vibes very trying and am still working on a solution, but have somehow accepted the fact of being an introvert who needs alone time regularly. Yoga and Meditation have helped immensely. My advice would be to embrace this part of yourself, as it is most probably the other side of the coin of a very positive quality (like perceptiveness and sensitivity), and try to consciously re-charge you batteries regularly, as often as you need it, as well as avoid negative company as much as you can. Grounding exercises and taking extra care of your bodily health would also be beneficial IMHO. IP: Logged |
libran_dream Knowflake Posts: 210 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted August 28, 2014 01:35 PM
quote: Originally posted by NeptunianSag: So, my everyday life is really draining, I 'absorb' other people very quickly, know what they are feeling, blame myself if they don't like me for some reason. How to stop being so damn sensitive and absorbing negativity? It's so tiring I have to spend hours alone to regenerate myself. Neptune in 3rd, Jupiter in 12th, moon trine Neptune, mercury square Neptune.
When I see a huge sensitivity to the environment, that is draining the native, rather than restoring, I look at Neptune afflictions.I think a part of it could be your Mercury-Neptune square. With Neptune in H3, it works in a mercurian field in your life, but since it squares Mercury, that expression has a great internal struggle. My advice is to try to be truthful and EXPRESS verbally what you are feeling to others, as well as you can manage. Understanding your higher feelings(Neptune) to the point where you can communicate to people about them clearly is your salvation here, and what you're meant to learn.
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NeptunianSag Knowflake Posts: 1166 From: Your imagination Registered: Aug 2013
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posted August 28, 2014 01:57 PM
quote: Originally posted by libran_dream: [QUOTE]Originally posted by NeptunianSag: [b]So, my everyday life is really draining, I 'absorb' other people very quickly, know what they are feeling, blame myself if they don't like me for some reason. How to stop being so damn sensitive and absorbing negativity? It's so tiring I have to spend hours alone to regenerate myself. Neptune in 3rd, Jupiter in 12th, moon trine Neptune, mercury square Neptune.
When I see a huge sensitivity to the environment, that is draining the native, rather than restoring, I look at Neptune afflictions.I think a part of it could be your Mercury-Neptune square. With Neptune in H3, it works in a mercurian field in your life, but since it squares Mercury, that expression has a great internal struggle. My advice is to try to be truthful and EXPRESS verbally what you are feeling to others, as well as you can manage. Understanding your higher feelings(Neptune) to the point where you can communicate to people about them clearly is your salvation here, and what you're meant to learn. [/B][/QUOTE] Yes, it's definately the neptune affliction, i sometimes even imagine people being negative, even when it might not be the case. Or i come across as negative and i don't mean it. Neptune also squares my asc, as does mercury. IP: Logged |
Kannon McAfee Knowflake Posts: 199 From: Portland, OR - USA Registered: Oct 2011
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posted August 28, 2014 07:00 PM
quote: Originally posted by NeptunianSag: So, my everyday life is really draining, I 'absorb' other people very quickly, know what they are feeling, blame myself if they don't like me for some reason. How to stop being so damn sensitive and absorbing negativity? It's so tiring I have to spend hours alone to regenerate myself. Neptune in 3rd, Jupiter in 12th, moon trine Neptune, mercury square Neptune.
What you're describing I think also represents (a) your soul development and learning psychic ability; (b) learning boundaries. The Mercury principle is the conscious thought processes and communication. It represents your sensory response to interpret what is going on around you. So involve this faculty proactively through a diary/journal that tracks your development. The Neptunian principle is that of the all-embracing, which we have to learn to develop unconditional love. This type of aspect can lead to one developing supreme ability to hear/see/imagine and arrive at a deeper understanding of what others think/feel/experience. Think of it as potentially your magic power to 'walk in others' shoes a mile' - or for only a minute here and there. I'm not going to say that meditation is the 'cure' here, because I don't see anything 'wrong' that needs to be fixed. You are never going to 'stop being so ... sensitive.' You've developed this way and it says something wonderful about you as a soul. 1) Build your self-worth. Love yourself enough that you aren't bothered by what others think of you. 2) Exercise and build your psychic power in a psychic environment. Learn to visualize a 'mesh' or filter of some kind that you program with your verbalized intention to allow in only those things that are necessary for healthy relationships and to block anything that is poisonous negativity. This will probably take some practice but it can be done. ------------------ Expert rectification, professional astrology consults http://kannonmcafee.wordpress.com/ Complete desriptions of all Rising Signs: https://kannonmcafee.wordpress.com/rising-signs-2/ IP: Logged |
seekinglight Knowflake Posts: 108 From: Registered: Mar 2014
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posted August 29, 2014 09:54 AM
Neptune-moon / moon in 12thI can even feel it if someone close is feeling upset even though they are living on the other side of the world. Neptune dissolves physical boundary and time. It gets exhausting when it was night time over there and past midnight over here, yet I was being jolted from my sleep cos it feels as if something was piercing through me and my gut feeling would envision that person. Happened only to people who are close to me though. IP: Logged |
next to neptune Knowflake Posts: 2003 From: The Moon Registered: Aug 2013
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posted August 29, 2014 05:29 PM
I know exactly what you mean… I am very lunar, and I have pisces moon (which is only hard aspected) and I have mercury square neptune too…and neptune in 6th house, which is also a house ruled by neptune -among othersI think it is important to build up your self worth, cause if you like yourself and know you are a nice person who wants to improve this world, you should have confidence in this, and then other people will appreciate you for it… - this, and then also forget all about negativity and things that are too "strict and boring". neptunian and lunar people, go through life with their "feelings out", and we are not hardcore business people, materialists or especially sharp on anything… but we feel, listen, speak and create art in our own little world… IP: Logged |
Comatoes Knowflake Posts: 249 From: Registered: Jan 2014
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posted August 29, 2014 06:02 PM
quote: Originally posted by Kannon McAfee: You are never going to 'stop being so ... sensitive.' You've developed this way and it says something wonderful about you as a soul. 1) Build your self-worth. Love yourself enough that you aren't bothered by what others think of you. 2) Exercise and build your psychic power in a psychic environment. Learn to visualize a 'mesh' or filter of some kind that you program with your verbalized intention to allow in only those things that are necessary for healthy relationships and to block anything that is poisonous negativity. This will probably take some practice but it can be done.
Thank you Kannon, very inspiring. I'm high sensitive as well, and as I get older it only gets more profound, but I notice I manage it much better. I refuse to have "nasty" people in my life, being impressionable can be difficult, but I have the power to surround myself with my own environment and can find people who have similar energy fields as myself. I can't control outside forces I may encounter, but I know it's not long term so I can deal with them better. Being psychic/sensitive is my life journey -- I have North Node in Pisces in 8th house, I'm suppose to be learning these issues and rise above them. I know I'm too sensitive for this World but I keep pushing forward. IP: Logged |
Krista_Kay_1993 Knowflake Posts: 154 From: Fridley, Mn, USA Registered: Oct 2012
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posted August 29, 2014 09:44 PM
true lilith in pisces and neptune tooi have both IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 44021 From: Saturn next to Charmainec Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 31, 2014 10:19 PM
Thanks, Kannon. IP: Logged |
Gabby Moderator Posts: 4629 From: Registered: Sep 2012
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posted August 31, 2014 10:54 PM
I can totally relate!! Sometimes it leaves me feeling violated like nobody will leave me alone and get out of me so I can take care of myself....then I realize nobody is doing anything I'm just picking up on their energy, stress and pain. Ugh! It's a hard way to live at times and I get headaches from it often!Sag Sun/Merc/Nep stellium in 3rd Sag Nep sextile Libra Pluto exact Pluto on AC 12th house unaspected Virgo Moon opposes Pallas exact Taurus SN in 8th... IP: Logged |
sweet-scorpion Moderator Posts: 2191 From: CO, USA Registered: Apr 2012
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posted September 01, 2014 12:21 AM
I totally empathize (no pun intended ). I have Moon trine Neptune and Pluto in the 12th and I'm extremely sensitive to my environment. I absorb negative energy very quickly and I have to envision a psychic 'forcefield mirror' around myself so I can repel it right back to whoever is trying to influence me. It's actually a very useful technique that will prevent others from harming you psychically. You also have to be careful with who receives your empathy. An empath can be taken advantage of very, very easily. There is nothing cruel about denying everyone your love. You have to think about yourself, too. IP: Logged |
athenegoddess Knowflake Posts: 2527 From: Registered: Aug 2011
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posted September 01, 2014 12:26 AM
I have Moon conjunct Neptune aspecting my Sun and Pluto harmoniously and I have this.I get to the point of nearly throwing up if its bad enough. Also I can't be around unstable people. IP: Logged | |