posted September 01, 2014 03:08 AM            

Gemini sun, Taurus Mars (unaspected in 7th)

Specifically the Taurus parts...

I was told many years ago that when I pursue, it is not a thing of beauty, so I more often make myself available to be pursued.

I go with the flow so often that its shocking to those who know me when I get stubborn.

In anger I will take it quietly for a long time, until I don't. Then it's the other guys fault.

In food, I'll eat the same thing over and over. Why change if I like it? As in food, so in passion...

posted September 01, 2014 08:29 AM            

I tend only pursue when I know the direction of the relationship is moving towards something positive, a sure thing.

Communication is very important to me. Cutting off communication with me is the fastest way to lose me. Especially if I am making the effort and the same thing isn't being reciprocated.

posted September 01, 2014 12:17 PM            

I guess my main issue is that we got into a little tiff over something that he perceived to be a rejection and ever since then it seems like he's been distant. It's like he's deliberately holding back on communicating because I inadvertently hurt his feelings and I didn't know if that was common for Gemini Venus because I'd always read how communicative they were lol.

But the ups/downs have got me constantly questioning where exactly we stand and I'm not enjoying that at all haha. I guess I'm waiting until we're more solid before I seriously bring it up again, or I'll wait until he's more comfortable with the topic.

posted September 01, 2014 01:15 PM            

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Originally posted by sunflower-moon:
Hmm, so I guess the general consensus is that Taurus mars moves verrry slowly until they are sure of where the relationship is going and how the other person feels, right?

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posted September 01, 2014 01:45 PM            

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Originally posted by sunflower-moon:
I'm sort of dating a guy with these placements and he's confusing the heck out of me! Can you guys give me some input on how you pursue, what you like in relationships, how you act when you're hurt, etc. Anything would be helpful! You can include houses and aspects as well! Thanks.

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His Venus/Mars placement are not the whole picture. But from what you have given. Its the "hurry up and slow down" approach.

Venus in Gemini- Is a naturally friendly and conversational lot.Busy bodies mostly
Mars in Taurus- Slow and thorough in every decision made.Slow moving mostly.

Also read Mercury in Taurus to get an idea of how this energy is when blended together

posted September 03, 2014 12:15 AM            

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Originally posted by sunflower-moon:
Hmm, so I guess the general consensus is that Taurus mars moves verrry slowly until they are sure of where the relationship is going and how the other person feels, right?

I guess my main issue is that we got into a little tiff over something that he perceived to be a rejection and ever since then it seems like he's been distant. It's like he's deliberately holding back on communicating because I inadvertently hurt his feelings and I didn't know if that was common for Gemini Venus because I'd always read how communicative they were lol.

But the ups/downs have got me constantly questioning where exactly we stand and I'm not enjoying that at all haha. I guess I'm waiting until we're more solid before I seriously bring it up again, or I'll wait until he's more comfortable with the topic.

He is a Cancer sun and very Saturn influenced so maybe that plays into it.

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posted September 03, 2014 02:43 AM            

For me , the sexiest part of a human is the mind. period. If a man isnt smart, eloquent or well read, Its impossible for me to be turned on. even if he is gorgeous.

Another thing- I love the chase. Then.... when I get what i want? Its done. over...on to the next. I also have a rich mental/fantasy life. I need adventure. Ive dated many ppl from other cultures and countries. I love writing notes as well, but I have strong mercury so anything verbal is good. And i cannot deal with anyone who is lazy in regards to sex and romance! men who have little to offer here, dont go far with me either....

but IDK, my venus squares saturn so i mostly get along with much older men.

as for a man with venus gemini, i have no experience but I have read they can have a wondering eye if you know what I mean.

I agree with hannaramaa...taurus is slow to make up there minds ( im a taurus i know i am slowwww) and the gemini venus is fickle and gets bored easily!

Be creative...

posted September 04, 2014 11:59 PM            

The trick to these folk is to excite them. Have good banter, or just be energetic. I'm not particularly witty but I am smart and charismatic. But usually what brings them in is my Mars in Aries or my Venus in Libra connection in synastry. They become attracted to my impulsivity and ability to keep things fresh and moving. If you can provide either charisma, good banter, and/or vibrant energy then you'll attract these people often.

But they are also busy people. If you have any jealousy built into your chart you're in for a bad time. I hope you're just as busy as they are because there will be periods of nothing when courting these people.

posted October 09, 2014 10:21 AM            

When planets are in signs that are side by side, it's difficult for the planets to acknowledge each other's existence. There's obviously some disconnect going on there astrologywise, but judging from the general misgivings you've had with this guy being "confusing" I would say that he's confusing not based upon astrology, but just because he's a guy.

Contrary to popular belief, males are NOT dominated by logic, esp. not in interpersonal relationships.

posted October 09, 2014 12:45 PM            

If you do not match those qualities somewhat, he might not be that into it or otherwise confused.