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Topic: Venus and Mars square uranus
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next to neptune Knowflake Posts: 2021 From: The Moon Registered: Aug 2013
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posted September 02, 2014 03:14 AM
Having both of these personal planets square uranus, seems to make it very hard for a person to find someone… or they doesn't really want to find someone at all…Having only venus square uranus, could also make it hard to get into a real stable relationship because of the fear of commitment…. Having mars square uranus means that the person is just so unstable that it can make it hard for any partner to stick to them, cause the person seems to always be sort of moving away what do you think about uranus squaring these two personal planets? IP: Logged |
HelixID Knowflake Posts: 51 From: Registered: Jun 2014
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posted September 02, 2014 04:25 AM
I have that, too. Mars is also my Ascendant ruler and consequently, Venus is the Descendant ruler. Uranus rules H11 and H12. I've noticed that people in general come into and go out of my life unexpectedly. IP: Logged |
12muddy Knowflake Posts: 1942 From: Registered: Feb 2013
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posted September 02, 2014 05:18 AM
my s.o has moon/venus/mars square uranus. Hah he's probably one of the most steady people I know. IP: Logged |
Yanmorg Knowflake Posts: 601 From: Registered: Feb 2013
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posted September 03, 2014 02:03 PM
I'm not sure about the square, but the opposition is horrible.Venus opposite uranus is a major red flag in my opinion. This aspect creates distant, unstable partners who love their freedom more than being in a committed relationship. I'm sure it depends on the person, but that need for freedom is still apparent. A guy with this aspect broke my heart. My intensity was too much for him to handle so he ran.
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meissieri Knowflake Posts: 1175 From: Chiron, Moon and Neptune with Saturn watching over them. Registered: Feb 2013
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posted September 03, 2014 05:33 PM
I have the Venus-Uranus square and it's been hell trying to figure out what it means. I relate more to Venus, so I'd attract Uranus from the outside (also in friendships). It makes the line between friends and romance so blurry sometimes. Not an easy aspect, no. When I'm very busy, I try very hard to create some stability for others with checking in now and then, even just so they know I'm still okay, you know? But it's very difficult - there's the temptation to just ignore everything and do it my way. For me, it mostly plays out like that. Either to agree and make sure to find some middle ground (Venus) or to go it alone, with only myself to worry about (Uranus). It helps Uranus is in an earth sign conjunct its ruler, so this gives me at the very least the will and need for stability, in myself and others. Oh and Uranian people seem to just trip over me wherever I go. It's happened so often it's got to be part of my chart. I guess since I relate more to Venus, I don't attract it much. IP: Logged |
next to neptune Knowflake Posts: 2021 From: The Moon Registered: Aug 2013
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posted September 04, 2014 09:01 AM
quote: Originally posted by 12muddy: my s.o has moon/venus/mars square uranus. Hah he's probably one of the most steady people I know.
can you please explain why? Does he has some other extremely stable placement? IP: Logged |
next to neptune Knowflake Posts: 2021 From: The Moon Registered: Aug 2013
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posted September 04, 2014 09:06 AM
quote: Originally posted by meissieri: I have the Venus-Uranus square and it's been hell trying to figure out what it means. I relate more to Venus, so I'd attract Uranus from the outside (also in friendships). It makes the line between friends and romance so blurry sometimes. Not an easy aspect, no. When I'm very busy, I try very hard to create some stability for others with checking in now and then, even just so they know I'm still okay, you know? But it's very difficult - there's the temptation to just ignore everything and do it my way. For me, it mostly plays out like that. Either to agree and make sure to find some middle ground (Venus) or to go it alone, with only myself to worry about (Uranus). It helps Uranus is in an earth sign conjunct its ruler, so this gives me at the very least the will and need for stability, in myself and others. Oh and Uranian people seem to just trip over me wherever I go. It's happened so often it's got to be part of my chart. I guess since I relate more to Venus, I don't attract it much.
Nice answer. My boyfriend got this aspect, and I can really sense how he often seem to live in this "dilemma". He definitely loves his freedom, but also he is a libra sun + venus, so he also got the need for having a companionship/partner with someone. I am uranian my self, I have moon and mars square uranus, but not my venus (but venus sextile uranus tightly). I am definitely not someone to have a normal relationship with, and I am not emotionally stable either…. but I think he actually likes this, though it's what I hate about myself. But to me, I can definitely see he has attracted an uranian girl (me), who isn't emotionally intense all of the time. I think the longer I am in a relationship, the more tired I get of the "norms" and what other couples "normally do". Do you also feel like this? If I should ever for real get into a long-therm relationship, I can only see myself with another uranian person, because I don't want to lead a normal life, get married or have a family, settle down, anything normal couples would do. IP: Logged |
12muddy Knowflake Posts: 1942 From: Registered: Feb 2013
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posted September 04, 2014 10:07 AM
He has cap asc and 10th house saturn sextile asc. Although the squares are in mutable, his saturn and 1st house jupiter are in fixed signs. There's been quite a lot of ups and downs in his life, I guess that's how uranus influence plays out. But the guy knows how to handle things lightly, so not many things make him anxious. Solid, but light and not angsty. About freedom, strangely enough I was the one who thought about it a great deal. When I talked to him he simply said that "Love is freedom". According to him I was too concerned of what I "couldn't" n "shouldn't" do. IP: Logged | |