posted September 03, 2014 10:44 AM            

I have been around people who have mars square my mars. It is a hard aspect for people involved (in my opinion) but what about the opposition?

My sister in law has a new sister in law in her life. My SIL is a Taurus mars at 1 degree and her new SIL has mars in Scorpio at 2 degrees. My SIL says she doesn't like her new SIL. Does the opposition create tension like the square. Everything else looks great between their charts. Lots of trines.

When this aspect isn't in a sexual relationship will it always create conflict? I have never seen or been friends with a person who has their mars opposite or square my mars. Is this just me? Does this happen between everyone?

What are everyone's thoughts? Is mars opposite mars easier to deal with than the square?

posted September 03, 2014 12:15 PM            

I have Mars in Gemini at 16.5 degrees in the 12th house. I tend to attract and get along with Mars in Scorpio, or Mars in Sagittarius. My friend is an Aquarius and his Mars is in Sag. We ARGUE like brother and sister but there's no dislike between us. We're strangely alike too.

posted September 03, 2014 01:04 PM            

If not, this Mars in Scorpio energy could be very foreign and its strongly martial/ emotional nature very difficult to decipher.

posted September 03, 2014 03:05 PM            

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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
Actually I tend to dislike people (well, when I say people I'm just thinking about the guys I dated) with my same Mars sign, than the ones with opposite.

I have Mars in Gemini at 16.5 degrees in the 12th house. I tend to attract and get along with Mars in Scorpio, or Mars in Sagittarius. My friend is an Aquarius and his Mars is in Sag. We ARGUE like brother and sister but there's no dislike between us. We're strangely alike too.

I liked two guys with Mars in Gemini and they both ****** me off pretty easily. Especially the one where my Mars ended up in his 7th house and his Mars must've been on my ASC. WHOA! I wanted to argue and win and not stop until he knew who was boss, LMAO!

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posted September 03, 2014 09:00 PM            

So far we're "ok" but not really close although we're still getting to know each other. She's a mega Taurus too with Sun/Mercury/Mars and possibly Moon in Taurus. I'm also kind of Libran in a way (Libra is my dominant sign).

I'll update as things go along lol.

Oh, forgot to add:
I actually attract ALOT of Leo Mars in my life whether its just friends/dating/etc., sometimes it makes a square aspect to my Mars (and also conjunct my Moon in Leo) but usually it seems they have their Mars in a later degree than mine. I also have natal Mars in 5th so that may also be why I don't seem to mind this energy. But overall, I get along well with Leo Mars peeps.

posted September 03, 2014 10:36 PM            

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Originally posted by theunknown:
If you have a strong mars (scorpio, cap, aries) , it's difficult to like the opp mars, especially as a female.

I would never date a cancer mars guy... Gonna drive me nuts

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posted September 04, 2014 12:31 AM            

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Originally posted by Supreme cT:
Hmmm interesting, im a cancer mars and i usual am attracted to capricorn mars but they never seem interested lmao

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I mean take Brad Pitt -a man mind you. He got married to Jen, a scorp mars and now he's married to Angelina Jolie, an aries mars. Mars is the drive. Two people without compatible drives give unbalanced relationship.

It's a little bit different for venus signs because weak venus like Scorp can open up with exalted venus Pisces (same goes for Taurus and Virgo venuses). I can't imagine me being like let's climb up that hill and a cancer mars just be passive aggressive or avoidance.

posted September 04, 2014 01:00 AM            

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Originally posted by theunknown:
I mean take Brad Pitt -a man mind you. He got married to Jen, a scorp mars and now he's married to Angelina Jolie, an aries mars. Mars is the drive. Two people without compatible drives give unbalanced relationship.

It's a little bit different for venus signs because weak venus like Scorp can open up with exalted venus Pisces (same goes for Taurus and Virgo venuses). I can't imagine me being like let's climb up that hill and a cancer mars just be passive aggressive or avoidance.

But Aqua and Leo mars or Sag and Gem might work... I think strong mars just can't deal with a weak one. I can't stand libra mars either...Taurus is kinda ok but many cap mars find taurus mars lazy

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posted September 04, 2014 03:39 AM            

I don't think I've ever met a Gemini mars I didn't like, but a Gemini mars would also fall into my 11h which is one of my secondary relationship houses and those who have it opp my mars also have it opp my Uranus, my 7/8h ruler.

posted September 04, 2014 08:40 AM            

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Originally posted by Supreme cT:
I have a decent amount of fire in my chart i love to be physical i would never turn down climbing up a hill lol cancer mars is just more sensitive about things i have a ton of energy but i am a scorp sun and my mars trines pluto by 1 degree

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Im talking about the drive, not being physical. I've met plenty of cancer mars who are physically stronger than me. But if faced with a challenge in life, cancer mars tend to avoid and need to talk it out with a close associate before dealing with the problem.

posted September 09, 2014 10:46 AM            

Sometimes, it's like cat and dogs. Very emotional.

My neighbor has Mars in Cancer and seems to get hurt and pouty if I don't do something for her and attempts a guilt trip etc......she has Sun and three other planets in Leo.....Her pride gets easily hurt and then she is emotional and is slightly vindictive.