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Topic: Help me understand you Leo women better
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Cancerman77 Newflake Posts: 13 From: Ohio Registered: Feb 2014
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posted September 10, 2014 06:26 PM
I realize that sun signs don't tell everything about a person's personality, but I was wondering if some of you Leo ladies wouldn't mind humoring me by answering a few questions.1. Have you ever fallen in love with a Cancer man, and if so, how did it go? 2. Do you still love someone deeply but date other men because you are convinced it would never work do to certain circumstances? 3. At what age, if ever, did you decide it was time to settle down with someone? 4. Are any of you in a happy relationship with a Cancer man? Thanks! IP: Logged |
PixieJane Moderator Posts: 6858 From: CA Registered: Oct 2010
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posted September 10, 2014 06:59 PM
NVM, I see what I was thinking of and have nothing to add.IP: Logged |
theunknown Knowflake Posts: 2206 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted September 10, 2014 09:19 PM
My venus-mars-MC in leo mother choose people who make her look good and definitely didn't get married to the one she felt most in love with. She is a virgo with cap moon though IP: Logged |
yellowelevator Knowflake Posts: 435 From: Michigan/Neptune Registered: Nov 2013
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posted September 10, 2014 10:09 PM
Hello! I have a Leo Sun and Mercury.1) I was a little bit involved here and there with someone who is a Cancer Sun when I was 17-18ish, but it wasn't serious and I was not in love with him. It was just mostly sexual attraction, on both parts. It never went anywhere beyond hanging out a few times and some fooling around. I got on his nerves, he got on my nerves (although I was always too polite to ever act like it). I don't think there was much compatibility personality-wise, although there could have been if he had been more receptive to me and gave me the time of day. But he was immature, and I was too I guess since we were young. I thought he was intelligent though, and he could have a very sweet side to him. But other times he could definitely seem moody, even through texting/internet. And he could be a bit rude at times. 2) Not really. I've never had an extremely serious relationship. But I admit to still having feelings and missing certain people a lot that I always envisioned being with, if the situation had been right. I'm kind of seeing someone right now, but it's at the early stages. 3) I'm only 22, so I haven't necessarily 'decided' yet when the time is right for me to settle down with someone. I don't really think about those kinds of things because for me, I guess I'm ready when I'm ready. I think I'd just know, whenever that person comes waltzing into my life. I'd say I'm ready now to settle down with someone. I'd say I'm ready whenever. I want intimacy with someone, I want to feel close to someone, I want someone to feel close to me. The sky is the limit in this department of my life. 4. Nope! I am currently 'involved' with an Aquarius Sun, who has no Cancer placements. I am definitely not biased about being with one if I were to ever stumble across another. I'm a Cancer Ascendant, so I do understand Cancerian energy a bit! IP: Logged |
Sunnya Knowflake Posts: 143 From: Sunnyland Registered: Jun 2014
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posted September 11, 2014 03:12 AM
1. No. 2. No way I could do such thing. 3. I have never planned as to when I will settle down. It will happen when it happens with the "right" person. It could be in 5 years or in 1. I don't get involved with someone if I don't think they are looking for a long term relationship. I feel if I am to invest myself with someone then it has to be worth it, it has to be for the long run. I am currently in a relationship which will come to an end at any time soon and I fell in love with another man. We are just friends, I do not even flirt with him even though I know he feels the same for me. Will I get involved with him and settle with him? I don't know, maybe. We seem to share the same values, but I won't be rushing anything when I am single again. 4. No My experiences with Cancers are only on the friend zone. They are very good friends. Anyway, it's not easy going only by the Sun sign, there is so much more in an chart that can influence and shape how the Sun expresses itself. Leo Sun and stellium in the 9th. Scorpio ASC, Moon Taurus in 5th, Uranus in Sag in the 1st. Venus in Cancer. IP: Logged |
melodiemelodie Knowflake Posts: 271 From: Registered: Jul 2014
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posted September 11, 2014 11:20 AM
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Solar_Leo_Queen Knowflake Posts: 2364 From: Planet Earth Registered: Jan 2014
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posted September 11, 2014 11:26 AM
1. Have you ever fallen in love with a Cancer man, and if so, how did it go? - Nope. If you count Cancer rising, yes. It was terrible lol. He had Cancer moon like me, too. But Cancer sun? No. 2. Do you still love someone deeply but date other men because you are convinced it would never work do to certain circumstances? - Done it before and never doing it again. Better be single than lonely paired up. 3. At what age, if ever, did you decide it was time to settle down with someone? - Ugh lol if I was to settle down with someone, probably in my late 20s to early 30s. 4. Are any of you in a happy relationship with a Cancer man? - Never fallen for water types before. Cancerians are really funny though. IP: Logged |
Bluejay Knowflake Posts: 436 From: Registered: Jun 2013
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posted September 11, 2014 12:58 PM
I'm not a Leo, but I know a ton of Leo sun women. My ex in-laws are a Leo sun woman and Cancer sun man. They just had their 44 year wedding anniversary last week. BUT, their marriage is a match made in hell! They are both alcoholics and fight non stop, with extreme violence and verbal abuse going both ways. I feel bad for them, but they honestly deserve each other. She has a lot of harsh aspects in her chart that make her a ride or die type, but most Leo women I know will move onto the next one once the honeymoon is over. My mom is a Leo and has been married and divorced 3 times. She also cheated before because she was getting attention from someone else. I have several Leo friends too, and they flirt with everyone. I think their need for attention, especially from men, is their greatest weakness. I notice that they tend to go for fire sun men. I love Leos as friends, but as a Scorpio, I don't think I could ever be in a romantic relationship with one. Even though Leo rules my 7th house, so technically I should be attracted to them. There is way more to it than just sun signs though. You need to look at both of your individual natal charts to determine your relationship needs, and then the synastry. IP: Logged |
Cancerman77 Newflake Posts: 13 From: Ohio Registered: Feb 2014
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posted September 11, 2014 06:21 PM
Thank you all for your comments. I think the comment below stings the most because it hits home with my ex. Honestly, it makes me sad that she doesn't realize how great she is and needs constant attention and affirmation from random guys. If she is truly happy so be it, but she needs to come to terms with it and not make commitments that she know's she can't keep. I suppose she doesn't realize the extent of her issues, which is also sad. I've honestly never met a woman who made me feel so good, and who I enjoyed being with more, and I doubt she will meet many men who will treat her like I did. I guess that's life. Bummer "Most Leo women I know will move onto the next one once the honeymoon is over. My mom is a Leo and has been married and divorced 3 times. She also cheated before because she was getting attention from someone else. I have several Leo friends too, and they flirt with everyone. I think their need for attention, especially from men, is their greatest weakness." IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 56350 From: Saturn next to Charmaine Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 13, 2014 11:50 PM
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stillatlarge Knowflake Posts: 500 From: TX Registered: Nov 2010
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posted September 14, 2014 05:13 PM
Well, I'm not the one to answer. I have asc, mars and venus in cancer. No way to tell what comes from that or the Leo sun. I have had great crushes on Cancerians and some reciprocated, but they were already taken, and although one would have taken it a lot further, I knew he'd never leave the kids. I was much better looking than she was then that may have had something to do with it. We also shared Moon in Aqua.Anyway,he was young and working his butt off to support her kids and their two kids. She was a Virgo and probably had them to hold him. Saw them on FB the other day. They're still together. He's gained weight. I still fantasize about him though. The way they know me is hard to resist. He sort of stalked me and watched out for me. I loved that.IP: Logged | |