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Topic: worst possible sign combo for a man
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otha92 Knowflake Posts: 36 From: Black Hole Registered: Feb 2014
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posted September 11, 2014 04:56 PM
I have the worst possible sign combo for a man. cancer sun, moon in Scorpio, Libra ascendant my Pluto sits in the 1st house along with the moon. also sun conjucts my chiron. im consider good looking but im kinda feminine in a sense but not gay lol im only sexually attract to woman i am such a Loner lol. im not the social type. I alway remember a slight or injury,But i always remember when sombody helps me. I care about what people think. . . People seem intimidated by me, & i get strong reactions from people im well mannered & shy. People dislike me b4 knowing my name. I just wanna be liked. . I always keep my guards up. I attract women,but im hard to get know,very aloof. And im always nervous when i talk. to one i thinks cute so .my love life sucks I hate being out in public,People always stare at me. I do have low self-esteem,lol but i got alot pride at the sametime. Im self-indulgent
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jjj Knowflake Posts: 504 From: Registered: Aug 2009
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posted September 12, 2014 04:20 AM
Water placements can be difficult, especially for a man. I have Cancer AC and Scorpio moon (this alone is a lifelong struggle lol), but I m a woman. I am very sensitive and intense... I know what you mean.You need to toughen up... do things what you like, do a lot of sports, even extreme sports/hobbies, travel alone, meet many people, gain self-confidence, also appareance-wise... dont pay attention what others think of you. This senstivity and intensity is also a blessing, in the end many people will seek your company as you are natural shrink/councellor, it is my case! IP: Logged |
NeptunianSag Knowflake Posts: 1386 From: Your imagination Registered: Aug 2013
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posted September 12, 2014 08:26 AM
quote: Originally posted by otha92: I have the worst possible sign combo for a man. cancer sun, moon in Scorpio, Libra ascendant my Pluto sits in the 1st house along with the moon. also sun conjucts my chiron. im consider good looking but im kinda feminine in a sense but not gay lol im only sexually attract to woman i am such a Loner lol. im not the social type. I alway remember a slight or injury,But i always remember when sombody helps me. I care about what people think. . . People seem intimidated by me, & i get strong reactions from people im well mannered & shy. People dislike me b4 knowing my name. I just wanna be liked. . I always keep my guards up. I attract women,but im hard to get know,very aloof. And im always nervous when i talk. to one i thinks cute so .my love life sucks I hate being out in public,People always stare at me. I do have low self-esteem,lol but i got alot pride at the sametime. Im self-indulgent
I have similar aspects to you, libra asc (with Pluto square asc transit) cancer mars, and Chiron in Leo 10th house trine sun. It's definitely frustrating if you have a libra asc where you just want things to be nice, fair and peaceful and then Pluto just goes to extremes and makes you feel imbalanced, wether that's through people reactions or your own. I can definitely relate to the Chiron and not liking being in the public eye, I don't like this either, but even more so because it's in my 10th house, I do have a lot of pride though, because Chiron is in Leo, turn your pride into something creative. I think you just have to do your own thing, we all want to be liked, but with some people there are no pleasing at all, so leave them. IP: Logged |
otha92 Knowflake Posts: 36 From: Black Hole Registered: Feb 2014
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posted September 12, 2014 09:47 PM
i dont think i was meant to be born. i have like 3 t-squareIP: Logged |
starmoon Knowflake Posts: 1828 From: Registered: Sep 2011
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posted September 12, 2014 10:47 PM
water placements for men are difficult because they do bring out more "feminine" qualities like nurturing, caring about other people, etc. just my opinion, but when you date, etc. pick someone who enjoys that style of manliness. an aries woman, for example, might not enjoy being around a shy, introverted guy who doesn't take lots of initiative, but perhaps a pisces woman would. it's about finding a good match for what you are and a woman who likes the type of man you are. IP: Logged |
Aries23Degrees Knowflake Posts: 9219 From: South Africa Registered: Dec 2012
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posted September 13, 2014 05:45 AM
quote: Originally posted by starmoon: water placements for men are difficult because they do bring out more "feminine" qualities like nurturing, caring about other people, etc. just my opinion, but when you date, etc. pick someone who enjoys that style of manliness. an aries woman, for example, might not enjoy being around a shy, introverted guy who doesn't take lots of initiative, but perhaps a pisces woman would. it's about finding a good match for what you are and a woman who likes the type of man you are.
I think it would depend on the Aries woman and Pisces woman concerned. A Aries woman that has Mars in Capricorn has a very traditional view of masculinity. She'll appreciate the hardworking type. So,to her, the Cap Sun,Moon,Venus would be "sexy".She would also not be indifferent to Leo energy on the planets mentioned But A woman who has Mars in Pisces loves the artistic sensitive type. Her view of masculinity is a lot more relaxed and less rigid. She'll appreciate the Sun,Moon,Venus in Pisces. She may also lean towards Libra energies of the planets mentioned.
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Aries23Degrees Knowflake Posts: 9219 From: South Africa Registered: Dec 2012
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posted September 13, 2014 05:46 AM
quote: Originally posted by otha92: I have the worst possible sign combo for a man. cancer sun, moon in Scorpio, Libra ascendant my Pluto sits in the 1st house along with the moon. also sun conjucts my chiron. im consider good looking but im kinda feminine in a sense but not gay lol im only sexually attract to woman i am such a Loner lol. im not the social type. I alway remember a slight or injury,But i always remember when sombody helps me. I care about what people think. . . People seem intimidated by me, & i get strong reactions from people im well mannered & shy. People dislike me b4 knowing my name. I just wanna be liked. . I always keep my guards up. I attract women,but im hard to get know,very aloof. And im always nervous when i talk. to one i thinks cute so .my love life sucks I hate being out in public,People always stare at me. I do have low self-esteem,lol but i got a lot pride at the same time. I'm self-indulgent
What's your mars sign?I've noticed that guys who have a Masculine/intense Moon tend to struggle when their Mars is in a feminine/neutral sign. i.e Moon in Aries,Mars in Pisces Moon in Capricorn,Mars in Cancer Moon in Scorpio,Mars in Libra
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otha92 Knowflake Posts: 36 From: Black Hole Registered: Feb 2014
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posted September 14, 2014 01:41 AM
My mars is in Taurus eigth house
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Aries23Degrees Knowflake Posts: 9219 From: South Africa Registered: Dec 2012
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posted September 14, 2014 05:20 AM
quote: Originally posted by otha92: My mars is in Taurus eigth house
Bingo!!! A Venus ruled Mars and a Mars ruled Moon is a tricky combo. For Men and women,the role of the planet positions play a defining role in their psyche. The Moon(like Venus)is the feminine side of ourselves and once in a masculine ruled position or ruled by a masculine planet-it expresses itself in a more "macho" way. So a woman who has Moon in Scorpio may not think of herself as that "feminine" or "girlie". Whilst a man with the same position can be seen as "sexy" by others. Because of his ability to appear extremely "masculine". So sure you have the Scorpio Moon, Cancer Sun and Libra Asc positions. The Libra Asc makes you view life in an idealistic fashion and wanting to make peace with all people. Add to that your Mars -also in Venus ruled Taurus- suggest that you exert a lot of energy in creating beauty,peace and harmony all around you. So with Mars(a very masculine planet)in a feminine ruled sign(Taurus),the man expresses himself in a delicate,non-threatening and often "feminine" way. This would be fine,if societal standards did not factor in.Society is very homophobic and has very narrow views on how men are supposed to be. That is why I think you are were so quick to say "I'm not gay".You have internalized this view also.And this is where the "discomfort" with yourself comes from. Cancer Sun sign men are generally very sensitive. But they,like Moon in Cancer Men,find this sensitive side difficult to express without looking "weak" or less "manly". But for you,the Sun in Cancer with Moon in Scorpio "hides" the strongly maternal nature with the hard edged Scorpio bullet-proof vest.So people don't really know how "soft" you are until getting to know you better. But it is Mars in Taurus that has you in a bind.There is really nothing "wrong" with you -either than the fact that you find it difficult to accept that you express your masculine nature in a feminine way. Many Taurus Mars people I have come to know tend to like things that are considered "feminine" by others i.e romantic movies, cuddling,sensual baths,nice-looking jewellery,ear-rings,beautiful ambiance, looking good,colorful clothing,accessories ,grooming kits etc. I have the reverse(Asc in Taurus/Mars in Libra) and I used to be uncomfortable with people knowing I'm gay- even pat myself on the back for being "straight acting" and not "looking" gay. But all of that was really self-hatred All that "society propriety" is bull** really.Love yourself!No matter how "feminine" you think you are.Nothing matters- except the opinion that you have of yourself. You have much in common with Men who have their Mars in Virgo/Libra/Cancer/Pisces and are often told to "be a man" or "stop acting like a girl" etc. Because they express themselves in a more sensitive manner.
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otha92 Knowflake Posts: 36 From: Black Hole Registered: Feb 2014
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posted September 14, 2014 12:55 PM
I have a confession to make......those are my vedic signs placements my western signs are Leo sun with Chiron Scorpio moon 1st house Scorpio rising Pluto rising Mercury Leo Venus Leo Mars Gemini (some charts say Taurus) Saturn Aquarius Jupiter Virgo Neptune,Uranus cap And lastly Pluto in Scorpio Still a very bad chart with all the squares and oppositions aspects I have to deal with. Also I have 2 t-squares. Would these placement still make me act kind of feminine
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Aries23Degrees Knowflake Posts: 9219 From: South Africa Registered: Dec 2012
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posted September 14, 2014 01:28 PM
If based on the time of your birth, Mars is in Taurus.Then it is Taurus- not Gemini.It takes Mars longer to move than the Moon. So when its 29Degrees of Taurus, it is Taurus. And if 0 Degrees of Gemini, its Gemini. Gemini-like Virgo- is neutral. I wouldn't say that it is "feminine" in nature but it does have the versatility to switch the masculine energy "on" and "off". In other words,Gemini doesn't like to be boxed or hemmed in to behave a specific way. They want to be a plethora of things and not attach to any specific identity. Androgyny tends to attract them too. I have a Gemini Mars friend who likes to dress very effeminate on some days and then "butch it up" in others. Sometimes I'll see him picking up girls and making out with them and then,at other times he'll tell me of how "gorge" a certain guy at work is. At first I thought he was a closet gay. But he has been doing this consistently for years.And surprises all his diverse friends with which way he'll "turn" next. He told me that he is just "sexual". He finds it difficult to wholly identify with either gay/straight. So i think he is a genuine bi-because even his girlfriends know of his tendency to "sway". So if a Mars in Gemini is good with football the 1st day,you may find the same Mars in Gemini off shopping and knowing his way around the mall the next. When he is busy drinking with the boys on one day,he is having his nails done at a boutique the next. And sees no real contradiction in being that way. Geminis often keeps people guessing as to what exactly is going on with them.And when in Mars,the man with Gemini Mars may even dabble in bisexuality.Or find the concept of being asexual interesting. Open-mindedness and even versatility is key with this position.They tend to be not so rigid.And may wonder what the big deal is with other men being all serious all "macho" all the time. Because with Mars in Gemini, sexuality is often a "mental" thing,the expression of masculine(Mars)energy is mental(Gemini). So here,when they argue with you.They tend to come across quite passionate and decisive.But they are also not likely to be stubborn or think that their way is the "be all and end all". If they hear another more progressive/ brilliant concept or idea.They'll abandon their old one excitedly for the new one.No doubt. IP: Logged |
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posted September 17, 2014 06:46 PM
Dude I have Sun cancer like u and Moon ind Pieaces (maybe worse like u) I`m so shyyy omg!! Im preddy good lokking, i feel it when girls are horny on me but I cant do nothign!!! Worse **** i do is flap one up and *** thinking of here, but i cant do nothing!! I have to fkn get out of home and get rid of this fkn society maners!!!Edit: Oh i have acedent Libra also!!! IP: Logged |
Gemini Blues Knowflake Posts: 1439 From: The future... or the past. I get them confused... Registered: May 2014
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posted September 17, 2014 07:26 PM
quote: Originally posted by otha92: i dont think i was meant to be born. i have like 3 t-square
I have 2 myself... Merc is the focus of my mutable T and the Moon the focus of my fixed. They challenge you. But if you work at them they become powerful movers in your life. Don't give up or give in. IP: Logged |
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posted September 17, 2014 07:54 PM
How do people KNOW when they are "good-looking?" Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. I am attracted to very few people. I don't even find "celebrities" attractive, well I don't even believe in "celebrity." I find it a turn off when someone obviously thinks they are good-looking/ the sh*t . Makes me not want to touch them with a ten foot pole. Men seem to suffer from this delusion of believing they are good-looking even more, but when women do it it just makes me laaaaaugh. So shallow. Where do people find that much Ego to actually KNOW they are good looking? Incredible! Ego is gross. IP: Logged |
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posted September 17, 2014 07:58 PM
quote: Originally posted by otha92: i dont think i was meant to be born. i have like 3 t-square
Not only were you meant to be born, you CHOSE to!
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unforgiven_soul Knowflake Posts: 701 From: Registered: Feb 2013
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posted September 18, 2014 10:38 AM
I don't think it can get worse than a man with a Virgo Sun, Aries Moon and Aquarius AS...IP: Logged |
TuxLuigi Knowflake Posts: 214 From: France Registered: May 2014
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posted September 18, 2014 11:29 AM
quote: Originally posted by freedomlover: Dude I have Sun cancer like u and Moon ind Pieaces (maybe worse like u) I`m so shyyy omg!! Im preddy good lokking, i feel it when girls are horny on me but I cant do nothign!!! Worse **** i do is flap one up and *** thinking of here, but i cant do nothing!! I have to fkn get out of home and get rid of this fkn society maners!!!Edit: Oh i have acedent Libra also!!!
I have the same Sun, Moon and ASC as you do. I'm more or less shy as well. Since we share the same three main placements, do you mind sharing e-mails? I am curious to see how it works with other people. IP: Logged |
otha92 Knowflake Posts: 36 From: Black Hole Registered: Feb 2014
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posted September 18, 2014 06:39 PM
quote: Originally posted by otha92: I have a confession to make......thOSE are my vedic signs placements my western signs are AS FOLLOWS Leo sun with Chiron Pluto in Scorpio Scorpio moon 1st house Scorpio rising Mercury Leo Venus Leo Mars Gemini (some charts say Taurus) Saturn Aquarius Jupiter Virgo Neptune,Uranus cap And lastlyStill a very bad chart with all the squares and oppositions aspects I have to deal with. Also I have 2 t-squares. Would these placement still make me act kind of feminine
cancer sun scorpio moon libra asc are my VEDIC SIDREAL PLACEMENTS IP: Logged |
otha92 Knowflake Posts: 36 From: Black Hole Registered: Feb 2014
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posted September 18, 2014 09:26 PM
quote: Originally posted by TuxLuigi: I have the same Sun, Moon and ASC as you do. I'm more or less shy as well.Since we share the same three main placements, do you mind sharing e-mails? I am curious to see how it works with other people.
sure we can what is yours mines is avarius410@gmail.com
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TuxLuigi Knowflake Posts: 214 From: France Registered: May 2014
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posted September 20, 2014 08:38 AM
quote: Originally posted by otha92: [QUOTE]Originally posted by TuxLuigi: [b] I have the same Sun, Moon and ASC as you do. I'm more or less shy as well.Since we share the same three main placements, do you mind sharing e-mails? I am curious to see how it works with other people.
sure we can what is yours mines is ----[/B][/QUOTE]Sending a mail, you may want to edit your post to hide your adress though. IP: Logged |
ariestaurus Knowflake Posts: 426 From: Registered: Feb 2013
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posted September 20, 2014 10:52 AM
My boss is a man with Cancer sun and Scorpio Moon. He is honestly one of the best people I know: sensitive, caring, loyal, and very respectful. He is an amazing boss because he is protective over his team. He is genuine and really wants the best for people. He is an amazing worker and is going to run the company one day, I feel (and I work the biggest telecom company in my country). Everyone in the entire company knows him, loves him, and respects him. IP: Logged |
hypatia238 Moderator Posts: 15546 From: Mercury novile and parallel Pluto, Pluto septile Southnode Registered: Sep 2014
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posted September 20, 2014 11:14 AM
quote: Originally posted by otha92: I have the worst possible sign combo for a man. cancer sun, moon in Scorpio, Libra ascendant my Pluto sits in the 1st house along with the moon. also sun conjucts my chiron. im consider good looking but im kinda feminine in a sense but not gay lol im only sexually attract to woman i am such a Loner lol. im not the social type. I alway remember a slight or injury,But i always remember when sombody helps me. I care about what people think. . . People seem intimidated by me, & i get strong reactions from people im well mannered & shy. People dislike me b4 knowing my name. I just wanna be liked. . I always keep my guards up. I attract women,but im hard to get know,very aloof. And im always nervous when i talk. to one i thinks cute so .my love life sucks I hate being out in public,People always stare at me. I do have low self-esteem,lol but i got alot pride at the sametime. Im self-indulgent
Oh stop it........you are fine; you sound handsome and interesting..most people are boring and stupid anyways so stop caring so much what Most people think. You will find your niche. You will figure out your social persona and focus on the people you feel connected to who get you. IP: Logged |
hypatia238 Moderator Posts: 15546 From: Mercury novile and parallel Pluto, Pluto septile Southnode Registered: Sep 2014
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posted September 20, 2014 11:29 AM
OMG him saying he is not gay and only sexually attracted to women does not mean he is homophobic LOL WOW.IT probably means that he is NOT gay but yet people think he is. A guy can be feminine and not be gay! Sexual orientation and gender expression are different things. I remember been at a store with my then BF and there was this guy that I felt really attracted to but I was convinced he was gay immediately. I remember telling my BF that is odd that I felt sexual attraction since I normally don't feel sexually attracted to gay people even when they look straight (I dont feel a sexual energy with them) and she then told me "that guy is not gay, he is straight, he is attracted to women." I have had more than once gay guys hit on me and then tell me they were gay and then I would think to myself oh that explains why even though you are good looking I did not feel that sexual attraction with you at all. You can look straight and be gay and seem gay and be straight. otha92 I feel is just expressing this frustration, not been homophobic. IP: Logged |
ElfinPisces Knowflake Posts: 26 From: Chilé Registered: Apr 2022
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posted April 08, 2022 07:24 AM
quote: Originally posted by Aries23Degrees: If based on the time of your birth, Mars is in Taurus.Then it is Taurus- not Gemini.It takes Mars longer to move than the Moon. So when its 29Degrees of Taurus, it is Taurus. And if 0 Degrees of Gemini, its Gemini. Gemini-like Virgo- is neutral. I wouldn't say that it is "feminine" in nature but it does have the versatility to switch the masculine energy "on" and "off". I agree with Gemini being neutral but Virgo is not neutral, I they’re a feminine sign mutable earth symbolized by a woman , Taurus is the neutral one cos it’s fixed earth symbolized by a masculine animal...... In other words,Gemini doesn't like to be boxed or hemmed in to behave a specific way. They want to be a plethora of things and not attach to any specific identity. Androgyny tends to attract them too. I have a Gemini Mars friend who likes to dress very effeminate on some days and then "butch it up" in others. Sometimes I'll see him picking up girls and making out with them and then,at other times he'll tell me of how "gorge" a certain guy at work is. At first I thought he was a closet gay. But he has been doing this consistently for years.And surprises all his diverse friends with which way he'll "turn" next. He told me that he is just "sexual". He finds it difficult to wholly identify with either gay/straight. So i think he is a genuine bi-because even his girlfriends know of his tendency to "sway". So if a Mars in Gemini is good with football the 1st day,you may find the same Mars in Gemini off shopping and knowing his way around the mall the next. When he is busy drinking with the boys on one day,he is having his nails done at a boutique the next. And sees no real contradiction in being that way. Geminis often keeps people guessing as to what exactly is going on with them.And when in Mars,the man with Gemini Mars may even dabble in bisexuality.Or find the concept of being asexual interesting. Open-mindedness and even versatility is key with this position.They tend to be not so rigid.And may wonder what the big deal is with other men being all serious all "macho" all the time. Because with Mars in Gemini, sexuality is often a "mental" thing,the expression of masculine(Mars)energy is mental(Gemini). So here,when they argue with you.They tend to come across quite passionate and decisive.But they are also not likely to be stubborn or think that their way is the "be all and end all". If they hear another more progressive/ brilliant concept or idea.They'll abandon their old one excitedly for the new one.No doubt.
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ElfinPisces Knowflake Posts: 26 From: Chilé Registered: Apr 2022
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posted April 08, 2022 07:27 AM
As a Pisces , I CANNOT STAND VIRGO MEN , too feminine for me , I love masculinity and I’m more attracted to Aries , Capricorn & Taurus men , they’re the signs symbolized by animals with horns , Pisces men are nothing to write home about, VIRGO & PISCES are the most miserable zodiac signs for a man , Virgo men act like innocent virgins lol , Pisces men are too emotional IP: Logged | |