posted September 12, 2014 10:50 PM            

Everyone else are detached and distant and cold. But scorpios are the ones who will stay, and have as much passion as you. They're the complete opposite of sagittarius. Sagittarians are really superficial. If someone's mean to them, they're just like 'I don't care' and walk away happily and that angers you even more.

Scorpios are not like that. I love them.

I wish I had a scorpio older brother. :c

I have mars in scorpio 14 degrees 8th house.

That's all I have in scorpio.

What do you think about this and tell me your experiences with scorpio guys.

posted September 13, 2014 02:15 AM            

Btw when i mean scorpio i mean any scorpio/pluto placement not just suns

posted September 13, 2014 02:52 AM            

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Originally posted by MiaPluto:
All the scorpio guys in my life have been so nice with me. They are all brotherly and protective for some reason. No matter how mean I am with them sometimes, they are loyal and we have some kind of understanding. Ok, I am not mean with them. But like even when sometimes I'm having a bad day, they don't mind. They understand.

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Do they? Or are they secretly laughing at you and maybe even arranged for you to have the bad day in the first place?

I'm just being snarky in asking that, but there really are Scorpios like that, and they can be that way even if they're a parent or sibling. While I'm glad you don't have a brother you can be mean to and get away with it, I do wonder what would happen if you got a toxic Scorpio (spider or scorpion, see 7 symbols of Scorpio) for a brother. You're obviously not the most pleasant person to be around and I expect your brother wouldn't be either, and while some Scorpios fly really high (with the Eagles), others get really low who could teach you new definitions of being petty and mean.

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Originally posted by MiaPluto:
Sagittarians are really superficial. If someone's mean to them, they're just like 'I don't care' and walk away happily and that angers you even more.

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You forgot to add that Sag will also shake his or her head at the masochist Scorpio taking your crap.

But seriously, many Scorpios will remember your giving them crap and pay you back with interest, though they may not be obvious about it (one Scorpio was a friggin artist in how she ruined people, and found it hilarious if they came to her for sympathy unaware that she was the reason it was happening to them in the first place). Sag won't put up with a lot of crap (especially not so you can take out your frustration on him for no good reason--and your having a bad day is NOT a good reason) but unlike Scorpio he won't be inclined to hold it against you later, either...unless that's the kind of behavior he just expects from you, in which case good for the Sag for having the self-respect to walk away and stay away (at least he shouldn't seek revenge).

Sags are great friends, and so are Scorpios. I'm not mean to either, at least not if I consider them friends and they're not mean to me first. If I'm having such a bad day I'm going to bite someone's head off then I warn people in advance and pretty much try to snap myself out of it before exposing myself to people.

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Originally posted by MiaPluto:
What do you think about this and tell me your experiences with scorpio guys.

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Scorpios I've personally gotten close to (regardless of gender) range from the best to the worst of people (occasionally a bit of both). I knew one Scorpio guy who was extremely loyal, sweet, and stoic...but he didn't take any crap either. I suppose he'd take more from a female than a male (or maybe he was more subtle with the payback) as he was surprisingly chivalrous in regards to females, and I know he overlooked truly bad behavior if he realized a person was out of his or her mind with bad drugs or some other extenuating circumstances (like his girlfriend in which case he instead took out her bad behavior on the guy who slipped her drugs without her being aware of it), but I don't see him as letting someone, not even a girl, use him for a punching bag (not even verbally).

I never gave him crap no matter how bad my day was because he was sweet and didn't deserve that. And either his girlfriend was the same or she was all too aware of the many other girls hoping he'd break up with her so they could have a chance with him. I saw him as an older brother type myself and I did stuff for him all the time as he made me feel safe when he was around (a rare feeling as we were runaways living on the streets) and as a result I wouldn't have allowed other girls to be mean to him if he turned out to be too chivalrous to put a stop to it himself, though given how many of the other girls were (many much more violent than me) I'm sure I wouldn't have had to do anything.

He also had a lot of loyalty with the guys as well as he was tough, dependable, and had their back...as long as they had his, and he pretty much knew who did and didn't without the paranoia that afflicts some Scorpios. But they'd respect him too much to take matters into their own hands as they knew he could take care of himself, yet he could've become a leader among us if he'd wanted to. He had a magnetic quality about him, soft spoken but people listened and there was nothing mousy about him (though he switched to harsh when he wanted, but even though he'd raise his voice at times, I never recall him yelling, not even in fights, and I saw him in a couple of brutal ones). He was strong and confident and his low deep voice commanded a lot more respect from many guys than wild blustering, especially when you could sense his self-control that the blustering often lacked and he kept it no matter how bad things got for him.

posted September 13, 2014 07:44 AM            

I get along great with two Scorpio/Pisces and Scorpio/Virgo combos I know, and there's one female Leo with Mars in Scorpio who I understand very well. We can talk about anything and everything, like one time we talked about sociopaths (apparently every 1 in 27 people are sociopaths) and serial killers. Nothing like your typical conversation filled with small talk and BS which was refreshing. There's a professor who I think is Scorpio/Gemini and I enjoy her teaching style.

There's a male with Scorpio/Aquarius, and I like his character. However, there's a verrrrry low Scorpio/Scorpio combination that I have to work with, and I believe his Moon squares mine. Rather condescending and arrogant. Also believed he was entitled to make sarcastic comments and pry into other people's business. I cut him off within one week of knowing him.

posted September 13, 2014 10:52 AM            

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Originally posted by PixieJane:
Scorpios I've personally gotten close to (regardless of gender) range from the best to the worst of people (occasionally a bit of both). I knew one Scorpio guy who was extremely loyal, sweet, and stoic...but he didn't take any crap either. I suppose he'd take more from a female than a male (or maybe he was more subtle with the payback) as he was surprisingly chivalrous in regards to females, and I know he overlooked truly bad behavior if he realized a person was out of his or her mind with bad drugs or some other extenuating circumstances (like his girlfriend in which case he instead took out her bad behavior on the guy who slipped her drugs without her being aware of it), but I don't see him as letting someone, not even a girl, use him for a punching bag (not even verbally).

I never gave him crap no matter how bad my day was because he was sweet and didn't deserve that. And either his girlfriend was the same or she was all too aware of the many other girls hoping he'd break up with her so they could have a chance with him. I saw him as an older brother type myself and I did stuff for him all the time as he made me feel safe when he was around (a rare feeling as we were runaways living on the streets) and as a result I wouldn't have allowed other girls to be mean to him if he turned out to be too chivalrous to put a stop to it himself, though given how many of the other girls were (many much more violent than me) I'm sure I wouldn't have had to do anything.

He also had a lot of loyalty with the guys as well as he was tough, dependable, and had their back...as long as they had his, and he pretty much knew who did and didn't without the paranoia that afflicts some Scorpios. But they'd respect him too much to take matters into their own hands as they knew he could take care of himself, yet he could've become a leader among us if he'd wanted to. He had a magnetic quality about him, soft spoken but people listened and there was nothing mousy about him (though he switched to harsh when he wanted, but even though he'd raise his voice at times, I never recall him yelling, not even in fights, and I saw him in a couple of brutal ones). He was strong and confident and his low deep voice commanded a lot more respect from many guys than wild blustering, especially when you could sense his self-control that the blustering often lacked and he kept it no matter how bad things got for him.

In terms of Scorpio symbols he was somewhere between a serpent and a wolf. If he's still alive today then I know he's a phoenix by now, one of the best of Scorpios.

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I'm pretty sure the scorpios never planned to make me angry in the first place. I remember one or two incidents and I don't think that a guy who never went to my school let alone was in primary school told my teacher to tell at me.

If they did, I would know it since being a Virgo, I am not very stupid.

With a Pisces ascendant I can always tell when someone has a negative intention towards me so I'm pretty sure the scorpios I met so far had no bad intentions.

I don't really understand sags so much since they forget things so easily and don't care about things that much. Me, having mars in Scorpio 8th house, having a dominant mars, makes me hard to understand their aloofness and easiness. That's just my personal opinion and experience with them.

Don't forget that it's the opinion about sags from a Mars in scorpio's point of view. So it shouldn't be surprising.

The reason why most scorpios don't need to backstab me or anything is because I am like an open book to them. They trust me a bit more than others because of that. And since they fall in my 8th house I can't help them not knowing about my secrets, subconscious, and especially my mars.

And their sun in Scorpio makes their sun peregrine, while my mars in Scorpio makes it dominant since it's in its domicile. Sun in Scorpio is cute compared to Mars in Scorpio.

posted September 13, 2014 11:46 AM            

And if you find an individual with the combination of the above placements, "chill" is the word.

I find Scorpio Sun people(in general) quite interesting but very reserved.

My Sister is a natal Scorpio Sun and she loves to giggle and laugh. I thought she was an exception to the rule that Scorpio's brood etc.

But I realized that her progressed Sun is in Sagittarius. So this is where all that tendency to "chill" comes from.

Another Scorpio Sun guy I lived with was also just so ridiculous. I spoke of him on another thread. He had the "Scorpio" vibe but it was mixed with that irritating Sag optimism thing.

posted September 13, 2014 12:17 PM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
Sag's don't like to stress. They, like Taurus, Libra and Pisces, avoid any kind of emotional drama- where there are many "he said, she said" games etc.

And if you find an individual with the combination of the above placements, "chill" is the word.

I find Scorpio Sun people(in general) quite interesting but very reserved.

My Sister is a natal Scorpio Sun and she loves to giggle and laugh. I thought she was an exception to the rule that Scorpio's brood etc.

But I realized that her progressed Sun is in Sagittarius. So this is where all that tendency to "chill" comes from.

Another Scorpio Sun guy I lived with was also just so ridiculous. I spoke of him on another thread. He had the "Scorpio" vibe but it was mixed with that irritating Sag optimism thing.

I realize now, after doing his chart, that he had progressed Sun in Sag at the time when we lived with him.

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I don't really believe in progressions. My mom is a sag and her progressed sun is in capricorn and she's nothing like a capricorn.

I know a scorpio who's sun is progressed in sag. He is nothing like a sag. That's just completely strange.

That means that everyone after the age of either 1 to 30 have to have their sun progressed into the next sign. That means everyone should act like their next sign.

I recognized an old lady as a virgo and she was over 40 for sure and she acted just like a virgo and nothing like a libra.

I have to agree with you that sometimes sag's optimism can be irritating sometimes.

And btw, pisces are not really chill. They actually are very emotional, not superficial and 'chill'.

I'm a pisces ascendant so I know. x

posted September 13, 2014 01:57 PM            

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Originally posted by MiaPluto:
I don't really believe in progressions. My mom is a Sag and her progressed Sun is in Capricorn and she's nothing like a Capricorn.

I know a Scorpio who's Sun is progressed in Sag.He is nothing like a Sag.That's just completely strange.

That means that everyone after the age of either 1 to 30 have to have their sun progressed into the next sign. That means everyone should act like their next sign.

I recognized an old lady as a Virgo and she was over 40 for sure and she acted just like a Virgo and nothing like a Libra.

I have to agree with you that sometimes Sag's optimism can be irritating sometimes.

And btw, Pisces are not really chill. They actually are very emotional,not superficial and 'chill'.

I'm a Pisces ascendant so I know. x

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Pisces comes across as very "chill" on the outside TBH. But I don't know what is happening deep within.

I always get the impression that they don't want to let people in on how deeply some things affect them. Not like Cancer/Scorpio at all. Because with these two, the evidence is often clear.

It's interesting that you said that you don't believe in progressions.I actually agree with you on a lot of what you mentioned.And I am very skeptical too.

But, in the same breath,I really do see the progressed positions coming through as a re-orientation of priorities(especially with the Sun).

My parents have always thought I was a Sun in Capricorn child. In her own words, my mother said "you were always so sober, so "grown up" and serious" etc.

I realized that my Sun progressed to Capricorn a year after I was born.I have always been a lot more serious and wanting to "shine" and receive accolades.So I identified a lot with both Sun in Sag and Cap.

But now,all that has changed.My interest in climbing the corporate ladder has changed to being increasingly concerned with political parties and their ideologies. Something I have never bothered with before.

My progressed Sun is now in Aquarius.

My sister has always been a Sun in Taurus. But there is a definitive change in her too.

When younger,she dealt with issues of self-esteem and self worth.She always said that she felt "ugly" and was very sensitive about her looks.

Some years back,her Sun progressed to Gemini.And WOW,she can talk and sooo animated!!

And also,she has come to a new perspective and acceptance of herself. She now reads a whole lot more too than she has ever done. There are books lying all over the house.

My friend has Sun in Aries.He has very "rugged" features and a "down to earth" way of approaching things.

But I also noticed that he has a love for all things expensive. And I mean BIG time. He is aware of brands and complains about his sweet tooth sabotaging his efforts to lose weight.

I used to doubt his birthday a lot at times. Until he showed me his personal info card. His natal Asc is in Pisces

When I looked at his chart, i thought I'd see some Taurus/Cap/Lib.Nothing!

But when I looked at the progressed chart, his Sun is in Taurus. And I was like "oh".

I am not saying that I am now an advocate. But I am having a look at it and seeing if its consistent.

posted September 14, 2014 01:29 AM            

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Originally posted by bansheequeen:
Are you a libra? I remember reading that in signs that are next to each other, the one that comes after feels protective over the sign that comes before. Because they have seen it all and evolved from it. They're more patient with you.

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I have moon and Venus in libra. x