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Topic: Will this relationship ever become more than long distance?
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Yanmorg
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posted September 17, 2014 03:16 PM
  
I am involved with a Cancer man and I am a Scorpio woman. We've been involved for over 4 1/2 years, but it's mostly been long distance. He moved back to his home state after I ended things with him 3 months after dating. We lost touch for about 8 months after that due to the fact that he was hurt, but reconnected and rekindled our flame ever since.I recently just met his family this past weekend after he surprised me by coming into town. We're both 21 & still very young so a lot of circumstances prevent us from seeing each other. The most obvious is that he's 300 miles away. Money is right on both ends do traveling back & forth is not an option although I've gone to see him and he just recently came down to see me. Here are our aspects (the one I'm most concerned about is our Venus-Saturn square):
11/11/1993 Aspect 06/27/1993 Orb/Value
Sun Opposition Venus 2.09 94
Sun Sextile Uranus 1.40 62
Sun Sextile Neptune 1.02 71
Sun Conjunction Pluto 3.58 88
Mercury Trine Sun 1.44 188
Venus Trine Sun 3.06 117
Venus Sextile Mars 0.26 95
Venus Trine Saturn 2.57 55
Mars Trine Mercury 3.57 61
Mars Square Mars 0.57 -135
Mars Square Saturn 1.34 -99
Jupiter Square Mercury 2.34 -102
Jupiter Trine Saturn 0.11 72
Saturn Square Venus 2.32 -84
Saturn Square Pluto 0.43 -83
Uranus Trine Venus 2.12 58
Uranus Conjunction Uranus 1.43 83
Uranus Conjunction Neptune 1.05 84
Neptune Trine Venus 2.23 52
Neptune Conjunction Uranus 1.54 76
Neptune Conjunction Neptune 1.16 78
Pluto Trine Mercury 2.28 51
Pluto Opposition Venus 3.56 -35
Pluto Conjunction Pluto 2.08 63
Will those other aspects to venus lessen that Venus-Saturn square energy. Could we possibly end up together despite having that Venus-Saturn square and that Venus-Uranus trine?
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IV XXIV
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posted September 17, 2014 03:22 PM
I'm not great at reading synastry, but I'll share a few things that stand out that I've picked up along the way. Normally, Saturn in any case is a lessen to be learned and can be considered 'harsh' if it's making a hard aspect to something. Some have even said Venus/Saturn aspects feel almost karmic and there's a lot to be learned there for Venus from Saturn. Venus/Uranus is usually instantaneous attraction but an abrupt end from Uranus' part. Also; people here are going to tell you that 1) this belongs in Interpersonal Astrology and 2) to post the actual synastry wheel and composite wheel. It's difficult to read a list-view of aspects. IP: Logged |
Vajra
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posted September 17, 2014 03:31 PM
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Yanmorg
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posted September 17, 2014 03:36 PM
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Originally posted by Vajra:
Yanmorg,I know at least one long-term couple with a double whammy Saturn-Venus square, and it's in general not an uncommon aspect in long-term couples, so that should not really be a problem. It can in fact work like glue. You have very many great aspects between your charts, and with relatively tight orbs too, so these would likely balance out the few difficult ones. I would be more concerned with the squares to Mars and Pluto, those can sometimes be rather difficult in terms of conflict management, but if handled with maturity, and depending on what these planets rule in both the natal charts, these should not be seen as all too scary either. I'd say, trust your feelings. This relationship has been going rather long already for someone so young, so there must be some substance behind it. Life circumstances will likely not stay as they are for the two of you anyway, given your current age, so there will perhaps be chances to change the situation for the better in the future should you both still want it then.
What do you mean by what those planets rule? Are you speaking in terms of house rulers? If you don't mind, can you elaborate on that a little more so I can get a better understanding? IP: Logged |
Yanmorg
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posted September 17, 2014 03:43 PM
& I don't think that Venus opposition Pluto is accurate because it doesn't show up any other time. Cafe astrology is iffy sometimes.IP: Logged |
Vajra
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posted September 17, 2014 03:53 PM
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next to neptune
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posted September 17, 2014 04:37 PM
Well I would have suspected a little bit more uranus since it is this complicated and long distance…
I think you have some great synastry aspect and I see you have venus trine saturn too, which is a more easy aspect  I don't see any moon aspect, is that because you did not list them, or you don't have any? IP: Logged |
Yanmorg
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posted September 17, 2014 05:06 PM
I don't know his birth time and he doesn't know it either so at this point, I have no way in getting a full analysis.The moon changes quickly so Cafe astrology or any other site can't pull those aspects because I don't have his birth time. That's the only piece I'm missing which is the most important! We both have Moon-Square Uranus natally.. that might give you an idea. I do know that he's very Uranian. He has Moon-Square Uranus, Mercury opposition Uranus, and Venus trine Uranus Natally. I have Sun sextile Uranus, Moon square Uranus, Mercury Quintile Uranus, Mars inconjunct uranus, and Ascendant trine Uranus. That might give you a better idea of the Uranian energy between us. IP: Logged |
next to neptune
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posted September 18, 2014 02:42 PM
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Originally posted by Yanmorg:
I don't know his birth time and he doesn't know it either so at this point, I have no way in getting a full analysis.The moon changes quickly so Cafe astrology or any other site can't pull those aspects because I don't have his birth time. That's the only piece I'm missing which is the most important! We both have Moon-Square Uranus natally.. that might give you an idea. I do know that he's very Uranian. He has Moon-Square Uranus, Mercury opposition Uranus, and Venus trine Uranus Natally. I have Sun sextile Uranus, Moon square Uranus, Mercury Quintile Uranus, Mars inconjunct uranus, and Ascendant trine Uranus. That might give you a better idea of the Uranian energy between us.
Oh yes, this explains it all! But I would still have liked to see some more uranus in your synastry, for it to become a stable long-therm (and maybe long distance) relationship… I don't know why, but I feel uranus has to be very distant. It's like with uranus you can easily be "away" from each other both psychically and physically for periods of time, but without it you really "need" each other to be present in some way…maybe? Or maybe I'm wrong IP: Logged |
Yanmorg
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posted September 18, 2014 02:57 PM
We might have more uranus aspects between us, but at this point, I have no way of knowing. We could have a lot in our composite too. Hopefully it's not that bad because that just puts more infesis on the long distance and I don't think we could overcome that for the rest of our lives if we both decided we ultimately want to end up together.I don't want the long distance. I can stand not seeing him constantly, but him being 300 miles away is not okay. I'm hoping maybe that Saturn-Venus square and Uranus-Venus trine won't make our relationship long distance indefinitely. That's my only concern between us. We've been involved for over 4 1/2 years, I recently just met his family, and although we're both single and live separate lives in different states, I know he wants to be with me again. I just hope those aspects do not create permanent long distance. Hopefully, he'll move back like he's planning. I know life happens sometimes and circumstances prevent things from happening which is I think the reason for that square and trine with Sarurn and Uranus as I mentioned previously. IP: Logged |
Yanmorg
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posted September 18, 2014 03:00 PM
He just surprised me this past weekend with a surprise visit too. During that time, I had the following transits:Transit Mars (Cusp of 7th house)conjunct North Node (7th house). Transit Mars conjunct Mars (Cusp of 7th house) Transit mars conjunct mercury. Transit mars conjunct Pluto. Transit mars opposite Ascendant. Transit Moon opposite Vertex (5th house). Transit Venus conjunct chiron (4th house). & might I add, Saturn will be entering my 7th house in December and it's already conjunct my Sun and Pluto. It'll conjunct my Descendant soon too. Note* I also have Mars conjunct North Node.
Mars conjunct Pluto. Mars opposite Ascendant.. natally as well... IP: Logged |
Venusincap89
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posted September 19, 2014 03:56 PM
I would like to know more about this as well
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