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Dreaminess
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posted September 21, 2014 08:48 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dreaminess     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Like for example a woman with venus in scorpio and mars in aquarius seems like hard placements for a woman to have bc the way she loves, likes to receive love how she likes to have her relationships is deep, intense (maybe sometimes obsessive)and all-consuming etc but the guys she might be attracted to and attract might be opposite of all that, detached flighty probably gives and WANTS alot of space etc. Is it like this for you people with incompatible love planets? i used to be friends with a girl that has a scorpio venus conj pluto but her mars is in sag and the men she was attracted to had saggy qualities and by looking at her chart and seeing what she went through it seems like its hard to have incompatible love planets bc the men she was attracted to were free-spirited independent funny "not so serious" types but the way she loved and wanted to receive love was the complete opposite of that. I also know another one with a pisces mars but aries venus and she is very attracted to shy romantic emotional soft very insecure men but the way she showed her love to them was in a very "tomboy" playful aggressive arian way and the men would always complain about how they wanted her to be more serious romantic less aggressive etc, it seems hard to find a balance between incompatible love planets.

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PisceanDream
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posted September 21, 2014 10:31 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for PisceanDream     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yes, it's hard and annoying. I have Venus in Pisces squared by Gemini moon and Aqua Mars trined by my moon. It's very confusing I loveeeeee Aqua guys. They're just such a turn on to me. I love Aqua in general. But the problem is that I also desire that transcendental, spiritual, deeply emotional and intimate love and this is extremely incompatible with my moon and mars nature. When I find myself in intense situations, I am weirded out, scared off, and respond awkwardly... Although that intensity is what I crave. I find it hard to "please" one part of myself without disrupting the other. Pleasing my Pisces Venus (via conjunction) is choking my Moon and Mars, and pleasing my Moon and Mars is choking My Venus, Sun, Mercury (all in Pisces). It's really difficult, which is why I noticed a pattern in my synastries that mostly includes trines and sextiles and squares/oppositions. I was only involved with ONE person that conjunct any of my "love planets" and he was an Aqua Sun (his Venus Mars were in Capricorn so it didn't even conjunct my love planets or moon). Never was deeply involved with someone that has Pisces Mars, Gemini Sun, or Aqua anything. Libra Moons, Virgo Mars, Capricorn Suns/Venus/Mars etc is a pattern I've definitely noticed... Kind of like a roundabout way to create the passion I need with the airiness I like. Also, I noticed in my synastries that I usually deal with Sun sq Moon folk. SOOOOOO MANY.

That's my take on it... I'd reconcile the conjunction with trines, sextiles, and oppositions/squares.

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Down The Rabbit Hole
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posted September 21, 2014 11:24 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Down The Rabbit Hole     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
yeah, its a constant push and pull, like having tug-o-war with urself lol
To want one thing or the other, without ever really being able to have both.


squares/hard aspects =

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mztiny
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posted September 22, 2014 06:43 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for mztiny     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
What would it be like if venus and mars had no aspect?

Venus cancer 1
Mars cancer 17

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Yanmorg
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posted September 22, 2014 07:58 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Yanmorg     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have Venus in Scorpio and Mars in Sagittarius.

I am a walking contradiction because although my Mars is in Sagittarius, it also conjunct a Pluto and is on the cusp of my 7th house. My Mars is also conjunct my North nose and opposite my Ascendant.

My Venus trines Saturn.

BUT aside from love planets..

I have a Stellium in Scorpio (Sun, Mercury(r), Venus, Jupiter, Pluto).
My deacendant is also in Scorpio.

Pluto conjunct a my descendant.

My moon trines Saturn.
My moon squares Uranus.
My Sun sextiles uranus.
My Mercury Quintiles uranus.
My Mars semi-squares uranus.

Although I have a flighty Mars and a pretty good amount of Uranus in my chart, I still need that closeness and emotional death that most of the partners I attract, aren't capable of giving.

I usually attract Uranian types with a twist.

The twist is that they'll either be very Plutonian as well or Saturian and usually with hard aspects so even though they have a deeper and darker side, they're not in tune with it and will run from anything and anyone who they believe will make them tap into this unknown part of them.

It's very frustrating for me because I see what they're capable of emotionally, but they'd rather stick with their uranuan side and live without attachment or emotions.

It's almost as if I get teased in all of my love affairs. I see the prize (their debth), but I can never access it despite being involved.


Very interesting topic.

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LucieLemonade
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posted September 22, 2014 02:12 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LucieLemonade     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Dreaminess:
i used to be friends with a girl that has a scorpio venus conj pluto but her mars is in sag and the men she was attracted to had saggy qualities and by looking at her chart and seeing what she went through it seems like its hard to have incompatible love planets bc the men she was attracted to were free-spirited independent funny "not so serious" types but the way she loved and wanted to receive love was the complete opposite of that.

Your friend's situation is easy!

She needs to find a Sag with a Scorpio Venus.

IMO, there is always a combination that works.

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Dreaminess
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posted September 22, 2014 03:47 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dreaminess     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Do you guys think the same "problem" goes for people that have their moon sign in a incombatible sign from their venus and mars? like for example a person with air mars and fire venus but a water moon also seems difficult to have bc how they are from the inside is very different from how they show love and also what they attract. Everytime i see a guy for example with a water moon but air or fire venus i feel alittle sorry for him bc i instantly feel that he is probably a very deep emotional sensitive person from the inside but is attracted and attract the complete opposite of how he is, except if pluto makes any aspects to his venus or moon(sometimes even mars) then he`ll attract very intense types that is not a joke guys with hard pluto aspects to either their moon or venus and in some instances even mars attract VERY intense types, sometimes i get a bit worried even when i see a guy with hard pluto aspects to their female planets bc they tend to attract *if i cant have you no one can* types, the same goes for women with sun/pluto and or mars/pluto aspects sometimes even venus pluto women too can attract these sorts and i dont mean only with lovers they also tend to attract possessive friends too. I have venus pluto square and i am a female and i tend to attract jealous females/friends to me, women that secretly try to control me in some way and can get possessive.The same goes for that girl i mentioned in my topic that has her venus in scorpio conj pluto, she and i were very good friends in high school but boy was i possessive over her, i tried to control her in some way and did not like when she was going out with another friend.She is the only friend i have ever been so possessive over and she is the only friend that i have been close to that have a venus pluto aspect.

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