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ScandinavianCrab
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posted September 22, 2014 05:14 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ScandinavianCrab     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
You, or your partner, were born with your Venus opposite Uranus and you supposedly need plenty of freedom in your intimate relationships.

Have you ever experienced any relationship where you felt that you could really commit yourself to one partner for a longer time period (say more than 3 years)?
(If you cheated the relationship doesn't count, please be honest)

Do you/your partner have any natal aspects from venus to Saturn and/or Pluto?

Is there any aspects to Saturn And/or Pluto in the synastry- and/or composite chart?

How about North Node or Vertex in synastry?

if you could consither your self in a long term commitment, how do you want your ideal partner to behave/be in terms of needing/clingy/distant/emotional/independent/dependent/available etc?
Are you, or do you think that you would like to be married some day?

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Leorpio
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posted September 22, 2014 05:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Leorpio     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Haha for a Venus opposite Uranus natal, 3 years is waaaaaaay too long.

The longest I've been in was for 9 months officially and then it dragged on for another 9 months unofficially. Our synastry is really good but yes I do think my venus is aspecting her Saturn, and my own Uranus is sextile my Saturn exactly so there was some tough spots but I'm still casually dating her after not talking to her for about a year after I finally cut off communications.

She's an Aries Sun, Mars, Merc (all conjunct sun) Leo moon. Love that girl's energy.

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Yanmorg
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posted September 22, 2014 05:52 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Yanmorg     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I was involved with someone with this aspect. Despite him being a Taurus Sun and Moon as well as having both Mars and Venus in Cancer, that aspect along with his Moon trine Uranus was enough to allow him to string me along for 8 months without any commitment and then suddenly and unexpectedly, he cut all communication with me 3 days before my birthday. After months of me trying to get in contact with him and see what happened, he simply just said he didn't have the time. He also said I was too involved in the relationship.

I am a sucker for love, but I pretty much know when someone isn't interested in anything serious and he was definitely sending out signals that he eventually wanted to be together for the long-term. I thought it was his double Taurus placements that made him so hesitant about commitment, but it turns out it was all that uranus in his chart. He took me on dates, we had sex regularly, he bought me a really nice piece of jewelry for Christmas, and despite him disappearing for a couple of days every few days without contacting me, we spent a lot of time together.

I just couldn't see him wanting to be with anyone else because I gave him everything he could want and need in every aspect AND he was very attracted and drawn to me. I guess that Venus-Uranus position really took control of him after awhile. He just can't stay put.

He also has said that he's never been in love and I'd perfectly find being alone. Relationships do not interest him ecrept after a period of being alone. After being alone for awhile, he'lol go out and start searching for a new temporary love that will consume him then he'll drop it and repeat the cycle.

My heart was never broken so badly until I met him. Although he ripped my heart to pieces, he was a very important part in my growing process and I don't think I wouldve matured without the experience.

Despite me Being uranian, I am also very Plutonian and that Venus-Uranus opposition was enough to send me running the other way of I ever encounter another guy with this aspect.

Never again.

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ScandinavianCrab
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posted September 22, 2014 05:52 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ScandinavianCrab     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Leorpio:
Haha for a Venus opposite Uranus natal, 3 years is waaaaaaay too long.

The longest I've been in was for 9 months officially and then it dragged on for another 9 months unofficially. Our synastry is really good but yes I do think my venus is aspecting her Saturn, and my own Uranus is sextile my Saturn exactly so there was some tough spots but I'm still casually dating her after not talking to her for about a year after I finally cut off communications.

She's an Aries Sun, Mars, Merc (all conjunct sun) Leo moon. Love that girl's energy.


Well I guess I'm wishing for the impossible here...
This Aries girl got her Venus and moon in Gemini (so do I) opposing her Uranus.
Her sun is sitting on my descendant and her Mars in Taurus is exactly on my Vertex.
My moon is also 1 degree from her north node, so needless to say, she is making quite an impact on my life...

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ScandinavianCrab
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posted September 22, 2014 06:03 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ScandinavianCrab     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Yanmorg:
I was involved with someone with this aspect. Despite him being a Taurus Sun and Moon as well as having both Mars and Venus in Cancer, that aspect along with his Moon trine Uranus was enough to allow him to string me along for 8 months without any commitment and then suddenly and unexpectedly, he cut all communication with me 3 days before my birthday. After months of me trying to get in contact with him and see what happened, he simply just said he didn't have the time. He also said I was too involved in the relationship.

I am a sucker for love, but I pretty much know when someone isn't interested in anything serious and he was definitely sending out signals that he eventually wanted to be together for the long-term. I thought it was his double Taurus placements that made him so hesitant about commitment, but it turns out it was all that uranus in his chart. He took me on dates, we had sex regularly, he bought me a really nice piece of jewelry for Christmas, and despite him disappearing for a couple of days every few days without contacting me, we spent a lot of time together.

I just couldn't see him wanting to be with anyone else because I gave him everything he could want and need in every aspect AND he was very attracted and drawn to me. I guess that Venus-Uranus position really took control of him after awhile. He just can't stay put.

He also has said that he's never been in love and I'd perfectly find being alone. Relationships do not interest him ecrept after a period of being alone. After being alone for awhile, he'lol go out and start searching for a new temporary love that will consume him then he'll drop it and repeat the cycle.

My heart was never broken so badly until I met him. Although he ripped my heart to pieces, he was a very important part in my growing process and I don't think I wouldve matured without the experience.

Despite me Being uranian, I am also very Plutonian and that Venus-Uranus opposition was enough to send me running the other way of I ever encounter another guy with this aspect.

Never again.


Thank you for this.

Yes I got my share of Uranian energy to, and my moon and venus in Gemini is both aspected by Pluto.
I could se this girl doing the same thing that your man did to you (Pluto is a blessing as well as a curse)...
I feel like running.. Far away..


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next to neptune
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posted September 23, 2014 02:46 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for next to neptune     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My boyfriend got the square, I know it's not the same, but he has Uranus and Neptune in 7th house too. (And also sun square uranus)

He has never had a problem with commitment, actually he wanted to commit more than I do…

We have been together for 1 year now and everything is fine! He is not distant or unpredictable or anything…
but he do need his space - he needs to have some days a lone, or be with his friends a lot. I never push him into being with me, he just sticks around me like tape (he is actually extremely clingy)

I don't know if its just our synastry, or the fact that he also got a very stable pisces moon that is closely trine pluto and sextile saturn. Maybe this makes him so emotionally stable?

I on the other hand, have a very unstable pisces moon, that is square uranus and opposite sun/mars. Maybe he just like the fact that I am unpredictable, need my space just like him, and not interested in some very deep commitment… I think people with this venus-uranus hard aspect is attracted to uranian relationships Once they found one that suits their lifestyle, they stick around!

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