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next to neptune
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posted October 08, 2014 09:40 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for next to neptune     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Tell about your moon and mars placement, aspect and sign, and how do you feel in a situation that is highly stressed and may make you want to cry/and or punch someone in the face?

What is your immediate reaction - do you get angry or sad?
And how does it go from there?

And I talk about REALLY stressed out situation, like someone close to you who suddenly DIED or something like that.

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Sagical
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posted October 08, 2014 10:31 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Sagical     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hmmmmmmmm. Both my Moon and Mars are strongly placed in my chart. Exalted Mars in Capricorn in the 8th and a Moon in Cancer in the 2nd house. Mars is in a highly volatile T square with Sun and Uranus. Trined by Saturn. Moon is squared by Mercury and has nice supportive aspects from Saturn, Pluto and Neptune conj Jupiter.

Reactions to things are dependent on different situations and every reaction is not the same. Extremely stressed out, usually I get really bad anxiety and sometimes, I need to go to urgent care to get calmed down cause the feelings are too overwhelming.

One of my reactions, is that some sarcastic dark humor comes up along with a few curse words (in my mind or when I'm lone or around my spouse).

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DeepFreeze
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posted October 08, 2014 11:00 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for DeepFreeze     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Gemini moon 9th house.
Virgo Mars 12th house.
I think my moon is stronger

Mars square moon

Mars conjunct mercury and asc
Trine jupiter
Moon trine Uranus
Sextile sun
Square mercury

I used to just EXPLODE when I was younger. Anything was possible.

Now, it depends.
Death... So far the closest person to me to pass on is my father. I was not emotionless, but I held it together very very well. I even finished my day at work. It's part of life and really... What are you going to do about it anyway?

Frustration I'm likely to lash out a bit. Perhaps lash out and then leave. It's a pushing away strategy.

Anger, as in that deep emotion of being betrayed, continually blown off, etc. I'm more likely to disappear without notice. Let them guess or they'll figure out why. From that point, I'm unsympathetic, cold, unwilling to accept apologies, and if confronted become cold, yet verbally very mean.

Absolutely worst case scenario which only occurred once... I stalked but made it no secret. I liked them knowing so that they could feel scared and paranoid. I have to be pushed to the absolute limits of sanity, which they did. They were abusive and controlling. I had a feeling of no way out, so when I finally did. It wasn't pretty.
They contacted me a year later, peacefully, and said, "you knows that you really terrified me and my family?"
I matter of fact said, "I know."
They were not pleased. They expected an apology but never got one.

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charlie
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posted October 08, 2014 12:08 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for charlie     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My moon is in 5H and my mars is conj Asc so when I lose it, I lose it.

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DrewMann
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posted October 08, 2014 02:11 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for DrewMann     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My mars is opposition sun and jupiter and sesquiquadrate uranus. My moon is in scorpio trine mars.......so anger issues all about the place

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Blind writer
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posted October 08, 2014 05:02 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Blind writer     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
MARS in Cap, square SATURN-JUPITER 0°-1° in Libra, separating. Both MARS and SATURN are exalted, but SATURN wins out, as ruler of MARS. MOON in Libra, also square MARS by a wider orb 8°, and also separating.

Overall, slow to anger, very good grip on my temper, and very, very few people have honestly ever seen me upset, much less outright angry. Libra MOON is quick to reconcile while slow Cap MARS is still mulling things over.

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yellowelevator
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posted October 08, 2014 05:56 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for yellowelevator     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Moon and Mars in Gemini in the 12th, loosely conjunct
Mars - trine Saturn, square Venus and Jupiter, quincunx Uranus, Neptune, and Pluto and apex of a Yod
Moon - trine Saturn and sextile Mercury

For the most part, I have a good grip on my anger and most people have never seen me get angry about anything. I forgive way too easily and pretend I'm not upset when I might be. I'm too afraid to show it, and I'm too afraid to even show the slightest bit of annoyance. I hold it in and blow up only when alone. My immediate family has seen me annoyed and upset many times, but I've never been physically violent, but I do have a sharp tongue so sometimes I can be verbally mean if I'm really upset.

When something truly upsetting does happen to me or I just feel like complete crap, I make sure I'm alone and let it all out, tears and all. I will just sit there and cry and sulk, and I usually feel incredibly alone. I'm quick to feel better though. Sometimes it scares me how quickly I can allow myself to snap out of it, and I carry on slowly but surely, like as if it never happened.

I don't like people to ever see me angry or upset, it's truly embarrassing to me, even though I readily except that anger is a completely normal emotion. I'm afraid people would be shocked and would not like me anymore. I think deep down I hold a lot of anger inside of me over the years, and just praying one day I don't ever blow my lid in public. One part of me would love to show it just so people know not to walk all over me and I can be a force to be reckoned with if I choose to, but the other part of me is way too afraid to let that ever happen.

Yup, really fancy my Mars placement!

That was sarcasm.

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Aries23Degrees
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posted October 08, 2014 06:09 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aries23Degrees     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I usually don't lose my cool often, but that is fast changing.

I have Mars in Libra and the way I handle anger is rationally. But sometimes some people get on my nerves and then I just "lose" it- sextile Jupiter in Sag.

The Moon comes through in close partnerships/romantic relationships a lot.

Being a Moon in Cancer person,I tend to nurture my partner a lot.I also tend to be quite protective of them.

So which is "stronger"? I think my Moon sign is.

I am definitely more moody(Cancer)and defensive in my associations than mr. cool, calm and collected people's person(Libra).

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PixieJane
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posted October 08, 2014 06:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for PixieJane     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Moon conjunct Mars in 5H Sag along with Uranus and Neptune, sextile sun, Mercury, Venus, Saturn, Pluto in Libra (Scorpio cusp). I tend to be resilient to the horrors of the world. I did nearly suicide once when my best friend died but I was 15 and not at my best mentally and physically to begin with and was more of a sense of wanting to still be with her (some survivor's guilt) and feeling society was just a bunch of BS anyway.

Even as a kid I had a tendency to bounce back from horrors (nightmares and some PTSD not withstanding) once I had escaped from them. Though when truly menaced I let my fire come out and I could become violent, which is why I survived while my friend did not--and when I felt anger or fear I learned to use it rather than be tripped up by it. I think my Scorpio Jupiter helps me with the positive transformation, and of course it's perfectly poised in Scorpio to balance my two stelliums on either side.

As an adult it depends. Normally I tend to get angry rather than sad though I can be sad for others. I think I'd handle most deaths, assuming nothing too gruesome or vile, with much more grace and acceptance than when I was a child. I think I have way too much Sag fire to just be sad for long. I do have the ability to channel my emotions to good effect and action.

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posted October 08, 2014 10:00 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Leorpio     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Idk they kind of work hand in hand. My Libra mars basically gives me all this mental energy and no physical energy and it combines with the investigative tendencies of Scorpio moon to basically make me sit on a computer forever... I absolutely despise it and yet I can't not do it.. Though I would say each are equally present in my life (funny how they are both in bad spots for the respective planets)

I almost never get angry except either at myself, inanimate objects, or situations I find myself in. I've never exploded on anyone because a.) I'll feel really really bad afterwards and say sorry a lot, and b.) I know if I do, I'll create just more karma to deal with and could potentially psychically hurt someone.

Though when you combine these two placements you get someone who never gets angry at anyone and balls up any anger they might have deep inside and will never tell you about it. That's basically me lol.

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a_may_gemini
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posted October 09, 2014 09:17 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for a_may_gemini     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have Algol Mars in 8th house exactly sextile Pisces Moon in 6th house.

My combo isn't really anything short of seething rage that boils over to declaring WAR! and then after the blood bath, I go home and cry out my eyes for a week straight.

Although I have Pisces Moon in the 6th house that would suggest a very strong likelihood of working in a creative/artistic field- I do, I worked in the film industry for a little bit; I do NOT have an outpour of creativity when my Moon is activated. As a matter of fact, when my Moon is at an outpour of emotions, my whole system shuts down and I'm crippled from doing anything for awhile. At least, until I start emotionally regenerating my strength.

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anonymidarkness
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posted October 09, 2014 09:57 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for anonymidarkness     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Moon in Gemini in 8H, trine Mars, Sun & Mercury, quincunx Neptune and Uranus

Mars in Aqua in 4H, square Jupiter, Pluto

I am short-tempered. I simply explode. I get physical very quickly, I don’t see the point in expressing my anger verbally if I’m really p!ssed. After the whole thing is over, I move on and have a good laugh about it.

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12th_House_Gal
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posted October 09, 2014 10:15 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for 12th_House_Gal     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by DeepFreeze:
Gemini moon 9th house.
Virgo Mars 12th house.
I think my moon is stronger

Mars square moon

Mars conjunct mercury and asc



I'm Moon in Gemini in the 9th,
Mars conj Mercury in Leo in the 12th (but both at 29 degrees Leo)
Virgo Ascendant

I am HORRIBLE at expressing anger. Actually you could say I'm a genius at conflict avoidance. I will avoid conflict like the plague, and I do so in a very calculating manner. I will avoid expressing anger toward the right person, or I will constantly try to rationalize my anger/gut responses. Generally when I get mad I take it out on the wrong thing... Also instead of confronting conflict I will also "escape". Like create a "la la" land scenario in my mind OR I will literally phsycially leave my house or leave the area I am to process it. I actually process my emotions very easily when I travel short distances (HA gemini), so taking a drive is VERY therapeutic for me.

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posted October 09, 2014 10:36 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for DeepFreeze     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by 12th_House_Gal:

I'm Moon in Gemini in the 9th,
Mars conj Mercury in Leo in the 12th (but both at 29 degrees Leo)
Virgo Ascendant

I am HORRIBLE at expressing anger. Actually you could say I'm a genius at conflict avoidance. I will avoid conflict like the plague, and I do so in a very calculating manner. I will avoid expressing anger toward the right person, or I will constantly try to rationalize my anger/gut responses. Generally when I get mad I take it out on the wrong thing... Also instead of confronting conflict I will also "escape". Like create a "la la" land scenario in my mind OR I will literally phsycially leave my house or leave the area I am to process it. I actually process my emotions very easily when I travel short distances (HA gemini), so taking a drive is VERY therapeutic for me.


Exactly!
I take a drive and often will return 20 min to an hour and may even apologize. It really helps me clear my head.

So let's see... If you are not given this short escape do you say very very mean things to try to drive them away or at least allow you that escape?

It's like a pressure cooker... I gotta get away for a bit. Escaping the situation becomes a very desperate ordeal.

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