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Topic: Those who have Venus Conjunction Uranus and Neptune?
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Gemini30 Knowflake Posts: 444 From: Los Angeles Registered: Sep 2014
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posted October 09, 2014 11:54 PM
Those that have those uncommon placements, Venus Conjunction Uranus and Venus Conjunction Neptune. It seems to me these aspects are very opposite of one another. Venus conj Uranus needs space from love/relationships and Venus conj Neptune needs that romantic smothering love. So I ask to those who have these 2 aspects, how do you view love? How far have you gone in love? And is your Venus influenced more by Uranus or Neptune? IP: Logged |
12muddy Knowflake Posts: 2563 From: Registered: Feb 2013
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posted October 10, 2014 03:16 AM
How do you view love?Precious thing. One of the best things in my life. How far have you gone in love? Not very far. My s.o and I have a long road ahead. And is your Venus influenced more by Uranus or Neptune? Hard to say. I don't want "smothering love" however. I like mutual understanding and emotional connection. I don't need or want "breaks" from my relationship, but I like to have space to grow and do my things. IP: Logged |
theunknown Knowflake Posts: 2722 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted October 10, 2014 01:28 PM
I have both, trine jupiter, sextile pluto, conjunct mars, square moon. LolI dont think venus-neptune conjunction wants smothering love. It idealizes love to the point where it cannot choose a partner because no one matches the ideal. I have conjunction with neptune almost exact (0.02 degree)but uranus is 2nd most influential planet in my chart after saturn. I can't really tell which one influences me more. I havent had any serious relationship. I have plenty of people interested in me though, and they are pretty serious as well but I always started running away... I think it'd be fine if I never get married. I enjoy working and being single. IP: Logged |
madgoulding Knowflake Posts: 50 From: new york, ny Registered: Feb 2014
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posted October 10, 2014 03:30 PM
i have these aspects but they're kinda wide and out of sign. my venus is in aquarius and my neptune/uranus are in capricorn. my venus, sun, mars, neptune and uranus all conjunct each other squaring my ASC.i want the uranus/venus love from emotional men (cancers) and the neptune/venus love from stoic men (geminis and aquariuses). it really just depends on what type of attention i'm getting. but the neptune/venus conjunction ruins it a lot, even more than the uranus conjunction. i idealize the relationship so much that i expect the ridiculous and end up getting hurt very badly. i've never had a serious relationship. i honestly believe that long term relationships are just not in the cards for me. i have no major saturn aspects and a hell of a lot uranus aspect, so friends, lovers and acquaintances come in and out of my life frequently. it's caused a lot of insecurity and trust and abandonment issues. it's just that once they show interest in my, i'm wary, then i get close to them and start to become comfortable and attached to them, then BAM they dip and i never hear from them again. IP: Logged |
Gemini30 Knowflake Posts: 444 From: Los Angeles Registered: Sep 2014
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posted October 10, 2014 09:39 PM
quote: Originally posted by theunknown: I have both, trine jupiter, sextile pluto, conjunct mars, square moon. LolI dont think venus-neptune conjunction wants smothering love. It idealizes love to the point where it cannot choose a partner because no one matches the ideal. I have conjunction with neptune almost exact (0.02 degree)but uranus is 2nd most influential planet in my chart after saturn. I can't really tell which one influences me more. I havent had any serious relationship. I have plenty of people interested in me though, and they are pretty serious as well but I always started running away... I think it'd be fine if I never get married. I enjoy working and being single.
Sounds exactly like my cousin. Loves her job and being single. Everytime i see her that song by Neyo "Miss Independent" plays in my head lol. She's told me though, that after her breakup with her first boyfriend (serious too) that she was already "falling" for someone else and broke it off with him to be with another guy. Come to find out that when she finally broke up with her boyfriend and started seeing the new guy, the new guy basically...hit and quit it. And it happened to her again 6 months later with another guy, and then again with another guy 1 year later! Now, she's basically one of those girls that says "guys only use the head downstairs" approach and just stays single and career oriented. I suspect her Venus/Neptune was involved in her break up with her first boyfriend due to her "falling" for another guy. That other guy was a Bad boy type (Oh that Venus/Uranus aspect.) However why do you start running away? Is that your Venus conjunct Uranus? Being afraid of commitment? Cause my cousin although she loves her career and being single, she also still wants to be in love and be a married woman one day.
However, i think she'll never marry too. Not at least until she's in her 40's!
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Gemini30 Knowflake Posts: 444 From: Los Angeles Registered: Sep 2014
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posted October 10, 2014 09:44 PM
quote: Originally posted by madgoulding: i have these aspects but they're kinda wide and out of sign. my venus is in aquarius and my neptune/uranus are in capricorn. my venus, sun, mars, neptune and uranus all conjunct each other squaring my ASC.i want the uranus/venus love from emotional men (cancers) and the neptune/venus love from stoic men (geminis and aquariuses). it really just depends on what type of attention i'm getting. but the neptune/venus conjunction ruins it a lot, even more than the uranus conjunction. i idealize the relationship so much that i expect the ridiculous and end up getting hurt very badly. i've never had a serious relationship. i honestly believe that long term relationships are just not in the cards for me. i have no major saturn aspects and a hell of a lot uranus aspect, so friends, lovers and acquaintances come in and out of my life frequently. it's caused a lot of insecurity and trust and abandonment issues. it's just that once they show interest in my, i'm wary, then i get close to them and start to become comfortable and attached to them, then BAM they dip and i never hear from them again.
Interesting. They actually left you. Do you think being single for the long haul would be ideal for you? IP: Logged |
Gemini30 Knowflake Posts: 444 From: Los Angeles Registered: Sep 2014
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posted October 10, 2014 09:45 PM
quote: Originally posted by 12muddy: How do you view love?Precious thing. One of the best things in my life. How far have you gone in love? Not very far. My s.o and I have a long road ahead. And is your Venus influenced more by Uranus or Neptune? Hard to say. I don't want "smothering love" however. I like mutual understanding and emotional connection. I don't need or want "breaks" from my relationship, but I like to have space to grow and do my things.
Thanks for your response. Do you by any chance have any Venus/Mars to saturn aspects?
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theunknown Knowflake Posts: 2722 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted October 10, 2014 10:24 PM
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madgoulding Knowflake Posts: 50 From: new york, ny Registered: Feb 2014
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posted October 11, 2014 01:26 AM
quote: Originally posted by Gemini30: Interesting. They actually left you. Do you think being single for the long haul would be ideal for you?
No it wouldn't. My moon is in my 7th house. I need companionship whether it be through love or friendship. IP: Logged |