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Dreaminess
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posted October 10, 2014 05:24 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dreaminess     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
"The people I've known with that square have a very "lost" vibe - like they're on drugs or zoning out, haha. They seem very elusive, it's hard to understand "who they are" and what they want... Very foggy. You can't really define them, because it's like the "real" them is buried somewhere and not shown to the world or even to themselves. Self-deception? Maybe.
They seem to have troubles with depressive moods / apathy and a lack of motivation or drive; and an overall passive disposition.

They are lovely though, kinda have a calmness to them that can be attractive. But there's sometimes a feeling of... silent suffering, almost. Something tragic in a very quiet way - like they're burying all kinds of feelings and can't get out of their misery, but it's not all that apparent, you have to look close to realize that. It feels like a part of them is missing - or that *they* are missing, as a whole. But I suppose those would be the less positive manifestations.

I think it takes time for them to find who they are or who they want to be, and they can create a lot of misunderstandings around them and *inside* them, before finding out what they want out of life.

They're very sensitive folks though. It's like they don't really "belong" here, you know? Like they're too fragile for this world, almost.

They can be wonderful artists thanks to their refined sensitivity and super developed senses.
They just gotta work on their self-acceptance and self-confidence (something they tend to lack, at least in youth)."


Oh my goodness.. this went straight into my heart and is the most accurate describtion i have read about sun square neptune. Even i have seen fellow sun square neptunians have this "hidden" sadness to their vibe and a "lostness" to them.Always feeling that they are hiding something, something sad.Its always something about them that you cant quite pin point or define.

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Selenite
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posted October 10, 2014 09:11 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Selenite     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Oof, one of my good friends to a T. She has recently benefited from hypnosis & is working through some hidden issues that resurfaced..
She is so creative & cool but seems to not realize that it's HER and not what others define her as that matters. Like one little thing or interaction can have her confused about her whole identity.

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freebrainstorms
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posted October 10, 2014 11:49 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for freebrainstorms     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I don't think Aqua & Cap are technically square because they're beside each other but i can't remember what that's called.

Anyways, that's a damn good description of Neptune in general - I connect all that to my pisces venus/asc though, my neptune is trine my moon, but that's pretty much it.

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WarriorPrincess7
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posted October 11, 2014 12:12 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for WarriorPrincess7     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I think Doux wrote this from what i remember and it also brought tears to my eyes when i first read it, very accurate, neptune is squaring my sun moon and mercury.

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posted October 11, 2014 03:19 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for next to neptune     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Oooh, this describes my boyfriend 100%…

He is so "lost" and soooo sensitive always… and its hard to know what he really feels or think about deep inside. It's like I can stare at him for hours but still not really "see him"….

And also - he seems so fragile sometimes, and maybe too fragile for the world also. A great description. He got pisces moon like myself too… so were are just "two lost souls swimming in a fish bowl" - Pink Floyd Quote.

This aspect definitely make a person very very sensitive…. It can also be very hard to watch from the "sideline" of things. Sometimes I feel like I want to tell him about "himself", maybe so he could also feel more uplifted…. but it's too hard.

They gotta learn to live in the world by themselves, but its also urgent for these people to have someone holding their hands along the way!

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hypatia238
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posted October 11, 2014 04:08 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hypatia238     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Lets be clear I know exactly who I am and always have and I have a very strong character; I always choose to be real to myself even if that means not fitting in and I have been this way MY whole life. Since I was little till now. I see people interacting and how often they sacrifice their individuality to fit in with the group and even though I want to fit it I CANT be that way; it feels unnatural and wrong to me.

I KNOW who I am but do others know who I am? Most don't. I show the real me to some; those who I feel deserve it and can handle it.

As far of having a lost vibe, I do get lost in my world on and off and sometimes am not truly present and listening and instead analysing something in my head but I often look like I am totally focused on what I a doing and nothing more. However I am very goal oriented; I am always aiming at something so I wouldn't say I am lost but I can see how people will occasionally catch me having an airhead moment and get the wrong impression when in reality I am very deep, analytical, strong and a go getter. I am multifaceted and complex.

A PART OF ME IS NOT MISSING NOR AM I MISSING AS A WHOLE!

Silent suffering yes that is an on and off thing, I dont like to burden people with my issues; I rather be there for others by listening and providing support and encouragement; I am not an angel or mother Theresa though, there are more caring people out there..

Even though I am goal oriented I wish I was a lot more driven than I am.. My mars in leo is not happy with my sun square Neptune; interactions with others do drain me and that is why I prefer one on one and dont like groups too much or hate overcrowding. I rather live in the mountains near a big city. I like space and quiet....

What bothers me is when I come accross people who dont like me for no reason even though I am nice and friendly to them but does it make me break down and result in me losing my identity?? LOL NOOOOOOOOOOO. It sucks but I KNOW who I am and know that if you dont like me is ultimately your loss. Its safe to say nobody likes it when they come across people who dont like them for no reason.

I do wish I had more energy and was more driven and that is how I feel sun square neptune affects me the most personally.

Sun conjunct Horus in the 10th squaring neptune in the 1st by 2 orbs.

Pluto-Saturn in the 11th.

Jupiter-Uranus in the 12th.

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posted October 11, 2014 04:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dreaminess     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I see alot of myself in neptune like the daydreaming, the "lost" appeariance (even been asked if am tired on some occasions) secretiveness and that i tend to be misunderstood. Its like people dont really "see" me. But what i dont see myself in neptune and never have is the "losing" of the identity, getting easily influenced by others personalities etc.I have never liked this trait in others, i see it as "fake" and i also usually dont trust people that are like that.This is the main trait i dont like about strongly influenced piscean/neptunian types, the constant changing of behaviour beliefs personality etc it really depends on who their with but esp who they are in love with. I think the uranus in me is the major reason why i am a strong beliver of being ones own person, having pride in ones own personality. Both neptune and uranus are strong in my chart so i am a walking contradictionary.

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hypatia238
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posted October 11, 2014 05:31 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hypatia238     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Dreaminess:
I see alot of myself in neptune like the daydreaming, the "lost" appeariance (even been asked if am tired on some occasions) secretiveness and that i tend to be misunderstood. Its like people dont really "see" me. But what i dont see myself in neptune and never have is the "losing" of the identity, gets easily influenced by others personalities etc.I have never liked this trait in others, i see it as "fake" and i also usually dont trust people that are like that.This is the main trait i dont like about strongly influenced piscean/neptunian types, the constant changing of behaviour beliefs personality etc it really depends on who their with but esp who they are in love with. I think the uranus in me is the major reason why i am a strong beliver of being ones own person, having pride in ones own personality. Both neptune and uranus are strong in my chart so i am a walking contradictionary.

I can relate with all this.

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Odette
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posted October 11, 2014 06:53 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Odette     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I can't relate to this at all. I tried to find at least a couple of things that might be accurate - but it just doesn't resonate with me. It could be because my aspect is wide.
My Moon is at 19 Capricorn - My Neptune is at 5 Capricorn, and my Sun is at 12 Aries (squaring the Moon/Neptune midpoint)

I've read very similar interpretations on my Mars conj Neptune aspect.. things like "you lack a sense of direction" or "your personality is unclear or deceptive" etc. I don't relate to those either lol The signs/houses need to be taken into account. I imagine a Mars Neptune conj in a cardinal sign like Capricorn would play out very differently to the same conjunction in Sagittarius.

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posted October 11, 2014 07:04 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hannaramaa     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
"I am always aiming at something so I wouldn't say I am lost but I can see how people will occasionally catch me having an airhead moment and get the wrong impression when in reality I am very deep, analytical, strong and a go getter. I am multifaceted and complex."

People at work think I'm soooo ditzy, lol! In reality I know when I've made a mistake before my shift manager sees it, the sad truth is that I just don't care unless it could affect my job.

And I'm no Mother Theresa either. I dislike the general public and only feel obligated to help out those few who strike me as genuine, and maybe this is where the square shows because sometimes those people aren't genuine at all. I'm very susceptible to likable people but likable doesn't equal deserving.

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Virgo28
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posted October 11, 2014 08:37 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Virgo28     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have the trine and I can't even imagine how much over emotionality could cause with the square.

In may case it gave me this kind of look . I used to hate it now I love it.

I just soak in everybody's feelings.

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posted October 11, 2014 09:13 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hannaramaa     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I thought the square means it's a challenge to soak in other's feelings like that?

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posted October 11, 2014 09:18 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Virgo28     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Both soft and hard aspects are the same energy... What is different is how those two planets work it out.

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posted October 11, 2014 09:21 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Geeky     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Doesn't resonate with me either.

I am very confident but also hard on my self and sometimes very indecisive. I think being critical of myself comes more from my Virgo sun though.

However, in spite of my confidence, I am not always assertive enough. I have a hard time properly verbalizing my needs.

I am a little sensitive, but not in such a way that I don't think I belong here.

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posted October 11, 2014 09:24 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Virgo28     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Geeky, whats your birth year?

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posted October 11, 2014 09:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Geeky     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Virgo28:
Geeky, whats your birth year?

1978

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posted October 11, 2014 09:28 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Geeky     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by hypatia238:
Lets be clear I know exactly who I am and always have and I have a very strong character; I always choose to be real to myself even if that means not fitting in and I have been this way MY whole life. Since I was little till now. I see people interacting and how often they sacrifice their individuality to fit in with the group and even though I want to fit it I CANT be that way; it feels unnatural and wrong to me.

This part resonates with me.

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posted October 11, 2014 09:32 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Virgo28     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I think... Your Neptune wouldn't touch your Sun but may be your mercury.

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posted October 11, 2014 09:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Virgo28     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Neptune over your sun is something else.... I'm having it by transit and wow... so hard.

At this point, I believe Neptune transit is more fatal for a Mercurial force than a Pluto transit.

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posted October 11, 2014 10:02 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Geeky     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Virgo28:
I think... Your Neptune wouldn't touch your Sun but may be your mercury.


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posted October 11, 2014 10:08 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Virgo28     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I got to see your chart... My bad :P

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posted October 11, 2014 10:09 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Virgo28     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
You got my same sun square moon.

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posted October 11, 2014 10:20 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Geeky     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Virgo28:
I got to see your chart... My bad :P

It's all good!

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posted October 11, 2014 10:23 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Geeky     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Virgo28:
You got my same sun square moon.

I seem to have a chart of squares. 19 total, if I add in the asteroids. :/

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posted October 11, 2014 10:25 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Virgo28     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I can see you have a lot of Saturn aspects... You will get to be someone who will be able to help others.

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