posted October 14, 2014 10:27 AM            

All of the Venus conjunct Pluto people I know fit this description. They are VERY magnetic. HOWEVER, because it is the conjunction, and everyone I know who has it is in my age group (except for my grandad who is far from magnetic lol) it is in the sign of Scorpio. And because Venus is never far from the sun, the sun sign is usually on Scorpio as well. So I'm never sure if their magnetism is the Venus conjunct Pluto aspect, or if it's just their multitude of Scorpio placements that makes them so magnetically attractive.

I'm interested to hear from people who have the conjunction in other signs. How does it play out for you? Would you describe yourself as magnetic, or would others? How are your relationships?

posted October 15, 2014 07:46 PM            

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I'm never sure if their magnetism is the Venus conjunct Pluto aspect, or if it's just their multitude of Scorpio placements that makes them so magnetically attractive

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I know someone who has it in Virgo - He has Venus/Pluto/Uranus conj. He is definitely attractive and magnetic.
But I think the Scorpio Pluto generation is more intense. I have Venus opposite Pluto in Taurus/Scorpio and I know many with the conjunction in Scorpio. We are much more emotional and "all or nothing" about close relationships.
Having the aspect in -earth- would be more tame in my opinion.

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How does it play out for you? Would you describe yourself as magnetic, or would others? How are your relationships?

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I'll answer for the people I know with the conjunction. They are very controlled. They always know what they are doing, why they are doing it and who they are doing it with.
Sometimes when you read a Venus/Pluto interpretation it sounds completely -insane- on an emotional level.. so I can understand if you are worried about your daughter having this in her chart.
But the good thing about it - in practice - is that it's not a chaotic aspect, like Neptune and Uranus aspects can be. With Pluto touching Venus.. the person is very in charge of their emotions and their sexuality. They don't make choices on a whim. They wouldn't just sleep with someone on a whim for example.
Even though they are magnetic.. and dozens of people might be attracted to them, they won't let this go to their head.. nor will they "give in" and become promiscuous. They can be celibate for long stretches of time, waiting for that intense connection before they take the plunge.

posted October 15, 2014 08:33 PM            

I suppose I am attractive. I've gotten enough sexual harassment (as well as welcome flirting and invites) along with a few stalkers from plenty and hate from other women (save lesbians, and when I broke up with one woman I had to tell several to back off as I needed some time to recover). Not in the mood to share stories, though one interesting experiment is that I attracted different people by how I dressed while becoming invisible (or at least kept distant) by others who have before been drawn to me. Some of what I could share of people attracted to me is Jerry Springer worthy. A guy also used me to model for him while he did his comic art of an athletic female elf warrior (I was flattered when he included my freckles though I just don't envision the Tolkien, D&D, and/or Elfquest elves that he was trying for that way).

That said, beauty is subjective (perhaps why changing my appearance changes who's drawn to me) and perhaps one reason why I find it difficult to think I'm especially attractive is that my mother was a professional model who really liked to point out my flaws over and over again (but in retrospect I think there was a reason for that other than honesty, though I'm sure had I been enough of a masochist to get into modeling I'd have heard some of the same criticisms). Plus, there are some men who'll hump any woman who stands still long enough and some women who are so insecure (and defining themselves by appearance) that they'll automatically feel threatened by any other woman in the vicinity. I don't claim to be omniscient enough to know what was going on the heads of everyone I've encountered.

Magnetic? I suppose so, especially as one really determined stalker never met me face to face but was sure we were soul mates. I used to mix with several subcultures and was generally accepted into all of them, though going with changing my appearance thing when I changed appearance for another subculture then often times someone I knew in another subculture wouldn't recognize me unless I let them know who I was! Lots of people gravitate toward me, though I can alienate them if I don't watch what I say (including my humor) as they seem to assume things and are rattled when they find I don't match up with what they imagined (though I have some funny stories about wrong assumptions as well that turned out okay enough).

One story out of a million, I was lightsaber dueling with a little boy when 3 men I never talked to came up with their own lightsabers and challenged me to a duel! They talked to me like we were old friends and I got along with them, and it all seemed innocent enough to me but my partner got jealous and told me not to have anything more to do with them. When I volunteered working with the homeless many of divergent backgrounds were very friendly with me and talking as if we were old friends, some of whom had strong positive feelings for me and even remembered me years later to say hi again when we chanced on each other. I think a lot of that has to do with my self-confidence (probably another reason some women hate me) which may actually be more tied to my Leo ASC, though being curious about people is no doubt another contributing factor of that.

Oooh! When I ran away from home at age 15 (with a friend) and was headed to Covenant House some runaways hiding on a porch (late at night) asked us if we were going to C-House. I'm not in the mood to explain the specifics so the important part is that they were instantly friendly to me (they accepted my friend but mostly talked with me, a pattern that has repeated through the years) and we ended up making prank calls from a payphone while joking with each other laughing as if we were old friends even though we'd just met. They liked my skateboard tricks and dubbed me "Thrash" (skateboarders back then were called "thrashers") and pretty much like that I was just walking passed them and a few minutes later I was part of their krew/gang! And when I hitchhiked to California later I only needed to catch 2 rides, and both were really good luck, one an older man who talked to me about his daughter and seeking my advice while treating me as a kindly uncle and the other a carload of Deadheads who just accepted me right away (even if they did make fun of my Texan accent), and I remember them all fondly to this day. Yeah, I can say with some confidence that I'm magnetic.

I was shocked when a little girl I'd taken to the movies a few time as part of a job called me (my number was on her mom's phone) as she remembered me and called on me for help. Her brother (the water void I just talked about in a previous thread today and also the one I was dueling with a lightsaber when 3 men came up to join in) about instantly idolized me (and still does). Interesting enough I once saw 2 men try to lead the boy away and I got up to go over there...the men took one look at me and ran (literally!) though the boy didn't notice anything about it (but then he wasn't looking at my face until I was looking at him) and when we got back to our table his sister said she hoped I never looked at her that way because my eyes scared her even though I wasn't looking at her, and she's not surprised the men ran. She couldn't describe it exactly but she said it was like I was a different person, dangerous, deadly, my very glare was like seeing a blade being drawn and knowing it was going to spill blood. But I don't look at them like that and they like the way I look at them.

posted October 16, 2014 02:44 PM            

Odette - I have the opposition in those signs as well😊 and I have never been promiscuous, very focused on one person and intense and "controlled" as you described. It's not really her Venus Pluto that bothers me so much, since I'm familiar with it and from what I've seen the conjunction seems to be less problematic than the opposition. It's her Venus Jupiter opposition that really freaks me out! Lol