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Topic: What in a chart would make one uninterested in relationships?
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Heather
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posted October 17, 2014 01:00 AM
  
Any love relationship; casual or serious. They could walk through life without any partners. Being forever alone yet completely content? Anything in a chart that would show this?IP: Logged |
PixieJane
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posted October 17, 2014 01:28 AM
I can do that, I don't need a romantic relationship. I would guess it's primarily my 3H stellium which puts an importance with harmonizing (Libra) with close friends, neighbors & community, and such (3H). My 5H (fun, leisure, pleasure, children, creation, hobbies) Sag (independence, truth seeking, athletically inclined) also gives me other things to focus on. I'm never the pursuer, at least not seriously, not because I think others should be a bee attracted to my petals but because I have other things to focus on: friends, pets, children, and a great many hobbies. (I have reached out for some sex type stuff a few times but there was nothing romantic about any of it, nor was it about lust, at least not primarily so--in fact, the times lust was involved I clamped down on myself considering it temporary insanity because I wanted to get pregnant before dumping the guy to never see him again, probably my independent Sag in 5H acting up again). So that would be me. But I'm apparently in big demand. And I'm okay with it...sometimes (I keep most at a distance when it comes to romance). But I must emphasize something: I am not alone, nor am I without partners in those times. I even have some really pleasant memories of just having wild fun without those that I knew could not possibly become romantic or even lustful (which meant I could relax). And one more thing: it's NOT a fear of commitment for me, either. IP: Logged |
wheresthemoon
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posted October 17, 2014 01:31 AM
From my observations, sagittarius rising lol! Of course that is a HUGE blanket statement, but the ones that I know seem to have either a fear of commitment or an INTENSE love of freedom that really overshadows any desire they might have for love. Especially in their youth. IP: Logged |
I'm so cappy
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posted October 17, 2014 10:16 AM
Are you asking about people who never were interested/lost the interest/both?------------------
I'm sooo happy! I mean, cappy. IP: Logged |
Dancing Maenad
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posted October 17, 2014 10:46 AM
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Originally posted by wheresthemoon:
From my observations, sagittarius rising lol! Of course that is a HUGE blanket statement, but the ones that I know seem to have either a fear of commitment or an INTENSE love of freedom that really overshadows any desire they might have for love. Especially in their youth.
Well my aunt is Sag rising and she is a spinster, yeah. She wanted to get married at some point, but I guess didn't want to compromise on some things. She seems happy with her choice on the outside.. Idk if that's really how she feels inside. ------------------
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theunknown
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posted October 17, 2014 11:31 AM
neptune conjunct/aspect venus/marsIP: Logged |
starmoon
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posted October 17, 2014 12:13 PM
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Originally posted by Dancing Maenad:
Well my aunt is Sag rising and she is a spinster, yeah. She wanted to get married at some point, but I guess didn't want to compromise on some things. She seems happy with her choice on the outside.. Idk if that's really how she feels inside.
i don't think any single human being can go through life 100% alone, it's just impossible to not make human connections. but there are some people who are more comfortable with themselves as individuals and do not need a partner to "complete them" or do things with them, etc. they are content being single. and there are a lot of people who hate being single, which is a different category altogether. everyone has a pang of regret though - the people that marry and the people that don't. there is always the grass is greener syndrome no matter what choice you make. that being said, i have partnerships and bf's and etc. and always have, but enjoy being single and childless because i cannot even fathom giving up my personal freedom. and statements like "marriage/kids won't take away your freedom" don't sell me on the idea. sag rising :-)
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Dancing Maenad
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posted October 17, 2014 12:20 PM
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Originally posted by starmoon:
i don't think any single human being can go through life 100% alone, it's just impossible to not make human connections. but there are some people who are more comfortable with themselves as individuals and do not need a partner to "complete them" or do things with them, etc. they are content being single. and there are a lot of people who hate being single, which is a different category altogether. everyone has a pang of regret though - the people that marry and the people that don't. there is always the grass is greener syndrome no matter what choice you make.that being said, i have partnerships and bf's and etc. and always have, but enjoy being single and childless because i cannot even fathom giving up my personal freedom. and statements like "marriage/kids won't take away your freedom" don't sell me on the idea. sag rising :-)
More power to you! As long as people are happy with their choice - most of the time - I think, personally, that it's great. I wouldn't have expected her to be happy alone, she is a Pisces Sun with a Cancer Moon, I know she wanted kids at some point, but I guess I supplied that part. I always admired her for how optimistic and content she was about her life, about the little things, trying to make it better here and there, seeing the glass half full. Even though my DC ruler is in Sag, I craved marriage and a family since I can remember, even though in the last period I have been good on my own too, and I wouldn't compromise some things either, because the alternative is not so bad. But yeah.. I still want to get married and it's not happening.  ------------------
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I'm so cappy
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posted October 17, 2014 12:25 PM
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i don't think any single human being can go through life 100% alone, it's just impossible to not make human connections.
We're not talking about social isolation here. We're talking about people who don't go out of their way to change their relationship status because they don't give a damn. And who are probably not too receptive to anyone pursuing them.
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fishbull11
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Registered: May 2014
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posted October 17, 2014 12:27 PM
I would say an abundance of Sag or Aries personal planet placements or 0 retrograde planets.IP: Logged |
Heather
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posted October 17, 2014 05:55 PM
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Originally posted by I'm so cappy:
Are you asking about people who never were interested/lost the interest/both?
Never interested or tried it and realised it wasn't for them/didn't care much for it. so yea both. : ) IP: Logged |
Heather
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posted October 17, 2014 05:58 PM
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Originally posted by I'm so cappy:
We're not talking about social isolation here. We're talking about people who don't go out of their way to change their relationship status because they don't give a damn. And who are probably not too receptive to anyone pursuing them.
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DeepFreeze
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From: Pluto with Barbiegirl19
Registered: Nov 2013
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posted October 17, 2014 07:23 PM
Well.... My mom was this way for 35 years, so far. In large part because she was in love with my dad the whole time! (they divorced in 1980)
Partly because she's VEEEEERY independent and strong willed. Libra rising
Aries sun, moon, mercury
Taurus Venus
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violet7887
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posted October 17, 2014 11:24 PM
I could completely be this way. Would not bother me one bit. I am not uninterested in relationships but I would not care to bother with one until it is significant to me.If I had to choose, I would say its my Sun in Gemini. IP: Logged |
theunknown
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posted October 17, 2014 11:29 PM
Independent signs like sag, aqua, cap, maybe aries and gem (although sag and gem are more fickle than independent). I've also noticed that lots of aries sun girls are in relationships because they want to win and they don't think too much...
Also heavy 10th or saturn lead to priority in careerUranus heavy
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ifaf
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posted October 18, 2014 12:00 AM
I would have thought aqua placements/uranus would be everyones first choice here, way more than sagittarius or aries lol.I'm one of those people who kind of changed their minds about wanting to be in a relationship. bAsically I realized I was missing out on experiences and couldn't be someome's partner when I had neglected myself my whole life (i don't think I know how to treat anyone right, and I barely learned social skills yet lmao). Plus I still get too weird in relationships.
Sagi ascendant... But my father has a lot of sagittarius and I really doubt my mom forced him lol. They were in their thirties when they met though. ------------------
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