posted October 21, 2014 01:56 AM            

I think many uranian people have a hard time in relationships, because they simply need more alone-time/private space than most people...? And apparently the "normal" is being extremely close with your partner the whole time, while maybe it is only natural to crave a little personal space also?

posted October 21, 2014 11:46 AM            

The part that breaks away, good or bad does so because they are slightly (or greatly for some) anti-something whether it is
establishment, authority, etc.

My main objection stems from how I'm handled, it must be as an equal.
I resent being told (ordered) what to do and pompous or talking down has me heading for the door.
In my case tact goes a looooooong way.
I call it common courtesy.

In a personal relationship, commitment can seem like strangling because of the responsibility it entails.
What works is when you merge naturally without to much discussion otherwise it feels like someone has an agenda/manipulation.

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