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Topic: Wanting to be perfect but knowing you will never be
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NeptunianSag
Knowflake Posts: 1214
From: Your imagination
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted October 23, 2014 06:19 PM
  
My Virgo moon in 11th inconjunct Saturn in 4th, I just know I'll never be good enough for people. I wish I had good lucks, a better personality, better talents so that id be respected and someone to look up to. Sometimes reality does suck, and it sucks knowing that I feel stuck because I cant improve much more of myself to be better to others. This isn't a sympathy topic, but I just need to vent at how frustrating things are. IP: Logged |
PisceanDream
Knowflake Posts: 354
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Registered: Jun 2014
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posted October 23, 2014 07:18 PM
I'm really sorry to hear you're going through a rough time. It's so hard to accept yourself when you feel that so much about you flawed. I too feel as though I'm not good looking but to be honest, I've gotten past that by just making do with what I was given in the best way that I can. I try everyday to believe as much as I can in the very little beauty I feel I have physically and I try as best as I can to put my best foot forward knowing that there's so much about me that maybe ugly or undesirable to others. I don't have many friends here. All of my bestest friends are overseas and I have such a hard time fitting in with everyone. My love life is not existent because I uphold ideals that, quite frankly, in this day an age, no one really wants to put up with.I know this might sound like something you've heard so many times... But you need to believe in who you are. Don't feel like you're not worth it or good enough because you feel you aren't. F*ck everyone else. Take care of yourself, foster your mind and soul, chase your life dreams. It's so easy to fall into the trap of seeking validation from others when you can't find that approval within yourself. No one can every deny or reject a beautiful soul no matter how "unattractive" to them they are on the outside and no one can help but feel sheer disgust at someone who maybe perfect on the outside but truly horrible on the inside. You aren't alone. Give yourself the opportunity to be happy with or without the validation of anyone else. You have a lot to work on but don't give up. I wish you all the best and all the contentment in the world. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
Moderator Posts: 57755
From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted October 23, 2014 07:31 PM
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deepseablues
Knowflake Posts: 303
From: the ocean floor
Registered: Jan 2014
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posted October 23, 2014 08:06 PM
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Originally posted by PisceanDream:
My love life is not existent because I uphold ideals that, quite frankly, in this day an age, no one really wants to put up with.
ME TOO! It's so hard  apparently my expectations are ridiculously high... I can't help I was born this way feeling about love and life! And I know I am ugly and have a very hard time dealing with it and don't deal with it in the positive, putting the best foot forward way that you do. But I've finally stopped complaining about and wishing that I was beautiful. At least I've come to acceptance about my ugliness and that's something I figure. But I also feel like my soul is ugly too so its hard. But thanks for your comment as well, it really is quite lovely.  And Neptunian Sag, I have 5 Moon squares. It blows. IP: Logged |
FireMoon
Knowflake Posts: 2063
From: Minnesota
Registered: Mar 2012
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posted October 24, 2014 01:54 AM
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Originally posted by NeptunianSag:
My Virgo moon in 11th inconjunct Saturn in 4th, I just know I'll never be good enough for people. I wish I had good lucks, a better personality, better talents so that id be respected and someone to look up to. Sometimes reality does suck, and it sucks knowing that I feel stuck because I cant improve much more of myself to be better to others. This isn't a sympathy topic, but I just need to vent at how frustrating things are.
Girl, you're a Sag Sun.. When you're happy you have the ability to make others happy just by being around you. Idk what your whole chart is like but don't let the perfectionist Virgo moon get the best of you. There's always a way to improve things, you just have to want it for yourself and understand you'll never be able to please everyone all at once.. As a cap sun conj saturn I sometimes feel like a complete failure for not living up to certain expectations, but I eventually remember the self-loathing doesn't do me or anyone else in my life any good.. IP: Logged |
jupitersgirl
Knowflake Posts: 355
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Registered: Oct 2009
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posted October 24, 2014 03:29 AM
It's just your point of view NeptunianSag, everybody is subjectively perfect and full of flaws at the same time. You are just yourself. Don't let other people's expectations bring you down. It's just an illusion of your Virgo moon. Being objectively perfect is boring and impossible. You have to be a machine for that.
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