posted October 24, 2014 12:29 PM            

Dana Gerhardt said 3rd house is about siblings and neighborhood, preceding the fourth house which is your home.

My sister has 3rd house in Pisces, I have it in Cancer. I definitely have a lot more attachment to my neighborhood and still have lots of people I want to visit till this day. My sister on the other hand is very piscean about it (dont know how to explain it better). She seemed to have moved on, seeing the neighborhood from a trans-personal viewpoint.

So I'm wondering if you all relate and if you can describe your neighborhood in accordance to your 3rd house...

posted October 24, 2014 02:13 PM            

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Originally posted by Loopylou:
I'd be interested to know what Virgo stands for in my third house. I've always had lovely neighbours that I've got on really well with. But I don't imagine that Virgo on the cusp would particularly point towards friendliness?? Your thoughts please?

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posted October 24, 2014 07:30 PM            

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Originally posted by Dreaminess:
I think i have pluto in the 3rd. I find my neighbours annoying and overtly curious about what we do and constantly tries to "dig" some dirt up.I also can be a bit paranoid/suspicious about my neighbours and usually dont trust them.Its always some kind of a "witch" of a neighbour(s) we have around that secretly wants to find some dirt on me/us.Sometimes i feel like i am a criminal and my neighbours are the "cops in their sivil clothing" trying to "take" me down haha.

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My 3rd is ruled by Libra/Venus and I also have Pluto in the 3rd and Jupiter.

I'd say my neighbors "watch me" but the funny thing is I don't pay them any attention and I pretty much keep to myself. People tell me they see me and my kids walking all the time. I'm very oblivious to what's going on around me as I could care less about what goes on in other people's houses. My mom raised me to mind my business and be careful who I let in my house. I guess that's a very plutonian paranoia thing? I'm still like that till this day lol

posted October 24, 2014 08:32 PM            

Scorpio/Sagittarius 3rd house. Moon w/ Neptune on the cusp.

Younger, I've always felt like everyone was part of an extended family. Of course I grew up in a neighborhood where there were no strangers. Everyone's grandparents went to the same school. The sort of place where if you liked someone you'd have to verify you weren't related. It was heaven on earth - the neighborhood. My household was another story, but outside was awesome - so many friendlies, so many open doors.

posted October 25, 2014 02:55 AM            

I was an only child but took a cousin for my older brother, emotionally speaking. My formative years was on several acres owned by extended family and the neighbors were practically like family so when I was taken somewhere more urban I sought that out, be it from that's how I was raised to my natal chart. When girls my age (or perhaps their parents) in my immediate area decided I couldn't be with them I switched over to the boys and was able to fit right in. And I tried to be fair.

For example, boys fight and some would fight me (and I'd fight back), but if I lost the fight they got no glory because I was a girl and if I won the fight the boy was teased for being beaten up by a girl, and to top it off I've seen both mothers and fathers tear into their son for hitting me. So I tried very hard to avoid fights as I felt it wasn't fair to them, but Libra isn't a spineless suck up for trying to be fair that others mistake us for and I demanded consideration...if they took advantage of my consideration I had no problem smacking them down and letting the chips fall where they may. I'll give others a fair shake but they damn well better do the same for me. That's what Libra is about...though admittedly my 5H (ie Leo) Sag Stellium (including Mars) probably gave me more fire to enforce that than most other Libras, and the Scorpio energy (Jupiter and asteroids all the way in as well as the cusp energies) probably helps, too.

(I understand my Sag Uranus is also why I generally found it easy to switch gears between boy world and girl world, feeling comfortable in both as long as they didn't go out of their way to give me a hard time.)

There have always been people I was able to get along well with and those who didn't like me for a variety of reasons. As the song goes, "Love me or hate me, it's still an obsession."

posted October 25, 2014 06:57 AM            

I think I'm gonna read charts a little bit differently from now on lol.

And PixieJane, that's insane.

posted October 25, 2014 08:53 AM            

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Originally posted by theunknown:
I just read this article today and I had an aha moment

Dana Gerhardt said 3rd house is about siblings and neighborhood, preceding the fourth house which is your home.

My sister has 3rd house in Pisces, I have it in Cancer. I definitely have a lot more attachment to my neighborhood and still have lots of people I want to visit till this day. My sister on the other hand is very piscean about it (dont know how to explain it better). She seemed to have moved on, seeing the neighborhood from a trans-personal viewpoint.

So I'm wondering if you all relate and if you can describe your neighborhood in accordance to your 3rd house...

Just wanna learn

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Also look to the ruler and the aspects it makes to other planets.

I have Gemini on the 3rd house cusp with Mercury as the ruler.Do I feel sentimental about my neighborhood? No.

But I get concerned with all the littering that goes on.I even get angry at someone whom i see do it

My relationship with my siblings is fine. But my sister is very argumentative and temperamental at times(she has Mars in Gemini/Uranus in Sag opposition). So it can get near impossible to avoid a disagreement with her.

My Mercury(ruler of 3rd)squares Mars.

posted October 25, 2014 04:23 PM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
Also look to the ruler and the aspects it makes to other planets.

I have Gemini on the 3rd house cusp with Mercury as the ruler.Do I feel sentimental about my neighborhood? No.

But I get concerned with all the littering that goes on.I even get angry at someone whom i see do it

My relationship with my siblings is fine. But my sister is very argumentative and temperamental at times(she has Mars in Gemini/Uranus in Sag opposition). So it can get near impossible to avoid a disagreement with her.

My Mercury(ruler of 3rd)squares Mars.

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posted October 25, 2014 06:37 PM            

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Originally posted by theunknown:
And PixieJane, that's insane.

My uncle also has a libra stellium with 2 planets in 3rd but no sadge influence. His pluto is in 4th so I guess the fight and power struggle you experienced don't apply.

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The power struggle came mostly from girls, the boys pretty much left me out of theirs. Note, I was primarily speaking of ages 6-10 when I wasn't allowed to play with girls in my neighborhood (not sure if the girls decided that or their parents). Boys at that age, at least in Texas back in the 80s, tend to be rambunctious who won't shy from a fight, and at that age about the same size as a girl and more prone to accepting a girl who plays with them frequently as one of the boys, hence I got into scraps with them as they did with each other (at least until the older kids and adults made it clear I was to be treated different), but it was very rare that it was anything serious.

posted October 26, 2014 08:58 PM            

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The Third House is commonly referred to as the House of Communication. In this house, much of the communication is going on between the individual and those he or she holds close: brothers and sisters, as well as neighbors.

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posted October 28, 2014 01:09 PM            

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Originally posted by charlie:
I am REALLY (!) confused with my 3H Scorpio!! NN and Uranus are there, opposite Jupiter.

I have no contact, and have never met, my brother....I don't necessarily care too much about my immediate neighborhood as I don't like nosy people nor having neighbors too close....and I also don't like doing shopping too close to home. I DO like communication; written or spoken, and I analyze words and construction of sentences. Is that all there is to my 3H?? All my life I have felt a need to get AWAY from my immediate surroundings and set up shop elsewhere, preferably across the globe, but maybe that is my lesson to learn? To not run away?

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Well, Jupiter is in 9th I suppose? So you are definitely interested in going away for learning/expansion. North Node is what is uncomfortable to you. Your SN is in another place, not your neighborhood.

Plus uranus is very individualistic. You would understand uranian energy more than I do but it's not stable and it can be triggered by anything that causes the native to feel suffocated, or smothered, ...

ALl of this is in Scorpio. Scorpio is the worst thing for a Uranian person because scorpio neighborhood would be controlling, manipulative. Maybe there are lots of secrets and manipulative tactics.

posted October 28, 2014 01:37 PM            

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Originally posted by Marandana:
I got capricorn in 3rd house, along saturn, mars, venus, neptune, uranus ... yes a big stellium. I don't know, For me, my neighborhood nor my siblings are not an important part in my life, Actually those are the things I care less about, could it be saturn's influence there, though.

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I have Cap on my 3rd but it's empty. However, I feel exactly the same as you about my siblings and neighbors.

posted May 21, 2016 09:27 AM            

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Originally posted by Loopylou:
I'd be interested to know what Virgo stands for in my third house. I've always had lovely neighbours that I've got on really well with. But I don't imagine that Virgo on the cusp would particularly point towards friendliness?? Your thoughts please?

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I have Virgo in the 3rd house too. However, I have always had 'neutral' neightbours. I had friendly and nasty ones from time to time, but most of the time, we did not have much contact. May be it's because I don't really seek it too... I don't think the sign in which your house falls tells a lot about them, but rather the planets which are in the 3rd house.