posted October 24, 2014 10:02 PM            

For example when they cover their eyes or don't look at you while breaking up with you...?

posted October 24, 2014 10:15 PM            

I have sun square pluto and once I'm done with something/someone, no matters how I feel, I'm done.

posted October 24, 2014 10:29 PM            

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Originally posted by novanomaly:
What are some reasons a Scorpio will not look you in the eyes..?

For example when they cover their eyes or don't look at you while breaking up with you...?

And, if a Scorpio decides he doesn't want to love, commit, or be in a relationship with anyone anymore, including you...does that mean he's set on it for life? Is there still a possibility that they still love you deep down somewhere, but they're just holding it back for the sake of making the break up easier for the both of you..?

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To be honest, i'm a Scorpio, and not all of us do that though. But I usually avoid doing that because I find eye contact very akwarward. My brother once got really ****** at me because I was staring at this man that had a different type of skin. I wasn't making a joke about him or anything, I just found him very interesting, so I stared for a looooong time. People usally get uncomfortable under my stares because sometimes I don't even know i'm staring. So now I usually avoid it. One thing a Scorpio( I, I guess I can't speak for all) doesn't like is someone trying to 'read' them, I feel like when people stare at me they try to figure me out or try to guilt trip me in some way, so I just avoid looking eye-to-eye. When I say that I don't want to get married and such, just know that I probably always thinking about the future, we don't always say what we really mean. I guess it's something holding that person back. I never would say anything like that unless there was something in my past that made me trigger into thinking that way.

posted October 24, 2014 10:46 PM            

If that is the case..then I am quite sadden by that knowledge..

@ScorpioPowerr

I think even if I wanted to stare, I wouldn't be able to anyway... Blah..I just feel more and more confused.. As a Scorpio (or anyone who wants to answer this)..do you think a person who was in that situation with a Scorpio should hold onto a little bit of hope that they'll see the Scorpio in the future..? Or would it be better to heed the Scorpio's words and just move on..?

Also, that whole thing about triggering..not sure, but..maybe there might have been a trigger..

posted October 24, 2014 11:40 PM            

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Originally posted by theunknown:
there is probably something going internally. Scorpios are very sensitive and expect you to understand what they say with very few words. If you still don't know why the person acts like this, he might have already felt distant and misunderstood. I know this because I attract lots of Scorpios in my life. If they hint at something, they expect you to pick up these hints as they like to hold cards close to their chest and not reveal too much.

You can question him if you want. Maybe that'd provide you closure

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posted October 25, 2014 02:16 AM            

Ironically, this is probably the best way to get him back...but if you actually let him come back he wouldn't respect you and likely end up breaking it off later anyway. If it were me I'd cast the fixed sign aside, whether or not I got the answer and whether or not it was all a misunderstanding. But then maybe that's the Scorpio in my chart talking, or perhaps it's my extensive experience with Scorpios and Scorpio stelliums.

posted October 25, 2014 03:27 AM            

If that's the case..then, he must have felt very misunderstood, since..we've always had a hard time understanding each other... I'm much too...literal at times..that I'll miss deeper things...

@PixieJane

Maybe he has grown tired of me... :[ But, that's just horrible..to cast something aside just because you feel you know all about them. Even worse that they think you're a hinder to their transformation.. Makes one feel..used and now..they're no longer useful..

posted October 25, 2014 03:40 AM            

And it's unlikely the thought "How can I use her to get what I want?" It's more instinctual to transform (which can take the form of self-destruction and/or the destruction of others), sometimes it's conscious and sometimes not.

Many want Scorpios (or think they do) because they imagine them as powerful and sexy, and they want him to automatically know her desires, stoke her passions, and be obsessed with her, even if it becomes disturbing. They think they can tame the bad boy (or the bad girl--my mother is a Scorpio and a black widow who brags about destroying men, and still men flock to her, as far as I'm concerned those men deserve what they get), and have been brainwashed to think romance is submitting to the Beast to make him a Prince who protects her, and only her, taking care of all her needs. Beauty and the Beast is the most obvious but a great many romances continue to be that way all through a girls and woman's life (Edward Cullen is a well known Beast that Bella turns into a Prince, and many think of Scorpio men as like Edward Cullen with more sex), and so they gravitate to such men saying they like 'em strong and "manly" and then whine when they get treated exactly like they should've known they would from the start since this is the real world rather than the fantasy they get raised on. (And pretty similar for the men who dream of a Scorpio woman.)

posted October 25, 2014 04:40 AM            

I did know he was a Scorpio. But it didn't really matter..until I started liking him. I guess..I have fallen into that thought process as well. Thinking that with him, we'd be happy together and that we'd be together for a long time, seeing as once they love you, they'll commit or whatever and not even think about anyone else.

Sigh...I think I've got a Scorpio who's poisoned himself. But, at the same time..is trying to evolve.

Sad that he'll probably never look my way...because I still love him a lot.. But, if he's going to be cold towards me, and be angry when he's around me now..I'll just..have to force myself to go.

Sorry I don't make sense..just broke up very recently..so still trying to sort things and whatnot all out.

posted October 25, 2014 08:25 AM            

If they are very strict on privacy, they may wear shades, avoid eye contact and wear a lot of "cover up"/dark clothes.

In-fact,I think personal planet contacts with Neptune/Pluto can make one "hide" a lot.

But again,I think the avoidance of eye contact could be more a human behavior thing than sign-related.Depending on the context.

I,for instance,find it very difficult to look at someone in the eye when they have hurt me and took the wind out of me. I just feel like crying.And I DONT want them to see that I am crying

So maybe for the Scorpio, it is the same? Maybe they are so hurt and the break up is a way for them to establish some distance between you and them? So that you don't see them break down.

Some people never want to appear vulnerable. And I guess,back to zodiac signs, people with aspects of Pluto/Mars/Saturn/Uranus to personal planets(Asc,Sun,Moon,Mercury, Venus,Mars)avoid appearing "broken".

Breakups that are final usually have a very definitive tone to them. You can see them coming sometimes and when the person addresses you,you get the message that this is for real.They are not kidding!!!

posted October 25, 2014 09:34 AM            

For me and for most plutonian really , each time someone hurts us, we are going through a rebirth process because we think we are strong people who don't get hurt easily.

posted October 25, 2014 10:27 AM            

I'm not sure what he would be hurt about.. Breaking up just so he can break down..is a little too extreme..?

The tone, huh.. The tone does sound definite, but his actions do seem a little like what you listed. Hm...I shouldn't think about this..it's just a cause for headache and heartache..

@theunknown

Honestly, if he were to sting me, I'd probably not know it.. :\

I know it's done..it's just..hard for me to accept because I don't understand his reasoning.. It's just too abrupt..

He's probably a mess..but he's busy..so no time to deal with his mess. I feel like a mess too..

posted October 25, 2014 01:38 PM            

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Originally posted by theunknown:
^^^i doubt he stung you. The scorp stinger is always where it hurts the most to that particular person, like something really personal. It'd be as clear as daylight you are not gonna miss it. Lol.

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Then, I guess I've been lucky or something of that sort.. :\

posted October 25, 2014 11:19 PM            

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Originally posted by lalalinda:
Hello novanomaly! Welcome to LL

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posted October 26, 2014 04:33 AM            

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Originally posted by fiery_fish:
I'm sorry you feel that way. But hey, let him leave, what's the worst thing that's going to happen, are you gonna die from it ? No.

Please dont chase him, I hate when women chase men, its our job to chase women not the other way round.
Let him go.

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Well, I never really did understand the game of cat and mouse.. What's the point in that? If you like me, then tell me. Stop playing sneakily. We can do that after we've established that we mutually like each other and flirt that way.

posted October 26, 2014 04:54 AM            

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Originally posted by novanomaly:
Well, I never really did understand the game of cat and mouse.. What's the point in that? If you like me, then tell me. Stop playing sneakily. We can do that after we've established that we mutually like each other and flirt that way.

I dunno..something along those lines..

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People do it to protect themselves I believe, I don't do it. I like someone, I make them feel it and sometimes bluntly just say it.

I love Scorpio women because they are a challenge (currently chasing one and she's in the bag so to speak) not sure about the men..

posted October 26, 2014 06:48 AM            

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Originally posted by fiery_fish:

People do it to protect themselves I believe, I don't do it. I like someone, I make them feel it and sometimes bluntly just say it.

I love Scorpio women because they are a challenge (currently chasing one and she's in the bag so to speak) not sure about the men..

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I guess it can be viewed as that..that's another way to look at it..