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Topic: When a gemini mars feels bored, then what?
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next to neptune Knowflake Posts: 2702 From: The Moon Registered: Aug 2013
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posted October 25, 2014 05:32 PM
When a gemini mars is starting to get restless and kind of bored, then how do you cheer him up?My guy has a gemini mars in 12th house and I have a virgo mars in 4th (he is libra sun and I am virgo sun). Sometimes I feel that we live in 2 very different worlds... when I start to feel tired, he start to feel restless and it seems like he wants to do something active all the time, but I just want to relax.... is there anything to do about that?:S IP: Logged |
Virgo28 Knowflake Posts: 598 From: Mercury near the Sun(Florida) Registered: Nov 2013
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posted October 25, 2014 05:42 PM
Read about a Sag Moon or Mars.... You need to look beyond if that makes any sense...!!!
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mareaire Knowflake Posts: 269 From: avalon Registered: Feb 2014
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posted October 25, 2014 05:43 PM
gemini mars here. it's conjunct my asc in the first. but my sun is in the 12th, so i can imagine what having mars in there would be like. my partner also has gemini mars. how close is it to his asc?he will have to keep busy to keep from going insane! if you need a rest, just kick back and let him know that he can go ahead and do what he needs to do! let him be as active as he needs to, trust me. if he has problems with with boredom, which basically means, trouble with initiating an activity, then encourage him in those moments to do something, take a walk, build a shed, write, make dinner….whatever. even if you are tired and need to rest, just be happy for him that he has energy and encourage him to use it! he'll be happy keepin' busy and will feel useful if he is contributing to the home, the community, your relationship or even just his own happiness and health. IP: Logged |
mareaire Knowflake Posts: 269 From: avalon Registered: Feb 2014
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posted October 25, 2014 05:48 PM
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mareaire Knowflake Posts: 269 From: avalon Registered: Feb 2014
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posted October 25, 2014 05:50 PM
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athenegoddess Knowflake Posts: 5663 From: Registered: Aug 2011
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posted October 25, 2014 05:52 PM
he needs his alone time so let him.IP: Logged |
next to neptune Knowflake Posts: 2702 From: The Moon Registered: Aug 2013
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posted October 25, 2014 05:53 PM
quote: Originally posted by mareaire: gemini mars here. it's conjunct my asc in the first. but my sun is in the 12th, so i can imagine what having mars in there would be like. my partner also as gemini mars. how close is it to his asc?he will have to keep busy to keep from going insane! if you need a rest, just kick back and let him know that he can go ahead and do what he needs to do! let him be as active as he needs to, trust me. if he has problems with with boredom, which basically means, trouble with initiating an activity, then encourage him in those moments to do something, take a walk, build a shed, write, make dinner….whatever. even if you are tired and need to rest, just be happy for him that he has energy and encourage him to use it! he'll be happy keepin' busy and will feel useful if he is contributing to the home, the community, your relationship or even just his own happiness and health.
I think you are very right! Thanks for the answer <3 <3 EDIt: his ascendant is far from it... his ascendant is either 29 degree gemini or its cancer, I dont really know (but I think its cancer) IP: Logged |
Virgo28 Knowflake Posts: 598 From: Mercury near the Sun(Florida) Registered: Nov 2013
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posted October 25, 2014 06:00 PM
I'm a Virgo Sun/ Sag Moon/ Leo Mars/ Cancer Venus.... I always find myself dating Gem girls. It is a big freaking mess...!!! They find me so unpredictable and never there. I have never dated a Libra girl but I have been friend with a Libra Sun. I understand him deeply(I have Libra Asc) but I feel like I could never count on him. ------------------ "If a man does not work passionately - even furiously - at being the best in the world at what he does, he fails his talent, his destiny, and his God." IP: Logged |
next to neptune Knowflake Posts: 2702 From: The Moon Registered: Aug 2013
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posted October 25, 2014 06:09 PM
quote: Originally posted by Virgo28: I'm a Virgo Sun/ Sag Moon/ Leo Mars/ Cancer Venus.... I always find myself dating Gem girls. It is a big freaking mess...!!! They find me so unpredictable and never there. I have never dated a Libra girl but I have been friend with a Libra Sun. I understand him deeply(I have Libra Asc) but I feel like I could never count on him.
Thats some really interesting combination of signs you got there for a virgo I'm a virgo sun, pisces moon, scorp venus and virgo mars... I make many gem friends, but I have never been friends or lover with a libra sun and gem mars before... I would say its your sag moon that makes you unpredictable, but a gemini anything would find that attractive?? IP: Logged |
Virgo28 Knowflake Posts: 598 From: Mercury near the Sun(Florida) Registered: Nov 2013
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posted October 25, 2014 06:17 PM
Lol... My mom is Gem Sun/ Pisces Moon/ Cancer Venus & Mars.That's a Sun/Moon Grand Cross!!! We can't stand each other but we can't be away from each other. ------------------ "If a man does not work passionately - even furiously - at being the best in the world at what he does, he fails his talent, his destiny, and his God." IP: Logged |
Virgo28 Knowflake Posts: 598 From: Mercury near the Sun(Florida) Registered: Nov 2013
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posted October 25, 2014 06:21 PM
Mmmmm..... I think is the fact that I don't take anything seriously is what they find appealing. I seem so positive and naive(Sag moon). I agree with them even when I don't (Libra Asc). ------------------ "If a man does not work passionately - even furiously - at being the best in the world at what he does, he fails his talent, his destiny, and his God." IP: Logged |
mareaire Knowflake Posts: 269 From: avalon Registered: Feb 2014
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posted October 25, 2014 06:23 PM
yes, any 12th house planets will need time and space to be alone. quote: Originally posted by athenegoddess: he needs his alone time so let him.
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next to neptune Knowflake Posts: 2702 From: The Moon Registered: Aug 2013
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posted October 25, 2014 06:24 PM
quote: Originally posted by Virgo28: Lol... My mom is Gem Sun/ Pisces Moon/ Cancer Venus & Mars.That's a Sun/Moon Grand Cross!!! We can't stand each other but we can't be away from each other.
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next to neptune Knowflake Posts: 2702 From: The Moon Registered: Aug 2013
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posted October 25, 2014 06:28 PM
quote: Originally posted by mareaire: yes, any 12th house planets will need time and space to be alone.
Agree but he is a libra sun and venus, and he has so much air... it's completely right he needs alone time, but because he is so social I think he doesnt really realize that it's what he needs sometimes IP: Logged |
Virgo28 Knowflake Posts: 598 From: Mercury near the Sun(Florida) Registered: Nov 2013
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posted October 25, 2014 06:31 PM
If you want to stimulate his mars.Do this: Tell him about some grand idea of yours..... Ask him how could he makes this work for all the people involved(Libra) and then left him thinking and do something else. Like you don't care any more(But it has to sound important for you and he is the only one who holds the answer). Wait about an hour and you'll know...! P.S. Libras don't like to feel in control of the relationship. You need to take charge to keep them coming for more like an Aries. ------------------ "If a man does not work passionately - even furiously - at being the best in the world at what he does, he fails his talent, his destiny, and his God." IP: Logged |
hannaramaa Moderator Posts: 10819 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted October 25, 2014 07:29 PM
quote: Originally posted by Virgo28: If you want to stimulate his mars.Do this: Tell him about some grand idea of yours..... Ask him how could he makes this work for all the people involved(Libra) and then left him thinking and do something else. Like you don't care any more(But it has to sound important for you and he is the only one who holds the answer). Wait about an hour and you'll know...!
You know, I have a Gemini Mars conj. ASC. I get mad when I'm bored! I want to be creating something whether it be construction, house work, I have to have a project of some kind going. I can't just "be." There's too little time for a Gemini Mars I think. But I second Virgo28's answer because Gemini Mars is all about stimulating their mind. It doesn't mean you have to be super-duper smart and serious and know every fact, you just have to be entertaining and unexpected. No pressure IP: Logged |
next to neptune Knowflake Posts: 2702 From: The Moon Registered: Aug 2013
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posted October 25, 2014 07:37 PM
quote: Originally posted by hannaramaa: You know, I have a Gemini Mars conj. ASC. I get mad when I'm bored! I want to be creating something whether it be construction, house work, I have to have a project of some kind going. I can't just "be." There's too little time for a Gemini Mars I think. But I second Virgo28's answer because Gemini Mars is all about stimulating their mind. It doesn't mean you have to be super-duper smart and serious and know every fact, you just have to be entertaining and unexpected. No pressure
He sure likes to "create" something. Music or art, preferably. He always wants me to join him, but I must admit, that I feel too tired (or just really wanting to do something that doesnt always have to stimulate the mind - I am lazy and boring lol) It's just that he is a libra sun after all and he wants to make group-activities... So yeah, now you're just REALLY making me feel the pressure:P But I'm a virgo sun and virgo suns are booooring...not entertaining and fun
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hannaramaa Moderator Posts: 10819 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted October 25, 2014 07:41 PM
I think Mars in Gemini is most likely to pick a fight if they're bored, so watch out if you think you're boring! He's still with you so you must have some kind of kick IP: Logged |
Virgo28 Knowflake Posts: 598 From: Mercury near the Sun(Florida) Registered: Nov 2013
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posted October 25, 2014 08:19 PM
quote: Originally posted by next to neptune: He sure likes to "create" something. Music or art, preferably. He always wants me to join him, but I must admit, that I feel too tired (or just really wanting to do something that doesnt always have to stimulate the mind - I am lazy and boring lol) It's just that he is a libra sun after all and he wants to make group-activities... So yeah, now you're just REALLY making me feel the pressure:P But I'm a virgo sun and virgo suns are booooring...not entertaining and fun
You get tired because you pay attention to detail... Air and Fire don't care about that. So they don't get tired because they don't ever acknowledge it. You don't need to give up who you are but you need to understand who they are. ------------------ "If a man does not work passionately - even furiously - at being the best in the world at what he does, he fails his talent, his destiny, and his God."
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Virgo28 Knowflake Posts: 598 From: Mercury near the Sun(Florida) Registered: Nov 2013
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posted October 25, 2014 08:20 PM
I have this natural battle within myself so It is hard for me to differentiate what is what...!The only thing I can say about what Gem luv about me is that They never have me... I seemed to be without trying to be somewhere else. Hard to explain...! ------------------ "If a man does not work passionately - even furiously - at being the best in the world at what he does, he fails his talent, his destiny, and his God." IP: Logged |
Choc Knowflake Posts: 539 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 25, 2014 09:18 PM
quote: then how do you cheer him up?
Have a fight with him IP: Logged |
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posted October 25, 2014 10:00 PM
quote: Originally posted by hannaramaa: I think Mars in Gemini is most likely to pick a fight if they're bored, so watch out if you think you're boring! He's still with you so you must have some kind of kick
So true. I dated a libra guy with venus in libra and mars in gemini and it was the worst relationship for me. Whenever his "interests" were somewhere else he'd pick a fight over the smallest sh*t so we could break up. Always came back after a few days lolIP: Logged |
GoingDutch Knowflake Posts: 373 From: Registered: Oct 2014
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posted October 25, 2014 10:47 PM
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next to neptune Knowflake Posts: 2702 From: The Moon Registered: Aug 2013
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posted October 26, 2014 04:21 AM
quote: Originally posted by Choc: Have a fight with him
Hahaha you know acutally I like to have a little fight once in a while... my passionate scorp venus likes to fight a little for the love lol. But this guy?? I couldn't even if I tried. But it's completely impossible to have a fight or discussion with him.. it's not because he is avoidant or anything, he is just kind of rational even when he is very emotional. And he is really intelligent also... I have so much respect for him, that we just never have a fight, and there is no reason to:P IP: Logged |
next to neptune Knowflake Posts: 2702 From: The Moon Registered: Aug 2013
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posted October 26, 2014 04:23 AM
quote: Originally posted by hannaramaa: I think Mars in Gemini is most likely to pick a fight if they're bored, so watch out if you think you're boring! He's still with you so you must have some kind of kick
Well, then he can't be that bored yet, cause he never tried to pick a fight with me... he is not really the type of guy who does that either, he is too "cool" for that lol:P IP: Logged |