posted October 27, 2014 04:54 PM            

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Originally posted by bansheequeen:
I'm asking regarding a pisces sun, aries moon, aqua Venus and mars man. He is very sweet, loving and caring and devoted but just not really passionate. The only emotional outbursts I've seen are anger. He says he loves me but not really in the "can't live without you" urgency that I want and am used to. Is this due to his placements or is the synastry lacking? I'm an aqua sun, cancer moon, cap venus, taurus mars. I love him so much but I feel like I'm emotionally starving and always wanting more from him... don't know what to do.

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Hi,
Maybe I could help

I'm a Pisces sun, Aries moon,cap Venus and Libra mars.

I think synastry is lacking.

When I'm in love I exhibit childish behavior, impatient, pushy, spontaneous..act now think later attitude, maybe its the Aries moon.

When not in love and in it just for sex, I'm charming, understanding and was even called a treasure once

posted October 27, 2014 05:57 PM            

Are you okay with having a lover that doesn't show you love in the way you need? I think if we want to be loved in a certain way, we should find that.

posted October 27, 2014 06:54 PM            

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Originally posted by bansheequeen:
I don't know. He's all those things. Impatient pushy but understanding. Since you have the same sun and moon as him.. how do you act when you're really in love?

What I'm trying to figure out is if he has that special beat in his heart. Because if it's his nature not to be more fiery when in l9ve than ok whatever I can deal with it. He is aqua Venus and mars after all. And in my observation pisces men are a lot like libras They love hard but they aren't the type to burn alive with love. But if he isn't passionate because he isn't deeply in love with me then I need to get out while I can. I agree. Love is something else. You either have it or you dont. Staying with someone isn't going to make them love you so I might as well move on. I think we were fated to meet but maybe we were meant to meet for a different purpose.

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I can't tell if he has that special feeling. It's your call, but he doesn't seem to have it.

When I'm in love, am insane, I worship the woman, almost, would die for her, would take a bullet for her, would buy her the groceries, comb her hair, do her nails,hug,kiss her forhead daily,massages, cook her an omelette, daily roses,it's like she's the only woman in the entire universe, and let's not get into what I would do sexually to her ( cunnilingus, tongue in a$$, to say the least, lol)

Honestly I just lose my mind. When I fall, I fall hard. Like falling asleep, all of a sudden.

posted October 28, 2014 01:17 AM            

You have to ask yourself if YOU are also truly in love. Will this "passion," or lack thereof, satisfy you in the long-term, or will you only suffer?

I'm with a great guy now. Amazing. I think he's the one. But he's a Cap moon. Not known for making the emotional displays that I need from time to time to feel secure. However... I find security in the little things he does for me. The acts of service. The thoughtful gifts. The composure he displays when I lose my **** . I never feel bad about owning my feelings (and cap mars can repress and compartmentalize feelings, if anyone can, for sure). And after having the talk about needing a bit more affection and vulnerability on his part, he gave it. And that's a lot coming from a triple Scorpio (Sun-Venus-Uranus--8H!!!) with a Cap moon...he loves me enough to know what I need is an area of shortcoming, so he works on it--and vice versa.

I'm sure you care deeply for each other. We don't all find our perfectly trining/sextiling soulmate that touches every sensitive area of our chart... So there's communication to fill the gaps.

Reflect, then maybe have a talk? At least give him a chance if you love him. I'm sure if the depth of love is there, you'll see a change.

posted October 28, 2014 01:23 AM            

I suggest you two take the "5 Love Languages" quiz. It helped us greatly. For example, I most need physical touch, quality time, and words of affection to feel wholesome in a relationship, whereas my guy needs acts of service, gifts and presents, and physical touch/quality time in equal amounts.

Everybody's different, y'know?

posted October 28, 2014 04:20 AM            

He was very passionate but very detached. I think the Aqua Venus is what creates this sort of aloofness. Aqua Venus people tend to act like a lover-friend, rather than a passionate lover. They're not detached per se, but they're very independent.

posted October 28, 2014 11:26 AM              

I agree with tgem

posted October 29, 2014 07:44 AM            

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Originally posted by bansheequeen:
I'm asking regarding a pisces sun, aries moon, aqua Venus and mars man. He is very sweet, loving and caring and devoted but just not really passionate. The only emotional outbursts I've seen are anger. He says he loves me but not really in the "can't live without you" urgency that I want and am used to. Is this due to his placements or is the synastry lacking? I'm an aqua sun, cancer moon, cap venus, taurus mars. I love him so much but I feel like I'm emotionally starving and always wanting more from him... don't know what to do.

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My bf has Pisces sun ,Saggi moon , aqua mars , aries venus . I think this can relate. He has passionate love , he told me he can't live without me . When it comes to love you can threw away his aqua quality .
For that reason ,
- My sun, mercury, pluto , saturn is in his 8th . I think this create an intimate relationship . I feel he love me more , the 8thH impact is really deep one.
- he has venus square saturn , venus opposed pluto in his natal chart.

posted October 29, 2014 12:03 PM            

Ahem. If I were crazy about a man and he was crazy about me too and we ended up in a relationship and he made me feel safe and showed me how passionate his love is, it would encourage me to let the dame break, at least sometimes. Of course, I would like it all to stay civilized. I don't want violence, angry yelling, insults etc. I wouldn't necessarily literally say "I can't live without you" and I wouldn't end every phone call and text with "I love you" or say it every single hour when we're together. My emotional displays would be raw, maybe a little clumsy and would probably have a tortured vibe. Well, I do tend to see love as sweet torture. I believe the intensity of my feelings would be visible in how I look at him, how I say things, how I touch him, how I react to what happens to him, bad things in particular. In my eagerness to soothe him, help him and protect him. Btw, I have drier planets than your bf (except Mars) and I'm Saturn dominant with only 1 water planet.

If you express your emotional passion in a positive way and it's been always lacking on his side then perhaps you're the only one who's burning inside. I would've said especially if he never gets emotional even during sex but with his Mars sign it seems unlikely to occur...Maybe this placement is the issue? Anyway, I hope I'm not right about him.

posted October 29, 2014 12:11 PM            

He had a history of on off relationships.

he came on strong with me, backed off and said lets be friends...repeat x 5 until I told him where to go.