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Topic: Confused about capricorn man
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Gemberri
Newflake Posts: 4
From: Brooklyn, NY, US
Registered: Feb 2014
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posted October 29, 2014 11:00 AM
  
I recently met a Cappy male online. We met in person after a week of texting and talking on the phone. We had dinner and had a good time. He was chivalrous, polite and funny. He took me home and this is when the date got awkward. He wanted to walk me to my apartment door... I was like no. (He had initially asked if he could visit my apt, I had already told him no.) He looked a little hurt (I thought) and then just gave me a hug and we said good-bye. So over the next few days or so, he ceased all communication. I also noticed that he had deleted his online dating profile. So I texted him and asked him why. He then called and told me that work was getting busy and he needed to focus on that. He didn't think he could maintain a relationship with someone who lived 1+ hr away... I told him that I understood that. I did also come clean about having to move away for work in about 10 months. He definitely was not happy to hear that... as he does not believe in LDR. He was also very silly during the phone convo. He kept on accusing me of "lying" to him, but I said moving to another city in a year is not something you share with a stranger on a first date... Then he was like "you are just trying to use my body." (Lol, WTF) He also said things like if we are both single at 40, we should just get together and have a baby. (Again, WTF) He said some endearing things also, like he's there if I ever needed a hug. I've never really been all that attracted to Cappy men before. They always appear so serious and boring to me... But this one was just so unique. Anyways, is this typical Cap male behavior? We sort of agreed to be friends... but I haven't heard from him, should I contact him once in a while to see how he's doing? Or should I just toss him in the wind and let fate determine if we are meant to be or not? IP: Logged |
DaniPepper87
Moderator Posts: 2044
From: Curitiba, Brasil
Registered: Sep 2013
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posted October 29, 2014 11:03 AM
Caps are meant to work a lot.. they are very worried about having money. But no way that this guy needed to make all that play he did with you.... Step back with all guys who act weird (Scorpios mainly...)IP: Logged |
Gemberri
Newflake Posts: 4
From: Brooklyn, NY, US
Registered: Feb 2014
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posted October 29, 2014 11:45 AM
Thanks DaniPeppers, I totally get that about Cappy work ethics. I have MC, mars and moon all in Cap, so I can actually relate to that really well. But he is definitely being shady... likely just after casual sex. But it sucks because I think he's actually a pretty cool guy. Funny you mentioned specifically about scorpios. I'm a taurus sun and I guess I'm supposed to be attracted to them? Nope, know a few scorps at work, don't feel anything. IP: Logged |
DaniPepper87
Moderator Posts: 2044
From: Curitiba, Brasil
Registered: Sep 2013
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posted October 29, 2014 11:47 AM
About Taurus... it depends a lot. But I attract more Aries strong men (not suns, but Mars and Venus mainly). Where is your Jupiter?? Mine is in Aries!! lol.. and I'm a Scorpio!IP: Logged |
Gracha
Knowflake Posts: 167
From: NY USA
Registered: Jan 2013
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posted October 29, 2014 02:11 PM
I met my cap online too and we've been together going on a year now. I just think he's letting you down easy by agreeing to be friends. When a cap or a man want you, there's no questions about it. I'd move on and date other guys.IP: Logged |
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