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Topic: Pisces / Aqua placements
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AmelieRose81
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posted October 29, 2014 12:07 PM
  
What would a guy be like with these placements:Pisces Sun
Pisces Venus
Pisces Mars Aquarius Moon
Aquarius Mercury IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted October 29, 2014 08:51 PM
Needs lots of space - and by that I mean emotional space. Very intuitive and will avoid you if he can sense an underlying motive or neediness to your interactions. Like if he knows you are only saying you like the Chicago Bears because you know he does, as an example.IP: Logged |
AmelieRose81
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posted October 30, 2014 09:56 AM
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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
Needs lots of space - and by that I mean emotional space. Very intuitive and will avoid you if he can sense an underlying motive or neediness to your interactions. Like if he knows you are only saying you like the Chicago Bears because you know he does, as an example.
Ah no problem there then. I like what I like. Never one to pretend I like things when I dont quite the contrary. Im pretty independent too. IP: Logged |
charlie
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posted October 30, 2014 10:17 AM
I think this would be a combo that can change dramatically one day for whatever reason and NEVER go back on that decision. He could quite possibly love you one day and then something will pop into his head and that will be it. IP: Logged |
AmelieRose81
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posted October 30, 2014 10:26 AM
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Originally posted by charlie:
I think this would be a combo that can change dramatically one day for whatever reason and NEVER go back on that decision. He could quite possibly love you one day and then something will pop into his head and that will be it.
He has blown hot and cold alot with me. He's got back with exes before. he keeps changing his mind. I never know how he will react next. IP: Logged |
Odette
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posted October 30, 2014 10:37 AM
My ex has Aqua Sun/Venus/Jupiter and Pisces Moon/Merc.. but his Mars is Sagittarius.
He has BPD and was also diagnosed with other things.. but BPD is the one that I feel affects him most and causes him the most pain. He definitely does not feel like he needs space. He is distrusting and terrified of abandonment as a result of his insecurities. He is also a very empathetic and caring person - quite apart from his issues. But his behaviour can be erratic, so he has no real ability to know what might trigger him and how he might react to certain things. He is a mystery even to himself. But, deep down his heart is in the right place. I think a person with these placements who does not suffer from a mental condition, would be less emotionally high strung.. but they would probably still be highly idealistic, looking for that one true love.. and very disappointed if they don't find it in you.
Aquarius, as a sign.. likes independence.. but Pisces does not. Pisces wants to merge with the others' soul and become one. So they are pretty different signs to have in a chart. It's hard to say exactly how your guy might balance these signs. IP: Logged |
jjj
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posted October 30, 2014 11:08 AM
I know a man with Pisces sun, Aqua moon - he is a living contradiction, just as Odette said. Wanting to merge and yet terrified by it... afraid of rejection, abadonment, yet very ego-driven and independent.
Takes hurt very deeply, yet hurts others.IP: Logged |
AmelieRose81
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posted October 30, 2014 01:42 PM
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Originally posted by jjj:
I know a man with Pisces sun, Aqua moon - he is a living contradiction, just as Odette said. Wanting to merge and yet terrified by it... afraid of rejection, abadonment, yet very ego-driven and independent.
Takes hurt very deeply, yet hurts others.
I've been involved with two of them. they both seem to really want relationships but don't commit long term & have a history of cheating. Both full of sob stories about being such nice guys and they've been hurt etc. IP: Logged |
madgoulding
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posted October 31, 2014 12:50 AM
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Originally posted by charlie:
I think this would be a combo that can change dramatically one day for whatever reason and NEVER go back on that decision. He could quite possibly love you one day and then something will pop into his head and that will be it.
Yes. I had an aqua guy do this to me once. He was:
Sun- Aqua
Moon-taurus
Venus-pisces
Mars-Aqua I just went to into mega fierce beyotch mode and was like: I will not be treated like this, I'm too old to play games. BYE FELICIA. And never looked back. Now whenever he sees me I can tell he's confused by my cold shoulder and puts on that "I'm so cold and hard" Aqua man face. IP: Logged |
BellaFenice
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posted October 31, 2014 01:26 AM
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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
Needs lots of space - and by that I mean emotional space. Very intuitive and will avoid you if he can sense an underlying motive or neediness to your interactions. Like if he knows you are only saying you like the Chicago Bears because you know he does, as an example.
+1 totally agree. IP: Logged |
AmelieRose81
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posted November 01, 2014 10:12 AM
So how would I handle such a guy? Be cool all the time?IP: Logged |
PisceanDream
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posted November 01, 2014 11:37 AM
I don't have these exact placements but I have similar energies. Pisces Sun, Mercury, Venus - Gem Moon - Aqua Mars and ASC. What everyone said so far is so true. There is a strong need to tear down all boundaries and merge with someone but also the fear that comes from losing oneself and independence in the process. I really do feel that dissonance in energy putting a serious wedge in my personal relationships because my needs are very contradictory. I care so much about someone being authentic. That matters to me more than anything. I love people that are open and willing to share and talk about everything. The person I'd feel most comfortable with is one who has an emotional depth that they make apparent in simple and subtle ways. People that don't overwhelm me with their expression of (romantic) feelings but rather whose expression hints of an enduring love. I want and NEED that person to be my best friend. I won't have it any other way. I say be yourself and let things unravel naturally but at the same time don't be emotionally overwhelming and focus on building a friendship instead of a grand love story. Good luck  IP: Logged |
AmelieRose81
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posted November 03, 2014 03:50 AM
How do they react if you pull them up on their behaviour? If you point it out to them?IP: Logged |
PisceanDream
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posted November 03, 2014 08:53 AM
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Originally posted by AmelieRose81:
How do they react if you pull them up on their behaviour? If you point it out to them?
I think it really depends on the "when". If it's brought up too early, I would feel very uncomfortable but still be nice about it. If I feel pestered, I'd probably slowly start retracting away from the person. In general though, I think they would talk about it in an honest mature way, but they will feel very uneasy... IP: Logged |
Odette
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posted November 03, 2014 09:17 AM
In my experience they see the truth in your words if you are being confrontational in a -kind- rather than aggressive way. But just because they can acknowledge their flaws and/or regret their actions, does not mean they can change.
Pisces is a sign that tends to apologise for all that they did and much of what they didn't do. This is because they don't want to hurt anyone. If a Pisces Mooner feels like he is the cause of your pain (after a confrontation) he might disappear from your life thinking he isn't good enough for you - and you should be with someone who "treats you right". IP: Logged |
Odette
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posted November 03, 2014 09:28 AM
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Originally posted by AmelieRose81:
So how would I handle such a guy? Be cool all the time?
Pisces Mooners are extremely sensitive and emotional people... The most emotional in the whole zodiac. To say that he would misinterpret your acting "cool" is a huge understatement. He would imagine anything from "she's not that into me" to "she absolutely f-ing hates me", depending on how insecure he is.
And these guys are not interested in a challenge. If he feels rejected he will just get hurt and go looking for female attention elsewhere. I don't think there is a way to -handle- him, because he is probably too unpredictable. If he's not what you need and want.. it's best to end it imo IP: Logged |
AmelieRose81
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posted November 03, 2014 11:36 AM
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Originally posted by Odette:
Pisces Mooners are extremely sensitive and emotional people... The most emotional in the whole zodiac. To say that he would misinterpret your acting "cool" is a huge understatement. He would imagine anything from "she's not that into me" to "she absolutely f-ing hates me", depending on how insecure he is.
And these guys are not interested in a challenge. If he feels rejected he will just get hurt and go looking for female attention elsewhere. I don't think there is a way to -handle- him, because he is probably too unpredictable. If he's not what you need and want.. it's best to end it imo
Thanks but thats advice for the wrong moon. I said Aquarius moon and mercury. Pisces sun....! IP: Logged |
Odette
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posted November 03, 2014 05:16 PM
Oops Sorry I forgot they were reversed for him. But since he has so much in Pisces I think it would still apply. IP: Logged |
Randall
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posted November 06, 2014 11:19 AM
Yep, lots of space.IP: Logged |
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