posted October 29, 2014 11:49 PM            

I start out first: I am Pisces Sun, Gemini Moon, Cancer rising
I hate myself for being too 'compassionate' and never think about myself. I always feel sad for everyone, even a stranger. I remember in my college years, I was out on my own with not much $$$, but I give a homeless man $20 , and that $$$ was suppose to be for me to buy fook to cook, and result me in the next 2 days drinking water for dinner.

Now I'm 30, but when I see homeless on street corner, I will drive to buy them McDonald hamburger give them eat, give them $$$. It seem like this 'symphathy', 'compasionat'e traits of me never go away at all in my life. Sad thing is that if I can choose again, I will still choose helping the homeless.
I can't even kill a spider, I will chase it around to caught it, and let it go outside the garden, smh

Good people I not say, but bad people, sometimes they see this clearly enough and take advantage of you. I have experience it before, like my friend, she knows I can't say "No", so when ever we go out, it is Always me that Pays for her food, feeding her and her son, even it is me that help drive her son to school, while she stay home lay on couch watch TV, wth, clearly taken advantage of me. I know and I still help her cuz she is a single mom.

posted October 30, 2014 10:43 AM            

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Originally posted by GoingDutch:
...like my friend, she knows I can't say "No", so when ever we go out, it is Always me that Pays for her food, feeding her and her son, even it is me that help drive her son to school, while she stay home lay on couch watch TV, wth, clearly taken advantage of me. I know and I still help her cuz she is a single mom.

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Very Pisces. I know other Pisces suns who do the same kind of thing...moons, too.

posted November 01, 2014 12:12 AM            

not sure where that came from ?

posted November 01, 2014 12:29 AM            

Next time you tell them, the 'wishy washy' ones are the well Pisces sun placement. Not the one where the sun get squared like in my case.

I don't 'wishy washy' or daydream one day in my life. I know exactly where is my lane, and I stay in my lane. I know exactly what I am capable of, I do not dream of things that is out of my reach. I am very pessimistic person, to the point that I think every single conclusion come out will be bad, or unhappy ending. Now talking about 'wishy washy', huh, that ain't me.

posted November 01, 2014 02:25 AM            

Yes to:
-wayyy giving and forgetting myself
-takes more time than I'd like to get comfortable in the spotlight, but it depends on the situation

But I don't hand out money like the reformed Scrooge since I used to work with the disadvantaged and am now more concerned with hardcore policy changes than random nothings. I have a reference in my head of all the social service organizations and can point anyone in the right direction. So. Yeah. I do donate time and goods and money to worthwhile charities (as in locals that actually use said resources for good).

"And it just so hard to admit feelings to anyone. Any other Pisces experience this?"
>>>Sometimes yes, sometimes no. I'm either carefree with my feelings being known or hold a lot back. Maybe it depends on my mood.

"I get so caught up in the 'big picture', that it prevent me from living in the 'Now' momment."
>>>Yup yup yup. THAT can be a problem.

"Hard time differentiating between love and lust"
>>>Another problem I had when I was younger, not sure if this is Piscean but who cares it fits.

"Reply w/Quote yeah I belive one of the biggest difficultis of Pieces is to stop thinking about the other people and start thinking about yourself.
They may exagerate in wanting to help others and feel sorry for others, and forget about themselves, and this can have negative effects on both sides."
>>>Does any other Pisces think this has A LOT to do with creating an /atmosphere/ of community or sisterhood/brotherhood or something along those lines? Am I The Only One? I'm starting to think I'm like that because I want people to be more connected to each other and I want to have a hand in that. I do it in a lot of ways. But yeah if it's the situation of someone using you then that's not the objective.

"Seeing the best in possibly the worst people."
>>>Ditto! Again, not sure if Pisces but it fits so who cares.

"I hate the fact that we are pegged as "wishy washy"

not sure where that came from ?

I'm a Pisces and ain't nothing like wishy washy !"
>>>Prob from the idea of not having a super centered identity.

posted November 01, 2014 04:36 AM            

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Originally posted by Lonake:

"I hate the fact that we are pegged as "wishy washy"not sure where that came from ?

I'm a Pisces and ain't nothing like wishy washy !"
>>>Prob from the idea of not having a super centered identity.

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posted November 01, 2014 11:45 AM            

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Originally posted by fiery_fish:

can you elaborate with examples please? you mean, I don't know who i am ?

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posted November 03, 2014 01:26 PM            

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Originally posted by PisceanDream:
Inability to say "no" when it really matters.

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posted November 13, 2014 04:19 AM            

I am NOT stupid though, I know exactly who lies and who take advantage of me. But I don't like confrontation. I just pretend like I go along with the flow, but I know it all.
I go along with your lies, that does NOT means you can decieve me.

Strangely, I have quite accurate intuition. What my intuition say, it all turn out to be TRUE. Scary as it sound, but I have that ability.

posted November 13, 2014 06:17 PM            

- Difficulty setting boundaries. This is hard because in order for people to know that it's not okay to hurt you, you have to draw the line. I'll draw the line, but they're never thick enough.

- Reality is never enough. Sometimes I avoid very important experiences by telling myself that none of this is real and float away on a rainbow dolphin.

posted November 14, 2014 11:18 AM            

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Originally posted by PisceanDream:
Inability to say "no" when it really matters. Stepping all over what I need to do things for people when they don't deserve it. Seeing the best in possibly the worst people. Falling into bouts of self-pity after I realize how messed up people are. Synthesizing the most desirable life in my fantasy world as I let reality pass me by.

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Not sure if I'm qualified because no planet in Pisces but a lot of Neptune aspects and a Pisces North Node, I find this very true in my case though.

posted November 15, 2014 01:08 PM            

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Originally posted by PisceanDream:
Inability to say "no" when it really matters. Stepping all over what I need to do things for people when they don't deserve it. Seeing the best in possibly the worst people. Falling into bouts of self-pity after I realize how messed up people are. Synthesizing the most desirable life in my fantasy world as I let reality pass me by.

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Yes, by seeing the best in people I tend to let them walk all over me because I truly believe that they're just hurting and I'm strong enough to put up with their ******** ...not the healthiest attitude to have towards yourself.