posted October 31, 2014 12:47 PM
Hmm, it’s interesting.So it’s mostly “light” planets in “heavy” houses. Or “heavy” planets in “light” houses.
By “light” houses, I mean; 1st, 3rd, 5th, 7th, 9th and 11th
And “light” planets are; Sun, Mercury, Venus, Mars, Jupiter, Uranus
By contrast, the “heavy” houses are; 2nd, 4th, 6th, 8th, 10th and 12th
And “heavy” planets are; Moon, Saturn, Neptune and Pluto.
Do you also think that the Sun sign ruling planet plays a role?
Since I am Sag with my natural 1st house ruled by Jupiter, 7th house being ruled by Mercury ,the natural 4th house ruled by Neptune and natural 8th ruled by Moon.
In order for marriage to be something that I consider strongly,I need to feel like it “expands” me in some way.
Either laterally(Jupiter+Mercury) or deepens my understanding of life(Neptune and Moon).
So Mercury,Jupiter,Neptune and the Moon are important and MUST be in the mix (either by transit or aspect) when I make that decision.
For someone who has Leo Sun for instance, the marriage must allow for freedom of self-expression(or at least a strong enhancement in that area).
So for them, the Sun-ruler of 1st,Mars -4th,Uranus-7th,Jupiter-8th would be important planets that interact in them making that decision right?
I for instance,have Venus-Saturn conjunct in 7th. Though being a dependable partner is ideal,but what I value even more from a partner is being able to relate mentally.
The transits of Saturn on my Mars/Venus and 7th house made me realize that Saturn makes me want to “close up” not expand in these sensitive points-in as far as my Ac/dc axis is concerned.
I remember when Jupiter (retrograde) was conjunct natal Moon in 3rd/opposite natal Mercury in 9th; I started to think about charging on to new frontiers.
Pluto transit is in Capricorn right now and it widely conjuncts Mercury,widely opposes the Moon.Transiting Uranus squares Moon/Mercury widely too.
Transiting Saturn will also make its way to conjunct the Sag Stellium in 2017(including Jupiter). Around the same time that Uranus/Pluto aspect with the aforementioned planets more closely.
So I think if I should be having an idea of getting married,it would be when these two slow moving planets hit my natal positions closely.
Either them or when Jupiter transits Virgo/Libra(2016/2017)and aspects the Moon/Mercury natal opposition and the natal Jupiter in Sag.
I think I’ve answered my own question actually.I now have an idea of when I am most likely to want to get married.