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WhyMe
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posted October 30, 2014 11:24 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for WhyMe     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I kid you not. This guy has his personal planets in all 4 elements and is really REALLY hard to decipher. His Mercury is in Aquarius, btw.

Exactly what makes someone like this "tick" ? One day he is all over me, and the other he does not even want to acknowledge my existence.

We have had days when we have exchanged long conversations, and days when there is NOTHING. Just NOTHING. A couple of months ago, he just disappeared on me for a MONTH, and just when I thought that I'd never hear from him EVER AGAIN, he returned out of the blue.. and we've just gotten right back on the on-again / off-again seesaw this past two weeks !

This is just emotionally exhausting.

Is this someone who makes poor relationship material ? Unstable ? Not anyone who is trustworthy ? Should I just forget all about him and move on ? Could these placements indicate some sort of personality problems ?

What planet's / element's traits are most likely to represent this individual's mental and emotional make-up ?

Please advise. Thanks !

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GoingDutch
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posted October 30, 2014 11:47 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for GoingDutch     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
How old is he? He seem like young age guy. Usually guys grow out of this when they get to their late twenties.

I'm terrible at giving relationship advice, but if he hot one day and cold the next. Then you do that back to him, lol. Don't sit around wait for his calls, make him put out the effort to find you.

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Faith
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posted October 31, 2014 08:29 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Faith     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by WhyMe:
I kid you not. This guy has his personal planets in all 4 elements and is really REALLY hard to decipher. His Mercury is in Aquarius, btw.

He sounds a bit like me: Cap sun, Pisces moon, Sag Venus, Gem Mars, Aqua Mercury.

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Originally posted by WhyMe:
Exactly what makes someone like this "tick" ? One day he is all over me, and the other he does not even want to acknowledge my existence.

That was my experience with a Gemini moon guy. And I was like that a little bit when I was young. What are your placements?

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Originally posted by WhyMe:
We have had days when we have exchanged long conversations, and days when there is NOTHING.

Have you told him it bothers you? Sometimes Caps are looking for signs from the other person, that they are really interested.

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Originally posted by WhyMe:
Is this someone who makes poor relationship material ? Unstable ? Not anyone who is trustworthy ? Should I just forget all about him and move on ? Could these placements indicate some sort of personality problems ?

I think if you were in a committed relationship, he would be more consistently available. Capricorn has a steadiness to it. But really consider if this guy is your type. 'Sounds like he upsets you, and as the saying goes, "When someone shows you who they are, believe them the first time." Meaning, he just might keep affecting you this way.

If you like, post the charts (synastry and composite) in Interpersonal Astrology for more insights.


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Geeky
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posted October 31, 2014 03:10 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Geeky     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My hubby (48 years old) has the Cappy Sun / Gemini Moon combination. He can come across as very childish at times.

Life with him is like riding a seesaw. Stable, but also unstable.

He can act like he doesn't have a care about anything, but I can often read the heaviness and anxiety in his demeanor. And don't ask him how he feels, because he won't tell you.

He's not a great communicator even though he is chatty. Sometimes he bottles things in and other times, he makes big statements that he can't back up. He's a big time teller of stories and little white lies too.

(Think of the movie Big Fish)

He's also the most passive-aggressive person I've ever met while routinely accusing everyone else of being passive-aggressive.

However, there is good or I wouldn't have married him. He's intelligent, charming, dedicated to his job, financially responsible, etc. And his sense of humor is fantastic! The sarcasm & wit is nothing I've ever know before.

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margym0o
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posted October 31, 2014 04:26 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for margym0o     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by WhyMe:
I kid you not. This guy has his personal planets in all 4 elements and is really REALLY hard to decipher. His Mercury is in Aquarius, btw.

Exactly what makes someone like this "tick" ? One day he is all over me, and the other he does not even want to acknowledge my existence.

We have had days when we have exchanged long conversations, and days when there is NOTHING. Just NOTHING. A couple of months ago, he just disappeared on me for a MONTH, and just when I thought that I'd never hear from him EVER AGAIN, he returned out of the blue.. and we've just gotten right back on the on-again / off-again seesaw this past two weeks !

This is just emotionally exhausting.

Is this someone who makes poor relationship material ? Unstable ? Not anyone who is trustworthy ? Should I just forget all about him and move on ? Could these placements indicate some sort of personality problems ?

What planet's / element's traits are most likely to represent this individual's mental and emotional make-up ?

Please advise. Thanks !


I can relate. I have Gemini Sun/Scorpio Moon/Leo Venus/Capricorn Mars (Cancer Mercury) and I wouldn't say that is the reason he is "confused."

It's either a) he has some maturing to do still, b) he didn't/doesn't feel the connection as strongly as you or c) something in his chart is causing him conflict. For me, having the air sun and water moon is a constant battle between head and heart. However, in my chart my moon is well-aspected and I have a grand water trine so I am WAYYY more emotional than the average Gemini.

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