posted November 13, 2014 11:18 PM            

But... Libra sun men, some of them can't seem to commit. A real life example that I know from a Libra that went to same school with me. His long term GF give him 2 kids already, and she with him almost a decade, yet he still cannot commit, or married her, not even engage to her. His love to her is very calculating, like his love is NOT for free, and he do this to the woman who is mother of his 2 childrens. His eyes still wandering around, calculating, and calculate, his love is also stingy.

This Libra sure have a happy childhood though, he was born with a golden key in his mouth. Both his parents are wealthy physician and surgeon. In high school, I remember his parents buy him a very nice, expensive car for his graduation, he drives around show off. He always have his parents take care of him from A to Z. Pay for his school, his life is pretty smooth and lucky, he find a girl who willing to give him 2 kids without marriage certificate.

For me, he is a deal breaker, I don't care if he have mountains of gold. I can't be with a Libra who is like that. I pop out 2 kids for you, yet your love is still CALCULATING? I would leave a long time ago.

posted November 13, 2014 11:34 PM            

But Aries they all hiding from me, none chase me in real life, lol.
Maybe because I don't have the "fire" beauty that they like.
I get flirt and chase by different signs, from Virgo, Taurus, Scorpio, Cancer, Leo, Capricorn, Libra, Aqua, Pisces to Sag, but most are Earth sign though. Can't get an Aries to be interested in me, weird.

Op, if you have an option, choose an Aries man.

posted November 14, 2014 01:03 AM            

I don't like how low-key competitive Scorpio girls can be - to me it's like "Why not just admit it?" but hey, I can take the good with the bad as long as the latter doesn't outweigh the former.

posted November 14, 2014 01:07 AM            

I like Aries more though, They are more DIRECT, and straightforward, get to the point, and they not revengeful, love that in a man. I like straightforward men, I can't get that out from a Scorpio though.
Aries have higher will driven than Scorpio.

posted November 14, 2014 01:11 AM            

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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
I LURRRVE Scorpios! One, because they're hilarious, and two, because they're just a mature version of Aries. For example, with my Gemini ASC and Aries placements (Sun, Merc, Venus) I can't hide my emotions worth a damn. My Scorpio friend (Scorpio ASC, Sun, Merc, and Venus all conjunct Pluto I believe) of course can, but we think the same about life.

I don't like how low-key competitive Scorpio girls can be - to me it's like "Why not just admit it?" but hey, I can take the good with the bad as long as the latter doesn't outweigh the former.

I think Scorpio has a much more volatile temper than Aries too. An Aries just gets mad when they're not listened to, or something immediate, but a Scorpio watches (because they're similar to Taurus....) and lets it build and then rips you a new one with impermeable logic and detail. An Aries would just punch you in the face and call it a day, lol.

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Hmmm that's a really good way of looking at it.

posted November 14, 2014 01:13 AM            

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Originally posted by GoingDutch:
Taurus watches? Relaly? I thought that was Scorpio traits.
Now that explained why my guy with Taurus Rising have that "watches, observing" things in him.

I like Aries more though, They are more DIRECT, and straightforward, get to the point, and they not revengeful, love that in a man.

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Yes, Taurus and Scorpio are light / shadow, opposite signs. They have similar qualities because they're both fixed signs, but they're opposite elements. And Taurus doesn't get mad about what they see until they realize it's a problem. I think Scorpio gets mad immediately but they control that temper until the time is right. Taurus will explode when they've simply had enough, see the difference?

posted November 14, 2014 10:54 AM            

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Originally posted by Odette:

If I had a penny for every Aries woman I know or heard of who married a Scorpio!

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I didn't marry one, but was engaged to one. Was proposed to by another. Pursued by 2 others.

The attraction is insane. But ultimately I like fairness, they like games. I am open, they're closed. I get angry, they hold grudges.

It never works out.

posted November 14, 2014 11:45 AM            

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Originally posted by fairaqua:
I have an aries moon and Scorpio Mars

Id say Aries is a little more fast acting and irrational while Scorpio is a little more calculating
Both very rash and harsh
Aries will strike you right then and there while Scorpio will wait till you least expect it.

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Also Aries do not sit there and hold grudges so many aries are more emotionally healthy.

posted November 15, 2014 12:29 AM            

All Hail the Mighty Exalted Sun.

posted November 15, 2014 12:35 AM            

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Originally posted by Dancing Maenad:
I didn't marry one, but was engaged to one. Was proposed to by another. Pursued by 2 others.

The attraction is insane. But ultimately I like fairness, they like games. I am open, they're closed. I get angry, they hold grudges.

It never works out.

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posted November 16, 2014 03:40 PM            

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Originally posted by ungumuda:
I'm scorpio rising with mars aries.
The similarity between both are they have iron will. If they set their mind on something, they're going to do everything in their power to get it.
The difference I think, Aries energy tend to more direct, impulsive and bolder. While scorpio is subtler but much more arresting.
Both have terrible temper but Aries is like a child who throw a tantrum., while scorpio, when he's angry, he isn't mere angry, he's in rage. That's why people see Scorpio as dark and dangerous type more than aries or any other signs.

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I definitely find this to be very true.

posted November 16, 2014 11:00 PM            

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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
Dear DM, did they happen to have any Sag influence in their chart?

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Not really.

3 out of those 4 Scorps I mentioned (my ex-fiancee, the guy who proposed and the one I'm currently "not chasing" ) are early Suns, like between 0-2 degrees. One day apart, different years though. It's crazy, their Suns are conj my Saturn and/or Pluto, no idea why I go for that one over and over. So no, they mostly have Virgo/Libra in their personal placements. One has a Sag Mars and ofc the generational Sag Neptune. But that's it.

The 4th one, who pursued but we stayed friends (he's actually the only Scorp I stayed just friends with), is a 2nd decanate Scorp, with a Sag Venus yeah. Things are not as tense with him as with the other 3.