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posted November 19, 2014 06:29 PM            

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My bf is Aries Sun opposite Libra Moon.

My Aries seems to have a diplomatic and fair (Libra) side, but only when he wants (Aries) to.

It seems as if he struggles between "me" and "we".

And I understand that a sun/moon opposition is a struggle between wants and needs. So does the Aries/Libra individual battle himself in scenarios like this: "I want to curse her out, but I need to continue on my way so things don't escalate"?

How do I deal with his sun opposite moon extremes?

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From: CA
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posted November 19, 2014 07:37 PM            

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I have Sun contra parallel moon in declination exact. I'm a sun in aries, my moons in Pisces, 7th house.

It's very conflicting.... for me it's like transcending the ego. "Of course I want to cuss her, but is it even worth it?" The pisces in me just says, I'm above this. I choose to be above this.

Libra's tend to weigh things up. Aries doesn't have time. When it's an unimportant, quick decision, don't expect him to wait. He'll charge. However, when it's a big decision like buying a house, a moral decision, one on his views, his Libra will come out. If it doesn't, (like he has aries mercury for instance) he will still face conflict but make it like he seems so sure, because he hates that indecision. I would encourage his diplomacy by telling him to slow down sometimes. To just stop and really think for a moment. Tell him he's normal and it makes him extremely capable being able to reflect on his avenues for taking actions so thoroughly. He might say it's b.s. but a side of him will agree lol

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posted November 20, 2014 12:21 AM            

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Cancer Sun 11H (venus, mercury, saturn, ceres) opposite Capricorn Moon 5H.

With Pluto, Jupiter and Uranus in the middle of it all.

I struggle greatly with my need to care for others, complete freedom from life in general and climbing the corporate ladder. Right now I am dabbling in all 3 but can't say that I am 100% satisfied with that arrangement :-/

I also confuse the **** out of people who try to analyze me and then that forces me to analyze myself-which is impossible-and then we all are more confused.

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posted November 20, 2014 03:05 AM            

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Where are they located? And what aspects to they enjoy with other planets?

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