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Topic: Hate being touch
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Crosswinds
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posted November 20, 2014 06:41 PM
  
what in chart causes this
I hate being hug and even being kiss,it makes my skin crawl.
One day I tired to let my BF touch my hand and I almost starting crying it was so painful I have a Venus in aquarus and Taurus moon btw IP: Logged |
athenegoddess
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posted November 20, 2014 06:47 PM
touch is an important part of love and being healthy. i would say you have some deep wounds there that have to do with how your mother touched you when you were a child. or lack thereof.IP: Logged |
PisceanDream
Knowflake Posts: 784
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Registered: Jun 2014
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posted November 20, 2014 06:54 PM
How interesting! What's going on with the rest of your chart? Do you feel that way in general? As in with parents, siblings, and even friends? Or just with romantic partners? I'm pretty moody about being touched in that, sometimes I'm okay with it and other times it just feels awkward and uncomfortable (depends on the person) but, ironically enough, I love to touch people when I talk to them and find myself doing it rather instinctively. IP: Logged |
Comatoes
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posted November 20, 2014 11:09 PM
Traditionally, Mars and Jupiter rules touch. What is these two planets doing in your chart?IP: Logged |
charlie
Knowflake Posts: 2570
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posted November 21, 2014 02:05 AM
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Originally posted by Crosswinds:
what in chart causes this
I hate being hug and even being kiss,it makes my skin crawl.
One day I tired to let my BF touch my hand and I almost starting crying it was so painful I have a Venus in aquarus and Taurus moon btw
I was like this when little. Almost frigid. Now that I am older I still have periods when if people touch me I get completely disgusted and/or uncomfortable. I can think of myriads of explanations but to mention something astrological I would maybe say it's my progressed Virgo stellium in 12H? I like feeling "clean" and "pure" and sometimes other humans are the exact opposite..I can fantasize about being touched but it never measures up to reality.
In that Virgo stellium is Sun, Venus, Merucry and Mars conj Asc. In natal I have Virgo Asc conj Mars. In natal I have Venus in 11H in the Aqua dwad and Cap Moon in Taurus dwad so ALMOST like you.
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next to neptune
Knowflake Posts: 2266
From: The Moon
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted November 21, 2014 07:26 AM
The only person that can touch me without me feeling a little uncomfortable is my boyfriend. Everyone else I feel uncomfortable with, even my mother and best friends. I just dont really like people touching or kissing me, besides my boyfriend. Not that I cant hug people, shake hands/hold hands (if needed) but I just dont do it(unless I'm very drunk lol) and if other people hugs me or take my hand I get all sweaty and uncomfortable, I just do, I know it's very strange but I cant help it.
And I havent suffered from anything in my childhood at all either I'm virgo sun with virgo mars in 4th house and jupiter in cancer in 12th house
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Crosswinds
Newflake Posts: 10
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posted November 21, 2014 10:57 AM
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Originally posted by Comatoes:
Traditionally, Mars and Jupiter rules touch. What is these two planets doing in your chart?
Mars is well aspect however Jupiter in not :
Mercury Square Jupiter
Moon opposite Jupiter
Mars quintile Jupiter
Jupiter sextile Ascendant Mars:
Mars conjunction Uranus
Mars conjunction Neptune
Sun conjunction Mars
Venus conjunction Mars
Mars sextile Pluto orb
Mars quintile Jupiter
Mars square Midheaven quote:
touch is an important part of love and being healthy. i would say you have some deep wounds there that have to do with how your mother touched you when you were a child. or lack thereof.[/B]
Hmmm,I don't remember any bad touching grown up,my mom was most of time always there IP: Logged |
hypatia238
Moderator Posts: 755
From: Miami
Registered: Sep 2014
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posted November 21, 2014 10:59 AM
Is your moon aspecting Saturn? Can you register at astro.com and post your chart?IP: Logged |
Crosswinds
Newflake Posts: 10
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posted November 21, 2014 11:05 AM
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Originally posted by hypatia238:
Is your moon aspecting Saturn?
I don't think so however,my moon is badly aspect it squares and opposite everything in my chart except my Asc Moon square Mercury
Moon opposite Jupiter
Moon trine Ascendant
Moon opposite Midheaven
Moon square Venus
Sun square Moon IP: Logged |
DeepFreeze
Knowflake Posts: 3591
From: Pluto with Barbiegirl19
Registered: Nov 2013
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posted November 21, 2014 11:32 AM
I've seen a few things being thrown around.
I have some of them and I looooooove being touched.  What exactly is going on with your asc.?
Really you should post your chart, as mentioned. IP: Logged |
starmoon
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posted November 21, 2014 01:16 PM
i had a bf like this once. he abstained from sex for about 20 years b/c he hated being touched in any way by anyone. even hugs, casual hand touches, etc. completely weirded out by anyone touching him. it took a very long time to even get a hug from him, let alone get intimate. i don't have his chart handy to post, but he had a ton of aqua and virgo placements including virgo rising. his sun/moon were opposite but aside from that his chart didn't have too many challenges. he did have an aqua venus, and coupled with the virgo placements he was pretty standoffish just in generalIP: Logged |
manderin
Knowflake Posts: 270
From: New York, NY USA
Registered: Nov 2013
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posted November 21, 2014 02:36 PM
Aspergers or anything on the Autism spectrum doesn't need to show in a birth chart.IP: Logged |
Geeky
Knowflake Posts: 1235
From: the Sun, vacation house on Mercury
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posted November 21, 2014 05:11 PM
I was also thinking some type of sensory processing disorder.Did you ever have a hard time distinguishing hot from cold or did you find that things that should cause you pain don't while as you said, a gentle touch makes you very uncomfortable? That could be neuropathy. ------------------
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SunsetsAndRainyDays
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posted November 22, 2014 03:56 AM
I am quite the same. I really hate being touched. Heck, I don't even like when people physically get too close to me. Especially from behind. I frequently have to remind my sister not to just stand around behind me, because I can feel when someone is there, and it is so uncomfortable, especially since I can't see them.It doesn't really matter who it is, though my youngest siblings don't set off my 'alarm' for now. I wish it wasn't like this, because sometimes ... it sucks. :/ IP: Logged |
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