posted November 26, 2014 03:58 PM            

I get along famously with Leos, I have a lot of Leos in my immediate family and have had many close Leo friends. I attribute that to my Leo Mars and Sag Venus, Mercury, and Neptune.

I can't get close to Aries without intense, fiery clashes and the relationships almost always end VERY badly whether family, friend, or romantic interest. With this, I think it's my cardinal Sun and Moon but also my watery Moon and Asc. So with Aries, I think it's influenced more by the elements and qualities rather than the planetary influence on signs.

Those are just the signs that have been in my life in such a large quantity with similar outcomes that they stand out to me.

posted November 26, 2014 04:17 PM            

No problem with Aries females in general - I respect their directness. So maybe it's only deeper emotions the above raises its ugliness.

Cancer sun signs - male cancers are attracted to me but I find them controlling, weak/clingy and abusive. Since the only planet I have there is Jupiter I can only think I don't like to see characteristics of my heavily aspected moon up close. Potentially my moon is opp their sun.

I like Aquarian, pisces and Scorpio signs. I've Scorpio rising conjunct uranus & opp sun but no pisces aspects other than pof and neptune conjunction, trining personal planets.

posted November 26, 2014 05:54 PM            

Slowness in people (in general) winds me up. I am constantly thinking *HURRY UP* lol. I blame this on the fact that I am heavily Aries influenced and my Scorpio rising means that I like getting deep. They just don't allow me to get as deep as I want quickly and it's annoying. Yet, they are still all over the place and hard to pin down.

So, they are generally slower, harder to get to know and harder to pin down = FRUSTRATIONS upon FRUSTRATION.

It should be the case that I should feel the same way about Virgo men and perhaps Taurean men. I do somewhat, but because Virgo men are firmer/analytical, it's easier to engage with them. However, the fact that they hate conflict annoys the crap out of me. I'm someone who wants to talk about the elephant in the room and then kick it out. On to the next thing... Ahhhh, my complaints always seem to be about men lol.

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posted November 26, 2014 06:25 PM            

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Originally posted by ikja:
You know what? I'm supposed to get on with Libra men; but my last two encounters with them have put a bad taste in my mouth. In my opinion, they are too slow/all over the place.

Slowness in people (in general) winds me up. I am constantly thinking *HURRY UP* lol. I blame this on the fact that I am heavily Aries influenced and my Scorpio rising means that I like getting deep. They just don't allow me to get as deep as I want quickly and it's annoying. Yet, they are still all over the place and hard to pin down.

So, they are generally slower, harder to get to know and harder to pin down = FRUSTRATIONS upon FRUSTRATION.

It should be the case that I should feel the same way about Virgo men and perhaps Taurean men. I do somewhat, but because Virgo men are firmer/analytical, it's easier to engage with them. However, the fact that they hate conflict annoys the crap out of me. I'm someone who wants to talk about the elephant in the room and then kick it out. On to the next thing... Ahhhh, my complaints always seem to be about men lol.

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That's so funny about Libras! My partner is a Libra and his slowness does drive me batty. But me pushing him probably irritates him. In the beginning, he was talking about a movie at the theater and wouldn't stop going off about it. I knew he was trying to get around to asking me to go and I got tired of it and said "are you going to ask me to watch it with you?" lol. He kind of huffed and said yes.

He talks slow and my mind starts to wander. It does annoy him that I can't pay attention to him for very long.

posted November 26, 2014 08:26 PM            

The ones I find easy to love:

Sun: Gemini, Libra
Moon: Gemini, Scorpio
Mercury: Taurus, Scorpio, Capricorn, Pisces
Venus: The Earth Venuses, Cancer Venus, Libra Venus and Scorpio Venus
Mars: Leo, Libra, Scorpio

posted November 26, 2014 09:40 PM            

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What I find weird is that I'm close to quite a few Gemini risings and yet for some reason I just don't click or bond with Gemini suns. I don't feel any real antipathy toward them I just don't bond with them for some reason, and I'd think I would, especially given how well I tend to get along with Gemini risings.

And I have a Gemini MC myself.

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Naturally, we all know that each person, each chart is different but I have found similar things among a few signs.

posted November 27, 2014 01:40 AM            

Granted, not all Aries people bother me. The ones I love express the bubbly energetic side of Aries.

And sometimes, I've noticed, the overly confident Aries and I can get along well if their Aries placement conjuncts my Aries Mars cause then I find it tolerable for some reason. I knew one person who was mostly Cancer placement but had his Venus in Gemini and Mars in Aries exactly conjunct mine and whenever he sparred in the gym the guy would be so egotistical toward his opponents but I found it hilarious.

Virgo people are constantly playing a role in my life. These people always make positive aspects to something in my chart. The only placement I have with heavy Virgo people, especially Mars in Virgo, is that I get too impatient with their worrying and nitpicking. But other than that Virgo folk dominate my friendships and a decent chunk of my romances.

Cancers are tricky. I find many Cancers too emotional and reactive. But one of my all time favorite people is a Cancer that had mostly Aquarius, Gemini, and Libra placements. Cancer intuitiveness and understanding without the emotional clingy stuff. I find Cancer Ascendants attractive... boobies.

Pisces, who could possibly not like Pisces? I just can't think of one I didn't like yet in my life. I find Pisces Ascendant very attractive, I feel like it brings my Scorpio Sun in with the promise of kindness and loveliness. Got fooled once though by a Pisces Rising that was an Aquarius Sun and Moon with other air and fire placements. It was a barren wasteland for what I thought she was.

Taurus Suns, love them but it takes management. Opposite my Sun, conjunct my ASC. All my Taurus amigos and I get together to indulge indulge indulge. Just scary amounts of food. Sometimes the stubbornness between us escalate petty arguments but there has never been a failure to reconcile quickly.

Libras, I feel at ease with people that have Libra placements because they usually are within 10 degrees of my Venus in Libra. I never really bond deeply with them because the rest of my chart is Water and Earth with one fire placement but I find them a pleasure.

Other Scorpios, there is very often an air of attraction with most Scorpio women I've met. Scorpio placements fall in my 7th house and will conjunct my Sun, Pluto, and/or Merc. So a placement in Scorpio will trigger attraction from me, whether or not it goes anywhere depends on the rest of the chart.

posted November 27, 2014 05:58 AM            

Aries I get along with very well, especially the girls, probably more so than the guys since they usually trine my venus in Leo. I have met a couple of incredibly egotistical guys so I do know how ridiculously obnoxious those unevolved ones can be but Leo and Sag can be the exact same way, especially the guys.

Pisces suns or people with Pisces placements I find quite neutral to me in general and I to them. We never really vibe too well but they usually like me because of my scorpio moon most likely trining their pisces placements and my Cap ascendant sextiling theirs. Too shy and timid in my opinion though. I can be introverted and stuff but never like how Pisces is. My introversion is more like "meh, I could care less about talking to you or hanging out with you right now". Theirs seems more like they can only even talk for so long then they have to recharge because of anxiety or something.

I get along best though with Fire signs or people with mainly fire or air in their chart. Anyone with Leo placements will almost always be a new friend unless they are severely egotistical right off the bat, in which case its a total no go. People with Sag placements even more so because they're usually drawn to me like flies lol, though I have noticed Sag moon can be iffy if they have Taurus or Virgo placements.

Scorpionic people are quite....well....black and white when it comes to our relationship lol. Scorpio sun GIRLS do not seem to care one bit for me after the first 20-30 minutes of meeting for some reason lol. Its as if after that initial attraction and tension wears off I'm suddenly as boring as a rock. Then after that they typically actually almost seem to dislike me. xD

Scorpionic guys seem to love me all across the board though. For example 2 of my friends are scorpionic, one has a stellium including sun, mercury, venus, pluto, and i think north node all conjunct with pisces moon and leo mars and the other is an aquarius sun scorpio rising with aqua and cap placements and they both LOVE me lol. I chalk this up to my Scorpio moon and midheaven vibing with their scorpio placements while at the same time my leo placements vibing with their leo/aqua ones.

Anything with lots of Virgo I almost immediately dislike and they almost immediately dislike me and there will ALWAYS WITHOUT FAIL be tension pretty much from the get go. Every single Virgo girl I have met has been stupidly bitchy to me for the dumbest reasons and many Virgo guys just outright seem put off by my energy. But I've come to respect the energy and if we can overcome any differences we may experience I find they're quite loving and caring people and thats a quality I admire, so long as they can keep a lid on the complaining/whining.

Gemini is a mixed bag for me, though they've started to get on my sweet side a little bit now that I've seen the good side of this energy. :P I actually really like talking to people with Gemini placements as we can talk forever and joke and just say nonsense, and its even better when someone with a lot of Sag energy joins in. The main problems for me with Gemini though is that A.) They can be some of the most annoying people on planet earth if they aren't watching themselves, and B.) They can be incredibly callous and pushy in the most subtly aggressive way that absolutely urks my Scorpio/Cap side. This starseed girl I was dating during the summer has Gemini rising and she would make erroneous assumptions about me and the way I was and then immediately believe them because she just said them out loud. Seen it with other Gemini placements too, not fun. But I've come to like the energy for the most part, even if there is a little tension still.

Aquarius placements I can vibe with very very well, especially the girls. All the Aqua suns I've met have been totally quirky and weird, but in a really honest and funny way so I love it. One thing that can really push my patience is their mental....shall I say arrogance or assuredness? They can pretty much never be wrong unless you completely own them in a debate, and even then they'll pretty much never give up and will actually get pretty mad over it. Something something mind of God, etc lol. But I love this energy too much to ever really dislike it.

Cap placements I always get along with without fail, but I can find these people to be a little...boring..sometimes. I understand the cap reservedness really well (cap rising), but it can get really old pretty quickly if they don't have masculine placements. Reliable people for the most part though.

Libra is always a nice energy that I get along with pretty much without fail like Cap, but like Cap, I can find them to be really boring because they never want to do anything for themselves! Its always like "well what do you wanna do?" "what do you wanna do? I'm cool with anything". If only there was a hybrid sign between Aries and Libra that compromised but took charge too lol jk. Its fun laughing and joking with Libras though

Cancer is a mystery, more so than Pisces or Scorpio, which is funny because those ones are supposed to be the more mysterious water signs. I like cancer energy, and then I don't. Its an utterly batshit crazy energy but something about that crazy really turns me on (with the girls) lol. Its mainly Cancer moon I like most. I just want to protect them SO MUCH (girls with cancer moon or rising) and I find the energy really silly but cute in their emotional honesty. This energy (cancer in general, especially the suns) can be QUITE manipulative but only if acting out the unevolved side. Otherwise they're really caring people and I feel like I can emotionally connect with Cancer moons in ways I can't with other moon signs. Cancer moon has been a common denominator in all of the girls I've been instinctively attracted to lately and I'm pretty positive thats why. It feels like they're the kind of girls that I CAN show my feminine side too and not be judged for it because if there's one thing Scorpio moon hates more than anything in existence, its being judged for letting its feelings out. So far this moon placement has been the only one I've actually felt comfortable enough with to cry about my deepest feelings while with them. Its almost like I go immediate boyfriend mode when I talk to them...except with the one I actually cried with with gemini rising, cap sun. Her sag placements and cap placements really just made her feel emotionally distant.

Wow holy balls I wrote a lot, but damn this is one interesting thread. Gonna keep an eye on this one :P

posted November 27, 2014 01:22 PM            

It's funny, the way you feel about Cancers I feel about Pisces. I wonder why. I don't have Pisces or Cancer placements except for my North Nide in Pisces and my IC in Cancer

posted November 27, 2014 01:38 PM            

- Scorpios but only as friends. We tend to get along pretty well and we understand each other. We share the same sense of humor. The fights are terrible though but we make up very quickly.

- Pisces, especially females. We have the same humor. There is a silent emotional bond that is instantly created upon meeting. The only thing I don't like about Pisces is they tend to be self-absorbed.

- Cancer, I get along with them pretty fine but there's no real chemistry or magic. The passion and fun I have with Scorpios and Pisces doesn't exist with Cancers.

- Capricorn people have a great sense of humor and make the best of friends. They're just so witty ha.

- Taurus people I find quite boring but I get along with them. They're not the type of people I'd hang out with all the time because they tend to be bores and aren't very adventurous, but we can have pretty nice intellectual conversations.

- Gemini folks, it's usually a it or miss. I can get along with them because I'm a Gemini moon but they tend to annoy me. We just don't understand each other. They don't feel anything.

- Leos, they're pretty fun because they're quite extravagant and great social butterflies. They seem to get along with everybody. However, they seem to be narcissists most of the time.

- Saggitarius people are okay.

- Libras, bores. They're too calm and have a hard time "having fun". They're too "withdrawn".

- Aquarius - Yuck. Just Yuck. I won't even dignify this with a comment.

- Virgos - Two faced. They're fun but very very judgmental and two faced.