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Topic: Mars/Venus Combinations
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Koho
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From: New York
Registered: Jun 2014
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posted November 28, 2014 10:39 PM
  
Hey guy, this is inspired from the other thread. I really like this website - http://www.goodgollyastrology.com/your-mars-and-venus-playbook.html What does it say with your Mars/Venus combination? Does it match you? Here's mine to start off - If you have Mars in Aries with Venus in Libra you are . . .
The Embarrassed Extremist
You are the Mars in Aries Lover who needs love most of all and this puts you in an extremely poor bargaining position. You throw yourself into the pursuit of your Beloved, exposing all your weakness and, thus, positioning yourself for every kind of hurt. You idealize the people you love, ignoring their faults, exaggerating their strengths and giving them your absolute devotion. This capacity for unqualified affection and loyalty is perhaps your most winning trait. Of course, it can also be your most troublesome trait on those frequent occasions when you pursue the wrong person. Consistency is also a problem for you. Your tendency to idealize the person you love can turn ugly if and when that person fails to live up to your expectations. At such time your disappointment can cause you to lash out, to turn cold and to generally behave badly toward your Beloved. You fly easily between extremes of love and hate, blind sexual passion and clinical criticism. Of course, once you find the right person, the person who is truly deserving of your unquestioning devotion, these extremes of your sexual temperament will be greatly mollified.
Hehe, coupled with my 7th house Sun the "Embarrassed Extremist" is played up. I'm not shying about pursuing and I'm always dating. The funniest moment I ever had was when I pursued someone and I totally idealized her thinking she was a sweet Pisces full of compassion and all that Pisces stuff that draws a Scorpio in - She was a double Aquarius with a Pisces rising - I scared her off. Whoops! Her friends told me she thought I was cute but they never ever heard her really talk about dating or guys. I am the embarrassed extremist.
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DeepFreeze
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From: Pluto with Barbiegirl19
Registered: Nov 2013
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posted November 28, 2014 10:42 PM
I'm going to check it out but first... Change the https to http then the link will be 'clickable'. Mine might be boring with Virgo for both but let's have a look see. IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted November 28, 2014 10:44 PM
I went to the site but could only find links to the Mars signs?ETA: I just googled my V/M combo and the GoodGolly astro site popped up with it. The Technician of Hot Love Your greatest strength is your aggressiveness and you are at your best when you are making a conquest. Some people might find your approach too direct and egocentric. They might even be startled by your bold, unrepentant desire. But when you are motivated to love, you are so charming, so dynamic, so dazzling that you have a way of making even the most stubborn fault finder forget how to say no. The problem for you is what comes after the conquest. Once you get past the thrill of victory your interest in the object of you desire often wanes and you become restless and self-involved. At your worst this restlessness causes you to move from relationship to relationship without developing any lasting bonds. It’s the smarter Lovers among you will come to understand that there is no greater challenge, and no sweeter victory than finding a way to win the love of that same special person day after day after day." Venus in Aries, Mars in Gemini True. I get bored after I bed them, and it gets complicated if I find them mentally stimulating (outside of bed). IP: Logged |
Koho
Knowflake Posts: 194
From: New York
Registered: Jun 2014
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posted November 28, 2014 11:05 PM
I love these names. Are you male or female, Hanna? I know two women with this combination and I love'em. They're real killers when it comes to romance. Ones mostly Airy and the other is Watery and both drive men nuts by how quickly they can let go. The Air dominated person shows no signs of settling down and the Water one is now that she left her 20s. IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted November 28, 2014 11:16 PM
I'm female, mid-20's. I don't know if I drive men nuts, I usually assume they're fine without me and I've only ever had one come back and ask to be part of my life again.IP: Logged |
yellowelevator
Knowflake Posts: 332
From: Michigan, Neptune, and sometimes Pluto
Registered: Nov 2013
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posted November 28, 2014 11:21 PM
Ooh, I remember coming across that website before. I think I have it bookmarked somewheres.Funny, I'm not sure I actually agree with mine that much, which usually isn't so. I can definitely be cynical at times, and I do view sex a bit differently than others. But I wouldn't go as far to say that I think it's crude or even that I view romance/love with coldness. I don't really. I can actually be incredibly dreamy and do spend a lot of time fantasizing about great love and romance. I always have. Maybe it's my 12H Moon. Not all of it is untrue for me though. If you have Mars in Gemini with Venus in Virgo you are . . .
The Technician of Real Love
You are the most realistic of the Mars in Gemini Lovers. You bring sex down to its most basic level and you make no apologies for your direct and earthy approach to love making. Some people might be put off by your distain for romantic illusions and amorous pretenses. They may think your down-to-earth attitude toward sex is crude and unrefined. But others will find your honesty and unpretentious practicality refreshing. The truth is that, despite a few rough edges, you are still the most resourceful and intelligent Lovers of this type.
It is often easier for you to be friend rather than a Lover. You seem to regard love as a threat which you hold a bay with heavy doses of cynicism, emotional coolness and, at times, even cruelty. After all, what does the “love” stuff have to offer except a lot of dreamy lies that no one really believes. As a friend, on the other hand, you can be truthful and loyal. You can build a relationship based on shared ideas and intellectual affinity. As a friend you are ready helpmate, always willing to give of your time and be of service. Let everyone else waste their time looking for true love. All you really need is one true friendship.
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Crosswinds
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posted November 28, 2014 11:43 PM
Mars in Cap,Venus in Aquarius The Visionary Slave of Love
You are the least physical of the Mars in Capricorn Lovers and the most unconventional. You approach sex with a great deal of intellectual curiosity and you look for partners who share your openness and willingness to experiment. Typically, however, you are careful to avoid behavior that is extreme or destructive and very often your rebellions are calculated to fit into a larger plan. You would like to think that sex can be a more than a grungy physical release and you try hard to link your erotic life with a higher, moral purpose. Of course, if you fail, you’ve always got all that nasty, regular sex to fall back on.
You are idealistic about relationships. You want your partner to represent something beyond the ordinary and if they can not, you often try to mold them into someone who can. These efforts are not always welcome and sometimes drive away the people most likely to love you but, once you have set your standards, you pursue them with cold and even dictatorial resolve. You do better when you concentrate on the human qualities of your Beloved and allow your sexuality to be led by your ideals rather than driven by them. IP: Logged |
ikja
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From: London, UK
Registered: Oct 2014
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posted November 29, 2014 04:54 AM
Yes!
If you have Mars in Aries with Venus in Taurus
you are . . .
The Reluctant Extremist
Yours is a difficult combination. A sensualist at heart, you don’t really approve of the headlong recklessness of your sexual nature. You would like to slow down and give your senses ample time to drink in each erotic experience but you find that your Mars in Aries nature runs well only in high gear and the more you try to put on the brakes the more ungainly and muddled you appear. You are among the most practical Mars in Aries Lover but, unfortunately, your actions often give little evidence of this wisdom.
On the positive side, in the right situation and with the right partner, your unique combination of sensual patience and volcanic passion can make you a gifted Lover. And there is a sweetness and soft conventionality about your sexual nature that allows you to get away with sexual extremes that might land other Mars in Aries Lovers in jail. If you can learn from your frustrations and build on your strengths, your capacity for erotic expression is unlimited.
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aquascorpleo
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posted November 29, 2014 04:54 AM
Mars in Scorpio, Venus in PiscesThe Pulsating Powerhouse of Passion
There is an oceanic quality about your sexuality that tends to sweep people up and carry them very far from where they thought they were going to be. You don’t have to issue edicts or bully in order to dominate a relationship. You do it simply with the power of your emotions and the acuity of your psychological insights. This is not necessarily a bad quality. As long as your aim is love, the people who surrender themselves to your emotional steamroller have nothing to fear or to complain about. You are an extremely affectionate and sexy Lover. You just have to be mindful of the power you possess. The problems come when love ceases to be you aim. Because your feelings are so strong and so subjective there is little middle ground in your emotional life and love can quickly change into hate, jealousy, remorse and a thousand other negative emotions. Moreover, your obsessions are so powerful that they sometimes seem to alter reality; not just for you but for your Beloved and your judgments can become strangely skewed and unreliable. For you, more than any other Lover, love has to be the guiding light of your sexuality or you will end up lost, confused and unhappy. IP: Logged |
TensionEmpire
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From: Hamburg
Registered: Sep 2014
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posted November 29, 2014 05:18 AM
The Divine Maestro of Love"You are the divinely anointed autocrat of sex. No one tells you what to do and nothing can limit the expression of your sexuality. You break rules, not because you are rebellious, but because your sexual needs supercede all man-made laws (and even some natural ones)." I just need to find my way to express it, am still suck in home.
Wait for me ladays
And both sit on the Throne of Jupiter.
I trully have imence love and pacion to show to women, I believe I may help with this new age feminist problem. Oh and all my Chart points to this stellium, it is the point of my Yod. IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
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From: Uranus
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posted November 29, 2014 05:39 AM
Mine is spot on!
Unfortunately, the story is quite different when you are not at your best. Your sexual nature can be very cold and calculating and you are inclined to pursue your ideals of love regardless of the damage you may be doing to people who love you in a more prosaic and earthly way. For you the idea of love is always more important than the physical realities of sex which, in some cases, can seem unwieldy and boring. You are a Lover who finds so much pleasure in thinking about sex and in talking about sex, that doing it can be a disappointment.
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Aries Eagle
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posted November 29, 2014 07:24 AM
you are . . .
The Supreme Sensualist
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AmelieRose81
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posted November 29, 2014 09:49 AM
If you have Mars in Leo with Venus in Geminiyou are . . . The Maestro of Amusement Your attitude toward sex is uncomplicated, playful and far less serious than the typical Mars in Leo Lover. You are an inventive Lover with an exuberant spirit of discovery and an appreciation for surprises and novelty. Of course, your partners will quickly realize that your frolicsome nature can not be taken for granted. You still have to be the boss of every sexual situation even though the ways in which you assert this authority are typically quite unobtrusive and even sly. Your approach to sex is essentially cerebral. It is ideas, not sensations or emotions, which make sex exciting for you. What you think about your partner is always more crucial than what your feel. This is quite all right as long as your ideas are fresh and lively. But when your thinking becomes stale and exhausted so does your sexuality. Without new ideas to inspire your desire, you can simple lose interest in sex.
Not quite spot on.....it's not cerebral for me. But then I am a Taurus sun.
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AmelieRose81
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posted November 29, 2014 09:51 AM
Pisces sun guy I like is spot on.....If you have Mars in Pisces with Venus in Pisces you are . . . The Automatic Love Addict You are a Lover driven by passions more powerful and more extraordinary than most people can even imagine. You are never at peace, never fully satisfied. Even in the happiest relationship you are always seeking more, always jockeying for a new emotional high. Your feelings are often extreme and compulsive but just as often they are ambiguous and indescribable. There is a mystical quality about you connections with other people and your affection often has a deep, spiritual dimension. But that doesn’t make those connections any more likely to last.Obviously, you are not the kind of Lover everyone can value, or even endure. At your worst you blow through people’s lives like a hurricane, leaving a path of shattered hearts and broken promises. At your very worst you use sex as a replacement for the emotional fulfillment that seems to constantly elude you. Your best, however, you can become an example of love at it most selfless and devoted, love that transcends the ordinary, the physical and even the emotional. Achieving this “best” will not be easy and many of you will fail but the fact that you’ve even attempted it should be enough to cancel out all your sins. IP: Logged |
ScorpioMoon
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posted November 29, 2014 11:26 AM
If you have Mars in Aries with Venus in Gemini
you are . . .The Crafty Extremist
You are a shrewd Mars in Aries Lover. You go through the motions of putting it all on the line and swooping headfirst into love but you still manage to maintain a sense of intellectual distance between yourself and all the crazy things you are doing. To some degree this makes you a supremely enjoyable Lover who blends all-out intensity with plenty of fun. But there is also an element of duplicity in your sexual nature. In your drive for extreme experiences you are prone to promise much more than you intend to deliver.
You may be the most restless of the Mars in Aries Lovers and the most easily distracted. Plus, you have a taste for immediate gratification that often outweighs your Mars in Aries loyalty. However, physical sex is always a secondary allurement for you. It is ideas that really turn you on. The partner who wishes to hold your attention, and your loyalty, must be prepared to continually stoke the fires of your imagination.
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theunknown
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posted November 29, 2014 11:57 AM
Stalwart Slave of Love -cap mars and venus IP: Logged |
Chiemi
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posted November 29, 2014 11:58 AM
If you have Mars in Scorpio with Venus in Librayou are . . .
The Polite Powerhouse of Passion
You are the Mars in Scorpio Lover least likely to acknowledge the dark side of your sexual nature. Since you are generally affable and kind, a gentle Lover with a sweet approach and a courtly manner, you refuse to believe that anyone could be hurt in your pursuit of pleasure but, the fact is, that they can and often are. It’s not that you ever intend to do damage. It’s just that your emotional needs are so intense and your sexuality so overwhelming that you often end up taking from your partners much more than they ever thought about giving.
On the positive side, you are also the Mars in Scorpio Lover who is easiest to love. You spend less time brooding over the seriousness of sex and more time celebrating the joys of love than most Lovers of this type and you are more inclined to see a relationship as a partnership rather than a power struggle. Still, you are not immune to the dark fascination with sex and the obsessive tendencies typical of this group. Your obsessions have a way of slipping up on you or of creating mischief in the background, behind your pleasant smile and lovable manner.
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Selenite
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posted November 29, 2014 01:44 PM
If you have Mars in Virgo with Venus in Scorpioyou are . . .
The Basically Scandalous Lover
You are the sexiest Mars in Virgo Lover, the one who knows that there’s more to proper lovemaking than the pleasure of the moment. Your sensuality runs deep, touching the psychological roots of desire and the yearnings of the soul. You are always alert to your partner’s feelings and moods and you have a capacity for slow seduction that is rare in this type. However, it is not how good you are that makes you such a desirable partner—it’s how bad you can be.
Sex is never quite as simple for you as it is for most Mars in Virgo Lovers. You see sex as a complex layering of desire, love and power. You don’t have to have power over your partner in order to enjoy sex but, with your irresistible sexual allure and your instinctive understanding the mechanisms of desire it is easy for you to achieve any level of control you want. There is a dark side to your sexual nature that sometimes lures you to use this power in a cruel and destructive fashion but, more often than not, this delicious hint of danger only serves to make you more attractive.
Hahahahaha yesss. How did they know? 
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frankie2912
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posted November 29, 2014 01:51 PM
Mine is somewhat accurate. I am not a conservative lover at all...must be my Sag moon. Other than that it is mostly accurate, I am passionate and intense and have crazy mood swings in a romantic relationship but sex does influence a lot of how I interact with people and it does f*ck things up a lot. My intense feelings are rarely felt by others, as I don't reveal them that easily but people can stir them up in me so fast it's unreal. Mars in Pisces, Venus in Scorpio If you have Mars in Pisces with Venus in Scorpio
you are . . . The Awesome Love Addict You are a formidable Lover; a Lover so serious and committed, so packed with emotional energy, so sensual and ready to please that few can resist you and no one wants to get between you and the object of your desire. You sexuality is so powerful that it complicates everything that you do and influences all of your decisions, often causing you to behave in an irrational and compulsive manner. At times, the tremendous force of your sexual nature can make you a strong, domineering individual. At other times it just leaves feeling overwhelmed, and maybe a little confused.
Fortunately, along with being one of the most emotional Mars in Pisces Lovers, you are also one of the most conservative. You need a strong, stable and enduring relationship in order to quiet your restless passions and provide you with a sense of security. Of course, finding a partner who can deal with your powerful and unpredictable passions will not be easy. In fact, it may well be the most difficult and significant thing you ever do. More reason to give this job all the attention it deserves and to value the love that comes your way.
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Koho
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From: New York
Registered: Jun 2014
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posted November 29, 2014 02:16 PM
It looks like the descriptions are hitting pretty well for everyone!IP: Logged |
TensionEmpire
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From: Hamburg
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posted November 29, 2014 03:31 PM
Maybe not dirrectly with my actuall me, but with my imagination for sure IP: Logged |
Koho
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From: New York
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posted November 29, 2014 03:50 PM
I found yours incredibly funny Tension! If you got a charismatic chart perhaps you'll be a casanova :PIP: Logged |
DeepFreeze
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posted November 29, 2014 04:03 PM
I'm a mixed bag. Virgo is mutable, servant. If you have Mars in Virgo with Venus in Virgo you are . . .
The Most Basic Lover
There is a clarity and directness about your sexuality that is unique and, at your best moments, utterly charming. You always know exactly what you want from sex and you will waste no time or ceremony in getting it. Occasionally your straightforward approach makes you seem brusque and calculating. But you can also be a very warm and gentle Lover, capable of the most amazing acts of kindness and service.
The main problem in your sexual make-up is your lack of ambition. You like convenience in your sexual diet and too often this causes you to pass up quality in loving for the sake of accessibility. It’s not that you lack the energy. Your physical drives are quite impressive. You just need to find the sense of purpose and the imagination necessary to push past a prepackaged, microwave sex life and move on to the gourmet fare you deserve.
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Iced8Ace
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From: CA
Registered: Aug 2014
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posted November 29, 2014 05:11 PM
Mars in Leo, Venus in Pisces. They've got me pegged.The Maestro of Dreams You are the most optimistic and generous of all the Mars in Leo Lovers. Of course, you are also among the most unrealistic. To you, sex is the ultimate affirmation of life. It is a grand ideal that shines a kind and forgiving light into the ugliest corners of human fragility. Your’s is the gift of eternal hope and no matter how many times you get hurt you never lose your faith in love. This extraordinary optimism can at times make you seem unworldly and even foolish but for you, and the people who love you, that is not a problem. You typically appear less controlling than most Lovers of this type but, of course, that’s not all together true. As far as real life is concerned, you are pretty easy going. You accept people as they are and you take your pleasure where you find it. But this is only because in your fantasies—in the world of your sexual ideals—you enjoy a control that is absolute and unquestioned. This is one reason why this world of fantasy is so precious to you. And it is also why only the most privileged and beloved are permitted to join you there. IP: Logged |
TensionEmpire
Knowflake Posts: 189
From: Hamburg
Registered: Sep 2014
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posted November 29, 2014 08:09 PM
quote:
Originally posted by Koho:
I found yours incredibly funny Tension! If you got a charismatic chart perhaps you'll be a casanova :P
xD hehe, nice that you find it funny
Till today I`m waaay too shy, Maybe it`s my Cancer Sun. I just don`t fit with the actuall relationship norm, I have to invent anotherone, maybe a more direct/honest one, with my DC in Aries..
I cheked the Casanova asteroid, It conj. My Angel by 1 degree, so it get`s into that nice aspect of mine where my Angel Squares my Opposing Sun and Uranus, maybe a new age Casanova xD
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