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Mysty84
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posted December 08, 2014 12:19 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Mysty84     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have read many posts on here about Mars in Scorpio. Basically that people with Mars in Scorpio, are Passionate, intense, sexual and people are easily drawn to them. But isn't that bad?
I have been pretty unlucky in love and I feel that having Mars in Scorpio is a curse rather then a blessing. I am wondering if people with this placement ever feel like that or is it just me? Men are attracted to me, but I feel they are drawn to me sexually , more than anything. I mean I do not sleep around.. I am really simple, and private. But It feels like I bring out a lot of curiosity in them. Even my guy friends I had to keep them in check from day one , so they know nothing would ever happen.

What is your thought on Mars in Scorpio. All comments would be appreciated as I am learning about Astrology.
Does the degrees where the Scorpio in Mars placed have an effect on it? Mars:18° 34' in Scorpio

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Sun: Taurus
Moon: Sagittarius
Mercury: Taurus
Venus: Taurus
Mars: Scorpio
Jupiter: Capricorn
Saturn: Scorpio
Uranus: Sagittarius
Neptune: Capricorn
Pluto: Scorpio
Lilith: Pisces
Asc nod: Gemini
Ascendant: Virgo

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posted December 08, 2014 12:29 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for lisalisa     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have no mars in scorpio, i have ASC in scorpio with pluto and venus conjunct and moon in house of scorpio, and i can kind of relate to the part about men.. I think for women to have personal planets in scorpio have this sexual intrigue anyways.. Just my opinion

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posted December 08, 2014 12:39 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Mysty84     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by lisalisa:
I have no mars in scorpio, i have ASC in scorpio with pluto and venus conjunct and moon in house of scorpio, and i can kind of relate to the part about men.. I think for women to have personal planets in scorpio have this sexual intrigue anyways.. Just my opinion

Do you think that it will ever change? Does the sign go through phases ?

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posted December 08, 2014 12:47 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Comatoes     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
What are the aspects and house for your Mars?

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Mysty84
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posted December 08, 2014 12:56 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Mysty84     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Comatoes:
What are the aspects and house for your Mars?

I am still learning about all the details in charts . That is what I got. I am not sure on what house is my mars in. How can I find that out?Where do I look. Sorry for all the questions, but all this intrigues me hehe
Sun Taurus 26.51
Moon Sagittarius 27.21
MercuryTaurus 1.36
Venus Taurus 18.55
Mars Scorpio 18.37 R
Jupiter Capricorn 12.29 R
Saturn Scorpio 12.02 R
Uranus Sagittarius 12.11 R
Neptune Capricorn 0.55 R
Pluto Scorpio 0.01 R
Lilith Pisces 17.35
Asc node Gemini 6.38
Ascendant Virgo 17.55
II Libra 13.19
III Scorpio 13.11
IV Sagittarius 16.14
V Capricorn 19.40
VI Aquarius 20.37
VII Pisces 17.55
VIII Aries 13.19
IX Taurus 13.11
Midheaven Gemini 16.14

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posted December 08, 2014 01:43 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for lisalisa     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
You should post your chart from astro.com

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Mysty84
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posted December 08, 2014 02:08 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Mysty84     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by lisalisa:
You should post your chart from astro.com

Planetary positions
planet sign degree motion
Sun Taurus 26°49'50 in house 9 direct
Moon Sagittarius 27°20'55 in house 4 direct
Mercury Taurus 1°35'42 in house 8 direct
Venus Taurus 18°54'15 in house 9 direct
Mars Scorpio 18°36'26 in house 3 retrograde
Jupiter Capricorn 12°28'11 in house 4 retrograde
Saturn Scorpio 12°01'32 end of house 2 retrograde
Uranus Sagittarius 12°11'21 in house 3 retrograde
Neptune Capricorn 0°54'50 in house 4 retrograde
Pluto Scorpio 0°01'29 in house 2 retrograde
True Node Gemini 6°33'49 in house 9 direct

Sun Quincunx Moon 0°31
Sun Conjunction Venus 7°56
Moon Trine Mercury 4°15
Moon Conjunction Neptune 3°34
Moon Sextile Pluto 2°41
Mercury Trine Neptune 0°41
Mercury Opposition Pluto 1°34
Venus Opposition Mars 0°18
Venus Trine Ascendant 0°59
Mars Sextile Ascendant 0°41
Jupiter Sextile Saturn 0°27
Jupiter Trine Ascendant 5°28
Saturn Sextile Ascendant 5°54
Uranus Square Ascendant 5°44
Neptune Sextile Pluto 0°53
Planets at the end of a house are interpreted in the next house. does that help.
And thank you so much for telling me where to look

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posted December 08, 2014 02:31 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for PixieJane     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
First, I think your experience with men is normal and you'd pretty much experience the same thing if you had any other Mars (my Pisces Mars friend sure puts up with it as have so many others I've known). I'm just overwhelmed by how many straight women and gay men talk about how sexual men are who use them and lose them and thus they, too, feel unlucky in love. That is, it has nothing to do with Mars in Scorpio but rather you're a crack they want to fill before getting bored and moving on, at least at an instinctual level.

Not saying all men are dogs who compulsively hump any leg they can, but plenty are, and all their being romantic and stuff is just what they call "game" so they can "score." I found it odd that even gay men who want a more romantic and monogamous relationship would have such trouble finding each other, too, but even they kept falling to the men who wanted to use & lose them.

But then what I've noticed in many cases where this is overwhelming (be it for a man or woman) is that they tend to be passive who want the bees to come to them, the pretty flower. Which means the more aggressive guys, especially those seeking new ways to score, are the most likely to go to them. Being generally unprincipled these men will use any "game" (tell you what you want to hear) to make her (or him) think it's more than just sex until he has what he wants and moves on to the next game.

The best way around this is to find ways to connect to men who actually have things in common with you and NOT being a passive wallflower waiting for a bee to find you (you'll get pollinated alright if that's your plan, but then the bee flies away). Of course if the passive types don't have much of an interest other than finding a man to orbit (and maybe start a family, etc) then that will be hard...doubly so if they want an "alpha male" (as in Edward Cullen or Christian Grey, that is, dominates rather than respect them--and if he can't respect her as a person then why should he respect her in any other way?) as that about guarantees they will get a player because the real world works very differently from the garbage peddled to female audiences in romance media (though I've seen plenty of guys get confused by the media aimed at them as well which is often just as absurd in its own way).

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posted December 08, 2014 02:32 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for PixieJane     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
As for Scorpio Mars...the real hardship I've noticed (at least for females, but probably true of males as well) is obsessive infatuations, jealousy, and slow burning anger that is hard to let go of (and can lead to very destructive actions to self and/or others).

Scorpio is a powerful energy (wherever it may be in the chart) and it must be mastered or it will consume and destroy you. Some think Scorpios are strong but I think it's more accurate to say that only the strong Scorpios will thrive, the weak ones will be destroyed (whether they end up self-loathing and world hating alcoholics and junkies most avoid, imprisoned, or dead, etc). Some manage to scrape by on a precipice--for awhile anyway--as they have just enough strength to keep their head above water but not to swim. Of course the more Scorpio energy you have the harder it is, a little Scorpio is much easier and I think helpful. And those who fully master their Scorpio energy (especially if it's strong) have an inner-strength that is awesome to behold.

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Mysty84
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posted December 08, 2014 04:04 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Mysty84     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by PixieJane:
As for Scorpio Mars...the real hardship I've noticed (at least for females, but probably true of males as well) is obsessive infatuations, jealousy, and slow burning anger that is hard to let go of (and can lead to very destructive actions to self and/or others).

Scorpio is a powerful energy (wherever it may be in the chart) and it must be mastered or it will consume and destroy you. Some think Scorpios are strong but I think it's more accurate to say that only the strong Scorpios will thrive, the weak ones will be destroyed (whether they end up self-loathing and world hating alcoholics and junkies most avoid, imprisoned, or dead, etc). Some manage to scrape by on a precipice--for awhile anyway--as they have just enough strength to keep their head above water but not to swim. Of course the more Scorpio energy you have the harder it is, a little Scorpio is much easier and I think helpful. And those who fully master their Scorpio energy (especially if it's strong) have an inner-strength that is awesome to behold.


All I hear is bad things from having a mars in scorpio. A friend of mine has a mars a scorpio and he is revengeful, jealous and etc ...I am so not that. The passion that I hold is to do good. Heck I am getting in the medical field to try and save people rather than destroy them… But after seeing so many negative things about it , I wondered and asked what other people thought about it .

Every sign has problems in love wise. But I feel that people with more scorpio will seem to attract unintentionally things their way without them even knowing it. I am not the type to sit and wait for prince charming( Heck I doubt he exist), but I do want to find that person that can fulfill a part of me , I know he is out there. You said that "The best way around this is to find ways to connect to men who actually have things in common with you and NOT being a passive wallflower waiting for a bee to find you", I am not passive at all, but I try work around my current life situation. I have a son with some special needs and I cannot go out and meet people every day. When I am not in school or working , I try to go out every now and then. and when I do meet men who have things in common after a while then they leave. Although all of them have comeback to apologize for leaving. I just wondered what brought them in the first place. Is there something I should do differently? Or maybe its a sign phase? Or does the sign had anything to do with it… That was my question,
One thing I might need to make it clear, I am not saying that every guy I meet is bad, just because one is not right for us does not make him bad. And we are human sexual attraction is in our nature , but as I am learning about astrology, the only way for us to learn besides reading about it. is asking questions.

Thank you for your insight on mars Scorpio

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posted December 08, 2014 04:08 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for jupitersgirl     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
You've got saturn conj. mars and opp. venus by 6 degrees I guess that's the main problem.

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posted December 08, 2014 04:31 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Mysty84     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by jupitersgirl:
You've got saturn conj. mars and opp. venus by 6 degrees I guess that's the main problem.

So it is not the Mars in scorpio alone...It having both planets being opposite to each other...?

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posted December 08, 2014 05:51 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for jupitersgirl     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Even it's not a very tight conjunction and opposition, Saturn is aspecting venus and mars. You also have Mars retro. They all mean you have relationship karmas that you have to face.(Retros and Saturn are all about karmas) It will probably get better in time.

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posted December 08, 2014 05:57 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Venusincap89     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
It's not mars in Scorpio that makes one unlucky in love, in my opinion..

i think it has more to do with aspects to 7th house or signs in 7th house or 5th house

I hear that people with saturn in 7th house gets beaten to the pulp in their love life.

As for me, I have rahu in 7th house, and it's almost impossible for me to be happy in relationships

FML

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posted December 08, 2014 06:32 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Pretty Theft     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Mysty84:
does that help.
And thank you so much for telling me where to look

It doesn't really help because it's much easier to look at a chart than read a list of aspects, honestly. If you're concerned about anonymity then you can easily clip out the relevant information using an image editing or screenshot program.

Speaking as someone with Mars in Scorpio ... I would agree that this is not a Mars in Scorpio issue. It is hard to quantify "unlucky in love" aspects since astrology is so extensive but mostly I would point to an afflicted Venus or 7th house, probably with Saturn or Uranus involved. Possibly Neptune too.

I say this because I have a Mars in Scorpio and I have always been very lucky in love. I have an emphasized 7th house, though, and pretty good Venus aspects. I would look there. Good luck and I would love to see your chart.

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posted December 08, 2014 10:13 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for lalalinda     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hello Mysty84! Welcome to LL

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posted December 08, 2014 12:32 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Mysty84     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by jupitersgirl:
Even it's not a very tight conjunction and opposition, Saturn is aspecting venus and mars. You also have Mars retro. They all mean you have relationship karmas that you have to face.(Retros and Saturn are all about karmas) It will probably get better in time.


Thank you

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posted December 08, 2014 12:41 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Mysty84     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Venusincap89:
It's not mars in Scorpio that makes one unlucky in love, in my opinion..

i think it has more to do with aspects to 7th house or signs in 7th house or 5th house

I hear that people with saturn in 7th house gets beaten to the pulp in their love life.

As for me, I have rahu in 7th house, and it's almost impossible for me to be happy in relationships

FML


Do they go in phases or that is just the karma they have to go through? All this information is so intriguing

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posted December 08, 2014 12:52 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Mysty84     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Pretty Theft:
It doesn't really help because it's much easier to look at a chart than read a list of aspects, honestly. If you're concerned about anonymity then you can easily clip out the relevant information using an image editing or screenshot program.

Speaking as someone with Mars in Scorpio ... I would agree that this is not a Mars in Scorpio issue. It is hard to quantify "unlucky in love" aspects since astrology is so extensive but mostly I would point to an afflicted Venus or 7th house, probably with Saturn or Uranus involved. Possibly Neptune too.

I say this because I have a Mars in Scorpio and I have always been very lucky in love. I have an emphasized 7th house, though, and pretty good Venus aspects. I would look there. Good luck and I would love to see your chart.


Hi, I do not know how to post a picture here. I am still knew around here and I was trying to post a picture I took from my IPAD. How can I post it?

As for the mars in scorpio. So you are lucky, Pixie up did make sense about the more scorpio you have the harder it can be... Do you have more scorpios in any of your planets?

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posted December 08, 2014 12:59 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Mysty84     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by bansheequeen:
I think mars in scorpio drawing unwanted attention might make others think they are promiscuous or they are conciously trying to attract sexual attention. In general these people aren't seen as "relationship material." This is simply my own take on it.

I knew a strongly Plutonian guy that I've never been interested in because he just seems too sexual and he always gets sexual attention from women and I could never tell I'd it was truly unwanted or his sexual aura was concious.


I do see that in men with Mars in scorpio,
But I am not flashy , nor do I sleep around...And what you state is very true ,I think people get the impression I am that Thank you For giving your thoughts on it. I love hearing what others have to say

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posted December 08, 2014 01:02 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Mysty84     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by lalalinda:
Hello Mysty84! Welcome to LL


Thank you, I have been reading posts on here for a while, and I finally decided to come on here . All this information is intriguing .

Is there any part on the site where it can explain on how to post pictures on here?

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posted December 08, 2014 04:06 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for PixieJane     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Mysty84:
All I hear is bad things from having a mars in scorpio. A friend of mine has a mars a scorpio and he is revengeful, jealous and etc ...I am so not that. The passion that I hold is to do good. Heck I am getting in the medical field to try and save people rather than destroy them… But after seeing so many negative things about it , I wondered and asked what other people thought about it

Two things...

One, all I said was a general statement and doesn't take things like houses, aspects, and the like into account which can modify it.

Two, it's not either/or. You can both want to help people but still want to destroy one person you feel wronged by. Only in the most extreme cases will a person be very consistent with such impulses.

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posted December 08, 2014 04:12 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for PixieJane     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
And there's going to be a lot more going on in your chart than Mars. My response was based on what was most common in my observation and listening to so many who say the things you say as opposed to a universal statement (which may still apply, btw, I don't know enough or how your having a special needs son might affect the sitch).

Astrological wise there will be more than Mars affecting things. And you'd have to take his chart into account as well to see how it interacts with yours.

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posted December 08, 2014 06:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Mysty84     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by PixieJane:
Two things...

One, all I said was a general statement and doesn't take things like houses, aspects, and the like into account which can modify it.

Two, it's not either/or. You can both want to help people but still want to destroy one person you feel wronged by. Only in the most extreme cases will a person be very consistent with such impulses.



When I said all I hear is bad things. I meant from what I read not from what you were exactly saying( I wasnt trying to be mean. Sorry if I sounded like it. I was just trying to say that is why I had asked the question to understand stand. I do agree the more scorpio u have the more harder is overall. Wasnt trying trying to offend you, just wanted to make myself clear . Like I said before I am still learning and would love to hear others thought on the matter. As I do with your info. You def know more than me concerning signs. Thank you for the feed back

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