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Topic: Standing up to bullies?
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selenafae96
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From: Cranbrook, BC, Canada
Registered: Feb 2014
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posted December 10, 2014 11:41 AM
  
Hey, everyone! I'm in my junior year of high school, so I'm quite young compared to the majority of you. I am usually the quiet girl at the back of the class, not really talking much. However, there's these guys who like to pick on people, laugh at people, bully people... When I see this, I get mad. I lash out at them and stand up for the victim. This puts some of their attention on me, but I don't really care. I just find it odd that I'm usually silent and shy, but when I see this, I can't really control myself. Are there any transits/placements/signs known for this?
Virgo Sun
Pisces Moon
Sag Rising
Leo Mercury
Leo Venus
Scorpio Mars
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Aries23Degrees
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From: South Africa
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posted December 10, 2014 11:49 AM
Hi there!!! You are my hero  But just be careful about that too. As Heroes also tend to bear the brunt.And speedily forgotten for fighting other people's wars. When you said "standing up to bullies", I thought Moon harsh aspects to Mars/Pluto. Mars/Pluto is the "bully" and the Moon is the "victim". So challenging aspects tend to make one want to come to the defense of any perceived cruelty.Especially if Mars/Pluto is in the 7th,11th house Also,we can't rule out Moon in Pisces- a total fan for the underdog. But these are just assumptions as the whole chart tells a clearer story. Post your chart. let's have a look see. IP: Logged |
selenafae96
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From: Cranbrook, BC, Canada
Registered: Feb 2014
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posted December 10, 2014 11:55 AM
Thanks! Well, here's my chart:
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Aries23Degrees
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From: South Africa
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted December 10, 2014 12:22 PM
It's so tiny!!!  Is it possible to make it a wee bit bigger? IP: Logged |
selenafae96
Knowflake Posts: 48
From: Cranbrook, BC, Canada
Registered: Feb 2014
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posted December 10, 2014 12:23 PM
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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
It's so tiny!!! Is it possible to make it a wee bit bigger?
I'm not sure how  I'm on my phone right now. I'll try though. IP: Logged |
selenafae96
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From: Cranbrook, BC, Canada
Registered: Feb 2014
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posted December 10, 2014 01:25 PM
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Ami Anne
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posted December 10, 2014 01:32 PM
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Originally posted by selenafae96:
Hey, everyone! I'm in my junior year of high school, so I'm quite young compared to the majority of you. I am usually the quiet girl at the back of the class, not really talking much. However, there's these guys who like to pick on people, laugh at people, bully people... When I see this, I get mad. I lash out at them and stand up for the victim. This puts some of their attention on me, but I don't really care. I just find it odd that I'm usually silent and shy, but when I see this, I can't really control myself. Are there any transits/placements/signs known for this?
Virgo Sun
Pisces Moon
Sag Rising
Leo Mercury
Leo Venus
Scorpio Mars
Thanks!
I am like this. I have Pluto conj Dejanira.
Also, Cancer Moon is strong because it is cardinal. For you, I think it may be your Scorpio Mars. What does your Pluto do?
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selenafae96
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From: Cranbrook, BC, Canada
Registered: Feb 2014
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posted December 10, 2014 02:59 PM
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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
I am like this. I have Pluto conj Dejanira. Also, Cancer Moon is strong because it is cardinal. For you, I think it may be your Scorpio Mars. What does your Pluto do?
I was thinking that might be it as well. I have Sun square Pluto, Moon trine Pluto, Jupiter quincunx Pluto, Neptune sextile Pluto, Pluto conjunct Chiron, and Pluto conjunct Ascendant.
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Aries23Degrees
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From: South Africa
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted December 10, 2014 03:16 PM
Mars conjunct Chiron in 11th. I guessed Mars would be there. Chiron also shows up in charts of people who are sensitive to "bullying" issues. Mars in 11th is also a firm believer of treating people equally.Its conjunction to Chiron suggests that you take it upon yourself to defend those that are unable to stand up for themselves(Chiron). I wonder how you feel about gay rights? Hmmmm... Now also, Pluto conjunct the Asc. Pluto is in the 12th(the underdog) and its conjunction to your Asc suggests that you strongly identify with the underdog. It also suggests that you are someone who conceals their identity; prefers to go incognito/below the radar etc. But very aware of your own power nevertheless. The ruler of your Asc (Jupiter) squares Neptune. You have a very idealistic outlook of the world and don't like to see people hurt. Add to that your Moon in Pisces and you are someone who has a strongly compassionate heart. Good on you IP: Logged |
selenafae96
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From: Cranbrook, BC, Canada
Registered: Feb 2014
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posted December 10, 2014 06:32 PM
Thanks for taking your time to do that! I agree with all of it. When I see other people getting bullied, I almost take it upon myself. I feel pain for other people in other aspects too. As for gay rights, I'm all for them! My dad's really against gays and I hate it. Everyone deserves to be treated equally, all colours, sexes, sexualities, etc. IP: Logged |
PixieJane
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From: CA
Registered: Oct 2010
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posted December 10, 2014 06:43 PM
I'd guess it was your Leo aspects (in positive form Leo stands up for others like a big brother/sister) and perhaps Sag for ethics. I can see Pisces moon for compassion (in fact, I know more than one Pisces moon who did, one of whom actually beat up a friggin COP!)I was something like that as a kid, I could really surprise people, especially like when I put down a book or poem I was writing and stood up to some feared bullies. I've shared about how I stood up to some evil cheerleaders but one I usually don't share is how when I was 13 I tried to start a riot and when that failed I attacked a full grown man (who was large and bragged of having served in the Marines) who was one of the most vile bullies who went after kids (both boys and girls) who had been sexually abused telling them how much they liked it and he might have to try him/her out. I don't share because it's not the feel good story of the year and I then became a target (and pretty much sexually assaulted by him) and things got really bad after, things that when I thought I was choosing between a likely death and a likely being sent back to that place I chose a likely death without hesitation. But the fact that I was the youngest kid there and was the ONLY one willing to stand up to him says something (though it could be argued it said something more about the foolishness of youth but then there were the incidents after  ). I suppose that's a mix of Libra wanting things to be fair and harmonious mixed with fiery Sag in ethical mode (plus the Leo influences). OTOH, I tend to shrug off blatant trolls in a way that shocks people. By that I mean like those who post vile things on website memorials for someone dead. Banning their accounts and such just seems like a given similar to cleaning out a litter box, it's not pleasant but it's life. 'Course if someone WANTED to take the time to track those people down (which isn't hard to do unless certain precautions were taken--and I'm betting that majority of them don't take such precautions, especially as I've read in the news of trolls tracked down to their real life location before who were shocked when it happened) then more power to them, but I shrug it off. Perhaps it's because generally speaking one doesn't have to put up with it (at least not for long) and can clean the crap off easy enough whereas in real life it's much more menacing. Maybe if I had a Pisces moon I'd feel different about it. Likewise, I tend to shrug off shunning and such. I actually don't like it when people don't describe it right. I've been shunned and I've been bullied and they are completely different things, at least from my point of view...perhaps because I'm both so Plutonian and have so much Sag that I'm not as hurt by many shunning me as others are (and I tend to prefer quality to quantity anyway), but thing is I never felt terrorized being shunned as when I was actually bullied. And I don't do much to reach out to someone shunned, though I don't go out of my way to avoid them either (my best friend in childhood was shunned, but then so was I, no doubt a big part why we clicked). Again, maybe a Pisces moon rather than Sag moon might make me view it differently. IP: Logged |
Geminiyoungster
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posted December 10, 2014 08:29 PM
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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
Mars conjunct Chiron in 11th. I guessed Mars would be there. Chiron also shows up in charts of people who are sensitive to "bullying" issues. Mars in 11th is also a firm believer of treating people equally.Its conjunction to Chiron suggests that you take it upon yourself to defend those that are unable to stand up for themselves(Chiron). I wonder how you feel about gay rights? Hmmmm... Now also, Pluto conjunct the Asc. Pluto is in the 12th(the underdog) and its conjunction to your Asc suggests that you strongly identify with the underdog. It also suggests that you are someone who conceals their identity; prefers to go incognito/below the radar etc. But very aware of your own power nevertheless. The ruler of your Asc (Jupiter) squares Neptune. You have a very idealistic outlook of the world and don't like to see people hurt. Add to that your Moon in Pisces and you are someone who has a strongly compassionate heart. Good on you
This is so funny that you said this because I have a mars conjunct chiron in the 11th house, and that was so spot on! I hate to see people getting bullied or treated bad. I had to learn over the past years that you have to let some people just speak up for themselves sometimes though! My libra rising conjuncts my jupiter in the first house so this may have something to do with it. Very intresting
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callarosa
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posted December 10, 2014 08:44 PM
It's likely the Scorpio Mars, it's a powerful placement. I'm the same way, I always stick up for the underdog and I also have Scorpio Mars. Scorpio Mars can create an explosive temper, which isn't a bad thing when that ferocious temper is projected upon those who deserve it (i.e. bullies).You may also be interested in taking a Myers-Briggs personality test. INFPs are commonly the empathetic do-gooders who stand up to bullies (I am also an INFP, lol). IP: Logged |
Geminiyoungster
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posted December 10, 2014 08:50 PM
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Originally posted by selenafae96:
Hey, everyone! I'm in my junior year of high school, so I'm quite young compared to the majority of you. I am usually the quiet girl at the back of the class, not really talking much. However, there's these guys who like to pick on people, laugh at people, bully people... When I see this, I get mad. I lash out at them and stand up for the victim. This puts some of their attention on me, but I don't really care. I just find it odd that I'm usually silent and shy, but when I see this, I can't really control myself. Are there any transits/placements/signs known for this?
Virgo Sun
Pisces Moon
Sag Rising
Leo Mercury
Leo Venus
Scorpio Mars
Thanks!
I'm glad that you are actually standing up for people that can't find there voice,especially in high school! Kids can be so so cruel to one another! I remember in school the only reason why I get picked/teased on was because I would stand up for other people or the people that I stand up for would turn on me,which i found really strange,haha! I think that leo mercury too can be a factor to as well! I wonder do you command attention from people when you speak. A Scorpio mars too can also have a silent temper that can just blow up when provoked or had enough, but with you, it's when justice is not served in a way. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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posted December 10, 2014 08:50 PM
Yep, Pluto conj the ASC--STRONG------------------
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Randall
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posted December 12, 2014 10:44 PM
I have a strong dislike for bullies. I'm going to start law school, so I can put them in their place. And defend the weak also. IP: Logged |
DeepFreeze
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From: Pluto with Barbiegirl19
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posted December 13, 2014 08:44 AM
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Ami Anne
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posted December 13, 2014 10:24 AM
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Originally posted by Randall:
I have a strong dislike for bullies. I'm going to start law school, so I can put them in their place. And defend the weak also.
Yea, strong people don't bully! ------------------
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DeepFreeze
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posted December 13, 2014 10:54 AM
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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
Yep, Pluto conj the ASC--STRONG
Physically?
General? Not not picking or anything.
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